On
a Desert Island by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
We’ve had a turbulent and tumultuous
couple of years with Covid-19 and its variants. Lockdowns and its inescapable
incarcerations were a trial on how to cope with loneliness. Solitude is also an
opportunity to think rationally. I was shut out from the outside world for long
periods. The mind then began to concentrate on what is important in life and
what I can do without. It was an interesting exercise to think of the bare
minimum required to maintain my sanity and survive until I was able to join the
rest of the world. Money cannot buy happiness. Happiness is a state of mind
which is difficult to define and often hard to achieve even if we have
everything we need.
Desert Island discs is a
BBC Radio programme which has been on the air since 1942. This year marks its
80th anniversary. This has been named the greatest radio programme
of all time by a panel of industry experts. It is now a great British
Institution.
The programme invites
high-profile guests to appear on the show. Each guest is called a “castaway”
and is asked to select pieces of music, books and any luxury items they wish to
take with them if they were to drift away inexorably into an uninhabited
island. It is an interesting exercise to think what your choices would be and what
really matters to you.
We take so much for granted in
our lives. It is so hard to imagine a situation being alone and so far removed
from people and current events. I vividly recall reading Jonathan Swift’s Gulliver’s
Travels and Daniel Defoe’s Robinson Crusoe as a teenager which
brought home to me the perils, desolation and the utter loneliness of being
marooned in an island. Sleeping beneath the trees one could also find true
peace and freedom there. The stories made me appreciate company, courage and human
endurance.
The castaway’s choice is
limited to 8 recordings, 1 book and 1 luxury item. A music player is included.
The luxury item has to be inanimate - so no mobile phones, laptops, iPads, TV
etc. Call it divine help - food and drink will be provided!! It is not known
when and how one will be rescued – No divine help there!!
The past programmes of Desert
Island Discs are available online. It is interesting to discover what people
like Alfred Hitchcock, David Attenborough, Margaret Thatcher, Bill Gates, Helen
Mirren, Whoopi Goldberg, Ted Dexter and Tony Blair have selected and the
reasons for their choice. One famous British TV personality chose Rod Stewarts
“Sailing” in her grief to remember the death of her son. The lyrics of
that piece of music encompasses her despair. I found it hard to hold back my
tears. Our selections will always resonate with our own experiences of life. I
sincerely hope you would find this an interesting exercise and also give you a useful
insight into your psyche. Do share your
experiences of being a castaway.
The opening theme music for
Desert Island discs was composed in 1942 by Eric Coates. The theme music is a
haunting melody called Sleepy Lagoon which is so simple yet so
bewitchingly beautiful. The tune begins with the squawking seagulls and the
crashing of waves. This fine melody transports me across the wide oceans and vast
stretches of land to the peace and tranquillity of the Negombo Lagoon. From 1956-58, my parents lived in Katunayake when
it was a beguilingly attractive small town. The lagoon was at the back of our
house. On an evening, with the setting sun, I often sat at the waters-edge with
the wind whistling on my face. I watched the fishermen go out to work. The sky
took on a deep crimson glow at sunset as flocks of birds flew in V-formation. This
enchanting scene captures the beauty of old Ceylon which has now largely
disappeared.
Music:
Making this selection is not
easy. It is virtually the soundtrack of my life’s journey. The advice is to let
your heart rule your head. The choice is made more for the memories they bring
than for the music. I have thought long and hard and made my selections.
1. Sunil
Santha – Ambilimame It brings
back wonderful memories of my childhood growing up in Nugegoda in the 1940’s
and 50’s. When visitors arrived, we were encouraged to sing a song. I sang
Ambilimame with my three cousins. Sadly, two of them are now no more. Humans
have been fascinated by the moon since the beginning of time. It now seems like
the moon was bigger and brighter when we were kids!! The fine lyrics of the
song depicts childhood innocence and their magical world of fantasy.
2. Yaad
Kiye Dile Ne – The music is from the Hindi film of 1953 called Patita.
The song was so beautifully sung by Lata Mangheskar and Hemant Kumar. When
I hear the melody it always takes me back to the love and affection of
my grandfather. I loved him dearly. He was gentle, kind and a noble man from
Kandy. He was a sage, a philosopher, a man with many stories and an expert in
country lore. Grandfather took me to the Metro Theatre, Nugegoda to watch Hindi
and Sinhala films. I was given an ice cream at the interval and a pocket full
of sweets for later. These just about made up for being bitten by bedbugs in
those theatre seats.
3. During
the morning Christian worship at my old school we sang many beautiful Hymns.
One that stuck with me is “Guide Me O Thou Great Jehovah” for the sheer beauty
of its melody and the lyrics. This was a popular hymn with the boys. We sang it
with such gusto and so much feeling we nearly lifted the roof. This hymn is still
very popular and was sung at the wedding of
Prince William & Catherine Middleton in Westminster Abbey. The Hymn brings
back wonderful memories of those carefree schooldays.
4. Nothing
brings back memories of the Faculty of Medicine than the music of the Beatles.
One that stands-out is that timeless piece called “Hard days Night”.
It’s a reminder of the feeling of release from the hard grind and study while
dancing at King George’s Hall to the music of the Harold Seneviratne Combo.
Looking around the dance hall I can still picture Razaque Ahamat, Sidath
Jayanetti and Bernard Randeniya gyrate in gay abandon. Sadly, none of them are
alive today.
5. In
1991 our elder son Steve was leaving the Kingshott Preparatory School in
Hertfordshire, UK. He was called upon to play Mozart Clarinet Concerto
which he played with zest and eloquence, age 13. I was in the audience and felt
deeply emotional and so very proud. This piece was published posthumously and was
Mozart’s last major instrumental composition. The piece reminds me of a very
happy time in my life.
6. In
the Summer of 1996 my younger son, Andrew, was leaving Bedford School in UK. At
the School’s Annual Festival of Music, he played George Gershwin’s Rhapsody
in Blue on the piano with the school orchestra. Andrew looked so dapper in
his cream formal attire and blue bow tie. With the integration of jazz rhythms
with classical music this composition soon became very popular and the most
performed of all American concert works. Being biased, I would say it was beautifully
played and a polished performance. This will indeed remain in my memory for the
rest of my days.
7. The
1945 romantic drama Brief Encounter is a film I remember for its simple
story and the brilliant acting of Trevor Howard and Celia Johnson. It is enduringly
popular and considered as one of the greatest films of all time. Sergei
Rachmaninoff's Piano Concerto No. 2 is played all through the film
where its beautiful melody wraps around the story most elegantly. This piece of
music is also considered as one of the finest concertos of all time. I have
such fond memories of watching this film with my younger son, Andrew, in his
flat on the 23rd floor on a warm night in Hong Kong.
8. I
was born in Kandy, that beautiful citadel in the hills. Although I have lived
in the UK for nearly half a century the love and yearning for that warm
tropical sunshine has never left me. Every winter I wait patiently for the
Spring to arrive and the leaves to appear and the flowers to bloom. All through
those cold and wet days and dark nights of winter it is Beethoven’s Spring
Sonata that brings life to my soul. It is also called the Violin Sonata
No. 5 in F major, Op. 24. The sonata is for violin and piano and is in 4
movements. All four of them are brilliant pieces of music but I have a special
preference for the sublime and heart-rending 2nd movement also
called Adagio molto espressivo.
Books:
Every castaway receives a
religious text of his/her choice and the Complete Works of Shakespeare as a
matter of routine. I would take the King James version of the Holy Bible which
was a large part of my life growing up in Ceylon.
Princess Margaret and Ian Fleming
are among the many castaways who’ve selected Tolstoy’s War and Peace as
their book choice. To select just one book to take with me isn’t easy. For a
long spell as a castaway, I did think of The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran
and The Art of Happiness by the Dalai Lama. These would help me to clean
up my act when I am rescued!! After much thought I have selected Nelson
Mandela’a autobiography “Long Walk to Freedom”. As a country South
Africa has been through the mill. It is now on a rollercoaster. From 1948-94 politics
was dominated by Afrikaner nationalism with racial segregation and white
minority rule, known officially as apartheid. From 1962 the armed struggle of
the ANC against apartheid was led by Nelson Mandela. From 1964 to 1982 Mandela
was incarcerated at Robben Island Prison, off Cape Town. I have visited the
prison and seen for myself the rigid and harsh conditions. It is so hard to
imagine how he maintained his sanity being behind bars for so long. The regime
was brutal. He had tremendous courage to stand up to the tyranny. Nelson
Mandela returned to normal life after 28 years of incarceration. He led the
country to majority rule and showed great willingness to forgive and reconcile.
This indeed showed his wisdom and true greatness. The probity, dignity and
honesty with which he led the country is a lesson for all politicians.
Luxury item:
The desert Island discs radio
programme lasts approximately 45 minutes. During this time there is an
interesting dialogue between the presenter and the castaway. Often the
discussion is amusing and entertaining. Occasionally it takes a naughty turn.
When pretty Kirsty Young was the presenter, one of the castaways wanted to take
her as the luxury item, which of course she flatly refused.
Pianos, guitars and binoculars are the
most-requested luxuries. But I would go for pen and paper. Writing is one of
the greatest of human inventions. This has helped mankind enormously to learn, teach,
discover, communicate, invent and make life so wonderful for everyone. I cannot
imagine a world without writing and the written word