Showing posts with label Obituaries/Appreciations (Batch). Show all posts
Showing posts with label Obituaries/Appreciations (Batch). Show all posts

Wednesday, January 1, 2025

RITA SILVA (Alwis) passes away

RITA SILVA (Alwis) passes away

Just received the sad news of another Batchmate passing away from Suri. 

Rita apparently passed away in November 2024. She has not kept in touch with many people, and I am trying to get more details. If anybody has more information, please send it to me so I can update this post. I think she was a Paediatrician.

The photograph is from the sig book collection. 

She was a quiet but bright girl and did very well in the 3rd MBBS and the Final, where I think she topped the batch.

Rita was married to Sam de Alwis, a Manager at the People's Bank. He died some years ago. They had no children.

Rita was a Paediatrician, and her last Station was Gampaha.

She was very involved in Social Service. Her passion was breeding Dogs. She had Dobermans and Labradors. She was a keen member of the Kennel Club and has won several gold medals at their annual Dog shows.

May she Rest in Peace.

The passed away toll is now 61.

Friday, December 20, 2024

Dr Revelion (Revo) Drahaman passes away

Dr Revelion (Revo) Drahaman passes away

Nihal (ND) sent this note with the sad news of our much-loved batchmate passing away. May he rest in Peace. Insha Allah, Janaza leaves residence on Friday, 20 December 2024 at 15:00 (Asr prayers) from Merdeka, 23C, Guildford Crescent, Colombo 07, to Jawatte Muslim Burial Grounds.

Dr Revelion Drahaman – A Life Remembered.

Dr Nihal D Amarasekera

It is with deep sadness I heard the news of the passing of one of my closest friends, Revelion Drahaman.

When I think of Revelion Drahaman I am reminded of a famous line from Shakespeare’s Twelfth Night: “Some are born great, some achieve greatness, and others have greatness thrust upon them.” Revo seems to have had them all, and I’m happy to share these memories of him.

I first met Revo in 1965 when we were both students at the Faculty of Medicine in Colombo. It was the Swinging Sixties. Memories of amber nectar, tall tales and late nights whizz around my head as I recall those years of long ago. Friendships were made and firmed in the canteen and common room which was the social hub of the Faculty where laughter was endemic. Revo started his training with the first batch of students at Peradeniya and moved to Colombo on a transfer. As our surnames were nearer the beginning of the alphabet, we did most of the clinical work together. Our walks on the long corridors to every corner of the General Hospital in search of patients and knowledge is a memory that has stayed with me. This brought us closer and the friendship lasted a lifetime.

Our third year (1965) was a particularly difficult one with a plethora of subjects and much to read, retain and recall. Nalin Nanayakkara, Revo and I studied together. We met at each other’s houses. Revo’s parent’s house was in the affluent part of the city in the plush surroundings of Guilford Crescent, Cinnamon Gardens. This splendid house was called “Merdeka” (Freedom in Malay). On arrival we soon got stuck into our books. When Revo’s mother saw us immersed in our work, took pity on us and sent us cups of tea and cakes. Sometimes those study sessions ended in a delightful lunch. Revo was intelligent, focussed and hardworking.

But it was not all work. We occasionally snatched an evening break. As students, drinking and socialising took away the stresses and the strains of the heavy workload. There were those memorable and raucous evening booze-ups at the faculty’s Men’s Common Room. The glitz and the glamour of the Colours Night and Block Night Dances at King George’s Hall at Reid Avenue lit up our amorphous yearnings!!. On those evenings we twisted and jived the night away in gorgeous company. Revo was ever present and enjoyed himself thoroughly. During the years in the faculty, he had a rugged and reliable BSA Bantam motor bike. I was a regular pillion rider on this noisy beast weaving through the Colombo traffic.

He breezed through the difficult examinations at the faculty. Our undergraduate days ended in June 1967. As the sunset on our student days, there was a new dawn of a career in Medicine. Revo did his internship at the General Hospital Badulla and in 1968 he returned to the OPD at Ragama Hospital. We came together again when I moved back to Colombo in 1970. Then our uncertainties loomed large. It was a time of professional and personal insecurity. On an evening, the Health Department Sports Club at Castle Street was our oasis. He was genial company and we spoke about our lives, families and our academic progress. Revo wanted to specialise in ENT surgery. He was a good listener always calm and measured in his delivery. Whenever my life was in turmoil, Revo flattered me with his genuine care and interest in my well-being. I respected his opinion. He often advised patience. His contributions to any discussion were well thought-out and conveyed with much consideration. Revo was endowed with high moral standards. Although not overtly religious its important tenets were deeply rooted in his psyche. He stood up for his principles, steadfastly.

I left for England in 1974 and began work in London. By then Revo had proceeded with his surgical training with Dr Victor Benjamin, Consultant Surgeon and was successful in his preliminary FRCS examination in surgery. He too arrived in the UK in the early 1970’s. We met up again when he worked at the prestigious Whittington Hospital in London. This hospital is named after the famous 14th century traveller, Dick Whittington. As we both had busy jobs and difficult professional examinations to overcome our meetings were less frequent.

After completing the FRCS examination in surgery and the professional training, Revo returned to Sri Lanka in 1976. He was appointed as an ENT Surgeon, General Hospital Colombo. Before long, he formed an efficient and impressive ENT Unit that was the envy of his colleagues. He was an astute clinician, careful and meticulous. Revo was also a technically gifted surgeon. In practice he was a traditionalist and stood by the wisdom of Hippocrates, “primum non nocere” (first, do no harm). Revo was keen to share his surgical skills and enthusiasm and enjoyed teaching. He trained many young doctors to achieve great things in the speciality, at home and abroad. Revo Drahaman became a leading name in ENT surgery, much admired and well sought after. He had a busy and successful career at the National Hospital. He also worked in several Private Hospitals. Revo was a wonderful, wise and deeply perceptive man. He was modest about his own considerable achievements and scrupulously honest. With his fine bedside manner, professional competence and high ethical principles he handled patients, colleagues, nursing staff and trainees with skill, kindness and unfailing courtesy.

Despite his busy work schedule, he looked after the medical needs of my family in Colombo. He treated them with his usual respect, warmth and helpful kindness. Revo refused to accept any payment for this enormous favour. I was then a regular visitor to Sri Lanka. On those journeys we met up unfailingly and caught up with the news of mutual friends. We spoke about our careers and family and put the world to right. There was always time to reminisce and recall the good times gone. On those visits I remember with fondness his mischief and playfulness and those witty narratives delivered with waving arms and a broad smile, just as he did when we were students.

Revo comes from Malay aristocracy in Sri Lanka. His father was Dr M.P Drahaman who was a General Practitioner in Slave Island and an appointed Member of Parliament in the late 1950’s. He is remembered for his tireless work to improve the lives of the Malay Community devoting much of his time to their welfare and well-being. Dr M.P Drahaman provided support for the Indonesian struggle for Merdeka (freedom) for which he was recognised and honoured by the Indonesian Government. Three of his sons followed him into the medical profession. He passed away in 1963 in Mecca while performing Haj.

Revo lived in Cinnamon Gardens with his wife Lareena who is a dental surgeon. The old house has been completely rebuilt. They remain lavish and generous hosts renowned for their Malay feasts. He was an affectionate and attentive father to his son and daughter and is a doting grandfather.

His son Akram has followed in his father’s footsteps to qualify as an ENT Surgeon. Revo’s daughter, Asnita, is a GP and her husband is a Consultant Physician and they live in the UK.

When Revo visited his daughter and son-in-law in the UK they were honoured guests at my home. Those meetings are now precious memories. I have a collection of old Malay music which were popular in Sri Lanka. He loved listening to them after a few glasses of vino. I offered him a CD of the music for him to take back to Sri Lanka.

Revelion Drahaman dedicated more than 50 years to the medical profession. Work was his pleasure and after retirement he continued to serve in the private sector. He is a fine product of that great redbrick institution, Royal College Colombo. By his dignity and decency, he brought honour to his school, the profession and his community. This short biography is a testament to the caring and integrity which was evident in everything he did. Revo lived a remarkable life. He was ever so humble about his success and never regarded himself as someone special. Despite his privileged upbringing, he never lost the common touch. I consider myself so very fortunate to have met him in my journey through life.

Revo is a gem in a world of pebbles. He has gone before us in the journey we all must take.

“Inna Lillahi Va Inna Ilaihi Rajioon”  (From Him do we come and unto Him do we return)

Saturday, December 14, 2024

STOP PRESS: Lakshman Abeyagunawardene passes away

 STOP PRESS

Lakshman Abeyagunawardene passes away

Mahendra "Speedy" Gonsalkorale


I just received the sad news from Pram in this text message:-

"Dear friends, our dearly beloved colleague Lucky Abeygunawardene passed away peacefully this afternoon surrounded by his family

His remains will lie at the Respect Home tomorrow from 6.00pm to 9.00pm & again from the morning of the 16th December. Cremation at the General Cemetery Kanatte at 10.30am.  Pansakula to be offered at 2 pm and final rites with cremation, Borella New Cemetery at 4pm

May his soul rest in peace".

I shall publish more details and some recollections from friends. Please send me anything about Lucky you want to be included.

The photo was taken at Lucky's house when I met him in March this year.

ND summed him up beautifully- see below.

Lakshman is a quiet man, yet gregarious, always charming. He is well known for his intense loyalty to his friends. His anecdotes, wonderful sense of humour and that ‘wicked’ grin are an integral part his charm.  I remember from long ago his courtesy and kind ways which he has carried through all his life. I am greatly privileged to have met him in my life’s journey. 

Lucky was admitted as a Fellow of the College of Community Physicians of Sri Lanka at the Inauguration of its Annual Scientific Sessions on Thursday, 20th September 2012, in recognition of services rendered to Public Health/Community Medicine.


This citation, read by Dr. Santhushya Fernando, is a fitting initial tribute to a man who achieved so much but always remained humble. He started the Blog and valued friendship and lasting memories of our time together as batch mates. I shall miss him, and his memory shall always live deep within me.


Dr. Lakshman Abeyagunawardene was born in Hikkaduwa on October 22nd, 1941 at the height of the Second World War. He was educated at Ananda College, Colombo, and passed the University Entrance examination held in December 1960. Having entered the Science Faculty of the University of Ceylon to follow the 1st MB course in June 1961 when such course was conducted for the last time, he was then admitted to the Colombo Medical Faculty the following year in June 1962. Dr. Abeyagunawardene graduated with the MBBS degree in March 1967. Following his Internship at the General Hospital, Colombo South, he worked in the clinical field for two years before opting voluntarily for a career in public health long before being called up for mandatory service as a Medical Officer of Health. Starting as an MOH at Matara in 1970, he later joined the Health Education Bureau (HEB) of the Ministry of Health before leaving for the United States on a World Health Organization (WHO) Fellowship in March 1974.
He specialised in public health and health education and obtained the degree of Master of Public Health (MPH) from the University of California, Berkeley, USA in 1975. On his return, Dr. Abeyagunawardene continued his service in the HEB as a Health Education Specialist. In 1986, he was certified as a consultant in community medicine by the Post Graduate Institute of Medicine (PGIM) following conferment of the degree of Doctor of Medicine (MD) in community medicine (by research) by the University of Colombo.
While serving the Health Education Bureau of the Ministry of Health, Dr. Abeyagunawardene was in charge of the Community Health Education sub unit and in later years, the Training sub unit as well. In that capacity, he directed the highly successful Family Health Education Action Programme mobilising village level volunteers for health action throughout the length and breadth of the country. Apart from his involvement in his own research studies, Dr. Abeyagunawardene has supervised research projects and dissertations of MD and M SC candidates of the PGIM. Dr. Abeyagunawardene has the distinction of coordinating the M SC course in Health Education when the PGIM doors were thrown open to non- medical and non-dental health professionals. He has also served as a member of the Board of Study in Community Medicine of the PGIM over an extensive period until he left government service in 1990.
Having served the Government of Sri Lanka for 23 years, he opted for early retirement to join the United Nations Children’s Fund (UNICEF) in 1990. As a National Professional Officer in UNICEF, Colombo, he continued to work closely with his national counterparts, notably the Health Education Bureau. Apart from other duties, Dr. Abeyagunawardene was responsible for the planning, implementation and evaluation of UNICEF-funded mass media programmes to promote oral rehydration therapy, iodised salt, child immunisation, and breastfeeding under the Baby Friendly Hospitals Initiative.
Dr. Abeyagunawardene has also served the World Health Organisation (WHO) and the Commonwealth Secretariat of London as a short term consultant with assignments in Indonesia and Malaysia. In 1998, he retired prematurely from the UN to emigrate to the United States where he served the South Carolina Department of Health and Environmental Control as a Health Education Specialist for a further period of ten years before final retirement in January 2009. The South Carolina Department of Health and Environmental Control recognised Dr. Abeyagunawardene’s services when he was presented with the Award for Excellence in 2006 for his contribution in the state’s highly successful Childhood Lead Poisoning Prevention Programme.
Dr. Abeyagunawardene joined the Sri Lanka Association of Community Medicine as a life member soon after he opted for a career in Public Health in 1970, and later served as a Committee Member. With the establishment of the College of Community Physicians of Sri Lanka, he continued to serve as a Council member until he left the country in 1997. He has also served as a Council Member of the Sri Lanka Medical Association (SLMA) for several years.
Dr. Abeyagunawardene has many publications to his credit and has been a regular presenter of scientific papers at the annual sessions of the Sri Lanka Medical Association and the Sri Lanka College of Community Physicians. He won the P.H. Wilson Peiris Memorial Award at the 99th Anniversary Academic Sessions of the SLMA in 1986 for his paper entitled “Factors Influencing the Defaulter Rate of Leprosy Patients in a Hyperendemic Region in Sri Lanka”. A paper entitled “Mobilising Mass Media for Health” which outlined an evaluation of the HEB’s very first series of media seminars was published in the prestigious international health journal “World Health Forum” of the WHO in 1988. Dr. Abeyagunawardene published his Memoirs in 2009 with his book entitled “From Hikkaduwa to the Carolinas – Memoirs of a Reluctant Expatriate”. Dr. Abeyagunawardene returned to Sri Lanka on a permanent basis in 2009 and straightaway involved himself in CCP activities by sharing his US experience in childhood lead poisoning and prevention with the general membership at the College’s scientific sessions in 2010. Dr. Abeyagunawardene now lives in Battaramulla with his wife Mangala. They have a son and daughter and three grandchildren.
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Tributes to Lucky

(1) This was posted in the Blog on May 2nd, 2022.

Lakshman Dias Abeygunawardene – Community Physician par excellence

By Dr Nihal D Amerasekera

    “Lakshman is a quiet man, yet gregarious, always charming. He is well known for his intense loyalty to his friends. His anecdotes, wonderful sense of humour and that ‘wicked’ grin are an integral part his charm.  I remember from long ago his courtesy and kind ways which he has carried through all his life. I am greatly privileged to have met him in my life’s journey. 

Lakshman (L.N.D) Abeygunawardene had his education at Ananda College Colombo.

I first met Lakshman in the “Block” when we were freshers at the Faculty of Medicine in Colombo in 1962. Then we both lived in Nugegoda. There were times he gave me a lift to the faculty in his Honda 50 motor-cycle. Our surnames being at the beginning of the alphabet we sat near to each other at lectures, walked the long corridors of the General Hospital together and worked in the same wards. Friendship blossomed as we did most of the demanding tasks together for the full five years.

The examinations in the faculty were many and each one of them challenging in the extreme. Therewas a need to commit vast amounts of facts to memory. Lakshman had a most remarkable memory and the ability to recall in such great detail. He spent less time studying than many of my mates in the year but sailed through the years with ease. On many occasions, he gave me the impression Lakshman merely wanted to pass the examinations with minimum effort while enjoying student life. I have no doubt that he could have been in the top tier in the order of merit if he just made the effort. Lakshman was intelligent and had the wonderful ability to think fast and think rationally while on his feet. This was a great gift which he used to good effect in later life and career.

Lakshman loved faculty life and enjoyed it to the full, more than most. He was a fine billiards player. Taking part in the faculty competitions he fared very well indeed becoming one of the top players. Carrom was his forte. Lakshman was one of the best players of the game and won the faculty tournament a couple of times. He was a great follower of the University cricket team and was ever present at the Sara Trophy games lending his support. Watching Rugby was another of his passions and never missed an important club game. He was always there for the Colours Night and Block Night dances at the University’s King George’s Hall, jiving the night away. Ever-present at the evening booze-ups in the faculty common room, Lakshman was there to take me home after the event. Although he enjoyed a drink Lakshman never exceeded the sensible limits he set for himself. He never smoked. With him good sense always prevailed.

I remember he was always polite and had the great ability to be calm, discreet and diplomatic. He had the skill to hide his anger so very well. Beneath his gentle demeanour, Lakshman has a steely core. He is intelligent and astute and played his cards close to his chest. Lakshman was never in a hurry to make important decisions which he did after careful thought. This stood him in good stead throughout his career and in his life.

I recall with nostalgia a trip we made with Sanath de Tissera, Bernard Randeniya and Lakshman Jayasinghe (who joined us on the spur of the moment, at the Fort Railway Station). We were off on a trip to Kandy. Sanath arranged for us to stay in a house on a hill in Watapuluwa, overlooking the Mahaweli river. We pounded the streets of Kandy during the day and enjoyed a chat and a drink in the evenings by the river. This was a memorable holiday which brought us closer together. 

After the final year examination came the great dispersal. We all went our separate ways. 

Following his Internship at Colombo South General Hospital, he worked in a clinical field for two years. He then set his eyes on a career in public health. Lakshman began his journey into public health as a Medical Officer of Health at Matara in 1970. That was also a momentous year for Lakshman when he married Mangala.  I made an official trip to Matara while working at the Central Blood Bank in Colombo.  It brought me great joy to meet my old pal again. I was entertained most lavishly by Lakshman and Mangala in a grand and elegant house at Brown’s Hill in Matara.

Remaining in the Public Health Services, he joined the Health Education Bureau (HEB) of the Ministry of Health.  In March 1974, Lakshman was awarded a World Health Organization (WHO) Fellowship and proceeded to the USA. Specialising in public health and health education, in 1975, he obtained the Master’s degree in Public Health (MPH) from the University of California, Berkeley, USA. On his return to Sri Lanka, Lakshman pursued his keen interest in serving the HEB as a Health Education Specialist. In 1986, he received his certification as a consultant in community medicine by the Post Graduate Institute of Medicine (PGIM). Lakshman was conferred the prestigious Doctor of Medicine (MD) degree in community medicine by the University of Colombo.

Having served the Government of Sri Lanka diligently for 23 years he took early retirement in 1990 and joined the United Nations Children’s Fund (UNICEF). He has also served the World Health Organisation (WHO) and the Commonwealth Secretariat of London working on consultant assignments in Indonesia and Malaysia. In 1998, he took early retirement from UNICEF.  Lakshman then emigrated to the United States and served the South Carolina Department of Health and Environmental Control as a Health Education Specialist for a further period of ten years. He finally retired in December 2008 as a Consultant Community Physician in the USA. Although South Carolina left a strong impression on Lakshman he had a deep longing to return home to his roots.

For many years I lost contact with Lakshman. Marriage, careers and caring for our children took precedence. On a brief visit home in 1998, I met up with Lakshman and the irrepressible J.C Fernando at the Singhalese Sports Club which was a memorable event. We kept the spirit alive bringing back a bit of that old faculty magic of long ago.

Lakshman initiated a Weblog (now also called a Blog), specifically for the Colombo Medical Faculty entrants of 1962. The creation helped to shape the way we communicate as a year group and became a forum for conveying our skills, news, humour and friendship. This became an instant hit with the batch and has been a friendly platform, riding the ether since 2011. He had a pragmatic approach to its rules. Not wanting it to be an online battleground, he discouraged and virtually excluded politics. As the manager of the Blog he maintained its dignity and remained fair and impartial. His willingness to listen to the feedback improved the Blog enormously. After many years in the hot seat he has now passed on the onerous task of managing the Blog to Mahendra Gonsalkorale.

On retirement Lakshman and Mangala returned to Sri Lanka and made their home in Battaramulla. They now maintain a splendid house with a delightful garden in the posh part of town. An utterly charming couple, they became well known for their friendship and lavish hospitality. By his relaxed style and affable manner, he made wonderful company. Their generosity was extended to the many expatriate medics who returned home on their winter getaway.

I recall Lakshman’s father was a regular contributor to the national newspapers. Lakshman continued this tradition by contributing articles of value to the daily papers mostly on topics in his field of expertise in healthcare. He has dipped deep into the archives of his memory to write a most readable, extensive and far-reaching memoir. 

I never joined in the many Batch reunions in Sri Lanka and never had the opportunity to meet Lakshman. He made a brief trip to the UK. Although I hoped very much we could meet but that was not to be. I was in Sri Lanka in 2012 and we were able to enjoy a meal together at the plush Indian restaurant at the Cinnamon Grand in Colombo. In the relaxed ambience of its dining hall we retraced our time together, reminisced and remembered mutual friends. We did make up much for those lost years.

Lakshman is a quiet man, yet gregarious, always charming. He is well known for his intense loyalty to his friends. His anecdotes, wonderful sense of humour and that ‘wicked’ grin are an integral part his charm.  I remember from long ago his courtesy and kind ways which he has carried through all his life. I am greatly privileged to have met him in my life’s journey. Lakshman and Mangala have a son and daughter and enjoy the love and affection of three grandchildren. 

I wish them a long and happy retirement.

(2) From Pramilla Senanayake

Lucky was a dear friend and colleague. He really enjoyed keeping in touch with his "batch mates" Hence the birth of the blog. Lucky contributed frequently to the blog. Whenever overseas colleagues visited SL, Lucky & Mangala played hosts to them and produced some super lunches and dinners. Lucky & Mangala were a very devoted couple. She kept no stone unturned to ensure that Lucky got the best medical treatment and the best care at home.  

I was frequently in touch with Mangala and got regular updates on Lucky's health & progress. I was delighted when Mangala joined us at the last "Forever 62 " get-together which was a high T at the Ahasa restaurant on the 27th floor of the new Ratnadipa Hotel. 

Lucky loved Cricket, and so did I.  We had many cricket-related discussions when time permitted 

He was very close to his two children. Always looking forward to the visits of their daughter from the USA. His grandkids meant a lot to him, and he looked forward eagerly to their visits. 

I am so pleased that Speedy will continue keeping the blog alive. 

May Lucky's soul rest in peace.

(3) Mahendra "Speedy" Gonsalkorale (He always called me Speedy!)

Lucky was a true friend and a most sincere person. He felt very strongly about his duty to serve his Motherland, and I salute him for this. But he was magnanimous enough to recognise that returning to live and serve in Sri Lanka, as honourable as it is, is not the only way to do this. 

I always made it a point to visit Lucky and Mangala when I visit Sri Lanka and the genuine welcome and expression of their pleasure to see me was very special. 


This photo was taken early this year when Srianee, too, was visiting. The ever-generous and wonderful Pram was kind enough to pick me up from Nawala, take me there and drop me back.

My heartfelt condolences go to Mangala and their children. 

I am proud of the fact that I was able to assist in adding many innovations to the blog from the early days, which he readily accepted. When he handed the reins to me, I was honoured. I am even more determined to maintain the blog, Lucky's Brainchild. May he, as a devout Buddhist, attain his ultimate goal of Nibbana


Saturday, October 5, 2024

Remembering dear batchmate Zita Perera Subasinghe- Two years

Remembering dear batchmate Zita Perera Subasinghe- Two years 

Tempus fugit. It is two years since we lost our dear friend and colleague, Zita. This beautiful post was sent by her son Rohan.



Sunday, August 11, 2024

Sad news that Primrose (Nee Jayasinghe) has passed away

Sad news that Primrose Wijayawardhana(Nee Jayasinghe) has passed away.

Chirasri Jayaweera Bandara informed me that she heard from Primose’s daughter, Mihirinie, that Primrose had passed away during a brief hospital admission at the Lincoln Hospital in UK.

I will post more details as I receive them. The photo is from the Batch Sig collection in the 40th Anniversary Reunion Souvenir, 2007

I remember her as a very beautiful, charming person and a talented and accomplished singer. Sadly, our paths did not cross since then.

She is the 58th in our batch to pass away.

Please join me in passing on our sincere condolences to the family.


The photo sent by her daughter Mihirinie was taken in December 2023 at the SLBC music archives. Primrose holds the original "Mula Muhuda" recording, her Nava Nishpadanaya.

Many of you commented on Primrose's singing ability. ND referred to the SLBC programme "Lama Pitiya", which was succeeded by "Lama Uyana". Other famous singers who appeared were Malika Kahavita and Sidney Artigala. 







Primrose started her YouTube Channel in April 2024. This is the link:-

https://www.youtube.com/@PrimroseJayMusic


YouTube cover photo on the (L).









Update August 13th 2024

The Island article is shown below. Thanks to Chira.

A photo of young Primrose at a concert, held at the Commonwealth Institute in the mid-90s, sent by Harsha Boralessa


Friday, July 5, 2024

Gwendoline Herath (nee Perera) passes away peacefully

Gwendoline Herath (nee Perera) passes away peacefully.


I received news from Suri that another batchmate passed away in late June this year. She was Miss Gwendoline Perera before she married Lakshman Herath. She was a Peradeniya transfer and a very quiet person. She is the 57th loss in our Batch.

Please join me in passing our condolences to her family. May she Rest in Peace.

This is the Obituary Notice that appeared in the Daily News, Sri Lanka.  The photo is from the Sig book.

HERATH – DR (MRS) GWENDOLINE HENRIETTA (NELUM) (Retired Medical Officer,​ Sri Lanka Insurance Corporation),​ beloved wife of Mr Lakshman Herath (Retired Aviation Engineer),​ loving mother of Lilanthi,​ Rukmal and Ramila,​ sister of Victorine Joseph and late Prasanna Perera,​ passed away peacefully,​ surrounded by family. Remains lie at A.F. Raymonds,​ Borella from 28th June. Service to celebrate her life will be held at the Parlour at 3 p.m. on 30th June,​ followed by Burial at General Cemetery,​ Borella – Catholic Section at 4 p.m.    042744

Wednesday, May 29, 2024

BERTRAM NANAYAKKARA - Appreciation by Sanath Lamabadusuriya

DR BERTRAM NANAYAKKARA - January 3, 1939 - May 24, 2024

I first met Bertram (Berty) in 1961 when we entered the Science Faculty of the University of Colombo at Thurstan Road in 1961, to follow a six months course in Zoology. Those who failed in one out of the four subjects at the University Entrance Examination in December 1960, had to follow a six months course in the failed subject. Zoology was the biggest casualty. We had a gala time because we had lectures and practical classes only on two days of the week. During weekends, some of us, including Indra Anandasabhapathy and Senarath Jayatilleke, used to play softball cricket at the Frazer Avenue grounds in Dehiwala. Bertram lived down Pirivena Road in Mt. Lavinia, and I lived down 42nd Lane, Wellawatte. He owned a BSA Bantam motorbike, which he had inherited from his elder brother Michael, who specialised in anaesthesia.

After the six months course, most of us worked in the EPF Department of the Central Bank in the Fort. We were paid five rupees per day, Monday to Friday. On Friday evenings, each of us received five crisp, newly printed five-rupee notes, which went a long way at that time

In October 1962 we entered the Colombo Medical Faculty to start a career in Medicine. Few of us (Bertram, Senarath Jayatilleke, C. Maheswaran, J. G. Wijetunge and myself) used to do joint studies, either in Senarath's (Aponso Avenue), Bertram's (Pirivena Road) JG's (Arethusa Lane) house or in my house.

During the Law-Medical cricket match in 1963, during the revelry, Bertram rode onto the Reid Avenue grounds on his motorbike during a cricket match between Royal College and Trinity College. The next day, a photograph appeared on the front page of a Sunday paper displaying Bertram on his Bantam. On that Sunday morning, when he came to my house to go for the match, I showed him the newspaper displaying his photograph; he panicked and wanted to park his Bantam in my garage and go for the match with me on my Vespa scooter! Later, most of us were suspended for two weeks for the misdemeanour. All the boys were suspended except for Jimmy Wickramasinghe and Ravi Nadarajah, who did not participate in the revelry.

After the results of the Final MBBS examination were released, Bertram, Harri Boralessa and myself went on a pilgrimage to the Kataragama Kovil by bus.

After graduation, Bertram left for the UK in the late 1960s and worked as a SHO in Paediatrics in the Children's Annex at the Luton and Dunstable Hospital in Luton. In late 1971, I went to the UK on a Colombo Plan scholarship for Postgraduate studies. Quite often I used to travel from north London, to visit him and spend the weekends. Although Bertram had lived in England for a few years, he had not gone to the continent as he was not the adventurous type. In the summer of 1972, I coaxed him to embark on a trip to the continent; both of us went to Europe on holiday. We travelled in Bertram's Volkswagen Beetle car, driving and camping. We travelled in a hovercraft from Dover to Calais and then to Paris. Mr. Tissa Wijeyeratne, our ambassador in France, hosted a party for us at his residence. At that party we met the father of Pramilla Senanayake (nee Kannangara) as well. Later, both of us camped in Bois Boulogne, Paris, on our first night. When we woke up the next morning, we found it difficult to stand up because the tent had collapsed on us, during the night!  The second night was in Lyon and the third night in Interlaken in Switzerland. From this campsite, we had a beautiful of the snow-capped Matterhorn mountain. The next campsite was in Vienna. In Germany, I took over the driving for the first time and managed to reach 100 kmph. I teased Bertram because he could not exceed 80 kmph, when he was at the wheel.  We visited the Olympic Village in Munich a few weeks before the Olympics were staged. A few weeks later, we saw the massacre of the Israeli athletes in the Olympic Village on TV.

We crossed the Dutch border at Arnhem towards twilight. After attending the immigration formalities, when both of us returned to the car, we discovered that the hood-rack was missing, together with the camping equipment, including two sleeping bags! Then I realized that I was able to reach 100 kmph, because of the lack of wind resistance.    As we didn't have much cash or credit cards, we were unable to book into a hotel and decided to spend the nights inside the car. We parked the car near the Amsterdam railway station so that we could visit the restrooms for our ablutions. Later, we drove south to Brussels, and after viewing the Mannequin-Pee statue in the Golden Square of the City, we drove back to Calais and returned to London after a couple of very enjoyable weeks. At that time petrol was quite inexpensive, costing about 28 pence for a gallon (it was prior to the formation of OPEC).

In the summer of 1973, both of us decided to embark on a camping trip to Scandinavia. We drove to Harwich and travelled by boat to Hamburg. From Hamburg, we travelled to Copenhagen and saw the famous Mermaid statue in the harbour. From there we crossed over to Sweden via Malmo and drove to Stockholm via Jongkopin. Stockholm had numerous islands and bridges. From Stockholm, we went by boat to an Island called Aland on a day’s trip, the western half of which was governed by Sweden and the eastern half by Finland. The very first case of Von Willebrand disease had been reported from Aland.  Later we drove to Oslo in Norway. Although we planned to travel further west to Bergen, we had to curtail the trip because Bertram's family had arranged for Bertram to see a girl in Colombo. About a week later, he returned to England together with Sunil de Alwis, after the wedding. Sunil’s brother, Palitha, was one year junior to me in school. Her elder sister, Themiya, who was a Rheumatologist, was married to Dr. Nimal Vidyasagara.

When I went to England again on sabbatical leave in 1979, Bertram and Sunil were living in Birmingham. When I met them, they informed me that they were planning to migrate to the US. In the US, after completing the residencies, Bertram specialised in Paediatrics and was based in Rockford, Illinois. They had a daughter and a son who specialised in Medicine; unfortunately, their son died under tragic circumstances.

I last met Bertram and Sunil when they came for a reunion of our batch in Negombo.

May his journey in Sansara be short and productive.

Professor Sanath P Lamabadusuriya MBE

Tuesday, May 28, 2024

Obituary for Bertram Nanayakkara. From MCCAULEY-SULLIVAN

Obituary for Bertram Nanayakkara

January 3, 1939 - May 24, 2024

From MCCAULEY-SULLIVAN FUNERAL HOME & CREMATORIUM. IL640440

Dr. Bertram Nanayakkara, beloved pediatrician and devoted family man, passed away peacefully at the age of 85. Born in Sri Lanka on January 3, 1939, Bertram dedicated his life to the well-being of children and the support of families in the community, practising medicine until nearly his 80th year.

After moving to England, Bertram married his loving wife, Sunil, and together they built a beautiful life, welcoming two children, Sonali and Himesh. His passion for pediatrics was evident in his unwavering commitment to his young patients and their families, always going above and beyond to ensure their health and happiness. His kind and gentle nature left a lasting impact on all who knew him.

Following the lead of his wife's sister and her husband, Mali and Asokan, Bertram and his family moved to the United States, where he continued his medical practice and extended his dedication to helping children and families in his new community. Of note, the Asokans, who had welcomed him back in 1982, were also of immense support during the challenges of the final months.

Bertram is survived by his wife of over 50 years, Sunil, who lived and worked by his side. In retirement years, he experienced the true meaning of “in sickness and in health” as she cared for him until his last breath. He is also survived by his daughter, Sonali, who has dedicated her life to the art of healing, following in her father's compassionate footsteps. He was preceded in death by their cherished son, Himesh, who passed 24 years ago.

As one of nine siblings, Bertram is survived by his youngest sibling, Gamini, and is fondly remembered by many nieces, nephews, and other relatives spread across 4 continents. His family and friends will always remember him for his warmth, wisdom, and the profound love he showed for his family.

A celebration of Bertram's life and legacy will be held privately. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made to a charity that is closest to your heart.

Dr. Bertram Nanayakkara will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him, but his legacy of compassion and dedication to helping others will live on in the countless lives he touched.

Private services will be held at McCauley-Sullivan Funeral Home.

Wednesday, April 24, 2024

R WICKREMASEKARAN PASSES AWAY

Raj WICKREMASEKARAN MBBS, FACC. PASSES AWAY

Update Saturday 27th April- Photo sent by Srianee

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With great sadness, I report that our colleague R. Wickremaskeran has passed away.

He is the 55th to pass on.

He had many serious medical problems and was on continuous Oxygen, but his spirit and courage never wavered. I last “saw” him on a batch Zoom organised by Rajan “Patas” Ratnesar in 2020, during COVID shut down time.

He was recognised as a very clever person at Royal and at the Medical faculty. He entered the Faculty from Royal College. There were 9 from the Royal 1954 group in our Batch—S P Lamabadusuriya, D B M Collure, P Sivananda, K L M T de Silva, S R de Silva, V P H Rajapakse, Chanaka Wijesekera, R Wickramasekeran, Channa Ratnatunga (Peradeniya), but the total from all years was a noteworthy 38.

I shall post more details as I get them. Please join me in sending our condolences to his family. 

Speedy 24. 04.2024

I was delighted to receive an email from Srianee Dias with two photos.

The first shows him with his parents, brother, and sister-in-law, and the other with his grandson. The pretty sister-in-law is Sarojini (Saro, as we called her), Rajan Ratnesar's sister.



"Mahen, thank you for sharing the sad news of Wicks' death on the blog. He and I were part of the group of batch mates that ended up in NYC. If I remember correctly, he started his internal medicine residency at Brooklyn Hospital, where I later joined the pathology training program. He married a friend from Ladies' College, a few years junior to me, and shortly thereafter moved to Washington, DC, later ending up in southern California. We kept in touch sporadically. Lekha, his wife is a close friend of two of my friends who live in CT, and because of them I kept getting news of Wicks' failing health.

 I did call him a few times over the years and I was always impressed by his cheerful spirit. It was never a case of "Woe is me..." He was more concerned about other people. When my older daughter's home was washed away by Hurricane Ian in September 2022, Wicks called me to find out how they were doing! I felt uplifted after talking to him. He coped with his limitations and never complained. He was very fortunate to have Lekha by his side. The COVID lockdown was hard on both of them, because they were homebound on account of his immunocompromised state. As one of his friends said "He was a kind, loving man."
May he find Eternal Peace".- Srianee "Bunter" Dias

Thursday, February 15, 2024

Sriani Basnayake Dissanayake passes away

Sriani Basnayake Dissanayake passes away. Feb 15, 2024

Pram and Nihal have just conveyed to me the sad news that Sriani Basnayake (nee Dissanayake) had passed away today.

16 Feb Message from Pram. Her remains lie at the A.F. Raymond Parlour on the 19th of February 2024 from 9.00 am, and the cremation will take place at 3.00 pm at the Anglican section, Borella Cemetry. A service at 2.30 at the parlour.

Sriani's husband Ralph Wickremaratne passed away last year. Sriani has not been too well for a few years. She was one of the few who migrated from the Peradeniya batch to Colombo.

This photo was taken at the 2012 Reunion Scientific Meeting. On that day, she kept us educated, informed and entertained with her presentation titled,  "What Prevents the Urge to Merge?" - The Problem of Non-Consummation. 

Her sense of humour was well recognised and she often contributed a lot of funny snippets to the Blog in its early days.

She is also well known for her work with the FPA (Family Planning Association) for over 30 years. She was a devout Christian. She is the 54th loss from our Batch

Sriani posted really funny articles on the Blog. I am sure she would have approved of me posting one of her jokes to illustrate her good nature and ability to see the funny side of things. Let us remember her for her professional contributions as well as her great sense of humour.

This is her story about the Baptist Bra.

A man walked into the women's department of Macy's in New York City. He told the saleslady, "I would like a Baptist bra for my wife, size 36B.".


With a quizzical look, the saleslady asked, "What kind of bra?"


He repeated, "A Baptist bra. She said to tell you that she wanted a Baptist bra and that you would know what she wanted."


"Ah, now I remember." said the saleslady, "We don't get as many requests for them as we used to. Most of our customers lately want the Catholic bra or the Salvation Army bra, or the Presbyterian type."


Confused and a little flustered, the man asked, "So what are the differences?"


The lady responded, "Well, it's really quite simple. The Catholic type supports the masses, the Salvation Army lifts up the fallen, and the Presbyterian type keeps them staunch and upright."


He mused at that for a moment and then asked, "So, what is the Baptist type for?"

"They," she replied, "make mountains out of molehills."


Sriani, we shall all miss you. - Mahendra Gonsalkorale.


Sriyani Basnayake -an appreciation Added on 17-02-2024

Dr Kumar Gunewardane

 “Like a bird singing in the rain,

Grateful memories will survive in times of sorrow" 

Tusitala: R.L.STEVENSON

The news of Sriayani’s passing away, though not totally unexpected, caused my wife Kanthi and me much grief.  She was a good friend to both of us, and we cherish many affectionate memories of her.

A welcome Peradeniya migrant to our ‘62 medical student group, she, in ND’s apt words, turned many heads. She had, in abundance, the fabled panache of Ladies College alumni. Pram’s photographic portrait does justice to her allure. Although somewhat reserved, she never displayed her elite background. Her father was the Inspector General of Police when that position was one of distinction and uprightness. 

I hardly knew her in Medical School, but this was a common failing of most of us who kept to our isolated groups. The reunions and the blog helped break these barricades.

Sriani B is, fifth from Right seated
The year of internship at the Mahamodera Hospital in Galle further eroded these barriers. It was indeed an “annee glorieuse”. While observing with amusement the riotous activities of the hoi polloi Sriani always maintained a dignity inherent to her. This was indeed an attribute of all our female colleagues. 

Our next encounter was in Townsville, North Queensland. Her sister Nirmala, another distinguished product of Ladies College, was married to Justin Labrooy, our local university's Foundation professor of medicine. We spent many joyous hours in their company. Both sisters had the endearing and rare quality of simplicity. N was a champion national athlete and also the holder of a doctorate from the University of Oxford. Sriyani was the chief of the family planning service in Colombo. Both were remarkably reticent of their achievements. 

Our standout memory of that time is S’s Reiki therapy for Kanthi’s migraine headaches. Reiki is an ancient Japanese technique of relaxing massages, and Kanthi derived significant benefits from her ministrations in the solitude of a quiet room. 

She was also a gracious host to us in her ancestral home in Borella. There, she introduced us to her nephew, to whom she was a foster mother. His father, the gifted surgeon Lakdasa (S’s brother) had passed away while attempting to rescue two drowning children. 

Sriyani’s brilliant lecture “What prevents the urge to merge” at one of our reunions has already been alluded to by others. Her wit and humour were amplified by many well-chosen slides, which made me inquire which medical journals she had resourced; she deftly sidestepped that one. Of course, they were from her leisure reading. On that occasion, she was accompanied by her husband Ralph Wickremaratne, a perfect gentle knight and sportsman. They were a flawless match.

We have lost a good friend and a gifted colleague. May God be with you. 

“Every blade in the field,

Every leaf in the forest,
Lays down its life in its season,
As beautifully as it was taken up.”

Henry David Thoreau 

“We will grieve not, rather find strength in what remains.

William Wordsworth


An appreciation by Nihal D Amarasekera (Photo sent by Pram)- 16/02/2024

I recall the time Sriani joined us from Peradeniya in our third year. She made heads turn by her immaculate dress sense and elegance. Sriani carried herself with such poise and dignity which gave an insight into her gilded life at home. Although rather reserved and steely at times, she was friendly and jolly. Sriani had a fund of funny stories and was delightful company.

She was a regular in the early days of the batch blog, and I remember with clarity some funny stories and interesting comments she posted. When I wrote about a maid who cared for me as a child, she wrote about her experiences too.

Sadly I never met her after the great dispersal of 1967. I never joined in any of the reunions in Sri Lanka. But I always received news about Sriani from her friend from Ladies College, Suvendrini Weerasekera. It was deeply upsetting to hear of her difficulties with her final illness, which she bore with great courage.

Sriani was a caring professional and served the people with great empathy and understanding.
May her Soul Rest in Peace.

Sunday, February 11, 2024

Asoka Wijeyekoon's Funeral Ceremony

Asoka Wijeyekoon's Funeral Ceremony 11th Feb 2024

At Jayaratne Funeral Hall on the opposite side of the  road from Borella Kanatta entrance

Pictures extracted from Live broadcast on YouTube.

REPORT: From Srianee Dias. (Thanks very much for sending this report- Speedy)

“Just returned from AÅ›oka’s funeral ceremony.  Pram, Lama and I were the only ones there.  I got a chance to talk to Sanjaya and Bhatiya, who seemed to be very nice guys.  They have been checking the blog and were very appreciative of the comments, Nihal’s eulogy and your (Mahendra’s)  ‘Ode to Lubber.’  Sanjay read the Ode!  He suggested that friends and relatives should visit the blog!!!  We may have people from Australia and UK checking in!”