Monday, June 20, 2022

Doctors as Artists - Mahendra and Chirasri

 DOCTORS AS ARTISTS

A discussion between Mahendra (Speedy)  Gonsalkorale and Chirasri Jayaweera Bandara.

Speedy: This article was prompted by comments that appeared in your beautiful bird paintings post Chira, in response to my question “I was wondering whether all good surgeons are also good artists. What do people think?”

Chira: I know Mahendra and thanks for developing that theme and coming out with this dialogue.

Speedy: Ok, here we go!

I was trying to see whether there is a common underlying skill, as both require dexterity and imagination. I looked at the published literature and found some interesting articles. When we consider “art” as a broad heading it would include painting, etching sculpture and also literary skills such as poetry and writing. Here we are concerned mainly with painting.

I would recommend a very informative article, “Physicians as Painters” by Avi Ohry MD Department of Rehabilitation, Reuth Medical Center, Tel Aviv, Israel Affiliated to Sackler Faculty of Medicine, Tel Aviv University, Ramat Aviv, Israel Keywords: medicine, art, poetry IMAJ 2003;5:681±684.

The following quotes are from the above publication.

It seems that close and creative relationships existed between physicians and painters. Examples include the great poet-physician John Keats (1795-1821) and Joseph Severn; Francois Joseph Talma (1763-1826) ± physician-actor whose friendship with the famous painter David led to Talma designing historical costumes for the theater; the friendship between the poet-writer-surgeon-satirist John Wolcot (his pseudonym was Peter Pindar) (1738-1819) and the painter John Opie (1761-1807 . Van Gogh`s physician, Paul-Ferdinand Gachet, was known as the impressionist painter's patron. Dr. Paul Alexandre (1881-1968), Dr. (dentist) Maurice Girardin (Paris, 1884±1951) who left 420 paintings to the city of Paris, and Dr. Albert Barnes (Philadelphia, 1872-1951) were physicians and art collectors.

Let us focus our attention on physician-painters. Curiously, both professions share the same patron saint. St. Luke, born in Antioch, was known to have been a Greek physician who accompanied Paul after the ascension of Jesus.  . Krateuas (or Crateuas), who lived in the first century, was a physician to Mithridates VI Eupator, king of Pontus. He was known as a physician, actor, chemist, and painter. He described and illustrated plants using natural colors, and some fragments of his works are included in the Anicia Codex of Dioscorides housed in the Vienna State Library.

One of the great Dutch painters, Jacob van Ruisdal (1682-1629) from Harlem (his real name was Izack de Gooyer), was a physician in Amsterdam . William Thorenton (1759-1828), born on Jost van Dyke Island (today the Virgin Islands), was sent to Edinburgh and Aberdeen to study medicine.

Francois Emile Camus (Dijon, 1829-1893) was a physician and sculptor who worked with bronze. Georges-Alexandre Chicotot, one of the first French radiologists, mostly painted medical paintings or scenarios. Paul Louis Collin, born in Thorigny in 1834, was a physician and painter who worked with Courbet. He mainly painted landscapes and still-life. Frederic Estre (Marseille, 1813 and Reuilly, 1902) was a psychiatrist and painter His paintings were exhibited all over Europe.

In England, John Leech (1817-1864), educated at Charterhouse, began his medical studies at St. Bartholomew's but turned to art. His teachers were aware of his talent and urged him not to restrict himself to anatomic drawings but to do portraits as well

Sir Francis Seymour Haden (1818-1910) was an English etcher, writer and successful surgeon in London who founded a hospital for patients with incurable diseases. 

William Rimmer (1816- 1879), whose father claimed their family was directly linked to the French royal family, was born in Liverpool and raised in Boston. He was the first American artist to sculpt the nude figure. His paintings were varied in subject matter, including historical themes, portraiture, biblical subjects and romantic visionary fantasy.

Henry Lamb (1883-1960), born in Adelaide in South Africa, studied medicine at Manchester University Medical School and at Guy's Hospital before taking up painting.

Here is an abstract of an article by Professor WIC Morris.

In "The Doctor's Dilemma," Bernard Shaw suggests that there is more antagonism than attraction between the doctor-scientist and the painter. The average doctor may, however, make some claim to be an artist. In his professional work, art plays some role, even if it is restricted to that much maligned professional accessory the bedside manner. Doctors in their hobbies sometimes display a wider taste in art-for instance as painters or collectors. The medical text-book has always required skilled illustration to make intelligible a letterpress which has not always been artistic. Many works of great medical importance owe their lasting fame as much to the perspicacity and skill of the illustrator as to any other inherent merit. DOI: https://doi.org/10.2218/resmedica.v2i1.330

The following quote by Janet Seggie in “Medicine and the humanities - doctors as artists” was quite interesting,

The clinical gaze [has] much in common with the artist's eye” - M Faith McLellan

http://www.scielo.org.za/scielo.php?script=sci_arttext&pid=S0256-95742014000200001

According to Martha Fleming, 'Artists and doctors share highly developed observational skills and a fundamental love for humankind'.  (Fleming M. Looking and Healing: Artists and their Doctors. Lecture Seminar, Centre for Humanities and Health, King's College London, UK, 2012. http://www.marthafleming.net/looking-and-healing-artists-and-their-doctors)

Speedy: The following story will appeal to Ophthalmic surgeons like you, Chirasri.

Dr. Jaclyn Gurwin, a third year Ophthalmology resident at the University of Pennsylvania’s Scheie Eye Institute, has been drawing and painting since a young age. Her paintings are especially delicate. Her meticulous work requires close examination to appreciate all the nuances of colour and line variations happening within her paintings. Yet despite their impressive attention to detail, her works remain soft and unforced in their intricacy. The physical dexterity and artistic eye needed to create her paintings is something that has translated exceptionally well to the precise work she must do surgically on the eye in ophthalmology, which Dr. Gurwin sees as an extraordinarily artistic field. Dr. Gurwin attributes her art background to providing her with the creative tools that help her problem solve in the operating room to create the best aesthetic and functional result possible.

Chira: That was so interesting and certainly struck a chord!

Speedy: I knew it would! I now show some relevant comments that appeared in your post, MY PAINTINGS OF BIRDS on the 6th of June 2022.

Chira: Thanks, Mahendra. I posted this to start the discussion after you posed the question you started with.” Mahendra, regarding all good surgeons are also good artists. Zita is an Eye surgeon who is a good artist who used to make beautiful greetings cards.

I think surgeons are too busy to paint unless they have started painting before they became surgeons.

I myself started painting after retirement. On my own, I created a method of performing Freehand Keratoplasty making a template with sterilised paper first and later cloth and also performing Penetrating Keratoplasty (corneal grafting) on Hypopyon ( pus in the anterior chamber) Ulcers.

The above two operations had not been done by Ophthalmologists at that time in Sri Lanka and elsewhere. (This was published in my Achievements in Ophthalmology on 2. 9. 21 in our Blog). Artists are creative in nature!

My daughter Anjali is a good artist and Mahendra, you had published one of her Pencil Drawings in our Blog under Family News on 25.10.21 Several of her Pencil Drawings have been published in the Kasturba Medical College Journal in Manipal, India where she studied Medicine.

Since a surgeon has patience and is precise on making incisions and good at suturing wounds, I feel a surgeon will be able to paint as well do Cross stitching if he or she attempts.

Chira: Mahendra, I like to give two examples – the first is Dr. Sunil Kulatunge VOG, (his wife is a Consultant Ophthalmologist, one of my trainees), who is an artist doing paintings, cross stitching etc. Here is what he said:

Dr Sunil Kulatunga’s observations.

“Since I was young I have always been intrigued by activities that necessitated the use of my hands and fingers for delicate movements. Even though the possibilities seemed endless. I eventually took up painting, sewing, embroidery, and cross-stitching as my hobbies.

I personally believe that these hobbies have really helped me hone my skills as a surgeon. Painting has enabled me to delicately hold small objects between my fingers and make accurate movements.

However, I believe sewing, embroidery and cross-stitching to be the hobby which was most beneficial for me as a surgeon. It enabled me to unknowingly practice my craft even before becoming a surgeon. The attentiveness and fine movements required of a surgeon is also required to become proficient in sewing, embroidery and cross-stitching.

Another important aspect is that it trains you to keep attention for long periods of time. Painting, sewing, embroidery and cross-stitching are very meditative in nature and the same close scrutiny and attention required from a surgeon is required from them as mistakes are difficult and time-consuming to rectify”.

Chira: The next is an example of a busy surgeon known to me (my first cousin’s son-in-law) Dr. Jayaindra Fernando who started painting when he was a teenager. He is a great surgeon and an accomplished great artist who has held four big exhibitions at the Lionel Wendt Art Gallery and several other exhibitions. I have been to these exhibitions showing beautiful paintings

Dr. Jayaindra Fernando, Consultant General Surgeon, Lanka Hospitals. Past President - College of Surgeons of Sri Lanka. He was awarded the Honorary Fellowship of the Royal College of Surgeons Edinburgh in June 2022. He writes- “Every surgeon is in some way an artist. If not he or she cannot be a good surgeon. However, a few surgeons take it one step further and make art by itself a serious hobby or a part-time profession. Many articles are listed in Pubmed on this subject. As for me, I have been a serious artist since my teens and upgrading myself as an undergraduate. Four major art exhibitions, many minor exhibitions and many publications have been opportunities to share them. Currently, I continue art and a sample of my work can be seen online www.jayaindra.com/art

Speedy: Thanks, Chira. My question was prompted by speculating about an association of manual dexterity and skill required for a good surgeon with the artistic skills possessed by a good artist. I just wondered whether surgeons who do highly skilled surgery such as ophthalmic, plastic and neurosurgery would also be good artists But to be a good artist, you need creative skills as well as the ability to visualise. I suppose there are many doctors (not necessarily surgeons) who never tried to paint or draw as they were too busy pursuing their chosen careers.

I came across a few historical and more recent doctor-artists. They are,

Santiago Ramon y Cajal was an incredibly influential pathologist and artist who did a lot of drawings of nerves. He was also apparently a talented painter in his youth,

Roy Calne, the notable transplant surgeon from the UK, has exhibited his various media artworks

Frank Netter. Surgeon and medical illustrator, published an anatomical atlas 1989, probably one of the most used and beloved in medical schools today.

Adefemi Gbadamosi, also known as Fola David, is a current medical doctor from Nigeria who doubles as a visual artist. When it comes to his art he finds inspiration from the patients he treats especially those with skin conditions.

Andreas Vesalius. 16th-century, Anatomist and Physician, wrote and illustrated one of the first true anatomic atlases, with beautiful, classically inspired, prints

Dr Jaya Gupta, Dermatologist and Painter, a current Indian doctor

Dr Sharanbir Kaur, Dentist and Illustrator from India again.

I am sure there are many more. Apart from common skills, I perceived the need for a busy doctor to have a really relaxing hobby.  

Chira: Very interesting. What caught my attention most was Frank Netter Surgeon who published an anatomical atlas very useful, especially to medical students.

Ophthalmic surgeons do very fine surgery using the operating microscope, especially for Cataract surgery, Corneal surgery such as grafting, Glaucoma surgery etc. These surgeries are very intricate and precise. I feel that if Eye Surgeons attempt painting, they will succeed. I feel also that not only surgeons but also others such as Neurologists like you, Radiologists like Nihal are good artists.

Speedy: Manel (Owlie) sent this comment- “Mahen. I think surgery does improve painting. Chira is in exalted company. As Leonardo. Da Vinci knew the importance of knowing the anatomy and as he was not a doctor and had no access to surgery, he stole cadavers from graves and did dissections. But then in Naples he did dissections at a medical college; I don’t know how. So, surgeons do make very good painters. Though I don’t personally know any other surgeon who has done fabulous paintings like Chira”.

Speedy: Owlie is right. But they are so many aspects of Art and it is difficult to generalise. If you look at truly original and creative painting, the skills required are different from paintings done for example in Medieval times with fine graphic detail. Both require skills but, in my view, of a different kind. The ability to visualise and copy is different from the ability to "see what is not there to see" and produce a visually powerful representation.

Chira: I found this exercise very stimulating and let us hope we get some good feedback.

Speedy: Indeed, it was most interesting and I too hope we get some useful feedback.

Monday, June 13, 2022

Golden Wedding Couples

 GOLDEN COUPLES IN OUR BATCH

I was prompted to start this post after Suri’s recent Golden Wedding Anniversary.

Our heartiest congratulations and best wishes to the Golden Couples who achieved this significant milestone. They are not in any particular order.

Please let me know the names that I am sure I have missed and I shall add them to the list. 


Zita and Joe Subesinghe

Suriyakanthie and Mahendra Amarasekera

Indra and Rani Anandasabapathy

Ranjit and Neelangani Dambawinna

Revo and Larina  Drahaman

Kumar and Kanthi Gunewardene

Chandana (JC) and Sura Fernando

Kusuma and Varuna Ruberu

Harsha and Harshi Boralessa

Sujatha and Bonaventure Lena

Rajan and Queelan Ratnesar

Devayani and Anil Salgado

Kumar (Con) Bala and Loretta Balachandran

Senarath and Hemantha Jayatillake

Swyrie and Ken Balendra

Nisha and N S Jayasinghe

 

Monday, June 6, 2022

MY PAINTINGS OF BIRDS - Chirasri Jayaweera Bandara

 MY PAINTINGS OF BIRDS  - Chirasri Jayaweera Bandara

I am delighted to post a fresh crop of paintings by Chira, who has entertained us with her paintings many times in our blog.

I am sure you will agree that they are vibrant and colourful as befits the wonderful birds they represent.

On this occasion, there is no accompanying text...just enjoy looking at them and if you are curious, all you have to do is google!

Mahendra "Speedy" Gonsalkorale.

Just a reminder that you can click on a picture and you will see a bigger and clearer one. Mini-images of all appear at the bottom of the screen and you can click on any of them for a bigger view, When you finish, just click on the top-right little box with cross and you will revert to the post







Wednesday, June 1, 2022

GOLDEN WEDDING ANNIVERSARY-Suriyakanthie and Mahendra

 GOLDEN WEDDING ANNIVERSARY

Suriyakanthie and Mahendra Amarasekera 

I can truly say Mahendra is my Best Friend as well as my Husband” 

Suri and Mahendra celebrate their Golden Wedding Anniversary on the 3rd of June this year. It is a significant and tremendous milestone in the life of a married couple. 

Many in our Batch have achieved it and I am aware of only a few: Ranjit Dambawinna, Rajan Ratnesar, JC and Sura, Kumar G, Kusuma Ruberu, Zita Subesinghe, Bora, ConBala, Suji Maligaspe and now Suri. But I am sure there are many more.

The 50th Wedding Anniversary is so-called because an ancient tradition called for a husband to give his beloved wife a golden necklace, garland or wreath on their 50th Wedding Anniversary. The “gold” symbol represents the health and strength of the marriage. The other Wedding anniversary names common to most nations include Wooden (5th), Tin (10th), Crystal (15th), China (20th), Silver (25th), Pearl (30th), Ruby (40th), Golden (50th), and Diamond (60th). 

Suri wanted to share this poem she wrote for her Ruby Anniversary with one obvious change to bring it up to date. 

Was it so long ago...yet in memories as clear as yesterday

We remember how life became a shared adventure gay

Our first shy meetings, our first tender kiss

Earnest wows exchanged on a day such as this.

 

Those years when love’s magic played a vital part

Are gone, yet how much richer our love has grown

Deep as the crimson at a rose’s heart

When to the sun, her petals be full-blown

 

We too had our shares of ups and downs

Triumphs, disappointments and challenges to face,

Yet through it all we always found

The steadfast presence of God’s love and Grace

 

Five decades on, now at a slower pace we live,

We shared a thousand dreams, yet we could not guess

How when our April faded, God would give

As recompense, this dearer tenderness.

 

From Suri: “I would like to say that our marriage was indeed made in heaven. We had each gone through a traumatic experience of being badly let down. We were introduced by two well-meaning " uncles" who decided to play cupid. It's amazing that we had never ever met before....considering that both of us had close mutual friends, and my own sister was one year junior to Mahendra in Law College.

Mahendra was always very active at the Law Medical match walking off with prizes for his Cheeky posters. I even remember one that was banned (but was shown surreptitiously) .... One of Marylin Monroe's grave. With a caption, “Here she sleeps alone at last" and quite a few others .. a sketch of a Muslim gentleman.... captioned "A man with an eternal drawback" and one of two copulating dogs captioned "Please release me let me go"! I remember the posters clearly but not the artist who was displaying them!

As we got to know each other better we found so much common ground it’s unbelievable....the most important was our steadfast Faith and Trust in Jesus.

In addition to our love for music, dancing, a sense of humour..... being able to see the funny side and even laugh at ourselves.  we discovered that Pat Boone was our favourite singer ... In fact, Mahendra was the President of the Pat Boone fan club!
 
I remember Mahendra staying up with me while I crammed for my Final FRCA at the Post Graduate Centre in Farnborough Hospital. . I used to get the keys for the Centre and be in the library, while Mahendra used to go to the auditorium and play the grand piano so that I could get a whisper of the sound. It gave me a sense of security knowing that I was not alone in the building at dead of night.

The only thing we did not share was my love of reading ... I am a book worm.  I can't go to sleep without reading a book ... While Mahendra only reads the Newspapers! In fact, the first little squabble we had was when I was so engrossed in à book and didn't hear him ask me a question even when he repeated it! I decided immediately that giving up reading was a small sacrifice to make...

Eventually, I did go back to reading when Mahendra was not around. Now so many years later Mahendra does not grumble when I keep a reading light on till late!.

Suri and Mahendra have a daughter, Manique and a son, Sean and six grandchildren.

I am sure all our colleagues will join me in congratulating them and wishing them many more happy years of wedded bliss.

Suri and Mahendra Batch celebration in Colombo



Sunday, May 29, 2022

REMEMBRANCE DAY 2022.

Remembrance Day 30th May 2022Photo Gallery added. My sincere thanks to all the contributors - Speedy

Memories of some of my dear departed colleagues

By Suriyakanthie Amarasekera

First Row: Sunna de Silva, Russel Paul, Dawne de Silva, Bernard Randeniya,
Niriella Chandrasiri,  V. Ganeson
Second Row:Irwin Herath,  V.Kunasingham, B.L.Perera, B.Somasunderam,
N.C.D.M. Gunasekara,  K.Sunderampillai.
Third row:Tudor Wickramarachchi, Kiththa Wimalaratne,  Anna Ponnambalam, 
A. Satchitananda,  N. Sivakumar, Tilak Dayaratne

First Row: Sidath (Cigar) Jayanetti,  N. Balakumar,  Kamali Nimalasuriya, 
K. Sri Kantha, P. Lucien Perera, Priya Gunaratna,  
Second Row:   Arul (Sivaguru) Balasubramaniam, Punsiri Fernando,
W. Rajasooriyar,  M.P.C. Jaimon,  S. Vedavanam, Farouk Mahmoud
Third Row: JG Wijetunga, Manohari Navaratnarajah, Mahendra Collure,
Suren Iyer,  Sardha Jayatilake, S. Sarvananda 


First Row: Sue Ratnavel, Tilak Batuwitage, Desmond Gunatilake, Razaque Ahamat
Second Row: H.N.Wickremasinghe, Ranjit Kuruppu, Kamini Goonewardena, Lucky Weerasooriya

Priya Gunaratne: was one of the friendliest girls in our batch. In fact, I got to know her even before we entered Medical  College in  June 1962.  I was a  Visakhian for a brief spell from January 1962 to March when the A level results of December 1961 were released and found to my delight that I had secured a direct entry. I was a strange phenomenon at Visakha.... a new girl in the 2nd year of the A level class and a Christian at that! Priya was one of the first to extend the hand of friendship to me and instantly made me feel less of an alien! Our friendship remained strong and close. We had many shared interests ... our love for Table Tennis was one. I partnered her for the girls' doubles and we met as opponents for the girls singles in 1963. I was certain that I would get a licking as Priya was a much better player but it must have been one of her off days and I beat her by a fluke. We were both selected to be in the Uni team and were entered for an International University Tournament.   The first round was held in Peradeniya, and we had a marvellous time, but unfortunately got knocked out by a simply brilliant team from India.   

We went for the Peradeniya Colours Night. I recall Sriyani Dissanayaka,  (who later joined our batch), looking stunningly beautiful and being crowned the Colours Queen.                                      

I also recall what a beautiful mother of the bride Priya made when her daughter married Kalyani Nihalsingha' s son.

Being actively involved in organizing the batch reunions kept us in close touch. I was full of admiration for her courage at the way she faced her malignancy which ultimately claimed her life. She was indeed an inspiration to us all.

Chandrasiri Niriella: He was one of the more studious members of our batch. For some reason I cannot recall, he was nicknamed Johnny.

Chandrasiri was a good-natured amiable guy and I had a very cordial relationship with him. I was not at all surprised when he was appointed Professor of Forensic Medicine and soon reached the dizzy height of being appointed the  Vice-Chancellor of the Ruhuna University. He was the first amongst our friends to reach such a high Academic level.  He was well respected by students and staff alike. I was so upset to learn of his fatal cancer. It was heartbreaking to meet him after he had an enucleation of one of his eyes.

Several years later I met his young son who is now a renowned hepatologist when he was doing a Registar appointment at the Sri Jayawardenapura Teaching Hospital. Having just moved to Colombo, he was finding it difficult to gain entry to a good school for his little daughter. It was my privilege and pleasure to help him to get the little girl admitted to Ladies' College.

LGDK Herath: was another quiet one in our batch. Very pleasant but rather serious. I had the unusual privilege of being his trainer in Anaesthesia when he joined Jayawardenapura hospital and opted for Anaesthesia. It was great to guide him through the science and art of anaesthesia. It was amusing that we often forgot our roles and started jawing about the good old days. .. he lapsed to call me Suri on occasions much to the horror of the other junior and nursing staff. I found him very easy to teach and guide to acquire the manual skills required. He turned out to be a competent and caring Anaesthetist. When he decided to go abroad I was very happy to act as his referee and help him to secure a job. News of his demise left me with a sense of loss. 

Lucky Weerasuriya:  A tall fair handsome guy with a charming smile and a sunny personality .... the answer to any girl's dream. But he was already spoken for when he entered Medical College. His childhood sweetheart Ruvini to whom he was devoted. Both Lucky, Ruvini and I attended the same Church in Mt Lavinia. I have so many lovely memories of picnics, Carrom and TT tournaments, debates and netball matches where girls usually played against the boys ... Both sides cheated shamelessly! Lucky and Ruvini emigrated to the USA very early. They were blessed with two very caring sons who looked after them when Lucky got gradually disabled with rapidly progressing Parkinsonism. His demise was a blessed release. I am so glad that I met them at our Batch Reunions in,2007 and again in 2012. It was lovely to catch up. By our last reunion in 2017 Lucky was too incapacitated to travel. May his soul Rest in Peace.

Mano Navaratnarajah:. I remember her charming good looks,  and gentle nature She was always polite and soft-spoken. One would never guess that her dad was a very important person ... being the Chief Justice at the time. Mano never put on airs and graces and was a dear friend.

S Vedavanam:I have very fond memories of Veda .. his boyish good looks, his quiet sense of humour and most of all his sunny smile. Though he was a V and myself K and we were never in any group together as students we shared a warm friendship. I remember the many chats we had . Perhaps the fact that I am guilty of being a chatterbox ( I remember how one of Bunter's three brothers who has forgotten my name described me as her friend who talks and talks and talks and aaàaaaaa and talks again ! ).

I feel so sad that I lost touch with Veda after graduation. I am filled with regret that we did not organize Batch Reunions earlier.

The first-ever reunion in Sri Lanka was organized by JC, Sura and myself in 1988 We coopted Lucky A a little later. It was an uphill task as we had no idea of the locations of our batch mates nor the married surnames of the females. We were delighted that we were able to gather 22 of our batch mates living in Sri Lanka and had a wonderful time chattering away at The Holiday Inn over dinner. We had also invited Carlo and Pandi as guests.

The first Batch Reunion including those living abroad was held in 1997 our 30th Anniversary, at Coral Gardens Hikkaduwa. This needed a lot of organization and we were lucky to have Swyrie with all her contacts and Priya with her enthusiasm for joining the committee. I am so sorry that I never met Veda at any of our Reunions held .... but will always remember him with affection

V Kunasingham: I do remember with deep affection. He sat next to me during Physiology lectures ( Karunaratna , Kunasingham ) He was indeed very shy, always gentle and soft-spoken. I remember vividly how Dr Ratnavale got Kuna to walk with a stiff knee, and then add on a foot drop... clearly demonstrating the circumduction walk of hemiplegia.

Sue Ratnavale: I remember Sue who was always charming and friendly. I remember singing in the SCM Choir at her Wedding at St Paul's Milagiriya Church.

Priya, Ganesh and Ranjith Kuruppu were all very close friends who I had kept in touch with ....it's hard to believe that I can't pick up the phone and have a chat with them as I used to.
Ranjith was so full of fun. I am sure most of you can remember his "Dance of the Seven Veils" at one of our batch reunions. I had the privilege of helping him with the dressing, putting on the wig and makeup! With his fair complexion, he did look very seductive!

HN, "Cigar" as we fondly called Sidath were also special to me. Incidentally, Cigar was responsible for getting me thrown out of Thanaballs's Ward Class by making me grin while watching his antics while standing behind Thanaballs' chair.

Russel Paul and Dawne: Russel was a man in a million So gentle and unselfish. He would often stop his own studies to explain difficult subjects to anyone who sought his help. Though he was brilliant he never showed off or made you feel inadequate.

Kamali Nimalasuriya: Another absolutely brilliant batch mate, with a quiet sense of humour
Anna, another gentle and rather quiet friend, -seen but not often heard like so many.

Sardha: I regret I had lost touch with her after graduation. Her tragic experience of losing he young son due to an ICH made her a recluse.

Ganesh: was such a special friend to me as indeed he was to many in the batch.
I clearly remember Ganesh singing popular Sinhala songs lustily in the bus all the way to Habarana on our Ruby Anniversary in 2007.

While all of us seem to age Ganesh looked eternally young with boyish good looks and an endearing smile. It was so tragic that Ganesh who was a teetotaler should succumb to cryptogenic cirrhosis. I got to know his daughter Nishanthi very well when she worked at Jayawardenapura Hospital. In her, I saw the same gentle qualities and utter dedication to the patients in her care due no doubt to the shining example of her father who she took as her role model.

Suren lyer: was another dear friend who I was so glad to meet after more than 4 decades. His sudden and unexpected demise left us all shaken I remember him dancing no stop at the batch reunion. I recall how he used to carry a photo of his sister Sita who died tragically from Ulcerative Colitis when a 3 rd year medical student in Pera in his wallet and show it to us saying it was his girlfriend.

Kamini G: Another special friend.She was always so smart and pretty, always kind. I remember that in our 3rd year she lived in terror that her mother who had left Medical School after her 2 ND MBBS to get married would join our batch! I remember telling her that it would be so sweet and a record. We became even closer as we served as interns under EV Pieris. I was delighted when her daughter Rohini joined my daughter Manique to sing at the Doctor's Concert of the SLMA for three consecutive years. Their item was called " Doctors Daughters”

I can go on but feel I had better call a halt. Hope you enjoy reading my snippets of some of our dear departed Batch Mates.

My dear friends, we will always remember you with love and affection.

“To live in the hearts of those who love you is to live forever!”

Thursday, May 26, 2022

REMEMBRANCE DAY 2022. SIVAKUMAR VEDAVANAM

Dr Sivakumar Vedavanam  Passed away on 01.07.2015

Med Fac sig book 1962, Passport 1975 and more recent
“Veda” as we called him, passed away nearly 7 years ago, although it is hard to believe that so much time has elapsed. He was the son of Murugesu, a stationmaster from Mavidapuram and Nesamani, a housewife from Thunavi, Vaddukoddai. As his son describes him, “at heart, he remained a Jaffna man”.

His wife Dhushyanthi whom he married in 1975, has kept in touch with his Batch colleagues and is a regular attender of our mini-reunions in London. She is a wonderful and sensitive person. It has become a special feature in our batch that so many spouses maintain contact with us.

Veda’s children were touched by so many wonderful messages that have appeared in our Blog from the time of his passing away and on Remembrance Days.

Dhushy,  Veda, Krishni & Tharan

They sent this message and I got their permission to post it. Dhushy very kindly sent a collection of family photos showing how Veda the singleton became a devoted husband and then an exceptional father and finally a doting grandfather.

After the message from his son Tharan and daughter Krishni, both doctors, I have added some quotes from colleagues which reveal the Man as he was, a good citizen, a caring Doctor, a loving and devoted husband, a dutiful father by example and a doting grandfather with a personality described by many with words such as cheeky, smiley, impish, boyish, talkative, cheerful, principled and jovial and generous.

Message from his son Sivatharan (Tharan) and daughter Krishnaveni (Krishni )

Our father was incredibly humble and modest and would be so honoured by the fact that you took the trouble to provide a recollection for the blog. It was wonderful to read your reminiscences, of our father and of other peers in your year. Your description of his “modesty, classless friendship and lavish hospitality” certainly chimes with our own memories of Appa. We’ve included a small recollection below, as Amma thought others from your batch might find it of interest. 

Daughter's Family including Krsihni's mother-in-law

Appa was born in Jaffna Town, in the north of Sri Lanka. Although he went on to university in the capital, leaving his home town and eventually the country of his birth, he still retained the homely values of the region of his birth, which he used to inform his own parenting and duties of a spouse and son – the importance of familial ties and the need for hard work, infused with tolerance, patience and adaptability. He cared for his mother, our grandmother, throughout much of the latter part of her life, as she was widowed when he was at university. He did this with no demur, and those who knew them both described the endless care he would take with her, bathing her himself when she became too frail to care for herself without help. He married our mother, Dhushyanthi, in 1975. My mother’s father was a well-known and formidable character. However, despite his eminent status, he was impressed by, and greatly respected, our father’s gentleness and kindness.

Appa sacrificed huge amounts in order to provide his family with whatever we needed, and we never felt in want of anything, emotionally or materially.

Dhushy and Veda with grandkds

He instilled in us the importance of trying one’s best in any situation and was immensely proud of our own academic and career achievements. However, he also ensured that we recognised that all these achievements were nothing without a loving and secure family environment. Prior to his death, he was delighted to have 4 grandchildren: Saranya(14), Tamara (8), (Krishna's), Seetha(9)and Rayan(7) (Tharan’s), whom he doted on.
Although Appa supported us throughout our lives, he was never prescriptive and allowed us to seek our own course in life. His values infuse our lives even now, as his legacy lives on in our children. He is dearly missed and remains alive in our hearts and memories.
Thanks for taking the time to remember those of your batchmates who are no more, and also including their families. We have loved looking at the entries on the blog you set up to celebrate the Colombo med grads of 1962, and are sure it is a source of comfort to the families of those who have left this mortal coil.


A random selection of comments on Veda from colleagues on our Blog

Srianee Dias: His friendly, cheerful personality.

Nihal Amerasekera:  I got to know “Veda” when we worked together in the Central Blood Bank in Colombo. He was a thoughtful and dedicated doctor. He showed tremendous kindness to the Public Health Inspectors, attendants and labourers who were part of our team. His modesty, classless friendship and lavish hospitality stood out.   Veda had a philosophical outlook on life accepting its ups and downs with good grace. He was a helpful and loyal friend and we were close.  Veda had a heart of gold and treated his family and friends with great reverence and affection. He was a truly remarkable person. Adios amigo

DSC Attale: I last met Vedavanam at Bobby Somasunderam’s funeral. He was the same energetic talkative Veda,  I knew before,  sad I lost contact with for the last two years.

Bandula Jayasekera: pleasant, friendly and innocently jovial, with a smiley face-  ALWAYS!

Rohini Anandappa: I remember Vedavanam as a jovial nice guy.

Sanath de Tissera: Veda I remember him as a friendly chap always with a smile and mixed with all.

Kumar Gunawardena: I remember him as a cheerful guy with a cheeky grin most of the time.

Razaque Ahamath: Veda was a guy one cannot forget -- for his cheek, impish and boyish behaviour that was at times irritating and irksome but nobody took any offence as it was all good-natured and said with a smile and with no insult, no malice nor venom.
All I can say now is "inna illahi, wa inna lillahi rojoon" -- in Arabic meaning "To God he belongs, to God he returns"

Nihal Amerasekera: His cheeky grin and casual manner are memories for us all. He accepted life with good grace and was great company and a wonderful friend. I will always remember him as an honest and dignified person. He had a strong sense of right and wrong. Veda had a heart of gold and helped many who came into contact with him. He spoke of his friends for their past loyalties and said nothing about his enemies – typical of a man with a large heart, a fine brain, and a broad and generous spirit.

Appu Sumathipala: I shared several jokes with him during our medical student days. We had amicable chats, quite often, and I often thought of calling him "Thambi"(younger brother in Tamil).

Zita Perera Subasinghe: He does sound like a real 'Human Being'. We need many more of them in this world.

Mahendra Gonsalkorale: It reinforced my feeling that I really missed associating with a really special person after losing contact.

Lucky Abeyagunawardene: Veda was a particularly good friend of mine some years ago. For a short period of three months in 1974, I shared with him his room at Regent House when he was attached to the Central Blood Bank.

I shall end this post with a quote by George Eliot which I used in my recent Remembrance Day post

“Our dead are never dead to us, until we have forgotten them”

- Posted by Mahendra Gonsalkorale -

Sunday, May 22, 2022

Remembrance Day 2022

Remembrance Day 2022

Kumar Gunawardane

“The comfort of having a friend may be taken away, but not that of having had one”
Seneca

It’s a hard task, to follow the heartfelt tributes already paid to our departed colleagues; especially ND’s, Srianee’s and Rohini Ana’s and Mahen’s joint effort. Each year, the exercise becomes more and more poignant.

To my everlasting regret, I was close only to a few. But I bow my head to them all.

The first to leave us, and still the most grievous to me is Sunna. Our friendship matured during the exhilarating internship at Galle. He was, in the deathless words of the Bard, a friend who could be grappled to one’s soul with hoops of steel. A staunchly loyal companion for all seasons, he was generous to a fault to family and friends. One of my most treasured possessions is a collection of letters he wrote to me in his early days in USA. I gave the originals to his brother Manik, but kept photocopies for myself. I will refrain from detailing his generosities, as they would have embarrassed him in life.

Sue R was a transitory vision who like the new moon enveloped all around her in a warm glow.

Desmond G, my friend from the school by the sea, nursing a secret sorrow, but rising above it.

Tilak D an incurable romantic , bowled over again and again by fair maidens.

Chandrasiri, who helped Bora and me surmount the seemingly unconquerable hurdle
of the Surgical finals.

Kunasingham, of whom very little has been said, an outstanding hockey player in the National team, who never ever talked about it., let alone brag; with a constant bashful smile and a quirky sense of humour.

Razaque, HN, JG, Sidath, and Jaimon are each unique, each amusing each delightful in their own way.

They and the others made the days in Medical School a repository of treasured memories, we can fall back on with nostalgia.


“When you part from your friend, you grieve not; for that which you love  most in him may be clearer in his absence, as the mountain to the climber is clearer from the plain”
Khalil Gibran