Tuesday, December 21, 2021

Revo Drahaman- A gem in the world of pebbles.

Dr Revelion (Revo) Drahaman - A Gem in a world of pebbles

By Dr Nihal D Amerasekera


 When I think of Revelion Drahaman I am reminded of a famous line from Shakespeare’s Twelfth Night:  “Some are born great, some achieve greatness, and others have greatness thrust upon them.” Revo seems to have had them all. 

I first met Revo in 1965 when we were both students at the Faculty of Medicine in Colombo. It was the Swinging Sixties. Memories of amber nectar, tall tales and late nights whizz around my head as I recall those years of long ago. Friendships were made and firmed in the canteen and common room which was the social hub of the Faculty where laughter was endemic. Revo started his training with the first batch of students at Peradeniya and moved to Colombo on a transfer. As our surnames were nearer the beginning of the alphabet, we did most of the clinical work together. Our walks on the long corridors to every corner of the General Hospital in search of patients and knowledge is a memory that has stayed with me. This brought us closer and the friendship lasted a lifetime. 

Our third year (1965) was a particularly difficult one with a plethora of subjects and much to read, retain and recall. Nalin Nanayakkara, Revo and I studied together. We met at each other’s houses. Revo’s parent’s house was in the affluent part of the city in the plush surroundings of Guilford Crescent, Cinnamon Gardens. This splendid house was called “Merdeka” (Freedom in Malay). On arrival we soon got stuck into our books.  When Revo’s mother saw us immersed in our work, took pity on us and sent us cups of tea and cakes. Sometimes those study sessions ended in a delightful lunch. Revo was intelligent, focused and hardworking. 

But it was not all work. We occasionally snatched an evening break.  As students, drinking and socialising took away the stresses and the strains of the heavy workload. There were those memorable and raucous evening booze-ups at the faculty’s Men’s Common Room. The glitz and the glamour of the Colours Night and Block Night Dances at King George’s Hall at Reid Avenue lit up our amorphous yearnings!! On those evenings we twisted and jived the night away in gorgeous company. Revo was ever-present and enjoyed himself thoroughly. During the years in the faculty, he had a rugged and reliable BSA Bantam motorbike. I was a regular pillion rider on this noisy beast weaving through the Colombo traffic. 

He breezed through the difficult examinations at the faculty. Our undergraduate days ended in June 1967. As the sunset on our student days, there was a new dawn of a career in Medicine. Revo did his internship at the General Hospital Badulla and in 1968 he returned to the OPD at Ragama Hospital. We came together again when I moved back to Colombo in 1970. Then our uncertainties loomed large. It was a time of professional and personal insecurity. On an evening, the Health Department Sports Club at Castle Street was our oasis. He was genial company and we spoke about our lives, families and our academic progress. Revo wanted to specialise in ENT surgery. He was a good listener always calm and measured in his delivery. Whenever my life was in turmoil, Revo flattered me with his genuine care and interest in my well-being. I respected his opinion. He often advised patience. His contributions to any discussion were well-thought-out and conveyed with much consideration. Revo was endowed with high moral standards. Although not overtly religious its important tenets were deeply rooted in his psyche. He stood up for his principles, steadfastly. 

I left for England in 1974 and began work in London. By then Revo had proceeded with his surgical training with Dr Victor Benjamin, Consultant Surgeon and was successful in his preliminary FRCS examination in surgery. He too arrived in the UK in the early 1970s. We met up again when he worked at the prestigious Whittington Hospital in London. This hospital is named after the famous 14th-century traveller, Dick Whittington. As we both had busy jobs and difficult professional examinations to overcome our meetings were less frequent. 

After completing the FRCS examination in surgery and the professional training, Revo returned to Sri Lanka in 1976. He was appointed as an ENT Surgeon, General Hospital Colombo. Before long, he formed an efficient and impressive ENT Unit that was the envy of his colleagues. He was an astute clinician, careful and meticulous. Revo was also a technically gifted surgeon. In practice he was a traditionalist and stood by the wisdom of Hippocrates, "primum non nocere" (first, do no harm). His sensitivity to the feelings of his patients made him an outstanding medical professional. They trusted his judgment.  Revo was keen to share his surgical skills and enthusiasm and enjoyed teaching. He trained many young doctors to achieve great things in the speciality, at home and abroad. Revo Drahaman became a leading name in ENT surgery, much admired and well sought after. He had a busy and successful career at the National Hospital. He also worked in several Private Hospitals. Revo is a wonderful, wise and deeply perceptive man. He is modest about his own considerable achievements and scrupulously honest. With his fine bedside manner, professional competence and high ethical principles he handled patients, colleagues, nursing staff and trainees with skill, kindness and unfailing courtesy. 

Despite his busy work schedule, he looked after the medical needs of my family in Colombo. He treated them with his usual respect, warmth and helpful kindness. Revo refused to accept any payment for this enormous favour. I was then a regular visitor to Sri Lanka. On those journeys, we met up unfailingly and caught up with the news of mutual friends. We spoke about our careers and family and put the world to right. There was always time to reminisce and recall the good times gone. On those visits, I remember with fondness his mischief and playfulness and those witty narratives delivered with waving arms and a broad smile, just as he did when we were students. 

Revo comes from Malay aristocracy in Sri Lanka. His father was Dr M.P Drahaman who was a General Practitioner in Slave Island and an appointed Member of Parliament in the late 1950s. He is remembered for his tireless work to improve the lives of the Malay Community devoting much of his time to their welfare and well-being. Dr M.P Drahaman provided support for the Indonesian struggle for Merdeka (freedom) for which he was recognised and honoured by the Indonesian Government. Three of his sons followed him into the medical profession. He passed away in 1963 in Mecca while performing Haj. 

Revo still lives in Cinnamon Gardens with his wife Lareena who is a dental surgeon. The old house has been completely rebuilt. They remain lavish and generous hosts renowned for their Malay feasts. He is an affectionate and attentive father to his son and daughter and is a doting grandfather.

His son Akram has followed in his father’s footsteps to qualify as an ENT Surgeon. Revo’s daughter, Asnita, is a GP and her husband is a Consultant Physician and they live in the UK.

When Revo visited his daughter and son-in-law in the UK they were honoured guests at my home. Those meetings are now precious memories. I have a collection of old Malay music which were popular in Sri Lanka. He loved listening to them after a few glasses of vino. I offered him a CD of the music for him to take back to Sri Lanka. 

Revelion Drahaman dedicated more than 50 years to the medical profession. Work was his pleasure and after retirement, he continued to serve in the private sector. He is a fine product of that great redbrick institution, Royal College Colombo. By his dignity and decency, he brought honour to his school, the profession and his community. This short biography is a testament to the caring and integrity which was evident in everything he did.  Revo has lived a remarkable life. He was ever so humble about his success and never regarded himself as someone special. Despite his privileged upbringing he never lost the common touch. I consider myself so very fortunate to have met him in my journey through life. 

As we age those days of grandeur and glory become a fading memory but we still cherish the friendships and the good times. I wish Revo and Lareena a long and fulfilling retirement. May their onward journey be peaceful. 

“The mind can go in a thousand directions,

but on this beautiful path, I walk in peace.

With each step, the wind blows.

With each step, a flower blooms.”

― Thich Nhat Hanh (Vietnam)

 

 

11 comments:

  1. Terima Kasih(thank you in Malay),Nihal,

    I remember, Revo very well, but had very little association during the gruelling five years. His father was a well known figure, as a politician and a general practitioner.
    I still remember Nalin addressing Revo as "Chinaman.Revo inherited the characteristics of the Mongolian trait. Revo was a quite chap, who never showed any superiority complex. Glad to hear that he served the whole Sri Lankan Community until his full retirement.
    I also knew his younger brother who married a girl from our senior batch.
    "Insha Allah(God willing)may Revo and his beloved wife enjoy a peaceful retirement in that salubrious Cinnamon Gardens.

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    1. REPLY FROM NIHAL ND
      Thank you Sumathipala. Very true Nalin
      referred to Revo as Cheena, done tongue in cheek. Revo received those with his usual charming smile. I have never seen Revo angry about anything. So very sober. If he disagreed he said so gently but firmly. This is not an attempt to deify him. I have searched long and hard for something I don’t like about him. I’m still looking.
      ND

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  2. Teri a Kasih is Indonesian way to thank some one. I am sure Malay language has very similar words.

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  3. MESSAGE FROM NIHAL(ND)
    Many will wonder why I’ve written this tribute to Revo. It is true he has been one of my closest friends since med school. Lately Revo has not been in the best of health and I want him to know the respect and regard I have for him. My final brief but veiled quote by a Vietnamese Buddhist Thera are my wishes for Revo on his onward journey.

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  4. I knew he was a batch mate but never really got to know him. Clearly, it was my loss! He appears to be a remarkable doctor and one who is kind and loyal to his friends.

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  5. Hi Nihal
    Agree, Revo was a nice, decent guy who fancied a drink and enjoyed a joke.
    In the nineteen nineties I arranged for my brother to see Revo. An appointment was made for 9.00 am at the GHC. We waited patiently and around 10.00 am a fair, stocky, middle aged doctor was walking towards us. Harshi who had not seen Revo, since the early nineteen sixties, thought this was him. She rushed towards him smiling and light heartedly greeted him. “ Anney, Anney wedatta enne may wellawattade? (Is this the time you come to work ?).
    The doctor who was Revo’s consultant colleague, looked amazed and was wondering what was going on. I quickly intervened, apologized profusely and explained that it was a case of mistaken identity, A few minutes later Revo appeared and sanity was restored. When Revo heard what happened, he saw the funny side and broke into a fit of laughter.
    A few years later, Harshi got a placement for Revo’s daughter Asnitha to do her internship at OldChurch Hospital Romford.

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  6. Hi Nihal, Thank you for writing this warm tribute to your friend. I did get to know Revo a bit while in Medical College, because being a 'Fernando' I was not far removed from 'Drahaman' and also his sister was at LC with me. So there was a connection. My last interaction with him was when we rode in the bus to our Habarana reunion, and I sat next to him and his wife Lareena. I had a lovely conversation with Lareena.
    I was sorry to hear that he is not in the best of health, and I know you are very concerned. I am so glad you wrote this piece, because he was a rather quiet guy, and joined us only after our crazy days in the anatomy lab, which meant that not too many people got to know him. I wish him and his wife the very best.
    By the way, why are you 'Anonymous' all of a sudden? Has Google kicked you out?

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  7. COMMENT ON BEHALF OF NIHAL -ND BY SPEEDY
    Harsha and Srianee:
    Thank you for your comments. I am in Birmingham with my iPhone hence my comments are anonymous being locked out, muzzled and silenced. Apple’s updates have made using iOS operating system more difficult as many experience issues with FaceTime now.

    Mistaken identity can bring hilarious results and I could well imagine the initial shock and embarrassment before the laughter.
    Revo’s fathers drugs cabinet was at his home with all the tinctures and mixtures. Without our knowledge just the once Revo added an opiate to our glass of Lanka Lime during one of our study sessions with Nalin Nanayakkara. We suddenly got dizzy and delightful after quenching our thirst and drifted far away into the land of fairies.
    Nalin Nanayakkara has a fine memory for everything from academia to frivolities unlike me who can only recall the fatuous and the flippant.
    As another year comes to an end I just wonder what’s in store for us. There is never a better time to remain in touch, meet when we can and write down our memories.
    Thank you
    ND

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  8. ND, You are absolutely correct about Nalin Nana.I came to know him well in my third year onwards.Most of you will remember that there was a Paediatric Registrar in Prof Priyani's unit by the name of Nanayakkara(not a relation ok Nalin).
    I used to tell Nalin that her name is Nayakkar and most probably Indian in origin. Nalin used to tell me"no she is a Sinhalese, is a pity that he never contributes to the blog. His name sake Bertram too was a good friend of mine, who worked as a Community Paediatrician, stationed in Birmingham, before emigrating to US. Bertram was well aware that, some of us was trying to trace his whereabouts. At, last, Lucky Abey traced his whereabouts; but Bertram never showed any appreciation. Hope! they are not workaholics?

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  9. Dear Nihal,
    Your splendid feature on Revo came straight from your heart. The caption said it all.
    You and he were Kalyana Mittas ( Noble friends) to each other and to many of us.
    Buddha’s cousin and attendant Ananda asked him venerable sir are Kalyana Mittas half of the spiritual life. Not so Ananda spake the Buddha.” Good friends , companions and associates are the whole of the spiritual life”
    I was much saddened to hear that he was not very well. But we have to console ourselves that decay and sickness are ubiquitous.We will keep him in our prayers.
    Though Revo was a good friend I did not know him intimately as you did. I do remember his great big bike and may have had a couple lifts on it. It was no less daunting than Sunna’s.
    As you say, his friendliness and help were outstanding characteristics. In SL I sought his help for persistent hoarseness; he couldn’t have been more prompt or thorough. It was the same when I referred the child of a friend.
    He, did not as you said display any airs or graces which he could have easily affected.
    He was simply a ‘good bloke’.
    Kumar

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    1. Dear Kumar
      Thank you for the kind comment and your valued thoughts. I feel sad that as we lived in different countries we were not able to keep in touch more closely. The memory of his honesty, genuine friendship and the mischievous grin will remain with me forever

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