Saturday, September 26, 2020

ZOOM AND CHILDHOOD MEMORIES

Zoom Fun and Childhood Memories

Thanks to Mahen and Rajan, Zoom has made it possible for us to see and chat with our batchmates again, some of whom we had not set eyes on since our days in med school. Their task of trying to accommodate those of us from the North Sea to the Antarctic has been a challenge, to say the least, and I am ever grateful for their efforts

I participated in my first Zoom meeting on the 23rd of April. My appearance on the screen elicited an immediate exclamation -“Rohini, you’ve changed so much”! It was no surprise to me, as most of my colleagues had changed not an iota since I last saw them in med school. I wished they had shared their secrets to eternal youth with me!

The second Zoom I attended on the 8th September elicited a few similar responses followed by personal emails of surprise at how unrecognisable I had become! It led me to search for a verse I had written some years ago, of a time when I thought youth was forever!

The verses describe my childhood in Kurana, Negombo. Many details in the verses may not interest anyone, as they were only my reminiscences of a time long gone. However I have now sent it for posting in the blog if considered suitable.

My thanks to my friends who triggered the retrieval of these forgotten lines.


Childhood Memories
(photo by Vickie Wade)









 Of eternal youth I dreamt
 As glorious years of childhood I spent.
 The tortuous journeys that lay ahead
 Uncharted then to comprehend.


 Life was full of laughter and mirth,
 I felt I inherited the sky and the earth.
There was nothing I’d long for - there wasn’t a dearth
Of anything I fancied as my life unfurled.


A childhood spent in nature’s splendour
Of acres of flora and fauna to savour -
Watching Woodpeckers, Kingfishers, and Parakeets I‘d favour
To musing on beetles which rolled dung with fervour.


I wandered enchanted in our garden
Of trees with flowers and fruits well-laden -
Mangoes, Cadju Puhulams, Blackberries and coffee,
Pomegranates, Gauvas, Damsens and Lovis,
Uguressa, Nannang, Avocados, Billing,
And Oranges green! Who’d think it could be
This Eden would have no Apples for temptation!


‘Neath the Nelli tree I walked with trepidation -
It’s trunk and branches blanketed each season
With furry caterpillars who with acrobatic contortions
Descended to the ground down gossamer silken.


There were squirrels with nuts, and chirpy birds
And butterflies so beautiful beyond any words.
Even centipedes and millipedes with myriad legs
Precisely synchronised like trains as they sped.


Scorpions and snakes weren’t absent from the scene
As under flower pots they played hide and seek.
The occasional victim of their sting
Wouldn’t dare to risk another fling.


Sirisena the gardener was Hercules on show!
Who loved to landscape and clip and mow,
His grandma was our cook- she held the floor
After tasty meals, to relate folklore.


I watched the cows and goats being milked
And herded to shelter in their sheds on stilts!
Trixie the terrier - had his ears in a twitch
Eyeing fluffy, cuddly, yellow chicks


Came tea time there was fun on air,
With picnic times for teddy-bears !
Or walks with Alice through looking glass
In “curiouser and curiouser” wonderlands.


At eventide the circadas played
Their high pitched melodies for fireflies to dance
Over roses which lit up and swayed to entreat
More of the flickering troupes to prance.


The lakes and marshes over the hill
Had their own orchestras when nights were still.
At a much subdued and baritone pitch
The amphibians sang their own little gig.


Times by the sea were a special treat
With buckets and spades and sand-caked feet.
Watching boats go out as the sun dipped to sleep,
Colouring the horizon a crimson deep.


The night sky had its own enchantment
Spotting Orion was a pet recreation.
Shooting stars - I awaited with patience,
Across a sky of twinkling constellations.


At Vesak the garden saw much fanfare,
With ‘Atapattams’ and bucket lanterns everywhere
For us children to light under supervised care
Once been to the temple for worship and prayer.


Christmas time was as much fun,
On tall fir trees glittering baubles were hung,
Kinsfolk gathered for a sumptuous lunch
And around the piano carols were sung.


Gifts were galore, but the greatest fun
Were the games we played whether lost or won
Amongst cousins and aunts and uncles young -
I wished the day would ne’er be done.


What a life it was!  I take no blame
For thinking I was in heaven made!
Such enchantment could not fade
From my memory after all these decades.


Infinity then I held in my hands
And ‘worlds’ I could see in those grains of sand.
As only Blake did understand -
A “speck” in a cosmos unfathomably grand.


The joys of childhood were beyond measure,
I couldn’t envision it changing ever-
My dreams that youth would last forever
Now priceless memories I’ll always treasure !


Rohini Anandaraja



31 comments:

  1. A wonderful poem which transported me back to my own childhood. Perfect rhyming and choice of words. You mentioned Wesak and Xmas and another festive occasion I recall is the Sinhala and Tamil New Year. We looked forward to all the rituals, visits by Uncles and aunts with goodies, the aluth avurudu games and new clothes. It was fun time!

    As to you changing, maybe, as we ll do, but you now got a regal look reminiscent of Indira Gandhi!

    Your contributions and presence in our blog has enriched it no end. Thanks Rohini.

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  2. Mahen ,
    I have not only to thank you for your most generous comment, but also for the lengths you went to, to have the article posted just right. The gentle nudge for a photo was great as the thought didn’t even cross my mind !
    As you’ve pointed out , there were many other important festivities in SL I hadn't touched on- simply because they didn't flow into my stream of thought as I wrote the poem, which was not a ‘studied’ piece of work.
    I agree the Sinhalese cum Tamil New Year was of even more importance than Xmas and Wesak to most SriLankans. It was a time for all nationals - for Kawuns , Kiribath, oil lamps and exchange of gifts between employers and employees and relatives.
    As a child, I witnessed a group of neighboring women who heated a “Rabana” to play it in our back garden which was fascinating. Many of my dad’s clerks and other families in the neighbourhood arrived in the morning with Bulath to prostate themselves at my parents’ feet when gifts and good wishes were exchanged.
    As the day progressed numerous gifts of highly iced and decorated cakes, mostly from neighbours and employees appeared amongst the plates of Kawuns and Kiribath on the table in the verandah for all folk to help themselves.
    Iam sure you’d have a great deal more to add to these festivities.
    Thank you again Mahen.

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  3. Dear Rohini
    Your childhood memories are simply magical and transported me to those halcyon days of peaceful tranquillity. Kurana Katunayake now is a busy hub of trains and planes and fuming vehicles. The collection of rhyming poems are a tribute to your brilliance in painting a picture of those happy and carefree years growing up surrounded by a loving family. I too spent an enchanting couple of years from 1956 in Kurana by the blue lagoon. When I wrote about it to the blog you sent me an email with some photos of the house and the people who cared for you including a smiling Sirisena. I recall the old adage, a picture paints a thousand words. How very true. Hence your poems of life in Kurana Katunayake have a special meaning and poignancy for me too. The place is a haven for a multitude of birds and particularly blue jays.
    Poems for me are a reminder of schooldays, Wordsworth, HW Longfellow and Samuel Taylor Coleridge. The Hymns we sang were poems set to music. The bard of church hymns is Charles Wesley whose creations are so beautiful conveying a message of piety, love, faith and tolerance.
    Poems as compared prose, just like Heineken, have the special ability reach those parts close to our hearts and emotions. I love the way you have used words to convey your beautiful memories.
    I commend the use of that lovely photo which brilliantly conveys the carefree days with the freedom to fly with the birds.
    I admire greatly your taking the time to create those lovely poems at such a busy time in your life. Thank you for sharing them. Now, those images will indeed remain with us too. I wish you well in the journey ahead.

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    1. Dear Nihal,
      I am so glad the poem brought back pleasant memories for you .
      Life by the lagoon and sea must have been so relaxing.
      I seem to have missed the lovely Blue Jays - probably didnt identify them.
      Kurana was indeed very tranquil at that time, but as you’ve said, it had become busy and industrialized as I found on our trip there in 2016.
      The property itself was recognizable only from the red tiled roof of the house and distinctive balcony over the portico in the distance. The once imposing red gate posts and gates were gone, and Sirisena’s flower beds, well manicured lawns and neatly clipped hedges in front had all been replaced by a car sales yard on one side of the long drive way to the house and a garden centre on the other ! I was so glad neither my mum nor Sirisena were there to see what had become of the beautiful garden they were so proud of.
      I have to re-read about your time in Kurana in the blog, as I only have a faint recollection.
      The poem was one I had written a few years ago, and probably shared with you when I did. The addition of a photo was a subtle prompt by Mahen and my choice exactly matched my psyche in those carefree days.
      Iam so glad you liked it.
      The ‘poetry’ of Charles Wesley set to beautiful music- I have enjoyed very much.
      Thank you for your most generous comment.

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  4. Rohini, this is truly a brilliant poem which evokes many wonderful images; a painting with words, as Nihal has said. It is wonderful that you have those treasured memories. I don't have a talent for writing poetry but I do appreciate reading good poetry that speaks to me. Most of us were lucky to have had similar, carefree childhoods, with the freedom to wander and wonder at the natural beauty around us. We were also lucky to have grown up in a small country where it was relatively easy to visit one's uncles, aunts and cousins. In the huge country where I live now people rarely see their close relatives. I have so many wonderful memories of gatherings with my extended family. One unique custom that we observed was how we disposed our Christmas tree at the end of the Christmas season. My birthday happened to be on the 12th day of Christmas/Epiphany when we took our tree down. My parents often had the extended family over for dinner. After dinner we had a fireworks display, which my father relished. The pièce de résistance was when he lit the dried out Christmas tree which was now decked with firecrackers, standing in the middle of the driveway, far from anything flammable. It was a huge bonfire and made such a racket! All of us kids got such a kick out of that. I often think that the best gift a parent can give a child is a memorable, carefree childhood.

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    1. The fate of your christmas tree was so funny to read! Was it common practice those days? As Buddhists we did not have XMAS trees but we had Christian relatives who had and we loved them! Most of all, the presents that they gave us and of course Xmas cake and Yule Log (not sure I spelt it correctly).

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    2. Mahen, I don't think this was a common practice. Saying goodbye to the Christmas tree in this dramatic manner was unique to our family I think, and it was something that was concocted by my father and brothers. My father loved to celebrate special events (mainly our birthdays) with fireworks. We were lucky that we had a wide driveway at our Wellawatte (Rajasinghe Road) house, where we could do this safely. Occasionally we sent up a hot air balloon made out of tissue paper. (These were available at the fireworks shops.) We watched them rise and drift away in the wind, and sometimes the balloon tilted, and the flames ignited the tissue paper while we watched in dismay from below. One year on one of our more successful 'flights' we had attached a postcard to the balloon with our address. It was mailed back to us by a young boy who had found the balloon on their 'Jambu' tree. We were all thrilled when we received the postcard. I don't remember how far it had travelled.
      Parents and children used their imagination in those days.

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  5. Hi Srianee
    I am glad you enjoyed the poem.
    We were indeed very lucky to have our friends and relatives close around us.
    The memories of those joyous times are unbeatable.
    Your dad thought up a most ingenious way of farewelling your christmas trees , which
    brings to my mind the explosive grand finales of some of Beethoven‘s symphonies !
    Thank you for your generous comment . Cheers

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    1. Rohini, I don't think we went as far as having background music! Like you, with many siblings and also visiting cousins, we managed to have a lot of fun when we got together. We were lucky!

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  6. Most pals are in their seventies,
    Few have reached their eighties
    some left us in their fifties
    nothing like being in twenties

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    1. Sumathi I agree with what you’ve said
      So poetically- I am very impressed.
      In our twenties we were full of zest
      With all the energy at our behest.
      Thank you

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  8. Dear friends,
    I wish to refer you to the excellent article in the blog by Nihal about his time in Kurana/katunayake- posted on the 24 th Feb 2015 - A piece of prose I found hard to get my eyes away from once I started reading !
    The only surprise for me in the article was that Negombo had no electricity or water supply in 1956 when he was there , whereas my family home in Kurana where I lived from my birth until 1952 had both.
    The water supply I realize was pumped from the well onto a tank a-top a tall tower close to the well and distributed from there to the taps in and around the house.
    I don’t however know where the electricity came from, as I don’t remember having seen a generator. It is possible there might have been one tucked away in one of the many outhouses this property had which were ‘no-go’ areas for us kids.
    Or - I wonder whether Kurana having been closer to the airforce base (as Nihal has mentioned),had easier access to electricity?
    Nihal’s article beats any poetry one can write and I hope you get to read it.
    Cheers

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    1. Rohini
      Thank you for those kind comments. The Negombo Municipal limits came close to the turning into the RAF base and the houses in that area got piped electricity and perhaps water too. My friends near to that area had those modern conveniences compared to the village folk like us!! But it was a great experience having cold baths and virtual total darkness after sunset until sunrise.

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    2. Cut and paste on your browser for ND's articl eon Kurana\;-
      https://colombomedgrads1962.blogspot.com/search?q=nihal+kurana

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    3. Nihal , Thank you for the info. There is so much I still haven't figured out about the place that was my beloved home !

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    4. Nihal, living without running water and electricity builds character! The first time I had to do that was when I was posted to the Karawanella hospital as a Medical Officer. The housing for the Medical Officers were all taken by two other senior guys. I was married by then and couldn't just live in nursing quarters. There was a fairly modern house available but we felt the owner was trying to take advantage of us, by charging Rs:400.00 per month. We opted for the next best house in town which had no running water, an outhouse with a pit-latrine, and a deep well from which we had to draw the water for our baths. Luckily, we had a'Man-Friday' named Santho, who did the hard work and filled up some barrels for our baths. A cadjan fence provided the privacy around the well. That was quite an experience! The house did have electricity.

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  9. I am not surw whether my colleague are aware that they can trace past articles by typing in a keyword or words on the long search bar which appears above the tabs (Home,Useful links,Latest news Archives) at the top. For example I typed Nihal Kurana and his article was brought up.,

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  10. That was exactly what I did too to find the date the article was posted.
    Thank you Mahen

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    1. Rohini, that was heartening to hear I hope the "silent majority" also make use of it.

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    2. The instructions are so simple and one does not have to be a rocket scientist to devour and digest those.

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  11. Dear Rohini,
    What a splendid poem.Mellifluous language and dulcet rhymes recounting a magical childhood.
    A classic good enough to adorn any anthology.
    Your poem opened vistas of my own enchanted childhood.Thank you.
    We were so blessed to have devoted parents and adoring companions.They along with our teachers made us well rounded individuals.
    Your love for your youth ,reminded me of Wordsworth’s Rainbow.
    “My heart leaps up when I behold a rainbow in the sky”.
    Apologies for the delayed response.Have been in the wars again.
    Kumar

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    2. Kumar, There is no need for an apology- We all disappear from time to time.You’ve been so generous in your comment - thank you.
      Iam sorry you ‘went to war’!
      I sincerely hope your recovery will occur in double quick time.
      Wordsworth’s childlike wonder and appreciation of nature is apparent in much of his poetry which I have loved.
      “So has it been since my life began “
      So shall it be till my days are done.

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  12. Dushyanthi Vedavanam wants me to pass on her admiration and appreciation of your poem Rohini. She loved reading it and it brought back a lot of her own childhood memories. She wanted to know whether you were at Ladies and I said you were. She has friends who know you.

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    1. Mahen , Thank you for passing on Dushyant’s message- Cheers

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  13. Dushyanti, Thank you very much for your kind message. It is so nice that you’ve taken the time to be in touch with us in spite of not having set eyes on most of us.
    Iam glad you enjoyed the poem . It would have resonated with many of us who were fortunate to have spent our childhood in that island paradise- Ceylon in peaceful times.
    I am uncertain as to where you reside, but would be very interested to know which of my schoolmates you are in touch with. Mahen would have my email address if you wish to be in touch. My best wishes to you and your family.

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  14. Comment:
    This is Zita. Though late as usual, to comment on your ‘Childhood Memories’ written in the style of a poet laureate, honestly it is that standard, let me add my words of admiration of your incomparable style, and heart -rending words with which you take us into your Childhood world of memories, which must touch every reader’s heart. Many thanks for letting us peep into this haven filled with ‘nature’s splendour’ as well as fireflies, teddy bears and even the odd amphibian! Thanks a lot for this walk through your childhood garden! We hope there will be more strolls and peeps into other areas of childhood that have helped make you who you are! Thanks again and Well Done! From Zita


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    1. Zita,
      Great talents mature late-Japanese proverb.

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  15. I agree but I think our Rohini was always a budding poet, excellent writer and knowledgeable person judging from her contributions to the Blog so far. So it is a good example for other batch mates to try their hand at writing factual pieces, stories, poems and anything that crosses their minds. And we their batchmates will happily await and enjoy these contributions. Zita

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