Here’s to your illustrious career and innate goodness
Dr. Sivasambu Anandaraja
It’s an honour and privilege to pen this tribute to Ana. His life was adventurous, interesting and full.
His schooling was at Royal
College, Colombo where he was a prefect, managed the Senior Literary
Association and was a proud participant in the debating team.
At age 17 he was one of seven
Boy Scouts who represented Ceylon at the first World Scout Jamboree in Moisson
near Paris. He had vivid memories of this event and the invitation to a garden
party at Buckingham Palace that followed, where the scouts had formed a guard
of honour for King George the Sixth.
Though born a Hindu, he had no
religious affiliations and called himself a free thinker. He was concerned
about the downtrodden from a young age and was an elected and active member of
the Trotskyite movement in Colombo while a senior in school.
A distinguished alumnus of the
Ceylon Medical College, he qualified in 1958. The Ceylon Medical College,
founded in 1870 was the second oldest medical school in Asia and entry was by a
competitive examination followed by a stiff viva voce. The latter was to assess
the appearance, personality and fluency of candidates in English. Ana sailed
through it all with ease.
On graduation and completion of
internship he accepted an appointment as lecturer in Anatomy at the Colombo
Medical Faculty. He soon realized this was not his preferred career path, and
armed with a brilliant reference from his consultant during internship Prof.
Milroy Paul, who was well acclaimed amongst the medical fraternity in Britain
having delivered three Hunterian Orations at the Royal College of Surgeons,
left for the UK to obtain an MRCP. He felt immense gratitude to Prof.Paul
for his reference, as he felt it secured him appointments in prestigious
hospitals in the UK.
During Ana’s long career as a
consultant he kept this in mind whenever he wrote a reference for a junior
doctor, and did them in such a manner as to give young doctors the best chance
for future success.
In Britain, he worked in the
Worthing and Whipps Cross hospitals. He soon acquired membership of the Royal
Colleges of Physicians of Edinburgh (1962) and London (1963) and was made a
Fellow of the London College subsequently. He returned to Ceylon in his
Peugeot 403; an epic journey overland with two other friends who also became
eminent in their respective spheres, Professor K.N. (Bull) Seneviratne, a
renowned physiologist, and Dr. Kirthi De Silva (Kira), physician, who too later
migrated to New Zealand. The slides of this journey shown to us fresh
medical students shortly after our entrance to the Medical College by
Prof.Seneviratne kept us spellbound and excited our wanderlust.
On his return to Ceylon, Ana
initially served as a consultant physician in the Jaffna General hospital
(1963~67) and the then Galle General Hospital (1967~68).
We, the medical interns of the
year 1967 first met Ana at Galle. We may have been naïve and idealistic but we
could sift the grain from the chaff. Ana was the grain. An outstanding
physician, who was not only erudite but caring, independent and unbowing.
A common theme that runs through all the tributes paid to him, is that he had a
passion for education and was warm, helpful, refined and dignified. His
kindness and excellent bedside manner did not discriminate between the poor
public and affluent private patients.
He could be formidable. The
story goes that when the local Member of Parliament of Galle who was also a
powerful Cabinet Minister, once attempted to influence him unduly, Ana stood
his ethical ground and refused to oblige. During the heated conversation that
ensued, the Minister had said “Doctor cool down, place an ice bag on your
head,” and Ana had retorted, “You need a cement bag on your head!”
Being a young man then, Ana
developed a close rapport with us junior doctors. We all vied to be in his team
owing to his clinical excellence and passion for teaching. In Galle it was that
he met his future wife Rohini, “the love of my life” as he wrote of her in
later years.
Ana was generous and would be
the first to shout a round of drinks, usually the most expensive available. He
had carried this tradition wherever he was and his ‘end of rotation’ parties
were renowned for good food and the most costly Glenfiddich. Dissatisfied by
the prevailing conditions in the land of his birth, he returned to England
where he was offered a consultancy, but opted for Aotearoa, ‘the land of the
long white cloud’ where he spent the rest of his days. It became his haven and
Taranaki his niche.
In the Taranaki District
Hospital he was the head of the Department of Medicine and director of the
Intensive Care Unit. His fame as a clinician and teacher made him a sought
after lecturer at postgraduate local and international seminars. We often met
each other at Australian meetings. He would ask pertinent and penetrating
questions that illuminated the topic on hand. Colleagues have remarked how he
practised state of the art cardiology at Taranaki even before Auckland centres
had adopted them. In spite of his brilliance as a clinician, he was warm,
approachable and kind, going out of his way to help the many who sought his
assistance.
Retirement was mandatory then
at age 65 in New Zealand and he came over to Queensland where he was Director
of Medicine at the Gladstone District Hospital from 1998 to 2004, during which
time he was also a participant examiner for the FRACP clinical examinations.
Once New Zealand rescinded the law on compulsory retirement at 65, Ana returned
to New Zealand as a consultant at the Auckland City Hospital and cardiologist
at Waitemata Cardiology.
It was not ‘all work and no
play’, for Ana was a lover of the arts, eastern and western classical music,
enjoyed horse riding and having obtained his pilot’s licence delighted in
taking to the skies in a Cessna 172 with his friends and family. The sky was
not the limit to his zest for life; colleagues have recalled the days he drove
himself to work at the Taranaki District Hospital in his beloved two-toned beige
and gold Rolls Royce, to deliver to his patients his Rolls Royce care.
Ana and Rohini have two
children, Romesh and Natasha (Anushri) of whom he was exceedingly proud. He was
a loving husband and father, and touched the lives of many with his kindness, empathy,
generosity and readiness to help, a man we could proudly call our own.
Ana, we salute not only your
illustrious career, but also your innate goodness. “To live in the hearts of
those we love is never to die.”
May you rest in peace.
Dr.
Kumar Gunawardene
This wonderful eulogy by Kumar has been published with Rohini's consent. Dear Rohini, thank you so much for agreeing to publish this beautifully written appreciation of your much loved husband Ana as we called him. Our hearts and thoughts are with you and may you have the strength and courage to overcome this great loss in your life. - Mahen
ReplyDeleteMahen,.You have been very thoughtful and kind throughout this ordeal. I have been greatly comforted by the experiences you’ve shared and your gentle encouragement. Thank you very much.
DeleteI had never met Dr. Anandaraja. For that matter, I don't think I have ever spoken to Rohini during the five years we were in Medical college. However, it is through this blog that I got to know Rohini and even became a close friend.
ReplyDeleteI have heard many good thins said about Dr. Anandaraja. Kumar was fortunate that he did his Internship in Galle. I wish I too had that opportunity.
Lucky, I agree we didnt have the opportunity to speak to each other during the med school days . Neither had I heard Mahen’s and Nihal’s voices until very recently.
DeleteSumathi and I may have exchanged a very few words while in med school, having been in the same clinical group, always a quiet,unassuming, kind and friendly soul.
Kumar never thought to speak one single word to me in Med school !!
I count myself very fortunate to have met him in Galle - a genuine, honourable perfect gentleman.
It was indeed the blog which introduced me to several of my batchmates of the opposite gender whose friendships I shall always cherish.
Thank you very much for encouraging me to participate in the blog and for your ever-willing help in getting things just right. You brought so many of us batchmates together to share our life experiences and renew our friendships. Well done Lucky , and may you stay well. Take care.
So soon after the beautiful Appreciation of his beloved MIL, whom he calls the Welgama Matriarch, Kumar continues his hidden literary talent and skills in penning this Appreciation. More strength to his elbow!
ReplyDeleteThis is for Rohini as she tries to make sense of her loss. My apologies for the long narrative.
ReplyDeleteI have never had the good fortune nor the privilege to meet Dr Anandaraja. All I know of him is through the grapevine and of the fairy tale life Rohini and Ana lead in New Zealand. In the later years they lived away from the hustle and bustle of the city in the exclusive Tamaki Drive in Auckland with breath-taking views of Mission Bay.
Kumar has taken great care to recall and bring together many aspects of his life to write this fine tribute. This is more comprehensive than a eulogy. It is indeed a mini-biography written with expressive elegance, his usual flair and brilliant penmanship.
Rohini and Ana married when Sri Lankan society leant heavily on tradition. Arranged marriages were the norm. No doubt theirs raised more than an eye-brow. The ancient Roman poet Virgil’s famous phrase “Amor vincit omnia, et nos cedamus amori.” has indeed stood the test of time. “Love conquers everything, so we too shall yield to love”.
I have been in contact with Rohini over the years through emails and social media. This gave me a glimpse of their lives together over the years. What stands out is the love for their children. They were immensely proud of them and their achievements. Rohini and Ana had a life-long friendship with Dr K.S De Silva (Kira) and family who lived in Marston in New Zealand. I’ve heard much about their family friendship and the many wonderful times together both at home and abroad, on land and on sea. K.S and Ana shared their love for the amber nectar which enlivened the proceedings wherever they were. Music is the spice of life and gives immense pleasure to many. It also has the wonderful ability to bring people together. So it was with Rohini and Ana when they were able to pursue its pleasures well into retirement. The grand piano has now gone silent. In the words of Irving Berlin “The song is ended, but the melody lingers on...”
During Ana’s final illness Rohini took great care of him. She did most of the caring herself respecting his wishes at every turn and until the very end. This indeed is a great tribute to Rohini, who is just a slip of a girl.
Losing a person’s partner in life who is also a friend, a companion, a colleague and an ally is one the hardest tragedies we all must face. The day finally dawns when we must travel separately. In her loss Rohini has been fortunate to have the love and support of Natasha and Romesh and also her family and friends. Despite all that warmth, the loss and the emptiness she feels must truly be overwhelming. When every room and every piece of furniture brings back memories, grief seems to grow with the passage of everyday before it finally relents. Time is a great healer. Rohini, we wish you well in your pursuit of peace.
There are many who hold Ana in high esteem. I had the good fortune to speak with one of his life-long patients. He recalled a clever physician with a natural warmth and a fine bedside manner. Ana was readily identified in traffic in his classy beige Rolls Royce. Despite all that opulence he had the ability to remain simple and approachable. All through his professional career he was greatly respected. This was a good innings and a life lived well and to the full. A truly remarkable man who worked for the benefit of humanity, not for some hope of a mystical reward. Ana, you have earned your rest.
In every tribute I’ve read it speaks about our loss and our memories. There is a poem that I learnt as a child which is unique. The poet in her wisdom gives the departed loved one’s a voice:
Remember me when I am gone away,
Gone far away into the silent land;
When you can no more hold me by the hand,
Nor I half turn to go yet turning stay.
The Poem by Christina Georgina Rossetti
Incidentally Christina Georgina Rossetti (1830-64) lived and died a short walk away from where I live now near Marylebone, North London. She is buried at the Highgate cemetery not faraway. Her poetry and writings depicts her hard life and struggles born to poverty and also her depression and mental illness. For a person educated at home she writes beautifully and with so much feeling. Her poetry in particular has always been popular and well loved and I'm certain many know of her and read her poems. I've been a fan of her poetry since childhood despite the darkness it depicts at times. They mirror the sadness in her life and the tough life in those Victorian times.
DeleteOn my last visit to London many years ago, I went to see the Lords cricket ground where I believe MCC is. I always visit famous sporting venues wherever I go In Australia, I went to see the Rod Laver stadium.
DeleteSo, I must have passed your London apartment on my visit to se Lords.
DeleteLucky
DeleteYou certainly must have passed close to my apartment as it is just 5 minutes walk to the grounds. Sadly no cricket last year. At the time you came to the UK I was living in Hertfordshire which is 50 miles north of London.
Nihal
DeleteYou have aptly described Kumar’s eloquence in your own most elegant style.
Your beautiful narrative is a great pleasure to read. I love your metaphor of the grand piano ! It is literally true as well .
The melody does linger on .
Thank you very much for bringing to us this beautiful piece, as well as the poem by Christina Rosetti. All I remember of her from my childhood Is reciting “Goblin Market” mindlessly without knowing any deeper meaning to it . You would also remember well the Christmas carol - “In the bleak midwinter “ which you would have sung every Christmas. Thank you for all your support and friendship over the years since the blog !
I so appreciate it.
Lucky, Ana did the same and of course I ended up going along with him to these cricket venues as well - The Rod Laver, the MCG, the WACA of old etc !
DeleteI think he also lived close to Lords in London at Randolph Crescent before I met him.
Small world !
Thanks to Kumar for his well written appreciation of Guru and a colleague he had associated for several years.
ReplyDeleteAs Lucky has mentioned,I had no opportunity of meeting Ana,however,Rohini was in my group in our teaching ward rounds.I am glad that Rohini had many years of married life with the great healer that SriLanka lost as a result of ethnic conflicts.His choice of NewZealand as the adopted country with less or no hostility to immigrants,was a correct decision.I was fortunate enough to spend few hours in Auckland during my way to Fiji,many years ago.I saw the citrous fruits fallen on the ground in few gardens and touched by the greenary of the area.
I am sure,the appreciations,expressed by the batch-mates with bring great relief to Rohini.
Sumathi, Yes, all the messages have brought me great comfort.
DeleteI do remember you well in my clinical group - quiet, unassuming and kind as I have written in my reply to Lucky .
Thank you so much for your friendship.
NDs' comment is long and so well written, that it is as good as an Appreciation written by one who has never met the departed person, which itself is rare indeed. Even at the cost of being another case of monkey praising his own tail, I dare say that if not for this blog, the immense writing skills and the latent talent of the likes of ND, Kumar and Rohini Ana, the absolute all round brilliance of Sanath Lama, the artistic and photographic acumen of Srianee, Bora's uncanny style of humour,Sumathi's frankness and personal confessions when it comes to writing and of course Speedy's unlimited versatility, would have been "born to blush unseen" - perhaps the only line I remember from English Literature!
ReplyDeleteThank you Lucky. We all enjoy this forum which you have created in your wisdom. Thank you is just 2 words but mean a great deal more when said with sincerity.
DeleteKeep well and be safe.
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ReplyDeleteI have never met Ana but a few years ago he was introduced to me by Rohini while I was in a Skype call with her and we exchanged a few pleasantries before he left Rohini to carry on with our conversation. I told him how Rohini reminded me of Indira Gandhi with her lock of white hair gracefully adorning her lock of black hair. He laughed!
ReplyDeleteThough I thought my memory was shot forever, I remember this skype chat well.
DeleteThank you Mahen
Kumar. Whatever words of thanks I write will not adequately express how much I appreciate your beautiful tribute to Ana. He lived life to the fullest and hence there was much to cover. You brought it all together most eloquently.
ReplyDeleteThank you for taking the time to do this while you had much to deal with of your own.
My love and good wishes to Kanthi and you.
Many things about Ana just blew me away. Horse riding, getting a pilot's license, these to me show a bold, adventurous man who never had any doubts about what self confidence and a spirit of adventure can achieve. I would have loved to have known him. Talk about versatility and love of what life has to offer. I can never really experience what Rohini must be going through but I think I could imagine and empathise.
ReplyDeleteMahen, Ana loved life and enjoyed it to the fullest taking me along all the way .
ReplyDeleteThis probably is the reason I found seeing him helpless in his last few days so heartbreaking and also the reason I feel so lost now. I appreciate the immense support I have had from so many friends and family, but memories do linger on.
Rohini,
ReplyDeleteI hope this quote from Dietrich Bonföffer (the German theologian who was executed by Hitler) will bring you some comfort.
“There is nothing that can replace the absence of someone dear to us, and one should not even attempt to do so. One must simply hold out and endure it. At first that sounds very hard, but at the same time it is also a great comfort. For to the extent the emptiness truly remains unfilled one remains connected to the other person through it. It is wrong to say that God fills the emptiness. God in no way fills it but much more leaves it precisely unfilled and thus helps us preserve -- even in pain -- the authentic relationship. Further more, the more beautiful and full the remembrances, the more difficult the separation. But gratitude transforms the torment of memory into silent joy. One bears what was lovely in the past not as a thorn but as a precious gift deep within, a hidden treasure of which one can always be certain.”
Kumar, thank you for writing this beautiful tribute to Ana. You painted a vivid picture of a true Renaissance man.
I never had the pleasure of meeting Ana even though he was married to my good friend Rohini. After Medical College, as it often happened, Rohini and I took divergent paths, and it was really this Blog that reconnected us!
On one of my visits to Colombo Rohini and I had planned to meet on the afternoon of my arrival. Ana and Rohini were leaving the next day. As luck would have it my flight was delayed in Dubai and I missed them, because they had other plans that evening. I called Rohini from the taxi en route from the airport and sadly we had to cancel our plans. Rohini, I wonder if you remember that incident?
Srianee,
DeleteI have personally come to realize the truth of Dietrich Bonföffer’s words.
Gratitude for what was lovely in the past will help me “transform the torment of memory into silent joy” in time. Thank you for this comforting quote.
I do remember how we missed each other by minutes on my last trip to SL - We were on our out to the airport the time you were arriving . Hope we get another chance. Keep safe.
Rohini, I remember meeting you tgether with Ana, Chanaka and your sister at the Nawaloka Hospital, after you had developed an allergic reaction to some food you had consumed the previous day. That is the only time I met Ana and you, after our faculty days.
ReplyDeleteSanath, I do remember that was the first time we ever spoke to each other in spite of five years in med school !
DeleteRohini
ReplyDeleteI am glad you recall Christina Rossetti. I remember "in the bleak mid winter" the Xmas carol we sang at school. I am most impressed by her poetry.
I know Randolph Crescent which is in Maida Vale and a short walk away from me. Arthur Conan Doyle's 221B Baker Street is just a stones throw away.
Living in London the transport is so good I don't own a car anymore. So I speak in terms of walking distance. Longer journeys I take train and taxi. Less things to worry about!!!!
I do still remember the family photo you sent me when Dr K.S De Silva visited you. What a fine teacher he was. I remember his teaching us about Rheumatic Fever. He gave us the famous dinner after the appointment when Tilak Dayaratne sang a song about a Dutch girl which K.S's wife who is Dutch remembered many years later when Razaque visited them.
I am sure the Grand Piano will come alive again to play the Moonlight Sonata.
Kira and Ana both continued the tradition of entertaining colleagues and junior staff at the end of each rotation on a grand scale- Sri Lankan style ! Kira’s wife Anna was also a good sport !
ReplyDeleteKira and Ana both continued the tradition of entertaining colleagues and junior staff with each rotation on a grand scale -Sri Lankan style ! Kira’s wife Anna was also a good sport !
ReplyDeleteKumar, Having written this lovely tribute to Ana you have disappeared !
ReplyDeleteRohini, was Dr. Balakumar ( internal medicine ) a close friend of Dr. Anandarajah?
ReplyDeleteIA
Hi Indra,
ReplyDeleteGreat to see you. It has been a long time ! I guess you are still hiding away in SL-
Yes , Ana and Bala (Dr. K. Balakumaran) were very good friends and kept in touch with each other right upto the time Bala passed away. Our families were very close in spite of being continents apart. Iam still in touch with Bala’s family.
Wherever we went in Europe Bala and Leike his wife would travel in their Motor home to meet us, and they and their son also managed to visit us on different occasions in NZ.
We had the company of Ana’s and Bala’s close buddy Dr. Kirthi de Silva(Kira) on some of these holidays. They were an interesting threesome and the times we spent together were just wonderful .
I wonder whether you worked in Ratnapura - Srianee had come to know Bala during her internship there.
Comment by always-late Zita:
ReplyDeleteDear Kumar and my batchmates,
I read with interest this tribute to a great man by Kumar Gunawardena who we all hold in great esteem regarding his writing skills. The account which starts with an almost playful style carries on unfolding the life and work of one of the most renowned and almost mythical characters that Sri Lanka and its premier medical school the Colombo Medical College has produced and who exemplifies all that is noble of this healing profession. Sivasmbu Anandarajah seems to have lived his life in the full glare of the world and it is a life of goodness, service, generosity and greatness. We can all bow our heads in respect and feel privileged to have seen such a noble person been born and bred in Sri Lanka. Some people never ‘die’ in name, spirit and example they leave even decades after their mortal remains disappear and Dr Sivasambu Anandarajah is one of them. Zita