Tuesday, March 31, 2020

What’s in a name?


By Mahendra “Speedy” Gonsalkorale

Personal identity is a fascinating subject. I don’t know enough of Human history to identify when Homo sapiens assigned “names” to people so that communication became easier. I guess the need would have been somewhat similar to classifying any collection of “things” that you have,to make it easy to pick out what you want. Before language was discovered, the only way to indicate and item would have been to point to it. Once unique symbols (names) were given you could indicate what you want by referring it to by name even in the absence of the object desired. This presumably started with assigning names or symbols to objects of importance around us and then naturally progressing to all sentient beings. With evolution and aggregations of man into tribes and communities, the system of naming too had to evolve. There could been a time when a person was identified only by his/her relationship to other family members. For example a man named Aponso may have had a son and the son may not have had a unique name but merely referred to as “Aponso’s son”. When Aponso had more sons, it could be “the elder son of Aponso” and the “younger son of Aponso” or even abbreviated to “Aponso son the elder” and “Aponso son the younger”. At some time, those identified in that manner may have insisted on a unique name with the development of a sense of “self” or equally, it may have been more practical for the group as a whole to assign unique names to members.  But the relationship of one person to another appears to have continued in the naming process. The link could have been to the family or possibly to other respected figures in the community. For example if Hannibal was held in high esteem, I could imagine a father naming his son Hannibal. This still applies with names of revered religious figures such as Mary and even Jesus or Buddha being given to people.

The name of a person is usually of great importance to the person. Dale Carnegie said “Remember that a person’s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language”. He said “Using a person’s name is crucial, especially when meeting those we don’t see very often. Respect and acceptance stem from simple acts such as remembering a person’s name and using it whenever appropriate.” This is an indication of a basic human need to be recognised as distinct and unique.This process develops in several stages. A person is born and given a name. But the need for that name to indicate the relationship of the person to other key people in his life isalso very important. So you become “son (putha (S), mahan(T))” or daughter (duwa, mahal)” or “my wife” or “my husband” or “my boss”. Or as “my son, Lakshman” for example.You as an individual is submerged. Your importance is because of your relationship. In Sri Lankan circles, wives are often annoyed by a common practice of a husband introducing his wife as “this is my wife” rather than “this is my wife Rani”. It is by no means exclusive to Sri Lankans.  This practice is further strengthened by the adoption of the husband’s surname by the wife. She becomes at best “Mrs Rita Mithra” or at worst “Mrs Mithra”. As we know there is a growing rebellion among married women, especially in the West and manychoose not to adopt the husband’s surname at all while others resort to the “double-barrel” method of including both. The more liberated will become Ms Rita Mithra-Tsunami while others will be happy with Mrs Rita Mithra-Tsunami. The extreme on the spectrum will be Ms Rita Tsunami.

I was delving into the history of surnames in the UK and unearthed some interesting facts which I like to share with you. I have included some very limited facts relating to  Sri Lanka but I intend to do a more detailed study soon. As expected, there are many common themes reflecting our colonial past. I would welcome comments from readers who are able to share their knowledge.
Surnames came into existence gradually in the UK from between 1066 and about 1400. Before 1066, a person usually had one name, a Christian name. After 1400, people almost always had a family name or surname as well.  This happened first in England and later in Wales and Scotland. Most of the names now in use can be traced back to this period. The growth in surnames was the result of the growth in population and the expansion of government. A simple system of a Christian name only was inadequate. Small communities probably had a sufficient store of names to provide individual names without giving rise to duplication and confusion. The population of England doubled from 2 M in 1066 to 4 M in 1400. People travelled more and the number of towns rapidly increased. Following the Norman Conquest of England by the Duke of Normandy in 1066, a system of government administration expanded and the need for registering people became necessary. The practice of naming a son using the father’s name did not necessarily mean that the name was passed on to their children in turn. For example, King Harold, the son of Godwin was called Harold Godwinsson. But the family name Godwinsson was not passed on to his children. Harold Godwinsson was unique and his name indicated that his father was Godwin. If names were passed down, one of Harold’s sonsUlf(or Wulf) would have been Ulf Haroldsson, not UlfGodwinsson. But Ulf was just known as Ulf son of Harold.

The evolution of surnames in general
We can see that there was a need to identify people as unique subjects.  The use of a Surname attached to the Christian name was one way.This methodalso created a link between two generations. Other methods were also used and they can be classified broadly as based on:-
(a) Patronymic (b) Occupational names (c) Locality names (d) Nicknames.

(a)    Patronymics. Names which refer to the father. Most are easy to pick out. Harrison – son of Harry, Johnson – son of John.  One patronymic derivation not always recognised is the use of the apostrophe‘s. Johns for example would have started as“John’s” (son of John). Others include Edwards, Williams, Roberts and Evans. A further complication is the shortening of names. E.g., Robert could be Rob, Robin, Hob or Hopkin and the son of Robert could be Robertson, Robson, Robinson, Robbins, Hobson orHopkinson. Similarly, Richard has nicknames such as Dick, Hick and gives rise to surnames such as Richardson, Dickson, Dixon, Hickson, Higson, Higginson. Sometimes the son is given the father’s occupational name. e.g., the father is a Tailor and the son becomes Taylorson. Similarly, Smithson- son of a Smith. In Scotland, the word Mac is used instead of son. So MacPherson is the son of the parson, MacNab is the son of the Abbot. It is even more complicated in Welsh.  The word ap- preceding the name is the same as the English –son after the name but the ap gets corrupted and the“a”may get dropped and “p” may survive as a p, ab or as an f. Lloyd could become aLloyd, or Flood or Blood or Floyd. Probert is from Robert.

(b)   Occupational. Most of them are easy to understand but some apparently unrelated to occupations are related but either the occupation has died out or called something else now. An example is Theakerwhich is the same as Thatcher (thatched roofer).  Chandler was a candle maker. Barker is a Tanner (bark is used for tanning).Other examples are Clark, Miller, Baker, Carpenter, Contractor, Barber. Some Royal names have humble origins too. Stuart is from Steward and Marshal is from a marshal in stately processions but the word meant a lowly horse-groom.

(c)    Locality. These are of two types. The first refers to actual names of places and the second refers to features of the countryside close to the settlement. Examples of first type are Lincoln,Preston,Doncaster, and Churchill. Examples of the second type are Hill, Meadow,Brook, Wood,and Bridge. The feature is not necessarily natural, as in Bridge, Castle, and Mill.

(d)   Nicknames. Nicknames are the hardest to classify and not uncommonly, the conclusion that it is a nickname is reached on the basis that the name does not fit into any of the first 3 classes. Some are easy to understand. E.g., according to physical characteristics such as “Redhead”, “Prettybody”, “Whalebelly” (Big tummy like a whale!) and Little.Gray for gray hair, Donne or Dunn for a dark person. Names indicating a habit such as Drinkwater for an abstainer. Shakespeare apparently indicated exactly what it says. Doolittle for a lazy person, Lovelace came from “Love-lass”, a young man noted for his amorous activities.

The need to be unique is also reflected in how families choose how the surname is spelt.e.g., (Smith, Smythe), (Newcomb, Newcombe).

Just a few International examples.
In China, an Emperor decreed the adoption of the hereditary family names in 2852 BC.
In Turkey, a law making surnames mandatory was made in 1935.
Jews were late in adopting surnames and often were compelled to do so as they were debarred from adopting names used by Christians. Sometimes they chose names which sounded good like Rosenthal which means rose valley.
Swedish names often reflect their love of nature, incorporating words such as “berg” (mountain) and “blom” (flower).

In Sri Lanka, the word “ge”(belonging to or derived from) is used to indicate the family such as GonsalkoralegeMahendra. This practice has largely changed to reverse it to MahendraGonsalkorale (and the “ge” is dropped) or a new surname has arisen and the old surname retained as an additional first name such as GonsalkoralegeMahendra De Chickera. The place name could also be used such asBalangodaRanjitWeeratunge. Occupational and title names are used such as Kottuwe Muhandiramge Sarath Jayanetti. Some carry a whole lineage in their name such as the celebrated Sri Lankan cricketer W P U J C Vaas who has the rare distinction of having more initials than letters in his surname! His full name is Warnakulasuriya Patabendige Ushantha Joseph Chaminda Vaas. Sri Lankans are also finicky about correct spelling of certain names as the spelling is caste related, e.g., Goonewardena and Gunawardena, Goonetileka and Gunatileka. Sri Lankans have also adopted many Portuguese, Dutch and English names and this is generally more prevalent among Christians. The other interesting feature of names in Sri Lanka is the adoption of Sinhala names by some Tamils who for several generations lived in the South and Sinhalese who have done the same after living in Tamil areas. One other feature of note during colonial times was the adoption of more English sounding names to enhance prospects for employment in Government institutions. Some went to the extent of embracing Christianity for the same reason.

Another common Sri Lankan cultural habit is to invent totally new names with no meaning at all, apart from “sounding nice”. The need for this sometimes arises from the requirement for choosing the first letter of the name as deemed auspicious by the horoscope of the person. Another reason is a fad to give name which has never been used before and stand out as unique!

The Tamil format has also changed but the practise of stating the father’s name followed by the unique name is common. We have SuranjanVinyamoorthy and SuranjanKrishnamoorthy who are both sons of Suranjan. This makes working out relationships a bit harder.
Nick names of course are commonly used in every country. In our own batch we have Speedy, Lucky, Gompa, Cigar, and Bunter just to name a few!

I do hope I have stimulated your appetite to ask more questions about names. The science that studies names in all their aspects is called Onomastics or Onamatology. I don’t know whether the science that studies names of people has a name but this is the closest I could find: a set of personal names is called Anthroponymy and their study is called Antroponomastics.





120 comments:

  1. Mahendra, thank you very much for introducing a very interesting topic,which is bound to stimulate a lot of discussion. Mine is an uncommon name and any one else with that name is likely to be a relative.
    In Sri Lanka it is often mis-spelt ,mis-pronounced or both (Lamabadasuriya instead of Lamabadusuriya). However in England although it was mis-pronounced often, it was rarely mis-spelt ,probably being uncommon it was written letter by letter.
    I am Sanath Punsara (SPL 1).elder son Shamin Prasanna (SPL 11) and grandson Sasmin Pinsara (SPL 111).(Somewhat like in the US)
    I think Sidath Jayanetti's nickname was spelt as Sigar and not Cigar.

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    1. Thanks Sanath. The practice of having the same initials as in your case is an interesting variation. i don't know for sure but I wonder whether it arose from a hybrid situation. What I means is when the English style of having the surname passed on was adopted, the connection between father and son continued but the initials could change as the family name was now in the surname rather than the christian names. Of course some have so many family names that it was possible to have at least or even two names as initials. So you could for example have NKSunil Fernando and NKSusil Fernando (where N is Nirillage and K is Kumarage). The NK will pass down generations and some would attempt to keep the initials at least of the eldest son as NKS Fernando where the S name will be changing but always starting with the letter S. In your case as well as with SRKottegoda, the initials remain SRK but the SRK names change. I don't know whether I am making sense. In the USA it is common practice for father and son to have the same names but the son's name is followed by Jnr and father as Snr. With many generations, it is like English Kings, and will be Donald Dumb 1, or II or III, like Richard the iiird. There appears to be a strong desire for some fathers to maintain a sort of immortality by passing on the same name or at least the same initials! I know some of my friends heaved a sigh of relief when they had a son so that "my name can continue".

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  2. Thanks,Speedy for your comprehensive article about origin of names.Sinhala names were based,most of the time in relation to their occupation.Aristocats used their name of the village their fore fathers were born.Those who embraced Portugues names,carried on down the family line.As,Lama mentioned,misspelling could be attributed to not having enough letters in English Language.26 letters against 52.Some others misspelt purposely expose their castes.Some families were taking too many Forenames to show their power and authority.

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    1. Thanks, Sumathi. There are similarities as you say. The number of letters in the 2 alphabets is an interesting point. The other thing that is common in many cultures is the use of physical characteristics or behavioural features in giving nick names. Some of these are most derogatory, such as "gandaya", "pissa" which are like the Whalebelly example I gave. "Kaluwa" or "Kalu maththaya" or "Sudu Mahaththaya", "Bada" (Fatty in England) come to mind.

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  3. Mahen
    Despite the snow up in the hills of Scotland, spring has arrived in the south with cherry blossoms and daffodils in great abundance. The roads remain deserted. The bane of our lives in London have been the atmospheric pollution. Even the asthmatics can breathe easy now. Being at home is not unusual for a pensioner but being in lockdown is staggeringly bizarre. Solitude and deprivation have a few advantages too. This allows me to reflect on my life in depth and to think of issues which would not get a “look-in” otherwise. I have dusted the pile of books which have lay there for years waiting to be read. Perhaps Mahen’s work too is a product of the lockdown being away from the golf course in the day and the company of Genos in the night. I just couldn’t resist the temptation of that famous cliché “making hay while the sunshines”. Let the lockdown bring its own rewards!!
    Thank you for that erudite discussion about names. It is in effect a treatise on the evolution and the progression of people’s names. Although we come across names all the time it is rarely do we pause to ponder on its origins let alone their meaning and significance. This discussion will indeed be at the back of my mind at least when I come across an unusual, strange or rare names. “A rose by any other name would smell as sweet" is a popular reference to Shakespeare's play Romeo and Juliet. Despite the Bards emphatic comment I agree with Dale Carnegie as to the importance of the name to its owner.
    There was a brief mention of nick names too. They often ranged from the sublime to the ridiculous. We are all aware of the nick names at school some of which have lasted a lifetime. Of those that come easily to mind are from our own batch, Patas, Speedy and Lubber. They have no relevance or resemblance to their own real names. In my younger son’s class was a boy called Herring. From day one he was known as “Fish”. As Mahen shrewdly pointed out, in some it was the nick names that became their real names.

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    1. Thanks Nihal. I just read your thoughtful comment. I hope we get more responses.It is true that all of us have more time and in the case of lone pensioners like myself, I have the luxury of not feeling guilty and getting out doing things. Talking of nicknames, just think of all the names we gave our teachers; Bullseneviratne, Pathcooray, Patchaya,Koka,Thanaballs and many more. Nicknames also indicate a period in your life, it is a sort of time-line. My change went something like this:- Gona, Gonsal, Speedy,Gunsi, G-Kola! For family Mahendra, Punchi Aiya, Mahendra aiya, Mahendra Mama, MGB etc. So much so that I associate a certain time with a nickname.I am sure this applies to all of us. The name is more than a name because it has inevitable associations. We just cannot perceive anything without conscious or unconscious (sub conscious) associations. This is what I find personally very intriguing. It reminds me that our sense of self is in many ways just an impression or idea or concept we have and that it changes all the time. Slightly deviating from the original theme of names, the language of recognising a person has implications. In English,"you" is usually quite sufficient as a general form of address. But as some colonial English people who studied Sinhalese found out to their detriment, "you" is expressed in different ways according to your status. The correct form of you, Umba, Numba, Oya, Mahattaya, Guruxx u are vital.Granted there are English equivalents of some like Your Royal Highness or Your excellency but even there, Your excellency is could be followed by "you" (Your excellency, would you like a drink/". Not so in Sinhalese! We can see so many influences in the way names are used throughput history and in differing cultures.

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    2. Locally to say "you" when the person is with you is thought to be ok. But referring to "he or she" when they are with you is considered less acceptable. We are supposed to use the name. I took time to get used to this after coming to England. In SL using a persons name is ok if the person has the same status as you. But otherwise there is a tendency to use a hamu or hamumahaththaya etc.
      Living in SL it is ok to make fun of a persons name which would be considered just a joke but in the UK that would be in poor taste. I found this out much to my cost.
      The person in charge of charity work in a previous hospital was called SWINDLER being his surname. The Director of Radiology where I trained was nick named ROENTGEN FUHRER.

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  4. I think the origin of the nick-name Lubber, was because of his swaggering gait resembling that of a seaman. As he was most certainly land-bound, he was called Lubber!

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    1. Thanks,Lama and Speedy for blogging interesting ideas.In my village the names were really interesting.Podimahaththaya,Lokumahaththaya,Punchimahaththaya,Punchimenike,Lokumenike,Heenmenike,Lokubandara,Podibandara,Madhdhumabandara were common.Later on names like Jayasekara,Gunasekara came to vogue.Some of the others carried on using family names after First names.Hindu tamils were some what cleaver by using father's name as the first name and have a entirely different name.

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  5. Another aspect of names I have not directly touched on is the ease of remembering it and saying it. Clearly, unless you have a very short name like Sunil Pinto, it is not practical to use the entire name in addressing a person. Just imagine speaking to Chaminda Vaas and saying, "Hello, how are you Warnakulasuriya Patabendige Ushantha Joseph Chaminda Vaas?" Traditional Sinhalese and Tamil names pose a big problem for people in England and they are all seeking easier names. We do that too. Most people with the initials NK are called NK and there are other initials such as JB. Even with surnames, Lamabadusuriya becomes Lama and Gonsalkorale becomes Gonsal.If a short name or initials are not handy, then some personal charactristic such as the one Lama (Sanath!) referred to in the case of Asoka Wijeyakone as Lubber comes in. Even within families, "pet names"are not uncommon. These could be totally unrelated or could be associated with a characteristic. My mother was Anulawathie but she was known n her family as Mallika and I could never find out why she was called that! Those who follow cricket will know about the addition of "ee" to a name such as Vaughnee, Vaasee, Warnee, Strausee, Stokesee and so on.

    I do hope other readers would come up with interesting associations and stories.

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  6. When our younger son Harshan, appeared on the Chanel 4 program Countdown on British national TV in the mid-1990's, I insisted that his full name should appear on his name plate, rather than an abbreviated or hyphenated version. I was pleased that my instructions were followed.

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  7. Thanks Speedy for this research. As you mentioned in the Tamil community the Hindus adopted their own name as the last name , and the family name as the first name. One that comes to mind are the "lingams", Suntheralingam, Thiagalingam, Nagalingam all illustrious lawyers, and their Children cricketers from Royal and St Thomas's, Parathalingam, Jayalingam, Nirmalingam , Jothalingam.
    In the christian many families adopted missionary last names. In fact my mother's maiden last name was Anketell. A couple of years ago I was at Shannon airport in Ireland, there was a computer into which you could type in the last name , and the computer will tell you which county which is the village fro which this family was from. Sure enough \, the Anketell name came up with the county from southern region in Ireland. Study of names in interesting and intriguing, now that we are all locked in I hope we will learn more. Thanks Speedy for stimulating our ageing brains.

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  8. Thanks Rajan. Good to see you more active on the blog. As you correctly pointed out, the adoption of the family name as the first name is largely among Hindus. I am not aware of any specific association of Tamil names with Portugese names apart from some I have included in the list that follows. It is more common among the Sinhalese.

    Silva and de Silva mean the same thing with de Silva meaning -from Silva -(Silva is a Forrest or Woodland. Perera and Pereira means Pear tree in Portugese. The name was largely adopted by Catholics. Other well known Portugese derived names are Fernando (adventurous), Fonseka (dry well - a spring which has dried up), Tissera (from Texio- yew tree), Cabraal (place of goats), Corea (leather strap), Almeida and de Almeida (From the town of Almeida -this name was taken by both Sinhalese and Tamil families- as with Costa/de Costa (rib).The other common names of Portugese drivation are Thabrew and de Abrew, Nonis,Gomes, Suwaris, Mendis and Sigera.

    Some Dutch examples are Claessen, De Jong, Jansz/Jansen, De Bruin, Loos, Van Dort.

    Thus we can see that foreign invaders left their mark in so many ways apart from spread of Christianity which I suppose was inevitable.

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  9. When I spent sabbatical leave in Saudi Arabia in the 1980's, I was informed that if someone applies for a Saudi visa, that person should have a minimum of three names. Fortunately I did not encounter any problems as all of us had three names !

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    1. Gosh! That is interesting.I can't think of a good reason for that rule, can you?

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    2. You were lucky by having three names,two first names and your Surname(family name)Original muslim settlers were from Arabian Gulf and they brought the religion and the way of naming their children.I was familiar of the names of our Muslim community.My own close muslim friend,who is no longer with us had the following names.Mohamed Ibrahim Mohamed Mubarak.

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  10. Hi Speedy and Patas

    I read with great interest Speedy’s post. It was very informative – thanks.

    How a name lit the fuse of “the Cannon”

    In the early 1950s, the Thomian Captain of Table Tennis happened to be a chap called “Captain”. Captain “Captain”: a recipe for confusion.

    At St Thomas’s, it was the usual practice for the Captain along with the Master in charge to select the team for each match. It was then the job of the Captain to get the team sheet signed by the Warden (“headmaster”) and then posting it on the notice board.

    In keeping with this practice, the Table Tennis Captain goes to Warden Canon R S de Seram’s office to obtain his signature. On this occasion the Cannon very politely inquires, “Who is the Captain? The reply is, “Captain Sir”.

    The Warden then gets irritated. In a forceful voice he demands again the name of the captain, banging his fist on the table. The Captain sticks to his guns and replies in a calm and measured manner, “Captain Sir”.

    This lights the fuse to the Cannon. The Cannon goes ballistic interpreting his comments as a mark of insolence. He canes the boy not realizing that the Captain’s surname was indeed Captain.

    When I first heard this story during my school days at STC, I thought it to be very funny but did not believe that it really happened. Years later I had the opportunity of playing golf with the Captain (Mr Captain!). He confirmed the veracity of this story.

    Patas: did you hear this story during your school days???

    Best wishes

    Bora

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    1. Good to "see" you Bora. Your story reminds me of an episode in a Carry On film where the Chief Inspector while inspecting the lined up policemen, came to one chap and asked him "and what is your name constable". He replied "Constable, Sir". " I know that your fool! I want your name". The chap said again "Beg your pardon, Constable Sir". And like the Canon he got irritated. I add to this story and say that on the second occasion, he said "Constable, Constable Sir", whereupon the Inspector shouted "What's wrong with you? You are not only stupid but you have a stutter too!".

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    2. Hi speedy
      Good one.In the Nineties two brothers with the surname Neville played for Man U and their fathers name was Neville Neville.
      Bora

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    3. Hi,Bora and Speedy,
      How about the name Abdullah Abdullah who contested to be the Prime Minister of troubled Afghanistan?
      Carry on the series.

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    4. Sumathi, this reminds me of a passage from my favourite author, the humourist PG Wodehouse. The setting is a Law firm and the receptionist answers the phone and says, "Hello, this is the Firm of Henderson, Henderson and Henderson. Would you like to speak to Mr Henderson, Henderson or Henderson?"

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    5. The above exchange brought on some really funny, good memories. Bora, having been raised in a 90% Thomian household (my sister and I were the only non-Thomians!) I had heard that story of the Captain and the Canon! But , it was fun to read it again. And Henderson, Henderson and Henderson...! I need to pick up
      some P.G. Wodehouse books again!
      I think children need to be able to sue their parents for giving them strange names.
      Kanye West's kids are named Psalm West, North West, Saint West and Chicago West!! I swear, I am not making this up.

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  11. In this unusual and uncertain times I take the liberty to digress and return to a different time of uncertainty and despair in my life, my emigration to the UK. Prior to the trip I went to Chatham Street Fort, our own Saville Row in those days to get myself a suit, made to measure. I got, reputedly, the fine shoe-maker to make myself a pair of shoes. I wore them proudly in the UK with some reservations. I do not know if it was the damp and drizzly weather but when I wore the coat I couldn’t raise my arms above the horizontal. I said to myself, I could live with that. Further more to my consternation, the right coat sleeve was longer than the left. My erstwhile British colleague pertinently described it as ‘Sunday being longer than Monday’ to loud laughter and to my great embarrassment. The shoes didn’t fair too well either. Come the winter they contracted beyond measure losing its shape. Standing at ease was like having my feet on a proverbial squatting plate.
    On a previous incarnation I was in Haematology. Dr David Weatherall was a distinguished haematologist in Oxford. He later went on to become a Professor in that great institution. With a name resembling VEDARALA he would have easily found eminence in the Ayurvedic Medical School in Colombo.
    Brain by Brain!! Lord Russell Brain wrote the British Neurology Bible “Clinical Neurology”
    Prof Hugh de Wardener pioneered kidney dialysis in Britain and wrote one of the finest books on Renal Medicine, at the time. A name like DIYA-WADANA he was born into renal medicine. Infact the thought of it gives me a diuresis.
    I am reminded of a dinner time joke at the Jeewaka Medical Hostel. Rauwiloid was an antihypertensive like Guanethidine. By some grave error Guanethidine tablets were put into a bottle containing Rauwiloid. Rauwiloid was not best pleased yelling out “I say you are ISMELIN”. To those of us who have left their pharmacology behind after retirement ISMELIN is the trade name for Guanethidine.
    Take care and be safe

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    1. Very amusing experience Nihal. Just picking on the occupational names, there are so many. Few more, a dentist named "Pullar", a Psychiatrist (Merry), Lawyer (Sue Yoo), Samaritan volunteer (Too good) Dr Doktor, Ophthalmologist (Seawright),Music teacher (C.Sharp), Butcher (Slaughter), Barber (Barber), Pain relief specialist (Dr Paine), Venepuncturist (Miss Blood), Olympic 100 mtr champion (Ussain Bolt)- The list is endless! The word for name matching the occupation is Aptonym.

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  12. Razaque was a force of nature. His writings on this blog lightened up our lives for many many years. In these hard times of lockdown if you need to lift up your spirit do read his writings on this blog. This is easily done using the search facility at the top of this page. There is one in particular he wrote about the names of places he encountered on his travels in New Zealand. They are well written and hilarious, funny enough to make even a sailor blush. He has carefully disguised the contents by rather dull and dreary caption "From Razaque's Diary - Part 2"

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  13. Talking of names, one of the Physicians living in the US had the number plate on his car customized "PaitiaYthian" which in Tamil means mad physician he was a Psychiatrist.

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    1. Number plates are very often personalised here in UK using innovative way of displaying their names. The Sri Lankan community appears to favour this almost as a status symbol. A typical Sri Lankan gathering car park is littered with Mercs, BMWS, Audis and personalised plates!

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  14. Hi Rajan
    Good one,enjoyed that.
    An orthopaedic surgeon in our area was operating in the local private hospital and his car got nicked from the car park.When he phoned the police they asked for his name.When he told the police that his name was " Nick Carr"they put the phone down thinking it was a prank.
    Bora

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    1. Bora, is this really true or a good joke! Hilarious either way.

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    2. Hi Bora
      Perhaps, that was yet another Boralessa confabulation, the ones we have been used to for over half a century. We need humour in all its forms to tide over this lockdown. Laugh and exercise your diaphragm and intercostals at the same time.
      Keep going.

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    3. I think I agree with Nihal (Boralessa confabulation!)

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  15. Nihal, You have referred to Sir David Weatherall. I knew him quite well. He was Emeritus Professor of Medicine, University of Oxford and co -author of the Oxford Textbook of Medicine. From the mid-1990s. I associated with him very closely, researching on Thalassaemia. He was a world authority on thalassaemia. He has come to Sri Lanka several times and provided funds for setting up thalassaemia units in Kurunegala and University of Kelaniya. Professor Anuja Premawardene and Dr Sachith Methananda were trained by him at Oxford and both of them returned home with D.Phils and both of them are academics in the University of Kelaniya.
    I used to visit him in Oxford several times for joint discussions and these meetings were held in the Sir David Weatherall Institute of Molecular Biology. He was Knighted twice by the Queen, which is indeed a very rare honour. We had few things in common;both of us were pipe smokers and cricket and rugby fans! Unfortunately he passed away few years ago.

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      Good to hear from you and your association with Sir David W. I remember him as a fine speaker who could keep the audience interested. I do recall his name in the Oxford Textbook of Medicine, not that I read it from cover to cover!! He was indeed an eminent and respected figure. I was a minnow then just like now and had no personal contact with him.
      Keep safe and take care

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    2. Lama is correct about two knighthoods. Knights can be an honour awarded by the Monarch without being a Member of one of the Orders of Chivalry. They may use the prefix Knight and only the postfix Kt. Knights who are members of an Order always use Sir and the wife, Lady. They can use the appropriate post fix such as GBE ( Knight Grand Cross or Dame Grand Cross of the Most Excellent Order of the British Empire (GBE)), Knight Commander or Dame Commander of the Most Excellent Order of the British Empire (KBE or DBE).
      Sir David became a Knight Bachelor in 1987 and a GBE in 2017. Sanath as you all know is a Member of the Most excellent Order of the British Empire (MBE)

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  16. Another naming practice is based on the fond aspirations of the parents for their newly born. The musician may name him Beethoven, the cricket fan- Satchin, the politician - Barak and so on. In our own Batch, Mahendra Collure was Don Bradman Collure! He is sadly no more and as far as I know, did not excel in cricket. Sri Lanka also has the interesting feature of the same name given to a boy and girl with different pronunciation. eg Jayantha, Chandra. There are English names too which ate used for both sexes such as George.

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  17. Everyone will remember Thompson and Thomson, those bungling sleuths from the famous comic strip hero of our childhood called Tintin. The latter was not only a boy with a lock of golden hair that stood upright but a reporter and a traveller of sorts too. I remember his dog snowy, Captain Haddock the bearded alcoholic and Professor Calculus who was hard of hearing. Their adventures amused and brightened up my childhood years.
    Many will recall Jiggs and Maggie, the Geo MacManus cartoon strip that was serialised in the Daily News in old Ceylon. The long suffering Jiggs was a gambler and a football addict and was bullied and controlled by Maggie with her Rolling pin.

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  18. Jiggs was fond of corned beef and cabbage and suffered from gout as well, which undoubtedly worsened his condition.
    In our 1962 batch, we had VPH (Preethi) Rajapakse and W. Rajasooriyar, both of whom ended up as anaethetists. They were referred to as Thompson and Thomson; I cannot remember who had the P, may be VPH. Unfortunately Rajasooriyar passed away few years ago

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      Yes indeed corned beef and cabbage and gout for that long suffering alcoholic- Jiggs. The cartoon strip was such a regular feature and was perhaps a pre-runner for the current soaps. I do recall the phrase "Kill Roy was here" but cannot recall the context - lost in the mist of time!! Perhaps you can with your wonderful memory!!

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  19. I do recall all those characters. Remember Dagwood Bumstead and Blondie? And of course Pop Eye who was also another spinach fan. Another character series are the Peanut books. I still have a collection of them. Then there are the comics with Roy Rogers, Gene Autry, Hoppalong Cassidy and the Lone Ranger. I am trying to remember the sinhala cartoon characters by Wijesoma and other famous people.

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    1. Hi Mahen,
      Hoppalong Cassidy visited Ceylon while we at school and stayed at the Mount Lavinia hotel.Some of us tried to visit him but were not allowed.He was good enough to throw some coins and badges to us.
      My favourite cowboy was Gene Autry with his horse Champion.There is a museum dedicated to him and the West in Los Angeles.Sadly I did not visit in spite of living in LA for a whole year; but I visited many others ,notably the Huntington museum,library and the gardens in LA which is a must see when you are in LA next,hopefully soon.

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  20. The Wijesoma character was Punchi Singho. Wijesoma was witty and sharp. His cartoons were usually full of satire and astute observation. The famous one before him was Collette.I don't think he had any central character but his cartoons were mostly political.

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  21. Dear Mahen,ND ,Lama and all,
    Mahen your post is a treatise. I learnt much from it. Perhaps equally from the comments.I have asked Bora to contribute more regularly to the Blog.He has such a fund of stories.
    Dale Carnegie ,says in his book,that Eisenhower,knew the first names of ten thousand people under his command .No wonder he won the war.He was universally,referred to as Ike ,another indication of his popularity.Nixon never had that kind of adulation.
    Antho knew the importance of names.During his ward rounds he would ask the attendant the name of the next patient.When he addressed them by name they were so elated.This was not a PR gimmick as he did the same to floor patients.
    At STC a lot of us were called by initials I was KRW; CD ,KDPR were others.Some like Bora Lareef and Sydney were referred to by their real names.
    Nick names were mostly reserved for the masters;Pol Tokka,Pol Weera.Goday Ratnayake,Bamboo D,and wickedly ,Black Tie murderer.Female teachers ,who were gentle and kind were not given any nick names.Gang members too had nick names but mostly affectionate.Names which come to mind are Vedda,Hawa,Nariya,etc and Bora called them the Zoo.My favourite cousin was called Meeya,because he was small and dark; he resented it as he did his other pet name Titha(the dot).Out of deference to him Bora and I always addressed him as Sanath.
    Sinhala families had ge names in addition to the family name .Their origin and background could be determined by the ge name; useful when marriages were arranged.
    Like many of you my patients had difficulty with my family name.I would point out to them it was pronounced exactly as it was spelt ,and it could be broken up into four syllables.My colleagues ,both senior and junior had no such difficulty.But like all Aussies they were very informal and addressed me as Kumar.
    One day a long-standing patient came up with this story.Doc the man seated next to me said you have a funny name;I told him not as half as funny as my eye surgeon-Lillicrap.

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  22. Kumar, thanks for joining the fun, as fun it is I am sure you agree. To those who have not yet done so, I utter the immortal words of Scott Whiskey who said to Tee Toe Teller, "You don't know what you are missing"! I really find these true stories so funny. Just strengthens my view about the significance and importance of the image we have of ourselves and how others see us and the part played by the names associated with us. Even important figures such as SWRD B was called SWRD or just Banda (not to be confused with M.D.Banda!). On the length of our names, I have two stories. The first is about when I first became a Consultant and another colleague asked me "So what shall we call you?" I said "Why don't you try my name!". I also used the gentle medicine of telling them that it is phonetic and just draw a line between Gonsal and Korale and I am confident that you possess the skills to put these two words together! The second story is about a patient. I was known to nurses and patients as Dr G. I never protested because I treated it as a show of affection. A patient discharged from my ward came for an Outpatient appointment and I was quite touched that she remembered me as she smiled. I told her "I bet you cannot spell my name". She said " Of course I can! It is G double E". Another thing about names in Sinhala, like the -lingams in Tamil that Rajan alluded to, are the -ratnes and -sekeras and -gederas. Even my name ending Korale, there are at least 6 types of Korales! About initials, you are absolutely correct, even here Kevin Pietersen is best known as KP for example. Hope to see you on the Blog soon with a new topic Kumar. Our own Nihal is ND to most batch mates. Some lady teachers did have nick names - remember Mrs Jayasekera in Anatomy? She was known as Sweetie and I don't need to remind anybody why!

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  23. Mahendra, your memory appears to be fading!Sweetie is Shanthi Gunawardene and I meet her frequently because she is assisting the Sabaragamuwa Medical Faculty. She told me that we were the first batch to be taught by her.
    In England when they used to struggle with my name, I advised them to break it in to three syllables, " Lama-badu-suriya". Thereafter there were fewer mis-pronounciations.
    Do you all remember Aubrey Colette and Tarzie Vittachchi alias Flyby night, who used to contribute to the Sunday Observer? Aubrey referred to SWRD as "Sevala Banda" and Oliver Goonetilleke as "Wise old owl"

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    1. Sanath, you are correct on both counts! Shanthi is and the second point you raised? Never mind. I too referred to Collette, the satirical political cartoonist. I now remember Tarzie Vittachi with his "Bouquets and Brickbats" and Fly by Night" of course. He wrote "Emergency 58" which won him the Raymon Magasaysay award in 1959.Those were sensitive times in ethnic conflicts.

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  24. Hi Kumar
    Good to see you back. You do remind me of my arrival in the UK. I was a rustic from the backwaters of far away Kegalle running barefooted and half naked in the paddy fields gathering hookworms in the process. In the UK My surname was too much of a tongue twister even for the most welcoming and liberal of them. The first name too was pronounced in a hundred different ways that would have turned my parents in their graves. In my wisdom I suggested they call me by my middle name, Douglas, an easy and familiar Scottish name which they did accept with good grace. If you thought they could spell it correctly you would be utterly wrong.
    At home I was Nihal. I was called ND at school, amongst other names which were less flattering!! At med school I was ND and so it has remained until the blog has turned it round again to Nihal.
    What’s in a name? Should I flatter myself and repeat the words of the Bard "That which we call a rose By any other name would smell as sweet.”

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    1. Who is Mr Bard? Friend of yours? His poetry sounds good, reminds me of Mr Sheik Speer, the Saudi beard.

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  25. Hi Kumar.Mahen and Nihal

    Gine Ekanayakka and I booked overnight stay at the Sandowne Park Race Course to attend a Sri Lankan event. When we checked in at the reception, Gine identified himself in a very clear and measured tone as Dr Ekanayaka. The receptionist promptly checked the computer records several times and replied, "Sorry Sir, We cannot find the name Ekanayaka, pronouncing the name correctly and without difficulty.

    Gine got irate and insisted that he had made a booking which had been confirmed by the RaceCourse hotel. The poor receptionist repeated the search and then announced that regretfully she could not find a booking for a Dr Ekanayake, however, there was a booking for a Dr Ekana Yakka.

    I burst out laughing when I heard the "YAKKA" part but Gine was not amused.
    Mahen when you next play golf with Gine you can ask him about the "EKANA - Yakka".

    Nihal: Rest assured, as is my custom, I am fabulating not confabulating!!!
    Hope this brings pain to the intercostals!!!!

    Bora

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    1. Bora
      Enjoyed that story, a fabulous fabulation!! As we used to sing in those bygone days --Tell us another one just like the other one.

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    2. Bora,
      These are really good stories! Please send us more. I'm checking the blog after a rather long 'leave of absence.' It is fun to read stuff like this, confabulation or not!

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    3. Hi Srianee
      Glad that you enjoyed the stories.Where are you in Colombo or back in the US.Take care
      Bora

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  26. What’s in a Name?
    Speedy by another name
    Spells as great
    To commend him highly
    Is not too late
    Know your surname
    Is the name of the game
    Usually it has meaning
    And it’s not the same
    Teeny and Weeny
    Are Aponso and Gonso
    Squeaky and Cheeky?
    Our Lucky and Ducky
    Lakshman and Shockman
    Go neatly and sweetly
    Nihal and Shenal
    Could be shining and rhyming
    Kamal and Gamal
    Sound like Manel and Camel
    Cheeky and geeky murky as sin
    Name’s a game you never win
    Sent by Zita

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    1. Good to see you back Zita. What a lovely poem! I hope you were able to read all the comments which have made this post so interesting. About your name, is there a connection between Zita, Sita, Seetha and Cheetah (and the Chinese Chi Ta)?

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      Where have you been all these weeks - as usual late miss Zita!! Great to have you back with a fine poem, most appropriate for the occasion. Be with us in this era of lockdown and house arrest. My best regards to Joe.

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    3. Hi Mahendra and Nihal! I think my brain has been under lockdown! I'm joking really. Well these past weeks have been extraordinary ones haven't they?
      I am glad to read contributions and comments by you both and thank you for keeping our blog going. I hope to visit more often hereafter. Yes let's keep things moving, we must not let our brains shut down. Thankfully, there's no chance of that happening when you both put pen to paper, I mean, finger on your keyboards. I am only just beginning to read the wonderful discussions that have arisen out of this subject. Thanks, all! Keep them coming! Zita

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  27. Nihal, after googling I came across this account regarding Kilroy. The original Kilroy has worked in the Fore River Shipyard in Quincey, Massachusetts, during World War 11.

    WHERE DOES KILROY WAS HERE COME FROM?
    Kilroy was here
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    The graffito of a bald man looking over a wall—his long nose falling over its surface and fingers curled around its edge—is commonly called a Kilroy and usually accompanied by the message Kilroy was here. Its original creator is unknown, though subject to much speculation. One of the oldest known versions goes back to World War I, when Australia, New Zealand, and British forces scrawled the image all over walls, bathroom stalls, and railroad cars, but with the caption Foo was here.

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  28. Sanath
    Thank you for your research on a phrase that has interested me for many years. It is not often events go beyond my own existence on this planet!!

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  29. During my internship in Kurunegala our Master Chef at the government quarters was a man with a stubbled face and greying hair. He was an asthmatic and we could hear his wheeze from the main road. As a valued patient he was treated as a VIP in the hospital. Locally too he was regarded as an influential figure due to his access to the medical community. None of us knew his real name and we all called him Rhonchi Rajapakse. He was a most elusive character. Our attempts to get to know his past just drew a blank. For Rhonchi night time was the best time and remained a night-bird. After clearing the table after dinner he just disappeared into the night, leaving the washing up to his side-kick.
    Quarters as usual was a hot bed of gossip and innuendo. There were stories abound that Rhonchi frequented the red-light district in the town. Whenever we asked him “how was the night” he just gave us a murky smile, which spoke volumes. In those distant days I was a rather quiet and serious guy and Rhonchi confided in me occasionally. One day he took me to aside saying “Sir, Mal pipuna”. I was perplexed until he showed me his penis which had a huge chancre. Thanks to the valuable 2 weeks with Dr CS Ratnatunga I recognised the primary lesion and made the necessary arrangements for treatment. One soggy evening after a few drinks patient confidentiality became its first casualty. Hush hush I divulged the information about Rhonchi’s indiscretions to my house-mates. The quality of our food improved tremendously, perhaps in gratitude, as the chancre healed and disappeared.
    Rhonchi enjoyed the good life and got his fix of the potent kassippu from down the road next to the funeral parlour. The story goes that he mingled freely with the bereaved and shed a tear to get an extra drink from the wailing relatives.
    Towards the end of our time in Kurunegala Rhonchi began to tell us he was the best Chef in the world. Some of the bright sparks in the quarters thought these were delusions of grandeur and early signs of General Paralysis of the Insane (GPI). They even surreptitiously watched Rhonchi wash his face to see if he fell into the wash basin.
    It is such events that make internship such a priceless memory.

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  30. Nice,story,ND.It is a puzzle for me as to how he developed GPI within a short period,when the time interval for Menigo-vascular syphilis is about 10 yrs,and for GPI is around 20 yrs.I am not sure whether a patient can manifest with repeated chancres,unless he or she is fully cured.In secondary syphilis,multiple lesions can occur occur on genitalia and the peri-anal region(condylomata lata),in addition to to the maculo-papular rash.I presume there can be an immune response to repeated exposures,one the patient has developed into tertiary stage.I have seen chancres in tonsils,lips and the peri-anal region,among homosexuals,during my work in VD clinic in Colombo and in UK,GUM clinics.

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  31. Sumathi
    Good to hear from you. Stay safe.
    You are quite correct about the GPI. I can still remember Prof Rajasuriya's brilliant lectures.
    Dr Ratnatunga was such a fine and dedicated teacher. In those 2 weeks he taught us what we should know. Great man whom I met as he did locums in my hospital in Stevenage after retirement from the Royal Free.

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    1. Dear ND,Thank you for reminding us about Dr C.S.Ratnatunge.He was a good man and excellent clinician.We met him occasionally as , I think he was related to my mother.I believe, he lived in Bambalapitiya when we visited him.
      Thank you also for reminding us about”that was a jolly good one, give us another one just like the other one.”We used to shout that gleefully,at the big match whenever someone sang a witty or more often an obscene baila.!!
      Our chef at Galle intern quarters was certainly not the best in the world.To be fair ,he was not the worst too.MBS De Silva a senior ,when he was unhappy with the food used to complain “mekath kemak da”; in English is this food;in other words not fit for consumption, by august beings like us. !!!
      Some days we got some good fare and if somebody was having more than a fair share ,he would mutter “meka badak the lindaka da”; is this a belly or is this a cavern !!
      MBS ,who was my colleague was one of the funniest and most entertaining guys I have come across .I learnt much about men ,women and matters from him but little medicine.I was best man at his wedding ; he married Kumudini Alahakoon who was Chandrika Bandaranaike’s best friend at St Briget’s.MBS is still as bubbly as ever.

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    2. Kumar, I happened to meet Siri (MBS) when I was out with some friends in Colombo. When we picked him up I also saw their wedding photograph with you as the best man! (I guess you know that he lost his wife not too long ago.) This was the first time I had seen him since Medical College. He was quite an interesting character!

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  32. Speedy's article is very interesting, but the comments are even better.

    Thank you all for keeping the blog alive.

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  33. Oh My My !
    “Of shoes - and ships- and sealing wax-
    Of cabbages- and kings- “
    What an interesting post - and what a great discussion as the blog has never seen before !
    Wish you all could have “zoomed “ and had a good laugh together rather than chuckle at home alone as I did reading through it - I have displaced Zita from her “last to arrive” seat-
    I shall also exit now and revisit another time - it is too interesting to miss !
    Keep having fun !

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    1. Dear Rohini,
      Agree that the comments are like a fireside chat,or to some of us in warmer climes,a chat in a climate controlled (I’m au fait with some new technology !!)sitting room ,favourite beverage in hand.I remember ND and you telling us of the memorable exchanges amongst your BIL Chanaka ,Sunna and Lubber.
      It’s a good idea of Mahen to collate some of the best comments.
      Thank you once again ,Lucky for this priceless platform .Long may it live and may it outlive all of us..It is a good record of our lives and times.

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      We had a Zoom meeting this morning! Funny that you should mention it in this comment. I think Mahen and Rajan who were trying out the Zoom meeting should get you involved sometime. The time zones are a bit of a challenge, but I think it can be done. Yes, these discussions are all over the place , but a lot of fun to read!

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  34. Lucky, Thank you for the blog - The priceless humour of our batchmates we could not have afforded to miss. Cheers

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  35. Lovely to see you back Rohini and I am pleased that you and Ana are ok. The response to this post has exceeded my wildest expectations and is poised to reach number one in the Comments League! My sincere thanks to all those who participated. If any of you have discussed this with colleagues who are a bit shy with computers, please offer them to post a comment on their behalf. After the dust has settled, I intend to join the post with sections from comments and record it for posterity. I know that Srianee has been very busy after her return to Germany and we can hear from her soon. Remember in these difficult days, "You're not STUCK at home, you're SAFE at home"

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    1. Mahen, thank you for your well researched article on names. I learned a lot. (I'm back!). As usual, the comments digressed, but were very entertaining. To get back to the main topic, It was interesting to learn that my maiden name, Fernando, means 'adventurer' in Portuguese. Also, I don't think that you mentioned that in Iceland, in a family, the names of the sons end with "---son" and the names of the daughters end with "---dóttir. So for example a brother and sister would have the last names "Stevenson and Stevendóttir!
      Also, I find that it is very interesting that one can tell one's position in a family from the manner in which one is addressed by the siblings. Loku Akka, Punchi Akka, Loku Nangi, Loku Malli etc. etc. I have a feeling that rather unique tradition is dying out.

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  36. Dear Nihal and Kumar, I totally agree that Dr.CS Ratnatunga was an excellent teacher and so was Mrs.Lester Jayawardene, who was also a venerealogist. CSR happened to be my friend Channa Ratnatunga's uncle.
    MBS or Siri de Silva was my neighbour down 42nd Lane,Wellawatte. I meet him regularly in Colombo. Unfortunately his wife passed away few years ago.During our student days, Geri Jayasekera was involved with Roshini Wijeyeratne, who was MBS's neighbour (on the other side), whom he later married. Geri used to come very regularly and park his Lambretta scooter in our garden, during his escapades which included joint studies with MBS. Later I inherited Geri's anatomy notes which had beautiful diagrams and exquisite hand writing.

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  37. Kumar and Sanath
    Thanks for those snippets about Dr CSR. Although a small made man he was huge in our firmament of teaching stars. In the sphere of Sexual Health in the UK Dr CSR is considered as a pioneer. After arriving in the UK one of my early jobs was at the Prince of Wales Hospital in Tottenham. I was then a drifter unclear what career path to follow. Dr CSR was a Visiting Physician in Sexual Health and I met him often at the canteen. He always sat with me when we talked about life in Colombo and the Faculty. Although he belonged to the same generation as our clinical teachers what struck me most was his modesty and humility. His thoughtful advise has stood me in good stead. He even had the kindness to speak to my consultant about me and his concern for my welfare. Despite leaving SL he spoke most warmly of his love for the country. I cherish those memories and remember him with enormous respect and admiration.

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  38. Hi Kumar and Sanath
    MBS De Silvas complaints about the food served at the Galle doctors quarters reminds me of the flak I received during my "Bathmastership" at The General Hospital Colombo Main quarters situated above the Radiology Department.I was not a popular BM because my priority was to keep cost to below Rs 100 per person(25% of a interns salary those days).Some complained that there was a significant drop in the quality of the meal on the nights I used to go home.

    One day when I was homeward bound after work,I saw the cook rushing towards me very agitated.When I asked what the problem was.he said that he had no greens to make a "mallun" for dinner.This conversation took place on the side corridor(south facing,overlooking the Blood Bank) where I noticed a luxuriant Passion fruit creeper on one of the pillars.What a mouth watering sight,pity i was missing the dinner.I promptly instructed the cook to make the mallun out of passion fruit leaves,he agreed but did not look very enthusiastic.
    Next day when I returned to the quarters I got blasted by the likes of Ranmuthu,Sodium Karu,Marius Cooray and Lama.Never in the history of the main quarters was passion fruit leaf mallun included in the menu.Maybe to make up for this I went with Lama to a night ,club in Union Place,cannot remember the name,the leader of the band was I think Rex Silva.It was an eventful night,I say no more .
    Good Night
    Bora

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  39. I read with much interest, Bora's comment above and how he ended up at the night club where musician Rex de Silva was playing. I think it was the Galaxy. Rex de Silva was my neighbour at Raymond Rd, Nugegoda when I was a medical student. He was romantically involved with Mrs. Boonwaat, the Burmese Amabassador's wife who was shot dead by the husband.

    On a similar note, when the late Desmond (CD) and I were working at the Central VD Clinic in 1968, we were invited to be his guests at the Sunorama night club (next to the old Public Library) where a member of the band had contracted Gonorrhoea. We got to know him when he attended the clinic. As Bora says, let's put a full stop there about our experiences during our bachelor days!

    Coming back to the main subject, I have been called Lakshman, Abey, LND and Lucky at various stages of my life. It is the last named "Lucky" that has stuck on, so much so that Mangala started calling me by that name after I got married.

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  40. Hi Lucky
    Thanks for the information on Rex De Silva.Boonwat case was sensational news at that time.
    The "FULL STOP" was very sensible advice(?order),good call.Timely intervention before we crossed the line.
    Bora

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  41. Sriinee, your entry may have been late but most welcome. The naming of Kanye West's kids was hilarious. On strange names given by parents (should be a sue-able offence I agree!), my GP brother Nihal tells me that the Pacific Islanders have this strange habit of naming kids using important sounding official documents. He once had a mother calling out for "Social Security" and a little girl came up running because that was her name!

    I think we all agree about the fabulous fabulations of Bora! He seems to have an endless collection of “true” stories which are probably not entirely untrue.

    Thanks for educating me on Icelandic names. I was not aware that in Iceland, in a family, the names of the sons end with "---son" and the names of the daughters end with "---dóttir

    The hierarchy in naming siblings is practised by Tamils also but I don’t know of other cultures - must look into that. In most cultures there is a recognition óf age and gender in classifying people as well as marriage and descent relationships and having kinship terms to refer to them, e.g, cousin, uncle, Amma, Appa, aunty, brother, sister but I have never heard a younger brother refer to his elder brother as “elder brother” or as “elder brother David” in the UK unless he is explaining the relationship to another whereas in Sri Lanka it is quite common to refer to “Loku aiya” etc I think there are whole text books written on cultural naming practices in the world. My own summary is that the naming has many intentions. The first is to attach a unique identity to a person. Other factors are family hierarchy, parental lineage, locality, occupation, pleasant sounding, auspicious, lucky or “blessed names”, character trait, historical figures, express hidden aspirations for a child in the future and many more!

    About passing on the Mother's name or Father’s or both (hyphenated- which can also cause problems by agreeing on the order of names – mother or father first?). There are some interesting cultural differences. In the Netherlands, the woman's name is used before a man claims fatherhood. Both the father and mothers' surnames are passed on in Spain and Spanish-speaking countries, but the father's name is more often used day-to-day. Occasionally, however, the matrilineal name sticks: Pablo Ruiz y Picasso used his mother's name, Picasso, for example. This usually happens for snobby reasons (basically, the mother's name packs more punch).Apart from recognising sexual parity, a good reason for passing on both names is to make your children aware of their cultural heritage from both sides of the family. A name is not just a name – it has so many associations which have meaning. Surnames also pose a problem when the parents divorce. Traditionally, daughters are more attached to the mother and there are many instances where she drops her father’s name and adopts the mother’s surname. This topic can go on forever. I must start another one soon. Thanks to all of you who contributed.

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  42. I don't reallywish to draw a line and conclude thus post and do come up with more comments if you wish. It has drawn 75 comments making it the most commented in our Blog's history. Apart from those who commented, I am aware that many more have read and hopefully enjoyed doing so. Once again, to me it is a demonstartion of the value of the Blog. The past is gone and the future is yet to come and criics might say what is the point in recalling the past? I say to them that our present is inexorably tied up with our past. If I show a photo of our Faculty to a Kiwi or Spaniard who has never seen it before, it is just a building but to us, seeing it brings back a whole series of memories and experiences which enrich our lives. This is even stronger when the object is not just physical but a valued and loved friend during a critical and formative point in our lives. Thanks to all the contributors and thanks Lucky and long live the Blog. I raise my glass to FRIENDSHIP!

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  43. Mahendra
    I wish to clarify what I meant by "crossing the line",this referred only .to the night club episode.
    Regarding the"Nick Carr" story I have not checked how true it is,but as you commented either way it was funny.
    Bora

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    1. I didn't misunderstand you Bora. My suggesting that we must move on was not influenced by the "draw the line" (I knew what you were referring to") It is just that I thought it is time for a new discussion. How about you posting something of interest? Now her eis a challenge!

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  45. I think the Boonwaat family lived down Turret Road (Dharmapala
    Mawatha).The sound of a gun shot was heard by a neighbour but the cause of death was given by a local doctor (I cannot remember his name ) as intra-cranial haemorrhage! Diplomatic immunity was claimed and there was no autopsy carried out. Later Boonwaat was recalled back to Burma. A wag commented that the sound the neighbour heard was perhaps that of a blood vessel bursting!

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  46. This is pure gossip and far removed from Speedy's subject.

    There were different versions of the Boonwaat murder. Some say that the former Ambassador lived on the premises where Park View Lodge was situated (Sanath's version is very close to it - Turret Road). A friend of mine claims to have seen a bon fire in that garden which is where Mrs. Boonwaat's remains were burnt!

    Rex de Silva was a night bird. I have seen him walking on Raymond Road during the daytime. He was handsome and wore dark glasses all the time. His wife was June and every morning and evening, she used to go in Devinda Senanayake's (a son of Dudley's brother Robert Senanayake of Freudenburg fame)car. I think June was Chairman Robert Senanayake's secretary. Mr and Mrs de Silva seemed to have had lives on their own. June's brother was another musician called Victor Gamalathge.

    As Bora says, this was a sensational case in the sixties and the newspapers were full of it.

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  47. Lucky
    It is a small world. I lived round the corner from you on Wickramasinghe Place. My family knew the Gamalathge family. They originally were in the house opposite the turning into Balapokuna Rd from High Level road. I remember visiting them with my grandparents about 1948/9. Victor had many siblings and one was called Roland and I think he died a few years ago in Australia. They were a musical family. I still recall Victor and Roland coming to our house to break the news that his mother passed away being burnt in a kerosene lamp fire.
    I last met one of the Gamalathges when I was doing a night shift in the Accident Service Blood Bank in Colombo when they came with a patient.
    As for the Boonwat saga I was at the Jeewaka hostel a few doors next to the Burmese Ambassadors residence in Turrett Road when it all happened. I have seen the lady who was exceptionally pretty with the Ambassador coming out of the house in their Mercedes Benz on numerous occasions. I recall the kerfuffle after the death and the relentless flow of gossip to which everyone added and subtracted to make it such a chilling and harrowing story.
    There are many unanswered questions even now as I read recently an article about it in the Island Newspaper. When I was on a tour of Myanmar few years ago I related this story to my tour guide. She was perhaps too young to recall but said Boonwat is a rich and famous family in Yangon (Rangoon then). We will never know the true story. Human history is littered with stories of the ones that got away with the ultimate crime.

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    1. Thanks ND. I have read Speedy's recommended article as well.

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  48. There is a good article in the web about the Boonwatt saga. Here is the link
    https://www.dailynews.lk/2019/01/25/features/175476/murder-enshrouded-diplomatic-immunity

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  49. Mahendra, thank you very much for providing the Boonwatt murder link. It was very interesting to recollect it once again. Dr. G C Mendis had issued the death certificate mentioning the cause of death as cerebral haemorrhage secondary to hypertension !I am surprised that he was not struck off the medical register.
    Our ambassador in Burma at that time was Professor Nandadeva Wijesekera, whose son-in-law Professor Asoka Gunasekera is a good friend of mine. Prof NG kept wickets for the Ceylon cricket team and is an uncle of Chanaka W.

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    1. I agree with you Sanath. We expect those in our profession to uphold moral values and set an example but sadly it is not always the case. Even in the Judiciary, on which we rely on for Justice and fair play, sadly, there are exceptions but I like to believe that the majority in these professions are in the opposite end of the spectrum from that terrible species,the politicians.

      Coming back to the Boonwatt story, was it ever made into a film? The material is perfect. It is politically sensitive but a fictitious one could be made using it as a basis. I won't be at all surprised this has already happened. Sri Lanka provided the world with the Vicarage Murders after all!

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    2. Dear Sanath,
      There was a famous historian by the name of Dr G.C.Mendis ,no relation I hope. He was a colleague of Justin Labrooy’s father in the history department of the University of Ceylon.
      Agree that it would make a very interesting film and that Chandran Ratnam would be a good choice to direct. Alston Koch ,who acts as Rev Matthew Peiris was in the same table as me at a Thomian function recently,and gave me some good insights into the film.I may have written about this before.
      A DVD is available of the Sinhala version.I hope the film was a commercial success;it deserved to be.
      I remember seeing a photo of the couple with Dudley Senanayake at a diplomatic function.She certainly was very pretty.

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    3. Professor G.C. Mendis the historian had nothing to do with the Boonwatt case. He was the father of Dr. Deepthi (Mendis) Attygalle. The doctor who signed the death certificate in the Boonwatt murder was a Dr. Mendis. He was known to my parents, who referred to him as "Bubsy" Mendis. I don't think his initials were "G.C." I believe he migrated to Malaysia or some other country and did not continue practicing in Sri Lanka after this incident. (I tried to stay out of commenting on this sordid affair, but felt I had to rescue Prof. Garrett C. Mendis' good name! ). Prof. G.C. wrote history textbooks that we used in school.

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  50. Mahendra, I don't think it has been made into a film as yet. Perhaps a person like Chandran Ratnam who produced film about the Vicarage Murders may be interested. Have you seen that film? If you are interested I could forward it to you.

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    1. I have only seem the trailer and couldn't get hold of it. If I can get it form you, that would make my day. Thanks a lot Sanath. I agree that Chandran Ratnam is the right one to make it.

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  51. Hi Mahen

    In relation to your comment on April 9th 3.14am Re upholding moral values, here is a good story:

    "Ambition: a good servant but a bad master"

    A breath of fresh air: An example of integrity mollifying ambition

    Two years ago I attended a friend’s birthday party in Colombo. I was introduced to a tall person by the name of Pieris. He had been in the last batch of elite civil servants. Peiris had been The Secretary to The Prime Minister who at the time was Mrs Sirimavo Bandaranaike.

    During the course of conversation I mentioned that I knew someone in the civil service at that time, Mr D.G. Dayaratne, whose son Tilak had been a batchmate and dear friend of mine. On hearing this, Peiris’s eyes lit up and he asked me whether I could convey a great story about Mr Dayaratne to Tilak. I informed him that, sadly Tilak had passed away a few years ago but I would like to hear the story. This is his fable.

    The Post of Secretary to the Cabinet was a very prestigious and highly sought after position in the Civil Service. It had fallen vacant. As Mr Dayarante was a senior civil servant he was invited for an interview and, at the interview itself, he was offered the position.

    He immediately thanked Mrs Bandaranaike and then proceeded to enquire whether his minister(Boss) had been informed. If this was not the case, then the interview should not proceed any further.

    Mrs Sirimavo Bandarainake appeared shocked and was speechless for about a minute. After regaining her composure, she told Mr Dayaratne that his minister had not been informed and that Mr Dayarante was quite right, the interview should not proceed any further.

    A few weeks later Mr Dayaratne was appointed as the secretary to the cabinet.

    I do hope that that men of this caliber exist in our administrative service today.

    Bora

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    1. Thanks Bora. Good for him. I wish there were more like him. Dr Wickrema Wijenaike, one of my heroes, was a highly principled doctor. He never gave any preference to his channel patients.
      Tilak's brother Deepal was a classmate of mine at STC Kollupitiya. I remember chubby bespectacled Deepal for his special talent in perfectly mimicking a Short Wave Test Match commentary as it whooshes up and down like the sound of a wind blowing in the background with the commentators voice emerging in wavering bursts.It was perfect! Sadly, he too is no more. Tilak was a lovely chap, a bit shy and diffident and well known for his pet red Moto Guzzi motor bike.

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    2. There were highly principled people in our generation too.My brother was offered a scholarship to UK for post graduate studies in engineering.He declined .Minister Iriyagolla had called up my father and said Mr G is your son mad why is he refusing this offer.When by brother explained,my father was so overcome with emotion,and said I feel like worshipping you.He had always told us to be good and not run after money or fame.He himself was a man of great honour;the public service was full of people like him.
      My brother was later given a scholarship to Australia;he met his spouse and settled down in Canberra and was instrumental in getting us down too.
      Such are the forces of Karma

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  52. My brother was second in the list.He was honour bound to his friend and batch mate.
    O Tempora O Mores !!

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    1. I was delighted to read about this loyal friendship,looks like it is running in the family.A dominant gene!.This would have given immense pleasure to your parents and they certainly deserved it.
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  53. Bora, you are referring to Dharmasiri Peiris who occupied many top posts in the Civil Service. I came to know him when he was a member of the Council of the University of Colombo. He told me that he was in the Royal Primary School and as he failed the entrance test, ended up at Thurstan College. He launched his autobiography few years ago. He is Sarath Samarasinghe's brother-in-law. Dharmasiri Peiris and Sarath are married to two sisters. Sarath's wife's twin sister is married to Lalith Senanayake who was in our junior batch. Their wives are the daughters of Dr. P V Anthonis (PR Anthonis's brother),who was a GP in Negombo

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      Thanks for that information on Dharmasiri Peiris,it surprises me how a Royal college college reject was successful at the very very competitive civil service exam.
      Sunil Abeysuriya's wife Sirima is the daughter of P.R.Anthonis' sister.




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    2. Bora, aren't you being a bit hard there! I know a few more "rejects" who have done well in life.The age at which we do the Entrance exam is a bit too early to judge your true potential, don't you think so.

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      Not at all,I was questioning the process of selection for entry to Royal College.How is it that a boy with such potential was overlooked?.Pity that his parents did not try STC. Any way he has done very well in life.Maybe as you said too early to judge.
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  54. Chandran Ratnam is the ideal man to make a film out of the Boonwaat case. Mangala and I watched the Mathew Pieris film at one of the posh cinemas in Colombo. I discussed the movie with ND and he says that the "young fellow who played for Wesley College" is a true story.

    Dr. Nandadeva Wijesekara either captained or played for Ananda College long years ago.

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    1. Thanks to Sanath who gave me a link to watch the Mathew Pieris film. I have read a lot about the saga and seen the trailer but not the film directed by Chandran Rutnam. Another amazing film from Sri Lanka made on 1983,"Thunweni yamaya" was the subject of a Zoom meeting with colleagues here last week. The director of the film, Dharmasiri Bandaranayke himself joined the discussion from Sri lanka. He is another brilliant film director who was far ahead of his time when he produced this psycho-sexual drama. The film is only available as a summary but Torana produced a DVD (not sure whether you can still buy it). He also produced "Hansa Wilak" and "Bawa Duka". He came across as a deep thinker and innovator. I hope a lot of you are using Zoom- great video conferencing product

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  55. I have taken it upon myself to post the 100th comment on this post, the first to reach this milestone. It is a time to thank Lucky for starting it and managing it do well. I do hope the regulars will continue and others will join. Long live the Blog!

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  56. Bora, with the 101st comment I wish to remind you that Niriellage Chandrasiri who was two tears senior to me at RPS, also crashed the RC entrance test and ended up at Thurstan College. As you all are well aware he was the Professor of Forensic Medicine at the Ruhuna University and later it's Vice Chancellor. He has written many books on Forensic Medicine and both of us were joint authors of a publication about non-accidental injuries in a child. I was reliably informed that he had carried out the highest number of judicial autopsies in Sri Lanka, during his career.

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    1. Sanath
      You may have missed my earlier comment to Mahen regarding the selection process/criteria for entry to Royal college.
      Bora

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  57. Let me add my personal thanks to you all for notching up 100 comments under an article. I must also congratulate Bora for his 100th comment and Speedy for generating 100 comments with a single article for the very first time.

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  58. When W Dahanayake was the Minister of Education in SWRDB's cabinet, he abolished the RC entrance test in 1959 and one of the first beneficiaries of that decision was Anura B. Some of the others in his class were Ranil W,Dinesh Gunawardene. and CR (Bulla) de Siva.Up to that time 75% were admitted from RPS and 25% from other schools. With the abolition of the entrance test,all at RPS were admitted and an extra 35 students were admitted from other schools.
    Many years ago, there was letter to the editor complimenting Dahanayake for doing so . I replied, highlighting that Anura was the first beneficiary and he happened to be the Prime Minster's son!

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    1. Sanath, that was interesting to read. My brother Raj was in the same batch at Royal. I don’t think any subsequent or previous batch matched that future political leader collection.

      About W. Dahanayake, he was education minister when my father was the Principal of the Teachers Training school in Mirigama and took early retirement after refusing to bow down to Dahanayake and his political interference. My father was a very principled man.

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  59. Dr.Wijayananda Dahanayake was awarded a PhD from one of the Universities.He was an English trained teacher,prior to his entrance to politics.He contested Bibile and won by beating bus magnate,Leo Fernando,in the State Council.Since 1948 elections he held Galle,the second largest city in Ceylon.He changed his parties on several occasion.Bolshevik,Sama samaja,Bhashaperamuna(1956) and finally,UNP.
    One good thing about him,was that he never took bribes?.

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  60. After being ousted as the caretaker Prime Minister, he left Temple Trees with a small suit case and walked up to the bus stand and boarded a bus to travel back to Galle. He contested the next election after forming a new political party, Lanaka Prajanthravadi Pakshaya. By giving citizenship to TRP holders,he collected the deposits for his party candidates. Nearly all of them lost their deposits !
    When I was in Karapitiya in the 1980s, he visited my residence twice. On both occasions it was for soliciting money. I parted with a few thousand rupees to get rid of him quickly!

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  61. I can see that W.D was no angel. But I too had the impression that he did not take any bribes. This now appears to be a false impression and he was just as bad as the average of his species!

    By the way the prize for the 100 post which I claimed should go to Bora at the very moment I was working on the 100th, he was posting his! Mine therefore was the 101th. Apologies Bora!

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  62. Mahen
    No Worries.You did a great job and gave us the chance to express ourselves.

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  63. Sanath
    Does the name Niro Dahanayake,a nephew of WD, ring a bell.He may have been a class mate of yours at RC.

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    1. Niro Dahanayake was with my elder brother Daya at Royal. Clever chap. Bit of a lady's man. Not sure what happened to him. His father was rather fond of the bottle. They lived in Kotte

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  64. Mahen
    Interesting description,I have met Niro a few times at the Colombo Golf Club,a great buddy of Michael Dias.I thought Niro must be clever because he told me that he and Sanath always competed for the various class prizes,neck and neck.Perhaps Sanath may elaborate.

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  65. Bora and Mahen, Niro was with me in the RPS as well as at RC.Yes, we used to compete for prizes at RC.In the RPS, Mahendra Collure competed with me.I used to win the class prize often or the prize for general knowledge, which was awarded to the next best student. I meet Niro often as he is a member of the '54 group. Mahendra's elder brother Daya is also one of them. I know that Niro is a keen golfer;he spends some of his time in England. His younger brother, Mani, was Lalith Athulathmudali's private secretary and unfortunately died under tragic circumstances

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    1. Sanath and Bora, I gathered this information about Niroshan. He was a great friend of Ana Wimaladharma. They used to go 'capping' girls together (as described during our College days!).
      I think he entered the Junior Tech course at a Technical College in Gal Oya after the GCE-O levels.
      He took up the position of Director for the Galle District in the Southern Development Authority, under the Chairmanship of Navin Goonersatne. The SDA was set up by Chandrika B with Navin as Chairman when she won the presidency of Sri Lanka (in 1994.

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    2. His name is also interesting. Niroshan is a boy and Niroshini is a girl. This happens quite frequently in Sinhala names especially. The addition of -ini transforms a boy into a girl!" Nalin and Nalini, Subash and Subashini, Rohan and Rohini, Ruvan and Ruvani etc.

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  66. I didn't compete with any of you all for prizes in school. But I count better/more accurately than Speedy! See my comment above.

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  67. I am happy to say that this post has been shared with other fora and found to be very interesting and useful by them.

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  68. Mahen, that is interesting news. Who are they?

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