Sunday, August 29, 2021

Customs and Traditions- Srianee Dias

CUSTOMS AND TRADITIONS

Srianee Dias

 

Certain events and experiences in the recent past have focused my thoughts on a topic which has been buzzing in my brain for some time.  There are certain customs that we observe at various stages of our life without pausing to question because “That’s the way it has always been done!”  Often the elders in our family circles coerce and pressure us into following these customs and we cave in!

Yuval Noah Harari writes in his book “Sapiens” (recommended reading, by the way!) how Homo sapiens controlled the behaviour of their species by inventing “imagined realities.”  Our ancestors developed myths which resulted in diverse behaviour patterns, what we now call “cultures.” For example, the myths of the divine rights of ancient kings and the power of tribal leaders.  This led to rapid cultural evolution among Homo sapiens depending on the changing needs of the species.  “The imagined order is embedded in the material world” writes Harari.  We created these cultural “rules.” They are not part of our natural DNA. 

In contrast, the social behaviour of other species is determined by their DNA and the environment.  Most animals living in specific environments behave in ways similar to other members of their species, (e.g. Chimpanzees, elephants, birds, etc.) 

On my recent visit to the Amish country in Lancaster, Pennsylvania, I observed the very strict, restrictive customs that the Amish people still observe, dating back to the 1700s, in spite of being surrounded all around by the advances of the modern world.  I was especially struck by the rules that governed women’s attire.  There is something to be said for living a simple stress-free life, but I am not at all certain if all those rules and restrictions result in reducing stress! 

All of us who were born in Sri Lanka grew up immersed in a culture that went back many centuries. Our lives were influenced by customs originating in many cultures; Kandyan, Low country, Tamil, Portuguese, Dutch, British and even American, some of us more than others.  Religious traditions have also been enmeshed with the secular. 

Those of us who emigrated to lands far away from our birthplace have tried to observe some of those customs and traditions to the best of our capabilities, such as celebrating the traditions of the Sinhala and Tamil New Year. Recently I heard the phrase “You don’t leave your country; you take your country with you.” I believe it was expressed by a guest speaker at one of the SLLS Zoom meetings, and it rang true based on my experience. 

Our customs are often adulterated with superstitions and sometimes dictated by astrologers, which has its drawbacks. In my opinion, any custom which is detrimental to any sector of the population needs to be discontinued.  (I suspect that some people will vehemently disagree with me!) 

There are some traditions that are charming and definitely worth handing down to future generations.  I love the tradition of showing respect to elders following the traditional poruwa ceremony at weddings, when the bride and groom offer bundles of betel leaves to their parents, getting down on their knees and bowing down in front of the parents. There was also a time when betel leaves were offered to elders when someone visited the home of an older family member or teacher, but I don’t believe it is being done anymore. 

In the villages of Sri Lanka, and perhaps India, there is a tradition of offering a glass brimming with water to the chief guest at an important luncheon, such as at a wedding. I believe it is a symbolic invitation for the guests to begin the meal that is being served.  This tradition may also be fast disappearing. 

It is at weddings that traditions come creeping out of the woodwork.  An interfering aunt (usually!) will begin dictating the “should” and the “should nots” to the bride and groom, and their parents. 

I have sat through a 3 hour long Hindu wedding ceremony in the US where the guests kept getting up from their seats, taking turns to stretch their legs, paying very little attention to what was going on.   I have also attended a well-choreographed, abbreviated version of the Hindu ceremony where the considerate bride and groom had a friend participating on the side giving brief intermittent explanations of the significance of what was taking place, for the benefit of the (mostly non-Hindu) guests. 

A few years ago, when I was in Sri Lanka, I was invited to a family brunch to celebrate the occasion of my grandniece “attaining age,” Accepting the fact that in Sri Lankan culture it was an event often celebrated, I joined the family and sat down to enjoy the goodies which included some of my favourites, kiribath and lunumiris!  In the course of conversation, I learned that my grandniece had been kept away from school for a whole week!  I almost choked on the kiribath and asked why she wasn’t sent to school?  What if she had an important exam that week?  The sheepish answer I received from my sister-in-law (the grandmother) was “We have to follow our traditions!” I countered with my argument that the only traditions that are worth following are those that make sense.  I’m not sure if I got through to anyone that morning, but I was thankful that my sister-in-law does not have any more granddaughters! 

I know that among the hill country Tamils the families get into debt to have grand “coming of age” celebrations that they cannot afford.  But, when my educated sister-in-law, who should know better, blindly followed this ancient ‘tradition’ which could have a negative impact on young girls, I was appalled. 

In the old days, it may have made sense for girls to be secluded this way because they did not have access to modern sanitary products.  But there is absolutely no reason for girls to miss one week of their education in 2021, unless they are feeling unwell.  I hope this is one tradition that will be tossed out soon. Doctors need to educate their patients too, because after all this is just a physiological change in a young girl’s life.  All she needs is the information and the guidance to be well prepared for the event. Perhaps there are other similar traditions of which I am completely unaware. 

To borrow a few lines from the Kenny Rogers song “The Gambler”

              “You’ve got to know when to hold ‘em, know when to fold ‘em, know when to walk away and know when to run!”

I would love to hear from my friends about other traditions we need to “hold” and those which we need to “fold.”

Wednesday, August 25, 2021

Nihal (ND) Amarasekera on fascinating “flying things”

Nihal (ND) Amarasekera on fascinating “flying things”

Butterflies


Butterflies reminds me of our study of these magnificent insects in biology and its transformation from a slimy voracious caterpillar to an inactive sedentary pupa and then to a beautiful and colourful butterfly flitting from flower to flower. They have mesmerised humans by their delicate elegance and charm since time began and remains so still across cultures as a symbol of the beauty of nature.

Victor Hugo was a famous French romantic poet and novelist in the 19th century (known for The Hunchback of Notre-Dame) and Les Misérables (1862) both rather sombre and dark stories but he also wrote a bright and lovely poem about butterflies.

 The Genesis of the Butterfly by Victor Hugo

The dawn is smiling on the dew that covers

The tearful roses; lo, the little lovers

That kiss the buds, and all the flutterings

In jasmine bloom, and privet, of white wings,

That go and come, and fly, and peep and hide,

With muffled music, murmured far and wide.

Ah, the Spring time, when we think of all the lays

That dreamy lovers send to dreamy mays,

Of the fond hearts within a billet bound,

Of all the soft silk paper that pens wound,

The messages of love that mortals write

Filled with intoxication of delight,

Written in April and before the May time

Shredded and flown, playthings for the wind's playtime,

We dream that all white butterflies above,

Who seek through clouds or waters souls to love,

And leave their lady mistress in despair,

To flit to flowers, as kinder and more fair,

Are but torn love-letters, that through the skies

Flutter, and float, and change to butterflies

 Oriental Magpie-robin


These birds are found in the Indian subcontinent and South-East Asia. They are so easily identified with their long tail and black and white plumage. They are commonly found close to human habitation as birds in our gardens feeding on insects, scraps of food, rice and seeds. They make their nests in holes in trees.

The Eurasian Magpies are known for their intelligence. They are much larger and more aggressive feeders stealing eggs and young from the nests of other birds and hence disliked by many. According to traditional British folklore the Magpie is linked to the devil. These birds are grouped with the crows as evil as shown on the film “Omen”. Magpie is the national bird of Korea adored and revered by many as the bringer of good fortune.

 The House Sparrow


These lovable little creatures are ubiquitous and is often described as the cheerful exploiters of man’s rubbish and wastefulness. Having colonised human habitation throughout the world is a common garden bird we all have seen and loved all through our lives. We often left pots with a hole in the centre on trees in our garden for sparrows to nest and they did. Many consider them a symbol of good luck. These cheerful and gregarious little birds prefer to live close to each other in large flocks. They are sometimes seen having baths together in ponds and streams. We often see large flocks congregate in trees in the evenings at sunset and also at sunrise. Sadly these birds are in decline worldwide due to habitat loss.

I love this simple poem by Charles Lamb (1775-1834), the 19th century poet.

 

The Rook and the Sparrows by Charles Lamb

A little boy with crumbs of bread

Many a hungry sparrow fed.
It was a child of little sense,
Who this kind bounty did dispense;
For suddenly it was withdrawn,
And all the birds were left forlorn,
In a hard time of frost and snow,
Not knowing where for food to go.
He would no longer give them bread,
Because he had observed (he said)

That sometimes to the window came
A great black bird, a rook by name,
And took away a small bird's share.
So foolish Henry did not care
What became of the great rook,
That from the little sparrows took,
Now and then, as 'twere by stealth,
A part of their abundant wealth;
Nor ever more would feed his sparrows.
Thus ignorance a kind heart narrows.

I wish I had been there, I would
Have told the child, rooks live by food
In the same way that sparrows do.
I also would have told him too,
Birds act by instinct, and ne'er can
Attain the rectitude of man.
Nay that even, when distress
Does on poor human nature press,
We need not be too strict in seeing

The failings of a fellow being.

 

Sri Lankan Jungle Fowl (Gallus lafayettii ) 


Our jungle fowl is endemic to Sri Lanka and is our national bird. This is one of the most beautiful birds we have with a richly coloured plumage and a comb of brilliant red. As the name implies they are commonly found in the jungles but occasionally close to human habitation. Although uncommon they are known to inter-breed with domestic fowl. The jungle fowl live in area upto 2000 metres above sea level in the jungles of Kitulgala, Yala and Sinharaja forest.

 

Woodpecker


There are several type of woodpeckers in Sri Lanka. The red coloured flamebacks are only found in Sri Lanka and the Philippines. They feed on insects mostly ants, beetles and caterpillars and also arthropods like spiders. Woodpeckers drill nest holes in trees. Romans worshipped the woodpecker. Picus, was a woodpecker  sacred to the God of Mars.

(all drawings by Nihal. Photos of Victor Hugo and Charles Lamb from  the Web)

Sunday, August 22, 2021

I am going home

 “I am going home”

Mahendra “Speedy” Gonsalkorale

How many times have you heard this said, but have you really wondered what these four simple words mean? It is easy enough to directly translate, isn’t it? Well, as you may have guessed there is a twist in the tail. It is with reference to that simple word “home” and I would like you to pause for a moment and….. think..

Home could be the place where one lives permanently, especially as a member of a family or household.

It could be a place of residence, accommodation, a roof over your head, quarters, lodgings, rooms, address, location, residence, abode, dwelling etc.

It could refer to the country you live in now or The country you were born and lived a significant part of your life.

It could be an institution for people needing professional care or supervision, such as residential home, nursing home, old people's home, retirement home, convalescent home, rest home, children's home etc.

It could be a place of shelter, refuge, a retreat, an asylum or hostel.

The feeling of belonging to a home is strong in the animal kingdom. An animal who returns by instinct to its home territory after leaving it has a homing instinct, e.g.,“a dozen geese homing to their summer nesting grounds"

Yet another use of the word home  is the central importance attached to the term home physically as illustrated by moving or aiming towards the most important place in the target or destination- aiming home. There is a similarity here, as home is of central importance.

For most of us, Home means an enjoyable, happy and safe place where you live, laugh and learn. It's somewhere where you are loved, respected, and cared for. When you look at it from the outside, your home might just look like an ordinary physical structure – but home is more, much more than a mere physical structure.

We take for granted what a home is. Like many things we have, we most appreciate it when we are not at home. Even when you are in a strange place, if you feel comfortable, you say you felt quite at “home”.

We forget the millions who have no home. Just think of the terrible situation in Afghanistan. Just think of helpless innocent children who are homeless. Just think of some psychologically and mentally disturbed people who live on the streets – the homeless.

We look back on our Faculty days and for many home could have been a hostel or rented room. When you are away from the Hostel like at a party, going home means going back to the hostel which is now your home. But if you have a parental home, that is what you refer to when you say I am going home. When I was an HO at GHC, I lived in Regent House and my room there quickly became my home and my mother was puzzled by my desire to go back there rather than sleep overnight at Nawala. Regent house, and in particular my room, was then my home!

When I went on holiday from England to visit my parents’ house at Nawala where I used to live, I was going back home. But when the holiday ended and I left for England, I was also getting back home!

A home is important for mental and social stability. A home must be a place of safety where you can lower your guard and relieve yourself from anxiety, stress and fear. You are even luckier if you have a loved one/s with you to share the home.

If you live abroad, is your home that country or the country where you were born and bred; where you were transformed from a tiny fertilised ovum to a functioning human being through an intermediate state of utter helplessness totally dependent on your loving parents? And now, here you are with memories, both pleasant and unpleasant, fears, anxieties, survival skills, education, knowledge, beliefs, opinions friends, associates etc. What seems to matter is the here and now.

Home is something some never had, not in its true sense. To us, the Medical Faculty all of us attended was indeed a kind of home. Our home need not be the same one over time; it can change from year to year or even in the same day. But all my homes, from childhood through school days, medical student days to all the physical places I occupied after becoming a doctor in different countries, are of importance to me.

Home is special. That is why, wherever you were out during the day or the week or the month or the year, the sense of relief, joy, the happiness you experience when you reach the front door, turn the key, open the door and let yourself in, is so joyous, so comforting, so “womb-like”, because your current home IS your home.

Man still preserves some characteristics derived from his history as a vulnerable being fighting to survive in an unpredictable and dangerous environment. The one place he feels safe is his home. It is possibly also the only place in his world he can make changes that are personal. It is therefore not surprising that he feels safe and happy in this “world within a world”. Anybody who suffered from the unpleasant experience of being burgled will understand the feeling of revulsion experienced at the mere thought that your personal space, your home, has been violated.

I wonder whether my thoughts on home have any connection with the pleasure gained by reminiscing on our "home", the medical faculty at a crucial stage of our lives. I wonder…I just wonder…Do you?

Wednesday, August 18, 2021

SPEEDY DIALOGUE SERIES- EPISODE 10 (IV) Chirasri Jayaweera-Bandara

 Episode 10-: Chirasri  Jayaweera Bandara (nee Mallawaratchi) (IV)

“Glimpses of my family and how my career unfolded”

Speedy: Good morning Chira. Good to see you again and let us start this time by going back to your beginnings and ask you about your parents as it will give us a glimpse of history.

Chira: Thank you Mahendra for giving me this opportunity. I do hope that viewers would find it interesting.

Speedy: I have no doubt they will and I am so pleased that you provided some photos too.

Chira: You are very encouraging! Thank you.

Speedy: OK Chira, over to you.

Chira: I shall start with my Father, Mallawaratchige Don Henry Perera He was a Staff Officer in the government service, and was from Kandy and studied at Dharmaraja College, Kandy.

My Mother - Juliet Clara Wijesinghe was from Panadura and studied at St. John’s College, Panadura. Incidentally, our batchmate Wimal Soysa’s father and his sister studied there as well.   Prof.MVP Peiris too studied here.

In fact, he was residing in my mother’s Mahagedera and going to school from there.( My mother used to say this) This school was very popular at that time a large number of very important people studied there.

Speedy: That was an interesting aside. I am sure you will touch on many colleagues with whom you had connections prior to entering the Faculty.      

Chira: Yes, you are right. There were many and I shall recall them as we proceed.  Coming to my Mother’s Family, my mother’s father was a Muhandiram, His name was Mapitiyage Adrian Peiris Wijesinghe    

My mother’s eldest brother was a Mudaliyar His name was Mapitiyage Walter Edward Peiris Wijesinghe. 

Speedy: Muhandiram and Mudaliyar were titles of honour in the colonial days, till 1956 I believe. Of course among them there were ranks such as Maha Mudaliyar, Gate Mudaliyar, Atapattu Mudaliyar, Court Mudaliyar and so on.

Chira: I believe so.                                                                                                           

My mothers parents and eldest brother.

His son, my First cousin, is  Dr  Nandi  Wijesinghe  (Mapitiyage  Nandimittra  Wijesinghe)  He went to the US and is a V.O.G.  in  Los  Angeles. He  is  married  to  Dr  Neelakshi  Gunawardene  from  our  parallel  Peradeniya  batch,  friend  of  our batch  Manel  Wijesundera  ( Owlie).]

Speedy: Owlie, please note! Of course, you knew that Owlie!

Chira: I am sure she does. In my mother’s family, there were  4  Males and  4  Females.

 My mother’s 2nd   cousins were Prof M.V.P.  Peiris  and  Prof  S.R. Kottegoda, who was our Lecturer and later the Dean  of  the  Faculty of  Medicine, Colombo.

 Prof. M.V.P. Peiris’s father and my mother’s father were 1st cousins with the same “Ge” name.

Prof. S.R. Kottegoda’s mother  (a Wijesinghe)  and my mother’s father were  1st cousins.

Speedy: How interesting! I am sure you know that Prof Kotte’s daughter Indira is married to my younger brother Raj. They live in Sydney but are frequent visitors to Sri Lanka.

Chira: Yes Speedy, I was aware of that. Prof  M.V.P. Peiris was  an  Ambidextrous  Orthopaedic  Surgeon   who  operated   on  Prime  Minister   D.S. Senanayake. He  was  President  of  the  Ceylon  Medical  Association  (SLMA)  and  a  past Minister of  Health.  His wife Doreen  used  to  consult  me  at my consultation room at my residence, which has been functioning since 1985. 

One of Prof Kottegoda’s hobbies was Photography and he had given me a beautiful photograph of squirrels.

Speedy: Yes, he was well recognised for that. His book on Flowers of Sri Lanka is a classic.

Chira: I have seen that book. The photos are beautiful. Coming now to my first Cousins on my Mother’s side :-  

1. Late Dr Gamini Wijesinghe, Consultant  Psychiatrist  known  to  Dr Vinitha  Perera, Consultant  Psychiatrist (our Peradeniya batch)  was married  to  Late  Dr W.D.H.  Perera,  Consultant Dermatologist.

2. Dr Nandi Wijesinghe,  Consultant  V.O.G.  Living  in  Los  Angeles  married  to  Dr Neelakshi  Gunawardene ( our Peradeniya Batch )  a  friend  of  Manel  Wijesundera.

3.  Dr Anura Samaraweera  was  living  in  California  and  now  back  in  Sri Lanka. He  is known to  Lalantha Amerasinghe  as  they  had  worked together at  Palali  Army  Camp  during  the  war 

Speedy: Thank you, so many interesting connections. What about your Father’s family?

Chira:  My  father’s  father died  when  he  was  14  years old.  It was his uncle G.D.A. Abeyratne, mentioned below, who looked after him.

My father’s mother was Lucy Perera (housewife). She was a lady who always wore long skirts down to the ankles, at home.  When we were  very young  my  brother,  sister and  I  used  to  play cards  with  her, and always win, with hints off the reflection  of  her  cards  on  her  spectacles!

Speedy: Isn’t that cheating!

Chira: Well, I suppose so but don’t you think we were clever too!

Speedy: Ok, I shall grant that.

Chira: Thank you. This photo shows my father and family; my father’s mother, wearing a long skirt and my father is standing next to his sister.

Speedy: I am glad you are showing these photos as it reminds us of the type of attire in those days; a good lesson in history.

Chira: I am glad you think so. You would have noticed my mother’s mother too wearing a long skirt in the earlier photo.

My father’s sister’s son is  Dr Nihal Munesinghe  mentioned  below.

Mentioned  below also, Dr Mahima Mallawaratchi’s father (youngest in the family who changed his name from Perera to Mallawaratchi their “Ge”name )  is standing on the extreme left. He wanted my father and other members to change the name. My mother had said that people will call her by both names and didn’t like it. Then all the family members decided to name their offspring Mallawaratchi. That is how my family members and all my first cousins are Mallawaratchis! 

Speedy: This has been the experience of so many families. Ranjit Dambawinna for example was a Perera and  he  took his “ge” name, Damabawinna.

Chira: My  father’s  mother’s  younger  brother  was  Ganewattage  Don  Alexander  Abeyratne, who  got  his  M.A. from  England, (after getting there by sea).  He was  the  1st  Principal  of  Vidyartha  College,  Kandy  and later  Dharmaraja College,  Kandy.

Speedy: That is another thing which people forget. Travel by sea to England was the norm in those days.

Chira: That is true. These days of course, Air travel is the norm.

His  daughters   (My father’s first cousins) were:-

1. Hema  Jayasinghe (nee Abeyratne)  was  Principal of Visakha  Vidyalaya, Colombo. Later Deputy Director,  Ministry of Education.

I  mention  this  as  quite  a number  of  our  batch  mates (both  Colombo  and  Peradeniya) studied  at  Visakha  Vidyalaya.They are  Manel Wijesundera,  Late Priya Gunaratne, Manil Hettiaratchi,  Surangani, Sujatha Maligaspe, Kusuma, Late Kamali, Neelakshi, Chula, Chitra, Late  Srimathi.                                                                           

2. Chitra  Abeyratne  was  Principal  of Anula  Vidyalaya,  Nugegoda  and later  Principal of Musaeus  College, Colombo.

Lalani, Nisha and Padmini had studied at Anula Vidyalaya, Nugegoda.

3. Late Rani  Kitulegoda  (nee  Abeyratne)  was  headmistress  of Anula  Nursery. My son and my sister’s daughter attended Anula Nursery when she was there.

4. Nalini Kappagoda (nee Abeyratne) Consultant Pathologist, was  married  to  Late Dr M.B. Kappagoda,  Consultant  Eye Surgeon, living in Sydney,  Australia. I met them when they came for the S.A.A.R.C. Eye Surgeons’s  Congress in 2000 in Sri Lanka. I met her again when I went to Australia in 2006.

His  son   (My father’s  first  cousin), the Late  Chandrabanu  Abeyratne, who was a  Major  General  in  the  army  was  married  to  late Shiromani  Seneviratne, Dental Surgeon. Shiromani studied at Methodist College and was one year senior to me.  Our batchmates from Methodist  College  will  remember  her.

My  first Cousins  on my  Father’s side are:-

1. Dr Nihal Munasinghe  who is from  the  1st  batch  of Medical  Faculty,  Peradeniya,  built  Medicare  Hospital,  Campbell  Place,  Borella. He is known to our batchmates  from  Peradeniya. I channelled and did surgery there.  Our batchmate, Dr Drahaman had practised there as well.

2. Dr Mahima Mallawaratchi, is a Physician  living  in England. Her brother Mahesh ( from  STC ) owns  Malkey  Rent  a  Car at  Pamankada, Colombo.

Speedy: That was most interesting. Let me ask you now to talk about you and your own family.

Chira;  Thanks, Speedy. I  started  my  education  at  The  Girl’s  High  School,  Kandy  and  I  was there till the  2nd standard. I won the Class Prize that year. I also obtained a Certificate stating Very Good for Painting from The Royal Drawing Society, UK, when I was 8 years old.

Speedy: Well done Chira!  I can see how early in life you showed your artistic talents!

Chira: Thanks Speedy. But I started painting only a couple of years ago. My father came to Colombo on transfer.   I attended St. John’s Girl’s School Nugegoda for one year.

Speedy: I remember that as we lived in Nugegoda in Melder Place at that time too. (On the left, a photo of the entrance to Melder Place now)

Chira: Yes, I remember you and your sister Nelum and brothers Daya and Nihal. We used to play a lot together and had a lot of fun.

Speedy: We certainly did. We touched on this in a previous episode.

Chira: Yes we did. After that I moved over to Methodist College, Colombo. I have gone up to the stage to receive ‘A’ reports from the Principal Miss Robins on many occasions. I won many prizes at Methodist College including Rosemary de Alwis  Memorial Prize. Rosemary was a cousin of Bora’s.

My Parents and the three of us lived at  No.  6  Melder  Place  Nugegoda after we came from Kandy.

 

(This Family  Photo was taken in 1968)  
Speedy: How many brothers and sisters have you got?

Chira: I am the eldest of three. My brother D.P.Mallawaratchi Studied at St. Thomas Prep and St. Thomas College Mt. Lavinia. My sister  Dhammika studied at the same schools as myself.  She is married to Ranjith  Ekanayake, retired Brigadier in the Army.

Speedy: I remember both well. We called your brother Matchchi.

Chira : Yes, that’s him. That was because I couldn’t pronounce Malli properly when I was very small and the name got registered! Dayalal obtained his BSc. from the Engineering Faculty, Peradeniya,  MASc. (Master of Applied Science)  from  The University of British Columbia, Vancouver,  Canada.   A  Civil  Engineer. He was a President of  the Institution of  Engineers. He married  Prof. 


Channa Ratnatunge’s sister  Malini  MSc, Graduate worked at the  C. I. S. I. R.

My  sister and  I studied  at  Methodist  College  Colombo and travelled to school in a private car owned by Mrs. Wijewardena.  The  Vanguard  picked  us  up  from  Melder Place  and  on  the  way  picked  up Swyrie and  her 3 sisters Gemini,  Ramani  and  Preethi from  Kirillapone. Later my Father arranged a  school bus which started from the top of  Melder Place, Nugegoda. 

Swyrie and her 3 sisters also travelled in it to Methodist College.   A small girl called Noeline living at the top of Melder Place too joined us. She was teased by tying her Schoolbag to her plat, and guess who the culprit was?  Swyrie !


Speedy: And now let us talk about University and medical education

Chira; I  entered  The  University of Colombo from  Methodist  College, for a 6  Months  course  in  Zoology . Ours was the  last  batch  to follow  this course.   Sura,  Sunil, Bora, Sanath, J.C.. Patas, Senerath, Bertram Nana, Lucky, and Cassim also followed this course.

For the  Zoology  course,  we  had  only  two  lectures  and  a  practical  class every  week.  I  used  to  play Bridge  with  my  friends  Vinodhini  Chanmugam  and  Jemima  Jesuant, (both  from Methodist College) from  the  Science  Faculty. 

I  met  them  in  England  later on  when  I  went for  my  Postgraduate studies. I   visited Jemima’s  place  in  Hong  Kong  in  2008.  Sadly, they are both no  more now.  Those from Methodist College  will  remember  them. I  used  to  play  Badminton   and  represented  the  Colombo  University.  We   played against the Peradeniya  University  and won  the Tournament in 1961.  I played mixed doubles with my brother (from the Engineering Faculty) as well, during that period.

Speedy: This is news to me. I had no idea that you were good at Sports!

Chira: Well, now you know! Only Badminton and Table tennis. ( not in school)

The other memory I have of that time is how after  I entered Medical College I used to travel in a Private car with Late Priya Gunaratne, Late Kamini Gunawardene and Padmini Gunawardene .

 

(Photo  in  Signature Book  Medical Faculty 1962)

I  studied with Manil Hettiaratchi, Primrose and Nisha. Lalani and Padmini used to join us.                                                                     

My studying was made difficult because I  used  to  get  severe  Migraine  headaches  But  my wonderful mother helped me by reading  my  Text  Books  and notes to me. I  used to lie  down on  bed,  close my eyes  and  listen  to  her.  She was a Tower of strength to me.

Speedy: I am sure she was. We must never ever forget the love and guidance we received from our parents.

Chira: I quite agree Speedy. In my final year, I stayed at the Women’s Hostel down De Saram Road, Colombo. Pram and Dole (Piyaseeli Dolawatte) were in the next room and Manel (Owli) was in the opposite room on the 2nd floor.

Speedy: For reasons unclear, the hostel was known to us as the Hopper House!

You then graduated with the MBBS and started your internship, right?

Chira; Yes, that is correct, and no comment about the name!

My first appointment was with Dr Misso, Surgeon at the General Hospital, Colombo.  Swyrie  and  Zita  also worked with me.

Speedy: I was HO to Dr Misso too but he retired during that time and I completed with Dr Burhan or Dr DFDS Gunawardena, I can’t be sure.

Chira: Dr Misso was a thorough gentleman but I remember that time for another reason; because of a gruesome incident. I received a call from ward 1   G.H.C. saying that a man was hanging from the roof.  It was a  terrible sight to see this man who had undergone a  prostatectomy a  few days before.  I was “on-call” and had to face a number of inquiries into this incident.

Speedy: What a scenario for a young doctor to face!

Chira: It was awful. I had good friends who supported me. During this appointment, I  shared a  room with  Pram in the quarters above the  Radiology Department  GHC.

My second Appointment was with Dr Rajanayagam V.O.G. at the Castle Street Hospital for Women. Colombo. Bernadette  used  to  share  my  room  in the quarters  when  she  was  on call.

Speedy: Any other notable events you would like to share with us?

Chira: I was Bridesmaid many times. The first time was to  Anoja Wijesekera,  my  oldest  friend  from  Methodist College since  standard  4.  She married Dr Nanda Atukorale  Dermatologist, who is sadly no more The second time was  to Primrose and the third  time was to  Piyaseeli  Dolawatte (Dole). There was a saying, “third time  a bride’s maid,  never a  bride”, but  I  broke it,  and became  a  Bride  in  1979  after  I  returned  from  Overseas Postgraduate leave! 

Speedy: Good for you Chira! Old wives tales I call them.

Ok so you did your internship and then, what followed?

Chira: After Internship, my first appointment was at The Homagama Hospital.  Late Sardha too worked with me.

This was a milestone for me as I bought my first car and used to drive to Homagama Hospital.

Speedy: Your first car is something you never forget. Mine was a Triumph Herald which I bought from my brother when he went to England. I was so chuffed and proud of it.

Chira: Yes, I was so thrilled when I got it. Let me related an interesting story about my car. One day when driving to the hospital there was a traffic block, there was no movement of vehicles towards Homagama at all. Suddenly a man opened the rear left door and got into the car. I got the shock of my life!  I didn’t know how to get rid of this man. He offered to show the way to the Hospital via a side road. He got me to turn the car to the left and as we proceeded a fair distance, I saw a hospital attendant standing at a bus halt. I stopped the car, thanked him for his help and told him that there is a person from the hospital that I could go with him. I heaved a sigh of relief! Ever since that day I used to lock the car from inside.                                                                                  

Speedy: What a story! You must have been scared out of your wits!

Chira: I was and still shudder when I recall it.

Speedy: And what was next?

Chira: Next was my Eye Hospital appointment, from May 1971.  I   worked with Late Dr Velauthan.    Kusuma had worked at the Eye Hospital just before I went there. 

Vasantha Ovitigala worked with me at  Eye Hospital. I went to see Vasantha’s first baby with Benita Stephen (Thoracic surgeon’s wife), when they were living down Kynsey  Road, Colombo.  Vasantha is married to  Karu Jayasuiriya. (former Speaker)  That daughter married  Naveen  Dissanayake, Gamini Dissanayake’s  son.                                                                                                                                  

Speedy: The next stage is your postgraduate career and how you became such a well-known and respected eye surgeon in Sri Lanka. Please take us through that period

Chira: Thanks for your kind words Speedy. I left for the U.K. at the end of February 1976 on No Pay Study Leave granted by the Government to do the Diploma in Ophthalmology and the FRCS in Ophthalmology.

I was allowed only 3 Sterling Pounds and 10 Shillings exchange on my Passport. I was not given any allowance from the Government. I had to earn my own living and study on my own all by myself. There was absolutely no teaching or any guidance and nor any advice given to me as to how to set about studying for these exams. I had to ask others and study, A Herculean task!

I told my daughter Anjali who just passed her local Final M.D.Ophthalmology exam. that she is very lucky that her training was excellent for a period of 4 years with 4 exams. They were given Lectures; Clinical Lecture Demonstrations and periodic assessments and Workshops conducted by our College of Ophthalmologists which helped them. They did group studies as well. In contrast, for me it was a case of self-study without any group studies and no training at all. I also had to earn my living in UK.

Speedy: That was the norm for no pay study leave which I too went through. You were set afloat in a foreign country with hardly any resources, clutching references received form your bosses and had to use all your ingenuity and skill to navigate and finally reach the shore with that much-wanted qualification. It was a case of triumph for optimism over fear.

Do carry on Chira. I couldn’t help reflecting on that time period.

Chira: I couldn’t agree with your more Speedy. Talking of what happened after I went to U.K., I first worked as a Clinical Assistant  at Moorfields Eye Hospital London and Western Ophthalmic Hospital London. I passed the Primary FRCS in 1976.  

Next, I worked  as  SHO Ophthalmology, at The  London  Hospital,  Whitechapel   England. I  obtained  The Diploma in Ophthalmology in 1977.  (D. O.  Lond)

I was SHO Ophthalmology  in Sutton General Hospital when I obtained the F.R.C.S. (Eng ) in 1978 and worked as Registrar at the Royal Surrey County Hospital Guilford, England and came back to Sri Lanka in May 1979.                                                    

I was  in  the U.K. for  3 years and 3 months. I used to visit Pram in Wembley and later in St. Johns Wood,  Manil Hettiaratchi in  Blackpool and later in Dulwich,  Wimala Sothinadan (de Silva) in Colchester. I visited Bernadette in Wakefield, Primrose in Kent and later Granthum and  Zita in Southend-on-Sea.

Speedy: After gaining all your qualifications, you came back to Sri Lanka. Take us through your next phase.

Chira: Yes, I came back to Sri Lanka in May 1979 and was appointed   Consultant Eye Surgeon  Kegalle Hospital.  When  Cassim got a transfer to Eye Hospital from Kandy Hospital, I got a transfer to Kandy Hospital in Oct 1979.

Speedy: We just missed each other as I came back to England in April 1979. I was the first Consultant Neurologist in Kandy from December 1977 and set up the Unit from scratch.

Chira: That was great! It is a pity that you had to go back to England but I know you had good personal reasons to do so.

Speedy: Thanks for your understanding Chira. I gather you married in that time?

Chira:  Yes, I got married to Ranjit Jayaweera Bandara in Oct 1979. He did Geography Honours at the Peradeniya Campus. He went to UK and obtained the Charter in Personnel Management.  He worked at the C.I.S.I.R. and later at the State Mortgage Bank Colombo, as A.G.M. He did the LLB at the Open University and worked as a Legal Adviser to the S.L.I.I.T. Colombo.

Speedy: And your next jobs in Sri Lanka? 

Chira: I worked in Kandy Hospital for 5 years. Dr Reggie Seimon was the other surgeon there. I came to Eye Hospital Colombo as Consultant Eye Surgeon in Oct 84 and retired in Feb. 2001.

Speedy: Any special memories of that time?

Chira: Not a pleasant one Speedy. I was in the  Operating  Theatre, Eye  Hospital when the Central Bank Bomb blast occurred in Jan. 1996. Many casualties were brought. Prof Sheriffdeen wheeled in Mr Lalith  Kotelawala with cut injuries all over his body mainly the upper part including his eyes. I started suturing him and Dr Saliya Pathirana (Retinal surgeon) took over as his retina was involved.

Later Mr Lalith  Kotelawala  built  The  Golden   Key  Eye  and E.N.T. Hospital,  Colombo.  Dr Saliya  Pathirana is  in charge  of the  eye department.   

Speedy; You developed special expertise within Ophthalmology. Tell us about that.

Chira: I went with other Consultants to Hyderabad and Madras to follow workshops on Cataract Phaco emulsification  Surgery in 1999.  Cassim also joined. This is the latest  technique to remove a cataract by emulsifying the cataract and  sucking it out with the  Phaco machine. 

Speedy: You had several spells in the UK after you became a Consultant. Where and when did you work?                                                       

Chira: While working in Govt.  Service  we  were  entitled  to  take  6  months overseas  leave  every  5 years. I made use of this and  worked   in  the U.K in the  latter  halves  of  1986,  1992  and  1998.        

Speedy: You have some special memories of Wales Chira. Tell us about it

Chira: It happened like this. In 1992,  I worked as Locum Consultant Ophthalmologist, Isbity hospital, Gwenedd, Bangor North Wales.  While I was there, Ranjit and the two Children came  to  Bangor, North Wales and spent 3 months with me.   My children went to school in Bangor and they even learnt the Welsh language! The other memory of that time is that Primrose, Upul and children  came  to  Bangor North Wales and spent a weekend with us.  We visited  Anglesey with them.

Speedy: I see. Must have been great to have them. I gather also that you gained some more special experience in the UK?  

Chira: Yes Speedy, it was so nice to be with them About my special experience, when I went to U.K.in 1986,  I  learnt  the use of the Laser and obtained experience in  Laser treatment..

At that time Sri Lanka did not have a single Laser machine. When I was the President of the Ophthalmological Society of Ceylon in 1987I started a Laser fund. I organised several   Programmes to raise funds. 

Speedy:  That was great! What sort of fundraising programmes were they?

Chira: Different sorts, some of them were T.V. and Lion’s  club programmes.

And also working in UK in 1992 and 1998 as a Locum Consultant, I gained experience with more modern and advanced instruments and techniques which helped me to purchase certain items and improve my techniques in Sri Lanka.                         

Speedy: I think that system of granting postgraduate leave was mutually beneficial. It motivated the doctors to enhance their knowledge and expertise, and at no real cost to the Government. It also gave them and their families an opportunity to visit other countries.


What an incredible journey Chira! Now I would like you to sit back and relax and talk about your own family.

Chira But of course! Is it Ok if I have my cup of tea now? Do please help yourself too. Hope it has not gone cold.

Speedy: Of course Chira, please do and thanks for my cuppa too.

Chira: You are most welcome. 

Coming to my children, I have two and they are both doctors. My son Anju studied initially at St. Thomas Prep. Kollupitiya and later at Royal College, Colombo.

Speedy: I didn’t know that! How interesting because I too went from St Thomas Prep Kollupitiya to Royal College.

Chira: There you are! He then studied Medicine, like you too! But at The Kursk State Medical University, Russia (in English). He is currently working as M.O. at the National Hospital, Colombo in the Orthopedics Unit.  He is interested in Photography and is now a Professional photographer doing weddings etc. as well.

My  Daughter Anjali  initially studied at  Methodist College, Colombo and later at Visakha Vidyalaya, Colombo. She studied Medicine at the Kasturba Medical College, Manipal, India. She passed her Finals M.D. in Ophthalmology in January 2021. At the moment she is working as Senior Registrar at the Eye  Hospital, Colombo.

Speedy: You must be so proud of them, and rightly so. It is even more interesting after reading Sanath Lama’s recent post on Medical Education. Your experience is a good example of how private medical education (cost borne by the parents), have benefitted Sri Lanka.

Speedy:  Chira,   How about grandkids?

ChiraMy son has a 9-year-old son and a 4 year old daughter. (photo of them as kids)

Speedy:  They must be a hand full.

Chira:  Yes, they are very naughty. They are living down the lane and I am very busy babysitting them very often especially these days because of Corona outbreak and no schooling.

Thank you for sharing your journey with us Chira. Before we finish, I hope you won’t mind doing a follow up where I like to discuss not only your achievements in the field of Ophthalmology but your achievements at the Eye Hospital, and perhaps some more drawings too?

Chira: Yes, I am quite proud of my achievements and as for drawings. I am very happy to oblige.

Speedy: That’s great! I shall give you a little break and invite you again soon.      

Chira: Thanks very much Mahendra- I have slipped back to Mahendra! Hope you don’t mind.

Speedy: Not at all Chira, after all, you knew me as Mahendra first! Who would have guessed that the two of us who were kids in Nugegida would end up as Batchmates. As Nhial would say, it is the "awesome force of destiny"!

That was fun! I enjoyed this session a lot. It will also, be a kind of flashback of their own lives for many who will surely read and enjoy this with some degree of nostalgia.

Chira: Thanks Mahendra, I really enjoyed it too. You have taken a lot of trouble and I appreciate very much your effort.  Thank you for giving me this opportunity and I hope that the Blog will continue to flourish. All the best!

Speedy: It has been my pleasure and thanks again for sharing.   


Sunday, August 15, 2021

Some of the teachers I feared and respected in the BLOCK

 Some of the teachers I feared and respected in the BLOCK

Nihal D Amarasekera. August 2021

With over a year of Covid restrictions, I was battered but not broken. This total incarceration made me go through a portal into a different universe. There is so much time to ponder in this alternative space than the one I’ve left behind. My world of painting brings peace to my soul while the real world suffers the indignities of being watched and being counted with our freedoms stolen. Amidst this chaos, our fragile lives teeter on the brink.

Opened in 1913, the anatomy block has a special place in my memory as a seat of learning.   On my occasional journeys to the past I recall with great admiration the teachers who taught me. It certainly does evoke a wide-eyed hope and longing to return to the past even briefly to remember the people who were in our lives then. With all that glitz and the glamour of being a medical student in the 1960’s it was in the BLOCK where it all began. Although there are moments that live with me, I left the place with more relief than regret. I have often wondered about the origin of the term BLOCK or has it gone adrift in the fog of time? Common sense tells me it is possibly derived from the Anatomy Block but we seem to include physiology too which is not in the block. 

As I’ve made my excuses before, these portraits are drawn mostly from ancient and grainy black and white photos on the internet. Adding colour to them makes it that much harder to get the tones right. As you would of Prof Waas the photo is of a younger man than we knew.


Prof F.L.W Jayawardene

FLWJ was a fine product of Royal College Colombo. He was the Senior Lecturer when we were in the Block and became its Professor from 1968-75. He cuts a relaxed figure and was then known as Dr Lester Jayawadene. What I recall most of all is his extraordinary polished presence. He was the quintessential Englishman, dignified and courteous who treated the students with respect. Dr FLWJ was a wonderful teacher who was more interested in teaching us the basic anatomy than the small print. His masterful lectures on the anatomy of the middle and inner ear and the difficult 3-D concepts of embryology were all-time classics. Although he expected high standards and stood no nonsense Dr FLWJ was always kind and charming and put us at ease at the signatures and revisals. He did get the best out of us. Dr FLWJ arrived every morning in his black Peugeot 403, which was like a Rolls Royce, in those days of import restrictions.  He was one of the few on the teaching staff who was vehemently against the student rag which we recognise now as a curse that gave a free ride to psychopaths. I hold him in high esteem and remember Prof. F.L.W Jayawardene with great affection. May he find eternal peace. 


Prof S.S Panditharatne

He had his early education at Ananda College and qualified MBBS in 1959. After obtaining his PhD from Manchester in 1967 he returned to the department of Anatomy. SSP became the Professor in 1976 and remained so for 22 years. Due to the passage of years I do not recall much about him except he loved the minutiae in anatomy. We were a petrified motley group seated around him at his signatures. When we didn’t know the answers we visibly squirmed in our seats. Once SSP asked a hapless student how wide is the common bile duct and he showed with his thumb and index finger saying “this much”.  SSP blew a fuse. S.S.P was a chain smoker and enjoyed a fag during the tough questioning. He was a brilliant anatomist. As a lecturer during our time in the Block he was thorough and taught us well. It is my impression that he was rather strict and preferred to maintain a healthy distance from the students. I remember once he was informed that one of our batchmates had taken a person who was not a medical student into the dissecting rooms. He was livid.  SSP told us, in no uncertain terms, that it was sacrilege to entertain non-medics in the dissecting rooms. He stressed we must preserve the sanctity and the intrigue of the place while respecting the dead. The advice was well taken. I thank him for his years of excellent service to several generations of medical students. His brand of detailed anatomy helped me enormously in my years in Radiology. The Anatomy Museum in the Colombo faculty is named after Prof Panditharatne for his long years of dedication to anatomy and service to the faculty. He passed away in 2005. May he find the Ultimate Bliss of Nirvana. 


Prof A.C.E Koch

He was educated at Royal College Colombo. Prof. Arthur Cecil Elsley Koch was the first Ceylonese Professor of Physiology. He was appointed to the Chair in Physiology in 1952 and held this post until his retirement in 1968. There is now an annual oration in his memory to remember his contribution to the life of the faculty. He was a kind Tutor in that repressive environment of medical education of the 1960’s. I still remember his regal entrance to the lecture theatre every morning. His lectures went way above my head but that is perhaps personal. There are many who consider him a great teacher. What has stuck with me over the years has been his introduction to the concept of 'milieu intérieur' and Claude Bernard. Overnight my friend Bernard Randeniya came to be called Claude Bernard forevermore until his untimely demise in 2004. Prof Koch had a wonderful sense of humour and the jokes received a stamping on the wooden floor, which he duly acknowledged. His treatment of students gave us confidence. It was inspiring and empowering and dispelled our insecurities.  What has stuck in my mind is his association with Sir Roger Bannister and his ‘4 minute’ mile during his stint at Oxford University which he elaborated with great pride and illustrated the events with some fine photographs. He made physiology a friendly phenomenon for which he will be fondly remembered. Prof Koch sadly was unable to enjoy a long retirement which he richly deserved and passed away in 1969. May his Soul Rest in Peace.  


Prof Carlo Fonseka


He had his schooling at Maris Stella College Negombo and St Joseph’s College Colombo. During our time in the faculty he was a Senior Lecturer and was the Professor of physiology from 1982-89. He was an entertaining speaker, a fine teacher and had the wonderful ability to make physiology logical and interesting. Throughout our student days he remained a friendly face and helpful to all.  The Prof remained a mentor and a confidante to many. I consider him one of the best teachers we’ve had. Prof Carlo was an active member of the LSSP and also in the Rationalist Movement. He gained an even bigger profile with his stance on firewalking that received critical acclaim. This demonstrated his obsession with rationalism and the truth, disproving the accepted wisdom. Artfully argumentative, he was a regular combative writer to the national newspapers. His excursions into the news media received a mixed reception.  Sometimes his views were inconsistent with his political leanings and long-held beliefs. Prof Carlo and I have disagreed openly in the newspapers about the way private practice is carried out in Sri Lanka, way back in the 1980’s. He found no fault in the way private practice was conducted and supervised quite in contrast to the public perception and opinion. This was a fateful moment for socialism. It is true only a small minority of medical specialists reneged on their responsibilities. Professional loyalties can get in the way of the rights of patients. As for me, the hurt was closer to home as the patient in question was my father. Although the exchanges were frosty this in no way diminishes the high esteem and regard I have for him. Disagreement is healthy as long as it doesn't lead to blows!! In Sri Lanka, he remained a celebrity feted and feasted by many. Prof Carlo Fonseka had a long and honourable life of wonderful service to humanity.  May he find eternal peace. 


Prof A.A Hoover


In 1941 Dr A A Hoover was elected the first Secretary of the Chemical Society of Ceylon and the President of the Institute of Chemistry in 1949. He was appointed Professor of Biochemistry at the Faculty of Medicine in Colombo in 1958. Prof Hoover was the most unassuming Professor of our time. Short and gently spoken, he could be mistaken for a softie, but he had considerable steel. He had no airs, only graces. His lectures were delivered with meticulous precision but with great gentleness. Biochemistry was not a subject that generated enormous passion but we had to get through. Much of it has now gone down the pan except the headlines – Krebs Cycle and the essential amino acids!! Our text, Bell, Davidson and Scarborough was a great door stopper. His son was in my class at school. He was an isotope of the father, gentle, generous and soft-spoken. He proceeded to an honours degree in chemistry. In 1978 Prof Hoover became the first Dean of the Faculty of Medicine in Jaffna and also the Head of its Department of Biochemistry. Many remember the amiable Prof Hoover with great passion and esteem. May his Soul Rest in Peace. 

 

Prof M.J Waas

After schooling at St Joseph’s College Colombo he qualified LMS in 1940 and joined the Dept of Anatomy in 1946. He obtained his PhD from the University of Manchester in 1951 and was the Prof of Anatomy at the Faculty of Medicine in Colombo 1960-67. Although anatomy is a broad subject with an extensive syllabus he had a light-hearted attitude to teaching the subject. My abiding memory of the Prof is being in the amphitheatre of the old anatomy lecture theatre listening to his superb delivery lavished with hilarious anecdotes. He was such a colourful character. Many remember him for his own brand of humour and mischievous fun. He is often rightly described as a lovable person. Prof Waas was indeed a breath of fresh air in that rather toxic environment. Like many medics of my era I associate him with that famous joke – He asked at an examination “what goes through the foramen magnum” and Jegasothy replied –“food, Sir”. Prof Waas then quipped “in your case it must be gallons and gallons of booze”.  Fact or fiction this has entered the folklore of our great institution.

May his Soul Rest in Peace.

NOTE by Speedy: All drawings are by Nihal D Amarasekera