Tuesday, March 31, 2020

What’s in a name?


By Mahendra “Speedy” Gonsalkorale

Personal identity is a fascinating subject. I don’t know enough of Human history to identify when Homo sapiens assigned “names” to people so that communication became easier. I guess the need would have been somewhat similar to classifying any collection of “things” that you have,to make it easy to pick out what you want. Before language was discovered, the only way to indicate and item would have been to point to it. Once unique symbols (names) were given you could indicate what you want by referring it to by name even in the absence of the object desired. This presumably started with assigning names or symbols to objects of importance around us and then naturally progressing to all sentient beings. With evolution and aggregations of man into tribes and communities, the system of naming too had to evolve. There could been a time when a person was identified only by his/her relationship to other family members. For example a man named Aponso may have had a son and the son may not have had a unique name but merely referred to as “Aponso’s son”. When Aponso had more sons, it could be “the elder son of Aponso” and the “younger son of Aponso” or even abbreviated to “Aponso son the elder” and “Aponso son the younger”. At some time, those identified in that manner may have insisted on a unique name with the development of a sense of “self” or equally, it may have been more practical for the group as a whole to assign unique names to members.  But the relationship of one person to another appears to have continued in the naming process. The link could have been to the family or possibly to other respected figures in the community. For example if Hannibal was held in high esteem, I could imagine a father naming his son Hannibal. This still applies with names of revered religious figures such as Mary and even Jesus or Buddha being given to people.

The name of a person is usually of great importance to the person. Dale Carnegie said “Remember that a person’s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language”. He said “Using a person’s name is crucial, especially when meeting those we don’t see very often. Respect and acceptance stem from simple acts such as remembering a person’s name and using it whenever appropriate.” This is an indication of a basic human need to be recognised as distinct and unique.This process develops in several stages. A person is born and given a name. But the need for that name to indicate the relationship of the person to other key people in his life isalso very important. So you become “son (putha (S), mahan(T))” or daughter (duwa, mahal)” or “my wife” or “my husband” or “my boss”. Or as “my son, Lakshman” for example.You as an individual is submerged. Your importance is because of your relationship. In Sri Lankan circles, wives are often annoyed by a common practice of a husband introducing his wife as “this is my wife” rather than “this is my wife Rani”. It is by no means exclusive to Sri Lankans.  This practice is further strengthened by the adoption of the husband’s surname by the wife. She becomes at best “Mrs Rita Mithra” or at worst “Mrs Mithra”. As we know there is a growing rebellion among married women, especially in the West and manychoose not to adopt the husband’s surname at all while others resort to the “double-barrel” method of including both. The more liberated will become Ms Rita Mithra-Tsunami while others will be happy with Mrs Rita Mithra-Tsunami. The extreme on the spectrum will be Ms Rita Tsunami.

I was delving into the history of surnames in the UK and unearthed some interesting facts which I like to share with you. I have included some very limited facts relating to  Sri Lanka but I intend to do a more detailed study soon. As expected, there are many common themes reflecting our colonial past. I would welcome comments from readers who are able to share their knowledge.
Surnames came into existence gradually in the UK from between 1066 and about 1400. Before 1066, a person usually had one name, a Christian name. After 1400, people almost always had a family name or surname as well.  This happened first in England and later in Wales and Scotland. Most of the names now in use can be traced back to this period. The growth in surnames was the result of the growth in population and the expansion of government. A simple system of a Christian name only was inadequate. Small communities probably had a sufficient store of names to provide individual names without giving rise to duplication and confusion. The population of England doubled from 2 M in 1066 to 4 M in 1400. People travelled more and the number of towns rapidly increased. Following the Norman Conquest of England by the Duke of Normandy in 1066, a system of government administration expanded and the need for registering people became necessary. The practice of naming a son using the father’s name did not necessarily mean that the name was passed on to their children in turn. For example, King Harold, the son of Godwin was called Harold Godwinsson. But the family name Godwinsson was not passed on to his children. Harold Godwinsson was unique and his name indicated that his father was Godwin. If names were passed down, one of Harold’s sonsUlf(or Wulf) would have been Ulf Haroldsson, not UlfGodwinsson. But Ulf was just known as Ulf son of Harold.

The evolution of surnames in general
We can see that there was a need to identify people as unique subjects.  The use of a Surname attached to the Christian name was one way.This methodalso created a link between two generations. Other methods were also used and they can be classified broadly as based on:-
(a) Patronymic (b) Occupational names (c) Locality names (d) Nicknames.

(a)    Patronymics. Names which refer to the father. Most are easy to pick out. Harrison – son of Harry, Johnson – son of John.  One patronymic derivation not always recognised is the use of the apostrophe‘s. Johns for example would have started as“John’s” (son of John). Others include Edwards, Williams, Roberts and Evans. A further complication is the shortening of names. E.g., Robert could be Rob, Robin, Hob or Hopkin and the son of Robert could be Robertson, Robson, Robinson, Robbins, Hobson orHopkinson. Similarly, Richard has nicknames such as Dick, Hick and gives rise to surnames such as Richardson, Dickson, Dixon, Hickson, Higson, Higginson. Sometimes the son is given the father’s occupational name. e.g., the father is a Tailor and the son becomes Taylorson. Similarly, Smithson- son of a Smith. In Scotland, the word Mac is used instead of son. So MacPherson is the son of the parson, MacNab is the son of the Abbot. It is even more complicated in Welsh.  The word ap- preceding the name is the same as the English –son after the name but the ap gets corrupted and the“a”may get dropped and “p” may survive as a p, ab or as an f. Lloyd could become aLloyd, or Flood or Blood or Floyd. Probert is from Robert.

(b)   Occupational. Most of them are easy to understand but some apparently unrelated to occupations are related but either the occupation has died out or called something else now. An example is Theakerwhich is the same as Thatcher (thatched roofer).  Chandler was a candle maker. Barker is a Tanner (bark is used for tanning).Other examples are Clark, Miller, Baker, Carpenter, Contractor, Barber. Some Royal names have humble origins too. Stuart is from Steward and Marshal is from a marshal in stately processions but the word meant a lowly horse-groom.

(c)    Locality. These are of two types. The first refers to actual names of places and the second refers to features of the countryside close to the settlement. Examples of first type are Lincoln,Preston,Doncaster, and Churchill. Examples of the second type are Hill, Meadow,Brook, Wood,and Bridge. The feature is not necessarily natural, as in Bridge, Castle, and Mill.

(d)   Nicknames. Nicknames are the hardest to classify and not uncommonly, the conclusion that it is a nickname is reached on the basis that the name does not fit into any of the first 3 classes. Some are easy to understand. E.g., according to physical characteristics such as “Redhead”, “Prettybody”, “Whalebelly” (Big tummy like a whale!) and Little.Gray for gray hair, Donne or Dunn for a dark person. Names indicating a habit such as Drinkwater for an abstainer. Shakespeare apparently indicated exactly what it says. Doolittle for a lazy person, Lovelace came from “Love-lass”, a young man noted for his amorous activities.

The need to be unique is also reflected in how families choose how the surname is spelt.e.g., (Smith, Smythe), (Newcomb, Newcombe).

Just a few International examples.
In China, an Emperor decreed the adoption of the hereditary family names in 2852 BC.
In Turkey, a law making surnames mandatory was made in 1935.
Jews were late in adopting surnames and often were compelled to do so as they were debarred from adopting names used by Christians. Sometimes they chose names which sounded good like Rosenthal which means rose valley.
Swedish names often reflect their love of nature, incorporating words such as “berg” (mountain) and “blom” (flower).

In Sri Lanka, the word “ge”(belonging to or derived from) is used to indicate the family such as GonsalkoralegeMahendra. This practice has largely changed to reverse it to MahendraGonsalkorale (and the “ge” is dropped) or a new surname has arisen and the old surname retained as an additional first name such as GonsalkoralegeMahendra De Chickera. The place name could also be used such asBalangodaRanjitWeeratunge. Occupational and title names are used such as Kottuwe Muhandiramge Sarath Jayanetti. Some carry a whole lineage in their name such as the celebrated Sri Lankan cricketer W P U J C Vaas who has the rare distinction of having more initials than letters in his surname! His full name is Warnakulasuriya Patabendige Ushantha Joseph Chaminda Vaas. Sri Lankans are also finicky about correct spelling of certain names as the spelling is caste related, e.g., Goonewardena and Gunawardena, Goonetileka and Gunatileka. Sri Lankans have also adopted many Portuguese, Dutch and English names and this is generally more prevalent among Christians. The other interesting feature of names in Sri Lanka is the adoption of Sinhala names by some Tamils who for several generations lived in the South and Sinhalese who have done the same after living in Tamil areas. One other feature of note during colonial times was the adoption of more English sounding names to enhance prospects for employment in Government institutions. Some went to the extent of embracing Christianity for the same reason.

Another common Sri Lankan cultural habit is to invent totally new names with no meaning at all, apart from “sounding nice”. The need for this sometimes arises from the requirement for choosing the first letter of the name as deemed auspicious by the horoscope of the person. Another reason is a fad to give name which has never been used before and stand out as unique!

The Tamil format has also changed but the practise of stating the father’s name followed by the unique name is common. We have SuranjanVinyamoorthy and SuranjanKrishnamoorthy who are both sons of Suranjan. This makes working out relationships a bit harder.
Nick names of course are commonly used in every country. In our own batch we have Speedy, Lucky, Gompa, Cigar, and Bunter just to name a few!

I do hope I have stimulated your appetite to ask more questions about names. The science that studies names in all their aspects is called Onomastics or Onamatology. I don’t know whether the science that studies names of people has a name but this is the closest I could find: a set of personal names is called Anthroponymy and their study is called Antroponomastics.





Thursday, March 19, 2020

A very special occasion….. Susheila Thiagarajah (nee Kanagasabai) celebrates a key Milestone




A report by Dhushyanthi Vedavanam with an introduction by Speedy

Introduction:
I am sure all of you will remember the quiet and charming Susheila who is now based in the UK. Her Speciality was Psychiatry till her retirement in 2005. I think most of us can remember her husband R.S.Thiagarajah, who was a Paediatrician and was also a highly respected Medical Director in the Wakefield and Pontefract NHS Trust. He was a past registrar to Prof Priyani Soysa. He sadly passed away in 2007. Her sons Prashan, Ajantha and daughter-in-law Shobana organised a very special Birthday celebration at the London Heathrow Sheraton Hotel on the 29th of February this year attended by 150 guests including old school and University mates and of course family members and close friends. The Chief guests were Dr Pearl Hettiaratchy and her husband Dr Sidney Hettiaratchy, both eminent Psychiatrists, she specialised in Old Age Psychiatry and he in Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, both now retired.

Unfortunately, I was unable to attend, but many batch mates and their spouses joined her and this account comes from Dhushyanthi Vedavanam, the wife of our late beloved mate Sivakumar Vedavanam. Dhushyanthi keeps in touch with “Veda’s batch mates and is a regular attender of our London mini-reunions. Those from our batch (with spouses where applicable) and other Medics known to us were:- Vanitha (Shanmugavadivel) and Palani, Mahes Nadarajah,  Edwis and Tony, Shanthini and husband Edwards, Drs Pearl and Sidney Hettiaratchy and Dhushyanthi Vedavanam.






Event report: by Dhushyanthi
I had the privilege of attending Susheila’sspecial milestone celebration. It was a very enjoyable event meticulously organised by her children and held at the prestigious London Heathrow Sheraton Hotel on the 29th of February this year.

Susheila looked radiantly beautiful 80 gone 50! A real beauty Queen! She was dressed so elegantly in a beautiful, eye-catching saree. The saree was a designer pure Kanchipuram silk.  The body was black with a Paithani hand woven gold and multi-coloured floral design.The border was with three colours namely: orange, light purple and mustard. The pallu was orange and delicate gold thread work. The blouse to match was handwoven printed soft brocade in orange.

The food was sumptuous. There were plenty of starters and a great variety of tasty dishes for the main course with champagne flowing. It was an interesting spread of food to suit everyone’s palate!



The ambience was great and the main course and desserts which were delicious were also well presented. There was a good mix of friends and relatives, and it was lovely to meet friends I had not seen for a while.

A surprise sprung on Susheila was a performance by a belly dancer during which she was invited to join. And did she dance! Being an accomplished and graceful dancer she was absolutely superb on the dance floor- everyone enjoyed her dance debut. The finale was when she danced with her four-year-old grandson Ashwin. This was so touching and beautiful.

Susheila’s son Ajantha was the compère. He was absolutely superb, a very professional presenter I must say. Music was provided by BeetSounDs.


The vote of thanks was given by Dr Pearl Hettiaratchy who has known Susheila for several decades. I would endorse all that she said about Susheila. She said, ‘Susheila is a beautiful personality, kind-hearted, caring, helpful, fun-loving and intelligent”. I too have known Susheila for many years and I must say she is a truly effervescent personality who radiates joy to others. All the guests had a most enjoyable time.Susheila won our hearts as she made a special effort to go round and chat with everyone. Her cousin Kala who came all the way from the US was the photographer who managed to capture so many lovely photos, a few of which are included in this brief report. Her children have done justice to a loving and caring mother by honouring her on this special occasion.

Susheila, May you be blessed with lasting happiness, good health and long life. My very best wishes go to you and thank you for inviting me to a very memorable celebration.

Warmest Regards

Dhushyanthi



Tuesday, March 17, 2020

Man versus Corona Virus


By Zita Perera Subasinghe (Illustrated by Mahendra Speedy Gonsalkorale)


Where do you come from you nasty beast?
Mind your language or kill you, I can!
What’s your plan, say that at least?
It’s to rid the world of woman and man!

So, what really is your agenda?
To fight to the end if I can
No, I am not a pretender
Indeed, I have a master plan!

I don’t get it! What’s the idea?
Can’t you see it, you, silly fool?
The world’s going to be barren and bare!
World without humans won’t be cool!

Humans! Those dreadful creatures?
They made the world almost heaven!
They destroyed it too, history teaches!
But there’s also ‘Wonders Seven!”

Do not look for excuses lame!
I sure can kill you before long
Don’t you worry, a person of fame
Is about to find a vaccine strong!

Heehee! Hoo hoo! You silly fool!
I’ve won the battle can’t you see?
Say anything, but I am cool
Very soon, Man will be history
 

Monday, March 16, 2020

BORA AND HIS ANECDOTES.

Sent in by Kumar Gunawardene 

             Those friends thou hast ,
             And their adoption tried,
             Grapple them to thy soul
             With hoops of steel
                                                William Shakespeare

 
One of the many joys of a sojourn in Sri Lanka is catching up with friends of yore ,reminiscing or even chatting idly, usually over a long drink; Bora’s choice a good red, mine a single malt. Both well matured  like our friendship.
Talking of wine brings to mind a tale of our early days in London. A relative of mine gave us a gourmet dinner and being the sophisticated man he was, served a fine French red.
Our tastes in this field were very basic then and Bora whispered “machang your cousin has given us a Kahata wine”  O Tempora O mores

Our relationship goes back to the days of the Lower Fourth ( sixth standard) in the school by that capricious turquoise sea. His mien then as now was that of a cherub albeit with a mischievous streak. Slowly but steadily our friendship matured through school, medical faculty, journey to Britain with our wives, diverging professional pathways to a lifelong intimacy.Through all these we have kept in touch and rejoiced whenever or wherever we meet.

Fables of our entwined lives abound but like those of Scheherazade, must await another day or maybe a night.
At STC we belonged to a clique of five, all of whom achieved eminence in later life; their misdemeanours at that time could not have presaged their subsequent renown.
An encounter Bora delights in relating is that of his Royal-Thomian ticket. He cherished it  and would gaze lovingly and stroke it anticipating the pleasures he would enjoy at the Wanathamulle Oval. One day it went missing, but being an astute sleuth, he located it in his desk mate’s wallet. After duly retrieving it, Bora gave him a resounding slap. What follows is excruciatingly funny.The mate took off  his glasses, folded them neatly, placed them on his school bag all in slow motion. He then countered the whack with more than good measure; this stung much more than the loss of the ticket. In a few days, however all was forgiven and forgotten and to this day they are the best of friends.
Bora has all the attributes of a good friend. Loyalty, sincerity, trustworthiness, good humour, amiability amongst many others. However I enjoy most his storytelling. He is a raconteur par excellence. Whenever a half smile forms on his lips I know to anticipate a hilarious tale; always related in a bland matter of fact manner, like another of our good friends, the late Sunna.
We met many times this year and shared many a yarn. First at Lareef’s daughter Sabrina’s wedding; on the beach at the resort, Cyril, Bora and I lounged on armchairs and fanned by the ocean breezes swapped mainly cricket stories. Next was at the sumptuous batch reunion organised by Pram. But best of all was at the ODI at SSC. The cricket was entertaining, but the heat was overwhelming and sleep was tempting. However Bora kept me awake with many an anecdote whenever I was on the verge of nodding.
Here in his own words are his wit and humour proving that he is as good an exponent of the written as well as the spoken word.
“ I met Dr. David Weatherall the famous academic in Colombo at an a SLMA reception.
During the course of the conversation I mentioned that I found “The Oxford Text Book of Medicine “ very useful. He then proceeded to explain to me how he got involved in editing this book.
Price’s Book on Medicine, which was  our bible on Medicine when we were students was edited by the Physcian to the Queen. Parts of it were reviewed by an American Physician who was a good friend of David. After reading a few chapters, the American returned the book to David with the words ”God Save the Queen “ written on the last page.”

“Before the HIV epidemic anaesthetists and surgeons were quite liberal in transfusing patients post operatively. Post HIV but ,before a screening test was available, clinicians became very conscious of of the risk of HIV via blood transfusion. Goodenough an American Physician published a number of articles recommending guidelines for the conservative use of blood post operatively.
I made a presentation at a meeting on this topic and quoting  his guide lines ,
concluded my talk by saying what is good enough for Goodenough is good enough for me “

The best is saved for the last.
“I was invited to make a presentation on “Transfusion related Acute Lung Injury”
at the Annual Scientific meeting of the Sri Lankan College of Anaesthetists. To keep the audience awake I started my talk with an anecdote I picked up  from an American Professor a few months earlier. I told the the audience how delighted I was with the attendance, because the last time I gave this lecture there was only one person in the audience. I was wondering whether to abandon the talk. However I felt for the single member in the audience and proceeded to to give this lecture. At the end of of my talk when I was packing my bag this lone member came up to me and said please stay as I’m the next speaker.”

“In the sweetness of friendship
 Let there be laughter and sharing of pleasures,
 For in the dew of little things
 The heart finds it’s morning and is refreshed”
  Khalil Gibran