Monday, May 2, 2022

Lakshman Dias Abeygunawardene – Community Physician par excellence

Lakshman Dias Abeygunawardene – Community Physician par excellence

By Dr Nihal D Amerasekera

Lakshman (L.N.D) Abeygunawardene had his education at Ananda College Colombo.

I first met Lakshman in the “Block” when we were freshers at the Faculty of Medicine in Colombo in 1962. Then we both lived in Nugegoda. There were times he gave me a lift to the faculty in his Honda 50 motor-cycle. Our surnames being at the beginning of the alphabet we sat near to each other at lectures, walked the long corridors of the General Hospital together and worked in the same wards. Friendship blossomed as we did most of the demanding tasks together for the full five years.

The examinations in the faculty were many and each one of them challenging in the extreme. There was a need to commit vast amounts of facts to memory. Lakshman had a most remarkable memory and the ability to recall in such great detail. He spent less time studying than many of my mates in the year but sailed through the years with ease. On many occasions, he gave me the impression Lakshman merely wanted to pass the examinations with minimum effort while enjoying student life. I have no doubt that he could have been in the top tier in the order of merit if he just made the effort. Lakshman was intelligent and had the wonderful ability to think fast and think rationally while on his feet. This was a great gift which he used to good effect in later life and career. 

Lakshman loved faculty life and enjoyed it to the full, more than most. He was a fine billiards player. Taking part in the faculty competitions he fared very well indeed becoming one of the top players. Carrom was his forte. Lakshman was one of the best players of the game and won the faculty tournament a couple of times. He was a great follower of the University cricket team and was ever present at the Sara Trophy games lending his support. Watching Rugby was another of his passions and never missed an important club game. He was always there for the Colours Night and Block Night dances at the University’s King George’s Hall, jiving the night away. Ever-present at the evening booze-ups in the faculty common room, Lakshman was there to take me home after the event. Although he enjoyed a drink Lakshman never exceeded the sensible limits he set for himself. He never smoked. With him good sense always prevailed. 

I remember he was always polite and had the great ability to be calm, discreet and diplomatic. He had the skill to hide his anger so very well. Beneath his gentle demeanour, Lakshman has a steely core. He is intelligent and astute and played his cards close to his chest. Lakshman was never in a hurry to make important decisions which he did after careful thought. This stood him in good stead throughout his career and in his life. 

I recall with nostalgia a trip we made with Sanath de Tissera, Bernard Randeniya and Lakshman Jayasinghe (who joined us on the spur of the moment, at the Fort Railway Station). We were off on a trip to Kandy. Sanath arranged for us to stay in a house on a hill in Watapuluwa, overlooking the Mahaweli river. We pounded the streets of Kandy during the day and enjoyed a chat and a drink in the evenings by the river. This was a memorable holiday which brought us closer together. 

After the final year examination came the great dispersal. We all went our separate ways.

Following his Internship at Colombo South General Hospital, he worked in a clinical field for two years. He then set his eyes on a career in public health. Lakshman began his journey into public health as a Medical Officer of Health at Matara in 1970. That was also a momentous year for Lakshman when he married Mangala.  I made an official trip to Matara while working at the Central Blood Bank in Colombo.  It brought me great joy to meet my old pal again. I was entertained most lavishly by Lakshman and Mangala in a grand and elegant house at Brown’s Hill in Matara. 

Remaining in the Public Health Services, he joined the Health Education Bureau (HEB) of the Ministry of Health.  In March 1974, Lakshman was awarded a World Health Organization (WHO) Fellowship and proceeded to the USA. Specialising in public health and health education, in 1975, he obtained the Master’s degree in Public Health (MPH) from the University of California, Berkeley, USA. On his return to Sri Lanka, Lakshman pursued his keen interest in serving the HEB as a Health Education Specialist. In 1986, he received his certification as a consultant in community medicine by the Post Graduate Institute of Medicine (PGIM). Lakshman was conferred the prestigious Doctor of Medicine (MD) degree in community medicine by the University of Colombo. 

Having served the Government of Sri Lanka diligently for 23 years he took early retirement in 1990 and joined the United Nations Children’s Fund (UNICEF). He has also served the World Health Organisation (WHO) and the Commonwealth Secretariat of London working on consultant assignments in Indonesia and Malaysia. In 1998, he took early retirement from UNICEF.  Lakshman then emigrated to the United States and served the South Carolina Department of Health and Environmental Control as a Health Education Specialist for a further period of ten years. He finally retired in December 2008 as a Consultant Community Physician in the USA. Although South Carolina left a strong impression on Lakshman he had a deep longing to return home to his roots. 

For many years I lost contact with Lakshman. Marriage, careers and caring for our children took precedence. On a brief visit home in 1998, I met up with Lakshman and the irrepressible J.C Fernando at the Singhalese Sports Club which was a memorable event. We kept the spirit alive bringing back a bit of that old faculty magic of long ago. 

Lakshman initiated a Weblog (now also called a Blog), specifically for the Colombo Medical Faculty entrants of 1962. The creation helped to shape the way we communicate as a year group and became a forum for conveying our skills, news, humour and friendship. This became an instant hit with the batch and has been a friendly platform, riding the ether since 2011. He had a pragmatic approach to its rules. Not wanting it to be an online battleground, he discouraged and virtually excluded politics. As the manager of the Blog he maintained its dignity and remained fair and impartial. His willingness to listen to the feedback improved the Blog enormously. After many years in the hot seat he has now passed on the onerous task of managing the Blog to Mahendra Gonsalkorale. 

On retirement Lakshman and Mangala returned to Sri Lanka and made their home in Battaramulla. They now maintain a splendid house with a delightful garden in the posh part of town. An utterly charming couple, they became well known for their friendship and lavish hospitality. By his relaxed style and affable manner, he made wonderful company. Their generosity was extended to the many expatriate medics who returned home on their winter getaway. 

I recall Lakshman’s father was a regular contributor to the national newspapers. Lakshman continued this tradition by contributing articles of value to the daily papers mostly on topics in his field of expertise in healthcare. He has dipped deep into the archives of his memory to write a most readable, extensive and far-reaching memoir. 

I never joined in the many Batch reunions in Sri Lanka and never had the opportunity to meet Lakshman. He made a brief trip to the UK. Although I hoped very much we could meet but that was not to be. I was in Sri Lanka in 2012 and we were able to enjoy a meal together at the plush Indian restaurant at the Cinnamon Grand in Colombo. In the relaxed ambience of its dining hall we retraced our time together, reminisced and remembered mutual friends. We did make up much for those lost years. 

Lakshman is a quiet man, yet gregarious, always charming. He is well known for his intense loyalty to his friends. His anecdotes, wonderful sense of humour and that ‘wicked’ grin are an integral part his charm.  I remember from long ago his courtesy and kind ways which he has carried through all his life. I am greatly privileged to have met him in my life’s journey. Lakshman and Mangala have a son and daughter and enjoy the love and affection of three grandchildren.

I wish them a long and happy retirement.

21 comments:

  1. Thanks, Nihal for that warm tribute to a very special Batch colleague. Every accolade was well deserved. Although I knew Lucky at Medical College, we lost contact for a long time after I left Sri Lanka. I always associate his medical college days in my memory with his blue Honda 50, a model preferred by many others, including that bubble of genial activity, JC Fernando. There was the Honda crowd, the Vespa crowd (Patas), Lambretta crowd,(Nana) MotoGuzi crowd (Kari) and BSA Bantam lot (Bertie Nana)!

    Lucky has a deep love for Sri Lanka and it wasn’t surprising to see Lucky and Mangala returning to spend the rest of their lives in the country they loved. I too have enjoyed their warm hospitality in their beautiful house in the company of other batch colleagues in my visits to Sri Lanka. The food and company was always something to look forward to.

    What reunited us was the Blog. Lucky was humble enough to accept and implement many changes I suggested to make it even better. It was a shock when he encountered his visual problems and asked me to take over running the Blog. I readily agreed but insisted that I become a co-administrator and not the Administrator as this was his brain child. I shall continue to do so as long as needed.

    Lucky is all what Nihal said, a charming, quiet, dutiful, loving and thoroughly decent man. Long may Mangala and Lucky enjoy his retirement.

    Finally, hats off to Nihal for the post and the wonderful portrait drawn by him

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  2. Thanks Mahen. Glad my Portrait of the great man is good enough. The Blog keeps us together. It is Lucky's legacy to our batch for which we will be ever grateful.

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  3. Nihal
    What a glowing tribute to Lucky! Well done.
    Excellent as I got to know him well after reading this well written post.
    Lucky
    What an illustrious career after reaching the top in Public Health.
    Congratulations for initiating our Blog which keeps our batchmates together.
    Lucky and Mangala we all wish you happy retirement.
    Chira

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    1. Chira
      Thank you for commenting despite all that mayhem going on in Sri Lanka. I do sincerely hope you and the family are coping well.
      Yes, Lucky was a very special person. He never gave me the impression he was ambitious. His aspirations were for a comfortable life which he now has in great abundance. In that he has achieved his goal.
      I do hope you still have the time to paint those colourful images of nature and bring us joy in these difficult times.

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    2. Nihal
      Thanks for your comment.
      Our family is coping alright, but I feel very sorry for the poor people who find it difficult to live without proper food.
      Yes I am painting with powercuts etc. I sent my paintings of birds 1 to Mahendra and you will see them in due course.
      I will be sending only paintings without text. Mahendra said to send 8 to 10 paintings at a time. I am painting the second installment of birds at present.
      Let me cogratulate you on the excellent portrait of Lucky.
      Chira

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    3. Chira
      Glad to hear that you are ok. Look forward to seeing your paintings. When we were in the Faculty Lucky had a full head of hair and now he looks more distinguished. Many of us men have lost much of the head hair including myself.
      Keep on with your painting and enjoy

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  4. pramilla SenanayakeMay 4, 2022 at 10:50 AM

    Fantastic tribute to Lucky. An impressive career in a very important field your excellent article Nihal so well written captures it all I have the privilege of seeing Lucky and Mangala fairly frequently. They are a lovely couple enjoying their retirement
    May they continue to be blessed

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    1. Good to hear from you Pram. I know that many are reading this post. In fact I spoke to Rajan (Patas) today and he will send me a comment for publishing

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    2. Dear Pram
      Thank you for the kind comments. It is so lovely to hear from you despite the problems in our homeland. Trust all is well with you. Take care.

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  5. ND your comments of Lucky was not only of great interest and you captured events and details that brought fond memories of our days in Medical school. Like some I knew Lucky asa batch mate and another of those motorised students but never close enough to appreciate what great guy he was. I still remember the final year trip and if I remember our theme song was "the carnival is over" the words put to gather by Lucky. I got to know Lucky more much later after our reunions when I had the priviledge to entertain him at my home and later a greater priviledge to enjoy a home cooked true Sri Lankan lunch.
    Lucky like many of our batch mates showed their hidden talents by starting this blog which has had over a million hits and counting, and the book that he wrote with the talents of a English major.I know that Herpes Zoster has taken a tole on him and his family but inspit of it he still participates in the blog. Thanks to Lucky we have a way to keep in touch. Lucky wish you and Mangala the best of health will keep praying for you

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  6. Hi Rajan alias Patas
    How lovely to see you on the blog. You are like the British Royalty only appearing on special occasions.
    What a great coincidence that we both spent our Scottish breaks in that quaint farmhouse in Dollar in Scotland just a few weeks apart with our Chinese better halves.
    I remember the Final year trip with great clarity and his infamous song with his own personal lyrics of "The Carnival is over". This had a whimsical and generous splash of sexual connotations which made it enter our Hit Parade.
    He has been a great guy all through the years and let us hope he recovers well and fully to enjoy life again as before.

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  7. Hi Nihal,
    Thank you for this lovely tribute to Lucky Abey! I found out many more details about him which I didn't know before (Carom and billiard champion!) as well as details of the fun the guys had; evening booze-ups in the common room, really? The women never had a final-year trip either. I've said this before, that the men in our batch definitely had more fun! (If you detect a note of envy, you are correct.) I believe things have changed now and that there is less segregation of the genders.
    Nihal, I am also glad that you gave us a detailed account of Lucky's impressive career achievements, because he is so modest, and we would never hear about them from Lucky himself.
    I think all of us lost touch with friends while we were busy following divergent paths, pursuing career goals, raising families etc. Thanks to Lucky's efforts and now Mahen's, with strong support from you, Nihal, we have reconnected. Let's keep going. It is impossible to meet people living in different continents, so this is the next best thing!
    I am also grateful that Lucky and Mangala often have me over to their beautiful home whenever I am in Colombo. That way I manage to see a few more batch mates that I may not otherwise meet.
    All the best to Lucky and Mangala!

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    1. Srianee
      Good to hear from you.
      Lucky loved the good life in the faculty and as mentioned did the bare minimum amount of work to scrape through the years. He kept his ear to the ground and knew all the scandals, gossip and tittle tattle but used them wisely not causing trouble.
      I just wonder if they have those wonderful evening booze-ups in the Common Room and if the Final year trip is a regular event anymore.
      Importantly is the main Common Room really common to girls and boys.
      I'm sure you've heard from a batchmate that the word BATCHMATE is not a real word and is just Ceylonism. Language like everything else is evolving. There are many Asian words that have entered the English dictionary like "MANTRA"
      BATCHMATE is now in the Cambridge English dictionary
      https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/batchmate
      I have always used the word abundantly.

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  8. Just returned from my Charity Fund raising weekend event,The Charity is the Meththa Foundation which specialises in providing prostheses for amputees in Sri Lanka. It is a vety worthwhile project and this is the 10th year we have been doing the charity walks. I am really poud of the contrbution we make.
    Coming to "batchmate", I have a very simplistic and practical approach to language. It is primararily a medium of communication. When the word Batchmate is used in our circles, we know perfectly well what is meant and that is good enough for me. Furthermore, it leaves no room for misinterpretation or misundestanding and is not insulting in any way..

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    1. Ceylonism is something to talk about as it is a part of us all. Despite my 50 years in the UK my accent, use of words and pronunciation remain foreign and I’m proud of it. I distinctly recall that at school the word “Godaya” was used on students whose knowlege of English was less good. The word was derogatory and deeply offensive to many. I have been at the receiving end of such comments and remember blushing red. It just reminds me I am a rustic from the wilds of Kal-Eliya in the Kegalle district. English is not our mother tongue and we all have done remarkably well to learn a foreign language and use it so well.

      Last night I watched a Sri Lankan TV channel online. It was a panel discussion about the current political and financial upheaval. After hearing the BBC Oxford English on TV for so many decades I felt quite at home with the Ceylonism used by the panel and the presenter in Sri Lanka. This was very well presented. The important and vexed issues were argued in a polite and courteous manner.

      When I listen to the Sinhala newscasts I do not understand some of the words they use. These are most definitely news words that have crept into our language. I can get the gist of what of expressed. My Sinhala writing has gone down the pan very badly.

      I agree with the sentiments expressed by Mahendra. ‘Ceylonism’ is an integral part of our culture and we all know what we mean. Whatever language we use it is important we respect the grammar, spelling and punctuations as much as we can. I hasten to add it is not a ‘hanging offence’ to get this wrong. We all have those senior moments!!

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  9. Nihal,
    Thank you for this fine account of the man behind the blog - His modesty has kept us unaware of his achievements over half a century- It is good to learn of his ways and accomplishments even at this late stage - Well done Lucky and well done Nihal.

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    1. Rohini
      Where have you been? We all missed your wonderful supportive comments and wisdom. Please stay with us. The blog will slowly grind to a halt as the regulars gradually leave the ship. Thank you for your presence.

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    2. Nihal you ask me where I have been
      I’ve been to London to visit the Queen !
      Why you might ask have You not been seen-
      You’d know when I tell you it was only a dream !

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    3. Rohini
      You have arrived in London, although in your dreams, to see the Queen when she celebrates her Platinum Jubilee. Stay on for the Parades and the street parties and enjoy the merriment. I do remember the Coronation living opposite the Anglican Church at Nugegoda. The Bells tolled unceasingly although we had left the British Empire by then. How much the world has changed since and also my beloved country.

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  10. This is a test comment using Firefox. If it works I will comment on the superb post by ND.
    Kumar

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