Episode 10-: Chirasri Jayaweera Bandara (nee Mallawaratchi) (IV)
“Glimpses of my family and how my career
unfolded”
Speedy: Good morning Chira. Good to see you
again and let us start this time by going back to your beginnings and ask you
about your parents as it will give us a glimpse of history.
Chira: Thank
you Mahendra for giving me this opportunity. I do hope that viewers would
find it interesting.
Speedy: I have no doubt they will and I am so pleased that you provided some
photos too.
Chira: You are very encouraging! Thank you.
Speedy: OK Chira, over to you.
Chira: I shall start with
my Father, Mallawaratchige Don Henry Perera He was a Staff Officer in the
government service, and was from Kandy and studied at Dharmaraja College,
Kandy.
My Mother - Juliet Clara
Wijesinghe was from Panadura and studied at St. John’s College, Panadura. Incidentally,
our batchmate Wimal Soysa’s father
and his sister studied there as well. Prof.MVP Peiris too studied here.
In fact, he was residing in my
mother’s Mahagedera and going to school
from there.( My mother used to say this) This school was very popular at that time
a large number of very important people studied there.
Speedy: That was an interesting aside. I am
sure you will touch on many colleagues with whom you had connections prior to
entering the Faculty.
Chira: Yes, you are right. There
were many and I shall recall them as we proceed. Coming to my Mother’s Family, my mother’s
father was a Muhandiram, His name was Mapitiyage Adrian Peiris Wijesinghe
My mother’s eldest brother was
a Mudaliyar His name was Mapitiyage Walter Edward Peiris Wijesinghe.
Speedy: Muhandiram and
Mudaliyar were titles of honour in the colonial days, till 1956 I believe. Of
course among them there were ranks such as Maha Mudaliyar, Gate Mudaliyar,
Atapattu Mudaliyar, Court Mudaliyar and so on.
Chira: I believe so.
His son, my First cousin, is Dr Nandi Wijesinghe (Mapitiyage Nandimittra Wijesinghe) He went to the US and is a V.O.G. in Los Angeles. He is married to Dr Neelakshi Gunawardene from our parallel Peradeniya batch, friend of our batch Manel Wijesundera ( Owlie).]
Speedy: Owlie, please note! Of course, you knew that Owlie!
Chira: I am sure she
does. In my mother’s family, there were 4 Males and 4 Females.
My mother’s 2nd cousins were Prof M.V.P. Peiris
and Prof S.R. Kottegoda, who was our Lecturer and later
the Dean of the
Faculty of Medicine, Colombo.
Prof. M.V.P. Peiris’s father and my mother’s
father were 1st cousins with the same “Ge” name.
Prof. S.R. Kottegoda’s mother
(a Wijesinghe) and my mother’s father were 1st cousins.
Speedy: How interesting! I am sure you know
that Prof Kotte’s daughter Indira is married to my younger brother Raj. They
live in Sydney but are frequent visitors to Sri Lanka.
Chira: Yes Speedy, I was aware of that. Prof M.V.P. Peiris was an Ambidextrous Orthopaedic Surgeon who operated on Prime Minister D.S. Senanayake. He was President of the Ceylon Medical Association (SLMA) and a past Minister of Health. His wife Doreen used to consult me at my consultation room at my residence, which has been functioning since 1985.
One of Prof Kottegoda’s
hobbies was Photography and he had given me a beautiful photograph of
squirrels.
Speedy: Yes, he was well recognised for that.
His book on Flowers of Sri Lanka is a
classic.
Chira: I have seen that
book. The photos are beautiful. Coming now to my first Cousins on my Mother’s
side :-
1. Late Dr Gamini Wijesinghe, Consultant Psychiatrist
known to Dr
Vinitha Perera, Consultant Psychiatrist (our Peradeniya batch) was married
to Late Dr W.D.H.
Perera, Consultant Dermatologist.
2. Dr Nandi Wijesinghe,
Consultant V.O.G. Living
in Los Angeles
married to Dr Neelakshi
Gunawardene ( our Peradeniya Batch )
a friend of
Manel Wijesundera.
3. Dr Anura Samaraweera
was living in
California and now
back in Sri Lanka. He
is known to Lalantha Amerasinghe as they
had worked together at Palali
Army Camp during
the war
Speedy: Thank you, so many interesting
connections. What about your Father’s family?
Chira:
My father’s father died
when he was
14 years old.
It was his uncle G.D.A. Abeyratne, mentioned below, who looked after
him.
My father’s mother was Lucy
Perera (housewife). She was a lady who always wore long skirts down to the
ankles, at home. When we were very young
my brother, sister and
I used to
play cards with her, and always win, with hints off the
reflection of her
cards on her
spectacles!
Speedy: Isn’t that cheating!
Chira: Well, I suppose so
but don’t you think we were clever too!
Speedy: Ok, I shall grant that.
Chira: Thank you. This photo shows my father and family; my father’s mother, wearing a long skirt and my father is standing next to his sister.
Speedy: I am glad you are showing these photos
as it reminds us of the type of attire in those days; a good lesson in history.
Chira: I am glad you
think so. You would have noticed my mother’s mother too wearing a long skirt in
the earlier photo.
My father’s sister’s son
is Dr Nihal Munesinghe mentioned
below.
Mentioned below also, Dr Mahima Mallawaratchi’s father (youngest in the family who changed his name from Perera to Mallawaratchi their “Ge”name ) is standing on the extreme left. He wanted my father and other members to change the name. My mother had said that people will call her by both names and didn’t like it. Then all the family members decided to name their offspring Mallawaratchi. That is how my family members and all my first cousins are Mallawaratchis!
Speedy: This has been the
experience of so many families. Ranjit
Dambawinna for example was a Perera and
he took his “ge” name,
Damabawinna.
Chira: My father’s mother’s
younger brother was
Ganewattage Don Alexander
Abeyratne, who got his
M.A. from England, (after getting
there by sea). He was the
1st Principal of
Vidyartha College, Kandy
and later Dharmaraja College, Kandy.
Speedy: That is another
thing which people forget. Travel by sea to England was the norm in those days.
Chira: That is true.
These days of course, Air travel is the norm.
His daughters
(My father’s first cousins) were:-
1. Hema Jayasinghe (nee Abeyratne) was Principal of Visakha Vidyalaya, Colombo. Later Deputy
Director, Ministry of Education.
I mention this as quite a number of our batch mates (both Colombo and Peradeniya) studied at Visakha Vidyalaya.They are Manel Wijesundera, Late Priya Gunaratne, Manil Hettiaratchi, Surangani, Sujatha Maligaspe, Kusuma, Late Kamali, Neelakshi, Chula, Chitra, Late Srimathi.
2. Chitra Abeyratne was Principal of Anula Vidyalaya, Nugegoda and later Principal of Musaeus College, Colombo.
Lalani, Nisha and Padmini had studied at Anula Vidyalaya, Nugegoda.
3. Late Rani
Kitulegoda (nee Abeyratne)
was headmistress of Anula
Nursery. My son and my sister’s daughter attended Anula Nursery when she
was there.
4. Nalini Kappagoda (nee Abeyratne) Consultant Pathologist,
was married to
Late Dr M.B. Kappagoda,
Consultant Eye Surgeon, living in
Sydney, Australia. I met them when they
came for the S.A.A.R.C. Eye Surgeons’s
Congress in 2000 in Sri Lanka. I met her again when I went to Australia
in 2006.
His son (My
father’s first cousin), the Late Chandrabanu
Abeyratne, who was a Major General
in the army
was married to
late Shiromani Seneviratne,
Dental Surgeon. Shiromani studied at Methodist College and was one year senior
to me.
Our batchmates from Methodist
College will remember
her.
My first Cousins
on my Father’s side are:-
1. Dr Nihal Munasinghe
who is from the 1st
batch of Medical Faculty,
Peradeniya, built Medicare
Hospital, Campbell Place,
Borella. He is known to our batchmates
from Peradeniya. I channelled and
did surgery there. Our batchmate, Dr Drahaman had practised there as well.
2. Dr Mahima Mallawaratchi, is a Physician living in England. Her brother Mahesh ( from STC ) owns Malkey Rent a Car at Pamankada, Colombo.
Speedy: That was most interesting. Let me ask you now to talk about you and your own family.
Chira; Thanks, Speedy. I started
my education at
The Girl’s High
School, Kandy and
I was there till the 2nd standard. I won the Class Prize that
year. I also obtained a Certificate stating Very Good for Painting from The
Royal Drawing Society, UK, when I was 8 years old.
Speedy: Well done Chira! I can see how early in life you showed your
artistic talents!
Chira: Thanks Speedy. But
I started painting only a couple of years ago. My father came to Colombo on
transfer. I attended St. John’s Girl’s
School Nugegoda for one year.
Speedy: I remember that as we lived in Nugegoda in Melder Place at that time too. (On the left, a photo of the entrance to Melder Place now)
Chira: Yes, I remember
you and your sister Nelum and brothers Daya and Nihal. We used to play a lot
together and had a lot of fun.
Speedy: We certainly did.
We touched on this in a previous episode.
Chira: Yes we did. After
that I moved over to Methodist College, Colombo. I have gone up to the stage to
receive ‘A’ reports from the Principal Miss Robins on many occasions. I won
many prizes at Methodist College including Rosemary de Alwis Memorial Prize. Rosemary was a cousin of Bora’s.
My Parents and the three of us
lived at No. 6
Melder Place Nugegoda after we came from Kandy.
(This Family Photo was taken in 1968)
Chira: I am the eldest of
three. My brother D.P.Mallawaratchi Studied at St. Thomas Prep and St. Thomas
College Mt. Lavinia. My sister Dhammika
studied at the same schools as myself. She
is married to Ranjith Ekanayake, retired
Brigadier in the Army.
Speedy: I remember both well. We called your
brother Matchchi.
Chira : Yes, that’s him. That was because I couldn’t pronounce Malli properly when I was very small and the name got registered! Dayalal obtained his BSc. from the Engineering Faculty, Peradeniya, MASc. (Master of Applied Science) from The University of British Columbia, Vancouver, Canada. A Civil Engineer. He was a President of the Institution of Engineers. He married Prof.
My sister and
I studied at Methodist
College Colombo and travelled to school in a private car owned by Mrs.
Wijewardena. The Vanguard
picked us up from Melder Place
and on the
way picked up Swyrie and
her 3 sisters Gemini, Ramani and
Preethi from Kirillapone. Later my Father arranged a
school bus which started from the top of Melder Place, Nugegoda.
Swyrie and her 3 sisters also
travelled in it to Methodist College. A
small girl called Noeline living at the top of Melder Place too joined us.
She was teased by tying her Schoolbag to her plat, and guess who the culprit
was? Swyrie !
Speedy: And now let us talk about University and medical education
Chira; I entered The University of Colombo from Methodist College, for a 6 Months course in Zoology . Ours was the last batch to follow this course. Sura, Sunil, Bora, Sanath, J.C.. Patas, Senerath, Bertram Nana, Lucky, and Cassim also followed this course.
For the Zoology course, we had only two lectures and a practical class every week. I used to play Bridge with my friends Vinodhini Chanmugam and Jemima Jesuant, (both from Methodist College) from the Science Faculty.
I met them in
England later on
when I went for my Postgraduate
studies. I visited Jemima’s place
in Hong Kong
in 2008. Sadly, they are both no more now. Those from Methodist
College will remember
them. I used to
play Badminton and
represented the Colombo
University. We played against the Peradeniya University
and won the Tournament in 1961. I played mixed doubles with my brother (from
the Engineering Faculty) as well, during that period.
Speedy: This is news to me. I had no idea that you were good at Sports!
Chira: Well, now you know! Only Badminton and Table tennis. ( not in school)
The other memory I have of
that time is how after I entered Medical
College I used to travel in a Private car with Late Priya Gunaratne, Late Kamini Gunawardene and Padmini Gunawardene .
(Photo
in Signature Book Medical Faculty 1962)
I studied with Manil Hettiaratchi, Primrose and Nisha. Lalani and Padmini used to join us.
My studying was made difficult because I used to get severe Migraine headaches But my wonderful mother helped me by reading my Text Books and notes to me. I used to lie down on bed, close my eyes and listen to her. She was a Tower of strength to me.
Speedy: I am sure she was. We must never ever forget the love and guidance we received from our parents.
Chira: I quite agree
Speedy. In my final year, I stayed at the Women’s Hostel down De Saram Road,
Colombo. Pram and Dole (Piyaseeli
Dolawatte) were in the next room and
Manel (Owli) was in the opposite room on the 2nd floor.
Speedy: For reasons unclear, the hostel was known to
us as the Hopper House!
You then graduated with the MBBS and started
your internship, right?
Chira; Yes, that is correct, and no comment about the name!
My first appointment was with
Dr Misso, Surgeon at the General Hospital, Colombo. Swyrie and
Zita also worked with me.
Speedy: I was HO to Dr Misso too but he
retired during that time and I completed with Dr Burhan or Dr DFDS Gunawardena,
I can’t be sure.
Chira: Dr Misso was a
thorough gentleman but I remember that time for another reason; because of a
gruesome incident. I received a call from ward 1 G.H.C. saying that a man was hanging from
the roof. It was a terrible sight to see this man who had undergone a prostatectomy a few days before.
I was “on-call” and had to face a number of inquiries into this
incident.
Speedy: What a scenario
for a young doctor to face!
Chira: It was awful. I
had good friends who supported me. During this appointment, I shared a room with Pram in the quarters above the Radiology Department GHC.
My second Appointment was with Dr Rajanayagam V.O.G. at the Castle Street Hospital for Women. Colombo. Bernadette used to share my room in the quarters when she was on call.
Speedy: Any other notable
events you would like to share with us?
Chira: I was Bridesmaid many times. The first time was to Anoja Wijesekera, my oldest friend from Methodist College since standard 4. She married Dr Nanda Atukorale Dermatologist, who is sadly no more The second time was to Primrose and the third time was to Piyaseeli Dolawatte (Dole). There was a saying, “third time a bride’s maid, never a bride”, but I broke it, and became a Bride in 1979 after I returned from Overseas Postgraduate leave!
Speedy: Good for you Chira! Old wives tales I
call them.
Ok so you did your internship
and then, what followed?
Chira: After Internship, my first appointment was at The Homagama Hospital. Late Sardha
too worked with me.
This was a milestone for me as
I bought my first car and used to drive to Homagama Hospital.
Speedy: Your first car is
something you never forget. Mine was a Triumph Herald which I bought from my
brother when he went to England. I was so chuffed and proud of it.
Chira: Yes, I was so thrilled when I got it. Let me related an interesting story about my car. One day when driving to the hospital there was a traffic block, there was no movement of vehicles towards Homagama at all. Suddenly a man opened the rear left door and got into the car. I got the shock of my life! I didn’t know how to get rid of this man. He offered to show the way to the Hospital via a side road. He got me to turn the car to the left and as we proceeded a fair distance, I saw a hospital attendant standing at a bus halt. I stopped the car, thanked him for his help and told him that there is a person from the hospital that I could go with him. I heaved a sigh of relief! Ever since that day I used to lock the car from inside.
Speedy: What a story! You
must have been scared out of your wits!
Chira: I was and still shudder when I recall it.
Speedy: And what was
next?
Chira: Next was my Eye
Hospital appointment, from May 1971.
I worked with Late Dr
Velauthan. Kusuma had worked at the Eye Hospital just before I went
there.
Vasantha Ovitigala worked with me at Eye Hospital. I went to see Vasantha’s first baby with Benita Stephen (Thoracic surgeon’s wife), when they were living down Kynsey Road, Colombo. Vasantha is married to Karu Jayasuiriya. (former Speaker) That daughter married Naveen Dissanayake, Gamini Dissanayake’s son.
Speedy: The next stage is your postgraduate career and how you became such a well-known and respected eye surgeon in Sri Lanka. Please take us through that period
Chira: Thanks for your kind words Speedy. I left for the U.K. at the end of February 1976 on No Pay Study Leave granted by the Government to do the Diploma in Ophthalmology and the FRCS in Ophthalmology.
I was allowed only 3 Sterling
Pounds and 10 Shillings exchange on my Passport. I was not given any allowance
from the Government. I had to earn my own living and study on my own all by
myself. There was absolutely no teaching or any guidance and nor any advice
given to me as to how to set about studying for these exams. I had to ask
others and study, A Herculean task!
I told my daughter Anjali who
just passed her local Final M.D.Ophthalmology exam. that she is very lucky that
her training was excellent for a period of 4 years with 4 exams. They were
given Lectures; Clinical Lecture Demonstrations and periodic assessments and
Workshops conducted by our College of Ophthalmologists which helped them. They did
group studies as well. In contrast, for me it was a case of self-study without
any group studies and no training at all. I also had to earn my living in UK.
Speedy: That was the norm
for no pay study leave which I too went through. You were set afloat in a
foreign country with hardly any resources, clutching references received form
your bosses and had to use all your
ingenuity and skill to navigate and finally reach the shore with that much-wanted qualification. It was a case of triumph for optimism over fear.
Do carry on Chira. I couldn’t
help reflecting on that time period.
Chira: I couldn’t agree with your more Speedy. Talking of what happened after I went to U.K., I first worked as a Clinical Assistant at Moorfields Eye Hospital London and Western Ophthalmic Hospital London. I passed the Primary FRCS in 1976.
Next, I worked as SHO Ophthalmology, at The London Hospital, Whitechapel England. I obtained The Diploma in Ophthalmology in 1977. (D. O. Lond)I was SHO Ophthalmology in Sutton General Hospital when I obtained the F.R.C.S. (Eng ) in 1978 and worked as Registrar at the Royal Surrey County Hospital Guilford, England and came back to Sri Lanka in May 1979.
I was in the U.K. for 3 years and 3 months. I used to visit Pram in Wembley and later in St. Johns Wood, Manil Hettiaratchi in Blackpool and later in Dulwich, Wimala Sothinadan (de Silva) in Colchester. I visited Bernadette in Wakefield, Primrose in Kent and later Granthum and Zita in Southend-on-Sea.
Speedy: After gaining all
your qualifications, you came back to Sri Lanka. Take us through your next
phase.
Chira: Yes, I came back
to Sri Lanka in May 1979 and was appointed
Consultant Eye Surgeon Kegalle
Hospital. When Cassim
got a transfer to Eye Hospital from Kandy Hospital, I got a transfer to Kandy
Hospital in Oct 1979.
Chira: That was great! It is a pity that you had to go back to England
but I know you had good personal reasons to do so.
Speedy: Thanks for your understanding Chira. I
gather you married in that time?
Chira: Yes, I got married to Ranjit Jayaweera
Bandara in Oct 1979. He did Geography Honours at the Peradeniya Campus. He went
to UK and obtained the Charter in Personnel Management. He worked at the C.I.S.I.R. and later at the
State Mortgage Bank Colombo, as A.G.M. He did the LLB at the Open University and worked as a Legal Adviser to the S.L.I.I.T. Colombo.
Speedy: And your next jobs in Sri Lanka?
Chira: I worked in Kandy Hospital for 5 years. Dr Reggie Seimon was the other surgeon there. I came to Eye Hospital Colombo as Consultant Eye Surgeon in Oct 84 and retired in Feb. 2001.
Speedy: Any special memories of that time?
Chira: Not a pleasant one
Speedy. I was in the Operating Theatre, Eye
Hospital when the Central Bank Bomb blast occurred in Jan. 1996. Many
casualties were brought. Prof Sheriffdeen wheeled in Mr Lalith Kotelawala with cut injuries all over his body mainly the upper part including his eyes. I started
suturing him and Dr Saliya Pathirana (Retinal surgeon) took over as his retina was involved.
Later Mr Lalith Kotelawala built The Golden Key Eye and E.N.T. Hospital, Colombo. Dr Saliya Pathirana is in charge of the eye department.
Speedy; You developed
special expertise within Ophthalmology. Tell us about that.
Chira: I went with other
Consultants to Hyderabad and Madras to follow workshops on Cataract Phaco
emulsification Surgery in 1999.
Cassim also joined. This is
the latest technique to remove a
cataract by emulsifying the cataract and
sucking it out with the Phaco
machine.
Speedy: You had several
spells in the UK after you became a Consultant. Where and when did you
work?
Chira: While working in Govt. Service we were entitled to take 6 months overseas leave every 5 years. I made use of this and worked in the U.K in the latter halves of 1986, 1992 and 1998.
Speedy: You have some special memories of Wales Chira. Tell us about it
Chira: It happened like
this. In 1992, I worked as Locum
Consultant Ophthalmologist, Isbity hospital, Gwenedd, Bangor North Wales. While I was there, Ranjit and the two Children
came to
Bangor, North Wales and spent 3 months with me.
My children went to school in Bangor and they even learnt the Welsh language! The other memory of that time is
that Primrose, Upul and
children came to
Bangor North Wales and spent a weekend with us. We visited
Anglesey with them.
Speedy: I see. Must have been great to have them. I gather also that you gained some more special experience in the UK?
Chira: Yes Speedy, it was so nice to be with them About my special experience, when I went to U.K.in 1986, I learnt the use of the Laser and obtained experience in Laser treatment..
At that time Sri Lanka did not
have a single Laser machine. When I was the President of the Ophthalmological
Society of Ceylon in 1987I started a Laser fund. I organised several Programmes to raise funds.
Speedy: That was great! What sort of fundraising
programmes were they?
Chira: Different sorts,
some of them were T.V. and Lion’s
club programmes.
And also working in UK in 1992 and 1998 as a
Locum Consultant, I gained experience with more modern and advanced instruments and techniques which helped me to purchase certain items and improve my techniques in Sri Lanka.
Speedy: I think that system of granting
postgraduate leave was mutually beneficial. It motivated the doctors to enhance
their knowledge and expertise, and at no real cost to the Government. It also
gave them and their families an opportunity to visit other countries.
What an incredible journey
Chira! Now I would like you to sit back and relax and talk about your own
family.
Chira But of course! Is it Ok if I have my cup of tea now? Do please
help yourself too. Hope it has not gone cold.
Speedy: Of course Chira,
please do and thanks for my cuppa too.
Chira: You are most welcome.
Coming to my children, I have two and they are both doctors. My son
Anju studied initially at St. Thomas Prep. Kollupitiya and later at Royal
College, Colombo.
Speedy: I didn’t know
that! How interesting because I too went from St Thomas Prep Kollupitiya to
Royal College.
Chira: There you are! He then studied
Medicine, like you too! But at The Kursk State Medical University, Russia (in
English). He is currently working as M.O. at the National Hospital, Colombo in
the Orthopedics Unit. He is interested
in Photography and is now a Professional photographer doing weddings etc. as
well.
My Daughter Anjali initially studied at Methodist College, Colombo and later at
Visakha Vidyalaya, Colombo. She studied Medicine at the Kasturba Medical
College, Manipal, India. She passed her Finals M.D. in Ophthalmology in January
2021. At the moment she is working as Senior Registrar at the Eye Hospital, Colombo.
Speedy: You must be so proud of them, and
rightly so. It is even more interesting after reading Sanath Lama’s recent post
on Medical Education. Your experience is a good example of how private medical
education (cost borne by the parents), have benefitted Sri Lanka.
Speedy: Chira, How about grandkids?
Chira: My son has a 9-year-old son and a 4 year
old daughter. (photo of them as kids)
Speedy: They must be a hand full.
Chira: Yes, they are very
naughty. They are living down the lane and I am very busy babysitting them very
often especially these days because of Corona outbreak and no schooling.
Thank you for sharing your
journey with us Chira. Before we finish, I hope you won’t mind doing a follow
up where I like to discuss not only your achievements in the field of
Ophthalmology but your achievements at the Eye Hospital, and perhaps some more
drawings too?
Chira: Yes, I am quite
proud of my achievements and as for drawings. I am very happy to oblige.
Speedy: That’s great! I shall give you a little
break and invite you again soon.
Chira: Thanks very much
Mahendra- I have slipped back to Mahendra! Hope you don’t mind.
That was fun! I enjoyed this session a lot. It will
also, be a kind of flashback of their own lives for many who will surely read and enjoy this with some degree of nostalgia.
Chira: Thanks Mahendra, I
really enjoyed it too. You have taken a lot of trouble and I appreciate very
much your effort. Thank you for giving
me this opportunity and I hope that the Blog will continue to flourish. All the
best!
Speedy: It has been my pleasure and thanks again for sharing.
Mahendra
ReplyDeleteThank you ever so much for your enthusiasm, care, time taken for publishing this episode. Hats off for a perfect job. Well done!
We are lucky to have you to do these articles for our Blog and not forgetting Lucky for initiating our Blog. I am thankful to you both as this brings us, our batch mates together. Chira
Although I am handicapped by my eye ailment, I just couldn't resist the temptation of writing a comment under Chira's interview with Speedy in this series which has become so popular.
ReplyDeleteIt was long alright, but I read it in one go! The most interesting part of the dialogue to me was Chira's narrative of her genealogy. Of course I have a special interest in that, but Chira has put it across so nicely. Needless to say, I found the rest of it also very interesting.
I also lived in Nugegoda during my student days, but didn't know that Speedy had also lived there. I had not spoken to Chira in Medical College, but had heard that she was living at Melder Place. So many of our batch mates lived in Nugegoda the others whom I know being Sanath Tissera, ND, Irwin Herath, Mahendra Collure, KLMT, Manil Hettiarachchi and Tilak Dayaratne.
Lucky, thanks for your comment on Nugegoda. As Chira mentioned, our families lived at Melder Place, Nugegoda. We were at 11/3 and they lived further up, closer to the top, at No 6. Another notable family who lived there are the time was Prof OH de Alwis Wijesekera and his wife Mable. At that time there were 4 chidren including the late Dr Gamini Wijesekera who went on to become a well-known politician. He joined JRJ and the UNP. The other son Jagath was destined to replace me many years later in Kandy as Consultant Neurologist.
DeleteAnother family who lived there were my Aunt Ambuldeniya Nanda and family. As was not uncommon in those days, she was a member of a branch of my Father’s family who became Christians. We loved Xmas at her house because of rhe food and presents. She too wore an ankle length dress form her waist and a jacket with long sleeves. The fact that they were Christians and we were Buddhists was no problem at all.
I remember the Metro cinema where we saw a lot of Hindi and Sinhala films and of the English ones, the ones I recall with fondness were the Dean Martin and Jerry Lewis Comedies. The other more unpleasant experience of the cinema was that I always developed a headache because of the cigarette smoke!
Mahendra
DeleteI remember the Wijesekera's living down Melder Place, long years ago. Gamini and Jagath studied Medicine in Peradeniya as the father was a Prof. in the Peradeniya Campus. Late Gamini was in our parallel batch in Peradeniya. I have consulted Jagath the Neurologist in Colombo. Later they were living at Delkanda, Nugegoda near the Pola.
I remember Mrs. Ambuldeneya very well wearing ankle length skirts and long sleeved white blouses down to the wrists. They had rented our house No.6 when we were living in Kandy When we came back they shifted to a house behind our house. We used to call her " Mama ".What Memories! Chira
I too remember going to Metro to see films those days. Chira
Lucky
ReplyDeleteThank you very much for your comment and I am happy that you found it interesting.
I didn't know you lived in Nugegoda. I am still living in Nugegoda as we built our house behind my parents house. Nugegoda has developed vastly during the last few decades. Chira
Chira, I really enjoyed reading your "Autobiography". I have almost finished writing mine.
ReplyDeleteSanath
ReplyDeleteThank you very for your comment. I am glad you enjoyed it. Chira
Chira and Mahen
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on yet another dialogue with searching questions and interesting and revealing answers. The Dialogues indeed have improved with time getting more absorbing and fascinating.
In all the 5 years in the Faculty I had never spoken to Chira and it has taken nearly 60 years to get to know her through our blog. What an amazing introduction to a wonderful life well lived. It is so lovely to dip into the recent ancestry to remember the people who helped us to become who we are now. Many of the names you have mentioned are those have been in our lives before. Bernadette worked with me in the Central Blood Bank in Colombo. I know she was the Haematologist at Pontefract General Hospital in the UK and I would like very much to renew contact again as she has retired and moved away from the area.
Chira your professional journey too has been interesting reading. Ophthalmologists have been in great demand worldwide. I commend your sense of duty to return home to serve our people despite the ethnic strife, economic decline and political upheavals.
Thank you Chira for sharing some aspects of your life with us and a big thank you to Mahendra for being “Larry King” to bring out the best.
Nihal
DeleteWhat a comment! Thank you very much for it and also revealing what the blog has done to bring us all batch mates together. Thanks to Lucky and Mahendra.
Speedy & Chira, A very interesting interview that I read word to word. I did a Google map search, today,in order to locate Medler place. I was very familiar with Nugegoda,Kohuwala,Kalubowila,Nawala etc.A facelift has taken place and the area and does not look like a suburb of Colombo. Melder place had been a breeding ground of future doctors who later climbed the ladders to become high-flyers. It was known that students who entered Law and Medicine were from a close knit fraternity(Sinhalese & Tamils)I can understand your modesty during student days not to know the word"Hoppering".It was an open secret that the activities took place not only University Hostels, but also in secondary school, hostels as well. The word hopper in that sense had disappeared from my dictionary until it appeared in the blog.
ReplyDeleteThe word cabbage was another that carried a vulgar meaning. We had a girlish-looking chap from my junior batch in that notorious Bloem hostel. A senior chap started to show interest in him and the poor fellow attempted suicide by jumping out of the balcony. I wonder whether Bora remembers that incident.
Sumathi
ReplyDeleteThank you very much for your comment. Nugegoda has developed heaps and bounds. Every thing is available One doesn't need to go to Colombo to get anything like those days. We are a self sufficient town now. Chira
Hi Sumathi
DeleteI do not remember the attempted suicide.
At STC Mount the word cabbage was used freely. The boarding was a very fertile ground for cabbages.
I remember when we were boarders, a prefect approached my thirteen year old ,good looking elder brother and sang "Be my life's companion and you'll never grow old".At that time this song by Rosemary Clooney was in the Ceylon Hit Parade.
Sumathi and Bora, your comments about "cabbages" was amusing, although in those days the term had more implications. Homosexuality is not such big deal any more is it? Live and let live, is what I say!
DeleteBut the image of the prefect singing to your brother was funny!
Srianee and Sumathy
DeleteIt was a transient phase and the boys grew out of it as they matured.
Arrest in the development end up as homosexuals, in both sexes.
DeleteI am glad that so many of you found my Dialogue with Chira interesting. I found it fascinating not just because we played together as children with no inkling of what was in store. Perhaps we should have consulted a good Astrologer! All this is of course written in the stars and we could have driven our "SELF DRIVE" cars towards our destiny.
ReplyDeleteIt also reminded me of how things changed, as they do of course. As children in Nugegoda we just played simple games. No TV, No Internet. Chira used to organise small performances where we acted on the top of her parents dining table!
Sharing a car for “lifts” to school was common. Chira related how a family member went to England by sea. I had uncles who went like that and remember well seeing them off in the harbour. In fact we went and boarded the ship in a motor boat as a treat and returned in it waving good bye to my Uncle and Aunt who stood on the deck.
She mentioned a Muhandiram in the family. My cousin Sidath Jayanetti's (Cigar) family history goes back to a Muhandiram. Sidath was K.M.S. Jayanetti and K M stands for Kotuwe Muhandiramge.
Chira, a hard working doctor, was able to help her children become doctors by financing their education abroad. This was interesting in view of the recent discussion on Private Medical Education on the blog.
Her experience on no pay study leave must have struck a chord in many. I was fortunate that my elder brother was working in England at the time I went on No-pay leave and he picked me up at the airport and gave me shelter while I was job hunting through the BMJ.
The sheer effort and self belief she had played an important part in her success and I am sure many of you relate to that . Life was not always a bed of roses.
I look forward to many more comments including some of their own recollections as they matured from school children to doctors in an era where the country largely provided a conducive atmosphere
Mahendra
DeleteWasn't it high fun staging a play with a large 8 seater dining table as the stage when we were kids.
You mentioned about sea travel. I have a photo of my father's uncle standing in front of a massive ship before he set off to England. I can remember my mother's sister too left for England in a ship long years ago. Time has changed with quick air travel now.
Thank you for appreciating my hard work in financing my children medical education abroad.
It was sheer self determination that drove me to study very hard on my own whilst working to earn my living.
All alone in a foreign country trying to do this Herculian task I used to ask myself "why did I ever come here to do this" I used to tell myself "no I have to somehow do it, if there is a will there is a way" Lo behold I did it! How triumphant I was.My Happiest day in my life! Chira
Hi Chira and Mahen
ReplyDeleteGreat interview,Parkinsonian like,I mean Michael.P. I am certain that you did not pick your nose.. Chira,you have a wide circle of friends unlike me and interesting relatives.I admired the dedication to your specialty.Going abroad during the sabbatical to hone in your skills,learn new techniques and keep up to date.
Methodist college is very familiar to me,My mother,two elder sisters and eleven first cousins studied there.Was Ora( Oreen) or Avril in your class.
Last Saturday I met David Anthonize who is well known to your family and a class mate of your brother at a birthday party.He conveyed his warm regards to you and requested me to get Malla's E mail address from you.
Bora
DeleteThank you very much for your comment.
I can remember your sister June.I was a class mate of Late Rosemary de Alwis and won her memorial prize. Oreen and Avril were my sister Dhammika's Class mates.I met Oreen at Pram"s place a couple of yea rs ago.
David was a frequent visitor in our house those days. Malkanthi from our parallel Peradeniya batch and if I remember right did her internship at the General Hospital Colombo and was in the quarters above the Radiology block during my time. Please convey my warm regards to David and Malkanthi.
i am sending my brother's wife's E mail address:-
malini.mallawaratchie@gmail.com Chira
Dear Friends
ReplyDeleteI would be most grateful for the contact details of Bernadette Samaranayake nee De Silva. Her last posting was Consultant Haematologist at Pontefract General Hospital near Leeds. I am reliably informed she and her husband who was an anaesthetist has moved closer to London. We worked together in the Central Blood Bank in the 1970's and would love to make contact again and get her to join our London Reunions.
Nihal
ReplyDeleteI have been in contact with Bernadette all these years. They used to visit us have meals here when they come to Sri Lanka. We exchange greetings cards every Christmas/New year.
I have been to their house in Wakefield, near Leeds. I am sending her address:-
8 Wordsworth Gardens, Borehamwood, Herts WD6 2AH , U.K. Chira
Chira
DeleteThank you for the address. I will contact Bernadette. That may surprise her!!
The other thing that comes through is the high regard and respect we have for our schools and our teachers. We owe them so much for making us work hard, instilling a sense of discipline. I regard Education and Health two primary entitlements is life (leaving aside food and shelter for a moment). I regard it as something the State is duty bound to provide and regulate for its citizens. It should NEVER be an area for entrepreneurs to make money. (There is plenty in the fashion industry motor car industry, sports sponsorship etc for that!)..
ReplyDeleteChira and Mahendra, it was interesting to read this "dialogue" as well as the comments that followed. Well done! It was a lot of work I'm sure, Chira digging up the pictures and Mahen putting everything in the right order. Chira, you should be proud of your accomplishments, both professional and personal. One thing thing that struck me, especially when reading the comments, was how interconnected we are, when reading comments like "I knew so and so; and so and so is married to my brother's wife's sister etc! It was a running joke among my two daughters, whenever we met someone from Sri Lanka for the first time in the US, that it only took me a few minutes to find a connection! "Oh, your brother went to school with my brother" or something like that!
ReplyDeleteDoes anyone know the significance of Mudliyars and Muhandirams? There were a couple in my family, generations ago. Was it something the British conferred on the Sinhalese only?
Chira, I also noticed that your grandmother wore a long skirt in the Portuguese style. My maternal grandmother dressed that way, but my paternal grandmother always wore a sari, but draped the "pota" over her head! Interesting fashion notes!
Lastly, I would also like to get in touch with Bernadette. Maybe I'll surprise her!
Srianee and others,
DeleteMuhandiram was a post in the native headmen system in the lower-country (coastal districts) of Ceylon (Sri Lanka) during the colonial era. It was awarded as a title of honor until suspension of Ceylonese honours in 1956.
During the British administration official and titular appointments were made by the government agent of the district to a korale which was a revenue district; a muhandiram had several vidane arachchies that may come under his supervision. He would report to the mudaliyar of the korale or atapattu (district) and was subordinate to the assistant government agents and other civil servants. Appointments were non-transferable and usually hereditary, made to locals, usually from wealthy influential families loyal to the British Crown. This was an influential post, as the holder had much control over the populace of a korale and wielded quasi-judicial powers since he was responsible for keeping the peace, carrying out revenue collection and assisting in judicial functions.
Mudali (or Mudaliyar) was a colonial title and office in Ceylon (now Sri Lanka) which was part of the native headman system. The Portuguese colonials created the Mudaliyar class in the 17th century by enlisting natives of different castes from the coastal areas.[1]
The Dutch continued the practice of the Portuguese. This class used the Mudali as a hereditary title, however the British re-established a Mudaliyar class
All Official appointments of Mudaliyars were made by the Governor of Ceylon. Appointments were non-transferable and usually hereditary, made to locals from wealthy influential families loyal to the British Crown.
Chira.
Srianne, Muhandiram title was confired by the British Raj some considered as a pair of horns. In other words, those who accepted the title were considered as Donkeys. Muslims and Tamils were among those title holders. Mudliyar and gate-Mudliyar were the English equivalent.I can still remember the name Mudliyar Ms Kariappah, Muslim MP from Eastern Province.MrSWRD's father was Gate Mudliyar(Mahamudali) Lastly, I have no disrespect for Chira's relatives.
ReplyDeleteSome facts are best left to history and historians while the others are allowed to be lost in the sands of time.
DeleteChira, (and Sumathi) thank you for attempting to explain, but I am still confused! It is not really important, but I was just curious.
DeleteMy father happened to be a Muhandiram
ReplyDeletePermit me to go off at a tangent. Chira mentioned that she was bridesmaid a total of three times. I wonder what our Batch record is! Am I correct that a Bridesmaid is a western (Christian) invention. In the old traditional wedding ceremony (if indeed such were held in Ceylon- I am aware that Buddhist. Hindu and other religious denominations have their own variations). who did the various duties which are in the remit of the BM? Such as Emotionally supporting the bride at all times throughout the wedding planning and ceremony, Helping the bride get ready the morning of the wedding—double-checking her hair, straightening her veil, making sure she doesn’t miss any accessories and many more I am sure. Ladies, can you shed some light?
ReplyDeleteSpeedy, wedding ceremonies are a big business back at home. Some families go to the extent of borrowing huge amounts of money they find it difficult to pay back. The chronic sickness of emulating others has not gone for good.
ReplyDeleteMahen, a few comments about bridesmaids. It is a western (probably Christian) custom I believe, but the tradition has been adopted by many different cultures and countries. I think it started out as someone who played a supportive role in preparing the bride for the wedding as Mahen has described. However, there are many instances where the bridesmaids cause more problems, rather than help in solving them. (Watch the movie "Bridesmaids" sometime!) Sumathi is quite correct that people actually borrow money when it comes to putting on a "good show" for their daughters' wedding.
ReplyDeleteIn the traditional Christian wedding ceremony, the bride hands over the bouquet to the chief bridesmaid (yes, there is such a title!) after she walks up the aisle, and arrives at the altar to exchange vows with the groom and be married by the priest. Holding on to the bouquet during the ceremony is one of the duties of the bridesmaid! My brother (GAF) once told me that the tradition behind the bouquet is because in the old days, women could only take a proper bath when the winter was over and the weather was warmer, so if the wedding was in early spring, the bride had to carry fresh flowers to mask the body odors!
Thank you Chira & Mahendra for sharing interesting episodes from your childhood and schooldays. I cannot believe that Swyrie was aschoolgirl prankster! Way back in 1953 we resided at Kandwatte Road when my father was transferred to the ten Kotte Urban Council and I attended Anula Vidyalaya. Nugegoda then was merely a small township. I recall the turn off to Melder Place but unfortunately missed out on meeting my multi-talented future batchmates including Gamini W.
ReplyDeleteI too was a bridesmaid thrice Chira lastly at your cousin Nandi's wedding.Mahendra unfortunately I do nto recall having any duties or obligations as these were all non christian weddings where the key players were family members and the bridesmaids were merely decorative for the group photographs!
However, I enjoyed this role with new attire and getting some attention.
Manel
ReplyDeleteThank you very much for your comment.I appreciate very much.It keeps our batch mates together.
I didn't know you lived in Nugegoda and attended Anula Vidyalaya. You would have noticed that I mentioned Nisha, Lalani and Padmini attending Anula Vidyalaya as I mentioned my father's first cousin Chitra Abeyratne was Principal. So we both were living in Nugegoda at the same time and didn't know each other. You know how advanced Nugegoda is now. People won't recognize as it has developed vastly.
You were Neelakshi's bridesmaid as you are very good friends. By the way all 4 of us family members spent a weeks holiday at Nandi's and Neelakshi's residence at Los Angeles in 1984.They have been visiting us several times after that. I think they too visited you in Kandy.
Chira
Mahendra
I agree with Manel that we didn't have a duty as such to perform except to hold the Bride's bouquet on and off when necessary. Of course the most important thing is the Family photograph which is treasured by the Bride and all the bridesmaids.
Chira
Manel
DeleteI just noticed that I made a mistake. Our family visited Nandi and Neelakshi in 2004 and not 1984. Chira
Manel, thank you for commenting and I am glad you enjoyed reading it. You mentioned Kandwatte Road. I remember that road well because my Uncle, Oliver Gurusighe lived there. I wonder whether you knew the Gurusinghe girls Manel, Chitri, Saumya. Maya and Yamuna. Oliver Baapa's wife Chandra was my mother's first cousin. The other family I remember when you gp down to Kirillapone are the Gunasekeras. They lived in Siebel Place and the father was a GP. The eldest Asoka also became a doctor and was one or two years senior to us. His brother Ranjan was my classmate at Royal. Sister Sakunthala I think attended Visakha. Memories!
ReplyDeleteSorry Mahen I do not recall neighbours from my year (then 10 y old) at Kandewatte Road. At the time the houses were mostly on the Left side facing a rubber estate. I recall occasionally walking back from school through a back-path at the top of the road but I do not know whether this was/is possible or just my imagination! Even my schooling at Anula V is vague being unable to clearly recall classmates. This is strange as I remember vividly events and classmates from the previous year Std. 1V at Girls High School Kandy with many of whom I re-connected in Peradeniya campus and later life.
DeleteHowever, I do remember events relating to the Queen’s coronation held that year. There was much fuss and planning by groups organizing visits to the UK to view the event. I recall my excitement and awe on visiting the ocean liner ’Orient’ (or such name!)for a send-off. Fortunately now all this fuss is unnecessary as one gets panoramic views of global events just sitting in front of a TV screen.
Thanks, Manel. Of course I understand that we cannot recall a lot of things that happened long ago. Some events stand out though.
DeleteThank you Manel, Srianee, Chira and Sumathi for your comments on Bridesmaids. I rather suspected that the main reason for them was the treasured photograph, just like the Best man who of course had the additional duty of looking after the rings, and these days, toasting the bridesmaids and making a speech.
ReplyDeleteHi Chira and Speedy Thank you both for an interesting interview with all the fascinating details .
DeleteI remember you Chira as being one year senior to me at Metho. Then we were class mates for one brief year in 1960 when you got a six months course in the Uni ( when I was not allowed to even sit for the A Levels because I was underage ) Then thank God I got a direct entry in 1961 ,so we were batchmates from 1962.
My sincere congratulations on all your achievements in your Speciality.. your hard work and perseverance has yielded amazing results.
Your comment about Swyrie being mischievous does not surprise me at all. I can remember so many instances of her being naughty. I can well remember how when asked to construct a sentence with the idiom it rained Cats and Dogs She said " It rained Cats and Dogs yesterday and I collected 25 cats and 30 dogs !"
with a dead pan face which left the teacher stuttering with rage while the whole class collapsed in helpless laughter !
And again during an Organic Chemistry practical when the teacher described the " fruity odour " she asked very seriously " Miss is it Tutty Fruity ? And the clueless teacher said yes making us giggle ( Swyrie was an ardent Elvis fan )
About being a bridesmaid I too can join you in proving that the saying 3 times a brides maid never a bride is not true because I was our Kusuma ' s bridesmaid , my older sisters bridesmaid as well as the bridesmaid to one on my first cousins who married Harsha Samarajiva ' s first cousin. I was the Chief Brides maid and Harsha the Best man. At the rehearsal he flatly refused to walk down the isle with me as he was a self proclaimed mysognist As this was the normal tradition and I was rather embarrassed at that time... He walked down with the 2nd brides maid who was his cousin leaving me to walk with the groomsman I take delight in teasing Harsha about this incident
Suri
DeleteThank you very much for your comment. I appreciate very much, you congratulating me on my achievements in my speciality.
I couldn't help laughing at your comment about Swyrie and also about being Bridesmaid at your cousins wedding when Harsha was Best man. Chira
Suri, I was amused with Swyrie's school girl pranks. My two grandsons favorite pastime these days is to entertain me at table relating the student-teacher jokes they daily collect. Its always the bright student responses that fox the teacher and never visa versa. When I related Swyries comment on 'raining cats & dogs' they were hilarious and I am certain by now this would have been shared all round with their school mates. My apologies to Swyrie.
DeleteManel
Mahendra, Asoka Gunasekera was the Professor of Obs & Gyn at Ruhuna and is a close friend of mine. His step-mother, Mrs. Gunasekera taught me at the RPS. Asoka is married to Ramya Wijesekera, a cousin of Chanaka W. and close relative of Sir Baron Jayatilleke.
ReplyDeleteI didn't know that you knew him well Sanath. I remember him as a "big" chap, like the father. As I said, I knew his brother Ranjan who entered the EFac and became a close friend of my brother Daya. If I remember right, there was another brother, Ananda.
DeleteSaid, Asoka Gunasekera was a GP in Coventry and did clinical Assistant session in OBS&GYn. in Mr Reid's unit. I was working at Coventry& Warwick hospital. Met him when my wife attended Mr Reid's clinic on one occasion, but he did not recognised me, even though I knew as a senior in Colombo Faculty. I was employed in Coventry& Warwick hospital during that time(1967-69).Later on I heard that he got the Professorship in Ruhuna Faculty. He was a big lad indeed, qualified in 1964 or 65?.By the way Coventry& Warwick hospital is now defunct.
ReplyDeleteSumathi. Amazing how interconnected we are. I have been to the Gunasekera house at Siebel avenue many times. My friend Ranjan was a very clever chap. Sadly, he passed away in 2017. He had a stroke in August that year and passed away in September. His wife was Mary.
DeleteSorry, I got the years wrong It was 77/79.
ReplyDeleteSpeedy, Did Asoka resigned or displaced from his Professorship?. The information, I received was that Academics were up in arms against his appointment, who had less credentials. A friend of mine told me that Neil Fonseka replaced him with good credentials-Ranaya's Registrar,after Attapattu,Mahasara and PC Iduruwa, holding, MRCOG,FRCS
ReplyDeleteStrokes and Coronaries are endemic and worse compared with developed world. You and know the reason behind the premature deaths among Sri Lankans.
sumathi. I can't answer that question as I don't know the history. maybe Sanath can shed some light on this
DeleteThe info I have for Asoka Gunasekera is that he is FRCS FRCOG
DeleteGlad to hear that Asoka G has reached the uppermost echelon of academic world. Prof Rajasuriya used to mention that there was no higher qualification above MRCP.FRCP is awarded automatically after 10 yrs. Some get it before that on recommendation of colleagues for research work, holding Professorship etc. I guess Speedy and you are FRCP title holders. I know of a good friend, who was a Consultant in GU medicine with FRCSEdin obtained MRCP(Hon) and the following year FRCP. No exam, hardly any research work, but he happened to be the President of Association of GU Physicians.One has to pay an annual fee to keep the title?
DeleteSumathy and Mahen
ReplyDeleteAsoka Gunasekera who was 2 years senior to us was at Wesley during my time. He was 2 years my senior. A very conscientious hard working guy. Even in those days he was a dignified gentleman. I wrote a piece about him in my school website
http://wesleycollegecolombo.info/oldboys1.html#b161
Sanath and Mahendra
ReplyDeleteAsoka Gunasekera's wife, Ramya Wijesekera, Chanaka Wijesekera and Anoja Wijesekera my oldest friend from Methodist College( I was bridesmaid to her for the first time) I mentioned earlier are all first cousins. They are all children of 3 Wijesekera brothers. I spoke to Anoja just now and confirmed. Anoja married Consultant Dermatologist Late Nanda Atukorale. Chira
Chira! It is no surprise that birds of a feather flock together. C'est vrai(that is true in French).I have attended Dermatology OPD clinics conducted by Dr Tissa Ratnayake and Nanda Athukorale(under study to Dr Ratnayake).He took over when Dr.Ratnayake resigned and emigrated to Australia.I was able to hop over from the VD clinic where I was one of the MOs at the VD clinic that treated island's infamous patients. Dr Atu was known as LOKU Athukorale by his batch-mates. DP Athukorale and Upul Wijewardhana were his batch-mates.Nanda Athukorale was serene like a Buddha.After all he was a descendant of a "Korale"
ReplyDeleteSumathi
DeleteDr.Tissa Ratnayake is married to Dr.Sujeewa Ratnatunge sister of Channa And Malini Ratnatunge. Malini is married to my brother.I met Tissa and Sujeewa in Melbourne, Australia in 2006.
You may be aware that Upul Wijayawardena is married to Primrose our batch mate. I mentioned earlier that they spent a weekend with us in Bangor North Wales in 1992 when I was working there.
Chira
Chira,Upul has been a good friend of mine who game his Zoology note while I was preparing for the University enrance. I have been to Primrose's house in Kirilapona alone with Upul one occasion. When he was at "Jeewaka" hostel, we both went for one of his batch-mate's sisters wedding in a village off Eheliyagoda. We had no cars and it was a bus journey. You want believe, I have a cassette containing all the songs that Primrose sang during school days for Radio-Ceylon. I have met Upul once at Heathrow airport on our way to Germany. He went for a Cardiology conference and I was on my way to a Dermatology Conference. He has met my son when he went as a SHO Surgery in his hospital, where Edris worked as a Pathologist. My son was there on for a few weeks, as he got a better hospital to continue in Surgical training. The hospital, where Upul worked, prior to retirement is defunct now. It has a notorious scandal where a nurse killed and attempted to kill children in the Paediatric unit. Lama will know all about it.
DeleteAsoka Gunasekera, a former Wesleyite, is the Founder Professor of Gynaecology and Obstetrics of the Ruhuna University. He got the post over my friend LAW Sirisena who joined Ruhuna before Asoka as a Senior Lecturer. Asoka got the Chair over LAWS as the latter did not have a class at the Final MBBS examination. Asoka completed his career at Ruhuna and retired at 65 years of age.
ReplyDeleteAsoka's wife Ramya is a cousin of Chanaka Wijesekera and Channa Ratnatunga is a cousin of Asoka Gunasekera. Dermatologist D N
Atukorale's wife is a cousin of Chanaka.
Neil Fonseka was the Founder Professor of Surgery at Ruhuna and Panagamuwa was a Senior Lecturer in the same department.
Lama, thank you about the information that you have provided about the destiny of Asoka G and my good old friend from Bloem days-Law Sirisena. His forefathers were Liyana Arachchis from Tangalle. His elder brother LAP was MOH Tangalle during my time as MOH Hambantota. His home was close by and paid a visit with his dad to see me on one occasion.
DeleteLaw paid a visit to my home in Birmingham, some years ago during his way to see the premature baby unit in one famous Maternity hospital in Dublin-Eire.I aware that 2nd class or above was a must for those who aspired Academic posts. Lastly, I must apologise for harbouring a mis-information about Asoka Gunasekera. He was a patriotic son of Sri-Lanka to give-up a happy life in UK in order to accept a very prestigious post of Professorship.
Ramya Gunasekera's father was Prof OH de A Gunasekera,who was the Head of the Buddhist Encyclopaedia Office in Peradeniya. Chanaka's father was a lawyer and DN Atukorale's father-in-law was a surgeon, whose son Anuradha was with me at RPS but not RC.
ReplyDeleteSorry for the mistake. Ramya's father is Dr. Nandadeva Wijesekera, who was an anthropologist, archeologist, author and former Ambassador to Burma. He also represented Ceylon in cricket.
ReplyDeleteProf O H de A Wijesekera is the father of Drs Gamini and Jagath (Neurologist).He was the first holder of the Chair in Sanskrit in the University of Ceylon as well as a former Vice-Chancellor.
Speedy, episode 9 is so interesting and I hope it to hit the target of 💯.
ReplyDeleteChira thank you for your narrative of your life . it also brought back happy memories of combined studies. I knew your brother was called matchi and i had my own experience of similar when my daughter couldn't say malli so called her younger brother maiy . it stuck and to this day even though he is a father of two himself he is maiy to the whole family .
ReplyDeleteChira you are not only an excellent painter but you are also an excellent narrator . you should think of writing up your memoir. Iam sure it will be a best seller . May you go from strength to strength in all your undertakings . manil katugampola
Manil
ReplyDeleteLovely to hear from you. What a comment ! Thank you very much. Good old memories we have studying together and my visiting you in Blackpool and Dulwich. I can remember going and seeing the Blackpool lights with you.
I sent you recently a photo of the two of us when we went to see a model village in Dulwich.I had lost contact with you and I found your Email address in one of the Blog articles. The blog is bringing our batch mates together. Thanks to Lucky and Mahendra. Chira
Nice to see you in the blog, Manil.May I remind you that you had a taste of Ophthalmology-post internship at Auradhapura General. Almost at the end of our internship, the transfer list was sent and I saw HO post in Anuradhapura. Hoorah, I thought that could be a MO post in Medicine and applied. The blooming administrators and their petty clerks always tamper with transfer list. The HO post was in Ophthalmology and it went to you and I ended as MO,OPD.I would have been a retired Ophthalmologist, by now, if the job went to me. Not even Al-Mighty can alter ones destiny. I am contended with what I have achieved with immense hardships. Also I would like to remind you that Lalani Seebert came to Anuradhapura as Locum Paediatrician, while Mrs Abeyratna was on holiday. She never talked to me even though I saw her in the Office on the day of her assumption of duties. I wonder whether you have left Anuradhapura, then. Do not think you all think that was disgusting?.
ReplyDeleteSurd, your comment apart from giving richly deserved praise for Chira, also included some lovely stories about Swyrie and Bora! Thanks for sharing. "Three times a bridesmaid, never a bride" seems fit for the dustbin!
ReplyDeleteDear Chira, Iam making a comment at your request re bridesmaids and various rituals many of us may have followed being bridesmaids. I believe it is a western custom. Not only does the chief bridesmaid walk in with the bestman. She has to help the bride when needed to hold her boquet and in numerous ways when ever the bride needs assistence. I believ a thrilling experience of a bridesmaid is to try and catch the bridal boquet when the bride gets into the car on her going away and throws it for the lucky bridesmaid to catch .
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This should suffice as i am new to the blog and trying to follow my friends dialog is not an easy task .
Sura
DeleteThank you very much for your comment re bridesmaids. I told you to comment about bridesmaid when you are commenting on my recent Speedy Interview.
That was because I felt Speedy was expecting the ladies to come out with duties of a bridesmaid etc. Chira
Lalani Seebert worked in our unit at Ward 1 LRH in the mid-1970s as a Registrar, as she had the DCH. Later on she joined the Department of Community Medicine in the Colombo Medical Faculty after specialising and retired as a Senior Lecturer. She married T D Rajapakse, former cricket captain of Ananda College.
ReplyDeletePrimrose Jayasinghe, through her political connections, nearly deprived me or rather Russell Paul (he was second to me in the merit list), from a post at the Chest Hospital ,Welisara, after the internship. When I was made aware of her conspiracy, I informed Dr. Anthonis about it who requested Kalu Jayasinghe at the Ministry Head Office, to rectify matters. When I reported for work at Welisara, the nurses were surprised to see a male doctor, as Primrose and Upul had visited the wards and quarters, prior to assuming duties. When I reminded Upul recently about this incident, he claimed ignorance thereby exposing his hypocrisy!
To speak in general about appointments and transfers:
DeleteI hope the situation about appointments has improved since those days of long ago. The wire pulling, nepotism, bribery and corruption rose its ugly head in those days and this was a curse. Using the order of merit was the established way it was done and seem quite straight forward. How are the transfers done now? Is there a system of reviewing appointments if not done correctly. Does the GMOA play a part to see fair-play.
Wherever we live there is unfairness due to various reasons. In the UK now there is some form of redress and accountability than at the time we started life here. There are times when we don't get what we want we put it down to prejudice. Complete fairness is what we should try to achieve but sadly it seems an impossible dream.
Lama, you are absolutely correct. Both of them had the Political muscles to get favours. Upul's father, late Justin Wijewardene was one time MP for Matara and Primrose's father was MMC for Kirilapona and uncle MP for Dehiwala-Galkissa. One uncle was a bus-magnate prior to Privatisation. What else one wants? We "Podiens" had no place in "Home sweet home".
ReplyDeleteSunethra Ranasinghe, cousin of Primrose, was Minister in charge of Teaching Hospitals.
ReplyDeleteSunethra was the daughter of ex-MP and Minister S de S Jayasinghe. I was staying few houses from Mr.Jayasinghe's house in Kohuwala, during my attachment to VD Clinic.
DeleteCOMMENT FROM KUSUMA RUBERU
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chira wants me to post her comment to you
comment chira i enjoyed reading your article specially during this time of lock down.
i dint know that you had a interesting genealogy
i have been a bridesmaid with padmini wijeratna at my sisters wedding. i cant remember anything a did except to hold her veil
regards
kusuma
Kusuma
DeleteThank you very much for your comment. I am glad you enjoyed reading it. I told you to comment about bridesmaids as Speedy was expecting the ladies to comment about bridesmaids. Chira
Nice to see you, Kusuma, a long lost friend. I remember the secret romance our Upali Wijeratne had with Padmini Karunanayake. She was next door to Upali's brother's house, where Upali stayed until he moved onto Jeewaka hostel. I did visit him at his brothers residence for combined studies. It was an un-luck I lost combined studies since he moved onto Jeewaka. I am sure I lost a chance of doing well at the "Finals".Hope you are enjoying the stay in AUS, most of your time."Podian" stands for a small child in Tamil, but is been used by eldewrly, educated Tamils to address junior doctors and other Professionals in Jaffna Peninsula. Some of my Tamil friends told me they hated to work in that Peninsula, purely because they were treated as "Podians".
ReplyDeleteNihal, at present the transfers are done with a lot of transparency and a representative of the GMOA sits on the transfer panel.
ReplyDeleteGood toe see that although hard to believe! Must be true as I don't think you will mislead us Sanath.
DeleteMind you, from what I read and hear about the GMOA, it has turned into a highly political animal seeking special favours for doctors. Very different from the GMOA of which I am a past Vice President.
DeleteSpeedy, you have come out with the truth and nothing but truth. Some of the GMOA, members have become poodles of the Politicians.
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