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Tuesday, December 31, 2013
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Thursday, December 12, 2013
My Memories of Gampaha 1952 - 56
My Memories of
Gampaha 1952-56
By Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
The human
memory is a miracle of nature. Like a time traveller, I am turning back the
clock 60 years. It
is my wish these memories distil the spirit of an era now long gone. I was ten years old when my father
was transferred to Gampaha. By then we had lived in Nugegoda for several years.
After some deliberation, the decision was made to send me to the boarding at
Wesley College, the school where I had settled in well as a day scholar. This changed my idyllic life at home where I
enjoyed a sheltered and privileged existence.
The town
Gampaha is
a town made by the merging of five villages. It was formerly called
Henarathgoda. When Sir Edward Barnes paid a visit to the area in 1825, it was a
dense forest. He decided to construct a
railway through the area and to have a station at Henarathgoda. This
effectively ignited the interest in the area.
In the
1950’s Gampaha was still a small town and amazingly peaceful. It could not boast
of lush green mountains or a deep blue sea, but the air was clean and the people
were friendly. It was a place of beauty, loveliness and enchantment. Its only
claim to fame was the Botanical Gardens where Ceylon’s first rubber tree
was planted. Its pleasant undulating landscape, rolling lawns and colourful
hedges have mesmerised visitors for centuries.
Gampaha had a thriving community of
middle-class landed gentry owning vast swathes of land as far as the eye could
see. Well into the 1960’s they imagined they were still in the British Empire
and emulated the English aristocracy.
This was a world apart from the lives of the simple rural folk. The poor
knew their position and depended totally and completely on their rich masters
for survival. They lived in humble dwellings of mud houses and thatched roofs.
The rich showed some empathy and care for the less fortunate, but made
distinctly clear who was boss. That was the way it was in Gampaha in the mid 20th
century.
I was then
far too young to appreciate the vast political and social changes taking place
around me. In retrospect, the political arena then was full of young lions
jockeying for position. In the heat of the battle, honesty and equality became
its casualty. The shimmering dawn of the era of the common man was visible in
the distant horizon. When it came, the pendulum swung too far to the left too
quickly and the economy suffered. We all now know its devastating consequences.
The economic freeze had a profound impact on our lives and froze peoples'
freedom and the ability to travel. I was happily oblivious to these changes but
as I grew up, suffered with the rest of my countrymen. It is easier to be
scornful of the past than of the present. But we needed change and the seeds of
change were sown with the introduction of free education and healthcare. The
power of the unions gave the workers a voice.
Buildings
I remember
very little of the bricks and mortar in Gampaha. Lion House was an Ice Cream
Parlour at the main roundabout and served delicious cones and ice lollies. For
a ten year old, this was the closest place to heaven. I recall a beautiful tree
lined street of elegant houses. There was a bustling fruit and vegetable market,
noisy and full of people. On Saturdays, the market came
alive with witch doctors and fortune tellers. It is a dramatic spectacle, if
you can put up with monkeys and snakes. The unmistakable bus stand occupied the centre
of town. The disruptive monsoon rains lashed heavily on the town and the
low-lying areas flooded with disastrous results. During the warm dry months, the
sweeping winds sent clouds of dust swirling into the air. Such are my memories
of this sleepy town. I always felt comfortable in Gampaha where we were
welcomed with courtesy.
Our house
My parents
found a house at 230, Colombo Road, Gampaha,
a splendid old house opposite the General Hospital. It was the ancestral
home of Cyril Goonetilleke, a property tycoon, entrepreneur and socialite who
had inherited tremendous wealth. Although born to a
life of privilege, he endured perhaps more than his share of hardship. The house had water on tap and flushing
toilets, then a luxury anywhere outside the metropolis. He was a young wealthy
landowner who spent lavishly on himself. Cyril was away in London studying for
his law degree. He loved the good life.
During his absence, a close relative, Earle Dassanaike, occupied the
house. Earle was a bachelor and was happy to let us take over the house while
he used a room. Cyril had kept one room for himself which was full of his knick
knacks. This was a treasure trove for us kids. Earle was a kindly man and was
the Manager at the CWE at Jawatte. His depth
of kindness and thoughtfulness was obvious. His energy,
generosity and mischievous humour knew no bounds. Every morning, he walked a mile to the Railway Station and returned late in the evening. He lead a
quiet sedate life. At weekend, he often went to see his mother in a coconut
estate at Katuwellagama near Negombo, an old sprawling Walauwwa with long
verandahs and a spacious porch. We sometimes
went with him to his home in the country to spend a peaceful day.
Neighbours
Ratnavali
Balika Vidyalaya was two doors next to
us. Living opposite the hospital, we got to know the DMO Dr. Maheswaran. He was
a bachelor and lived like a Prince next to us in a small house well hidden from
the main road. I envied his bohemian life style. He was a typical old style
young medic who inspired me enormously and perhaps motivated me to take up a
career in medicine. He wasn’t averse to a drink in the evening and invited his
friends for a sing song. Police Sub Inspector Von Hart was a regular visitor
playing the piano accordion with others with drums and guitars. Von Hart had a
wide repertoire of Sinhala music and entertained us well. I was completely
entranced by this musical extravaganza.
Drinks flowed freely and the music often went on deep into the night. No
one dared complain about the young DMO.
Holidays
During the
holidays, my cousins kept me company. We played cricket from dawn to dusk except
when a serious disagreement halted the game. Umpiring decisions were a
nightmare and we learnt to bend the rules to suit our game. The days seemed
sunny and endless. Behind the house was a large coconut plantation with cashew,
mango and guava trees. We spent many afternoons
plucking fruits enjoying the freedom of the open spaces. There were many ponds
and streams scattered in the neighbourhood. I recall our fishing expeditions
spending hours with the hook, line and sinker waiting for the big one which
never came. All the while, we kept a close eye on snakes and monitor lizards
that shared the space with us.
Friends
The de
Sarams lived about 400 yards from our house . Their house was on a hill at the
edge of a coconut plantation overlooking a long stretch of paddy fields. The
swallows had a made a nest at the back of their house and we saw the planning
and the construction of this remarkable dwelling with mud and saliva. That was
the closest I have been to nature in my short life. They respected our privacy
as we did theirs.
We walked
to the de Saram’s to play with the kids. Lal the eldest was about my age and
his brothers Sanath, Jaliya and Rohan joined us too. They were amiable friends.
We played cricket in the dusty streets avoiding the occasional vehicle that
crawled past giving us a friendly wave. Always impeccably dressed, Mr Bobby de
Saram had a suave 1920’s look and was one of life’s great charmers. He was of
medium build with hair combed back and resembled the Hollywood depiction of the
‘Godfather’ Don Vito Corleone. Of course he was no gangster but an honest and
kind soul. Bobby de Saram was a charming and charismatic Insurance agent for Sunlife
Assurance able to sell a freezer to an Eskimo. Mrs. Gladys de Saram was a
gentle, kind devoted housewife who showed remarkable patience to put up with
our mess and mayhem.
We had no
sense of fear and trudged miles into the picturesque countryside of meandering
waterways and acres of paddy fields. I recall walking on an endless dusty road
to the Ketawala anicut , an irrigation dam and reservoir. This was a bewitching
place of breath-taking beauty, many many miles away from our homes. The
reservoir sustained the paddy fields and remained a paradise for birds and
butterflies. We heard the screeching of the parrots and the knocking of the
woodpeckers. Golden Orioles, red vented bul buls and kingfishers flew
fearlessly over our heads. Everyday was a new adventure fuelled by our insatiable curiosity. Barefooted, we walked brazenly
into the network of footpaths across paddy fields, forests and villages and
thought this blissful existence would never end. Soon we became the best of
friends. Their cousins were girls about our age. We played with them too, but we
didn’t like girls then!! I just remember Neela, the prettiest of them all.
In the
evenings the sky took on crimson glow before hordes of bats took to the air.
The nights were quiet when an eerie silence pervaded the entire countryside.
Bandaranaike’s
Gampaha has
been the natural home of the tribe of Dias Bandaranaikes. Horagolla is a
stones throw away. SD Bandaranaike was then the sitting MP for Gampaha for many
decades. He was a charismatic politician and an eloquent orator who appealed to
the masses. He preached of a better future for the poor.
My parents
became friends with another avuncular country gentleman, Wilfred Dias
Bandaranaike. He had an irresistible magnetic personality and lived at
Kirikongahena Estate on Yakkala Road in a typical country Manor House. The old
house was quiet elegance and quaint charm. Dinner with
him unfolded a grand spectacle of the glory of English aristocracy. Everything
was polished and pristine. Wilfred DB was a graduate from the Poona Agricultural Institute and was
the creative influence for his immaculate garden with an outstanding layout and
design. It had colourful borders, exotic flowers, broad hedges and decorative
monuments. He remained a constant fixture at social
gatherings of the great and the good in Gampaha. On such occasions, he was seen in neatly pressed light summer suits
with a bow tie and a Panama hat which conjures up images of Great Gatsby.
He was the
quintessential Englishman with tall good looks, upper class conceit and
arrogance. Wilfred DB was an endearing and enduring
relic of the British Raj
and spoke proper English (with a toffee in his mouth). His expressions and
mannerisms were British. He had a certain aura about him which left people in
no doubt he belonged to the ruling class.
I respect him enormously for his dignity and decency. Wilfred DB was an
aristocrat caught up in a time-warp at the turn of the last century and often
elegised a bygone Ceylon. Despite his remarkable wealth, he travelled in his
buggy cart and never owned a car. He was always incredibly kind to me and
remained a valued family friend during and well beyond our stay in Gampaha.
The return
I remember
the day Cyril Goonetilleke returned to Ceylon. Those were the days of
steamships and the journey from London took 8 weeks. He came to Gampaha in a
brand new red MG -TD Coupe. He spoke with a strong British accent and the drawl
was difficult to decipher. Cyril occupied the 3rd room in our house
and became our guest. The young Cyril had expensive tastes and added some spice and sauce to a reserved and old fashioned way of
life in Gampaha. He was remarkably polite and was
always seen in the company of beautiful girls. I remember he once took us kids
with a large group of girls and boys to play softball cricket at the Botanical
Gardens. It was a good days fun for all. Most of all, we enjoyed the trip in his
shiny red car with the open hood. Cyril was a businessman and became the sole
importer and distributor of Tennent’s Lager in Ceylon. It never took off.
Tempus Fugit
Indeed,
time does fly. The years passed swiftly and relentlessly. The ebb and flow of
my fortunes brought happiness and despair in equal measure. Meanwhile, the river
of life has run on and youth passed into middle age. I had stepped on the
treadmill to carve myself a career and raise a family. The stress of exams,
tiring work routines and the inevitable pleasures and heartaches of family life
seemed to have passed with the blink of an eye. They are all behind me now.
During those years, I was seduced by the material world. Thankfully, now,
calmness prevails and gaining wealth doesn’t have any priority. As I look back,
I cannot believe more than 60 years have passed since those happy days. I have
written frankly and fairly about the people I had the privilege to meet and
remember them with the greatest regard and affection. I have spoken vaguely and
indirectly of the politics and social aspects of the day as I was too young to
grasp its complexities. It is often easier to criticise than to understand.
The people
I never
returned to Gampaha town or the house ever again. The house was later bought by
a doctor who razed it to the ground and built a 2 storey Surgery for his
practice. Earle Dassanaike left our house to be married. He raised a family and
lead a happy and contented life. He left this world about 20 years ago.
Although I never met his wife and daughters, I saw him briefly many times and
reminisced at length. Cyril became a businessman and married his sweetheart, a
girl who played cricket with us at the botanical gardens. I met him once in
Kurunegala in 1968. He was much subdued and we spoke of those happy years. I am
told his marriage sadly did not survive the rigors of life. He too died 13
years ago of a massive stroke.
We kept in
touch with Wilfred Dias Bandaranaike. His sunset years were bedevilled with
poor health until finally he succumbed to a stroke. He remained a posh
‘British’ gentleman to the very end. I am reliably informed Kirikongahena
estate still exists, but the house became derelict and the garden engulfed by
weeds.
Mr Saram
passed away at the age of 90. He lived in Nawala with Sanath who managed a
bakery. Mrs Saram predeceased him by 15 years. Lal de Saram sadly died in his
early 60’s of an inoperable brain tumour. Jaliya worked for a Travel Agency in
Colombo and died suddenly of a heart attack. Pretty Neela entered the Arts
Faculty in Peradeniya and completed her degree. I know she got married but died
young of ovarian cancer many years ago. I have no news of Dr Maheswaran or Sub
Inspector Von Hart and hope life treated them kindly. I am grateful for the
opportunity to have met them on my journey through life. Loss of childhood
friends do leave an echoing void. As my thoughts drift towards Gampaha of the
1950’s, I am overcome by a deep sense of nostalgia and homesickness.
The mist of
time cannot erase the memories of those happy years. Thinking of the days gone
by is at least for a short while a blissful escape from reality of the present.
Despite the storms and tempests of life, I have often found a safe harbour
protected from the fury of the winds. I have often spoken of the awesome force
of destiny in my life. Destiny always has the last word, if not the last laugh.
Credits
As I end my
egotistical narrative of my journey through life, I must recall the part my
parents played in my life in those days. Being an only child, I was always at
the forefront of their thoughts. Nothing was ever done to hinder my progress
through life. My mother has always been by my side through thick and thin.
Mother's love for a child is ever so special and no words can describe it
adequately. Although she lived 6000 miles away in Sri Lanka, I could always feel
her presence. It is a wonderful feeling of love. I owe them everything. Both my parents have now passed on. I
dedicate these notes to my parents for their infinite love which sadly I could
never fully reciprocate.
Wednesday, December 4, 2013
Some Recollections of my Early Life
By
Nihal D Amerasekera
I was born in Kandy, that splendid city
nestling in the central hills of Ceylon. In 1942, the World War was raging and peace
must have seemed far away. It was Douglas Walbeoff Jansz who severed my
umbilical cord and slapped my back to help take my first breath in an
unsettled world. My grandma was eagerly waiting with her watch to time the
birth to cast my horoscope, but had forgotten to do so in the confusion of the
delivery room. By some strange coincidence, Jansz was a Lecturer in Physiology
during my time at Medical College. Despite its magic and charm, Kandy was never
to be my home. Even after all these years, when I visit this idyllic city my
past connections remain a magnet for my soul.
My earliest recollections are of
Bogawantalawa at the foot of the Kotiyagala range. It was in the middle of tea
country with many European Planters rushing on their motor bikes. Everyone
wore mufflers and sweaters and rain was
never faraway. Then we moved to Kadugannawa near the Dawson Column living
sandwiched between two railway lines. The steam trains huffed and puffed at all
hours and how we slept amidst that mayhem still remains a mystery to me.
In 1947, my parents decided I was of a ripe
old age for schooling. My grandparents then lived in a large house at 56,
Church Street, Nugegoda, just beside St John's Girls School. There I spent three
uneventful years but for a slight mishap when my mother in her enthusiasm, sent
me to school after a heavy dose of laxative with disastrous consequences. We
lived opposite the Anglican Church and witnessed the baptisms, weddings and funerals - the full gamut of Christian life.
I
still recall our independence from British rule in 1948. Although I was too
young to realise its importance, I do
remember the joy and happiness in the faces of the people. They were now
released from the shackles of bondage that held them down for nearly 500 years.
With freedom comes the responsibility to unite and strengthen our country with
hard work. We were swept by a wave of nationalism. There was an overwhelming
desire for change and the British and Dutch street names became the first
casualty. Overnight, the well known landmarks in Colombo lost their links with
the past. It disorientated the older folk and disillusioned the young. Many
still ask themselves whether this was ever necessary. The cost of this
exercise was borne by our sagging economy.
The early 1950s was a time of idyllic
splendour and tranquillity in Ceylon. As a nation, it was our age of innocence.
The Galle Face Hotel, the Queens Hotel Kandy and the Grand Hotel Nuwara Eliya
were the only hotels with any star quality. The affluent and the not so wealthy,
indulged in a weekend flutter on the horses at the Race Course in Reid Avenue.
The Parliament was by the sea and the breeze helped the politicians to think
rationally and clearly- or so it seemed. During April, the rich went
"upcountry" to Nuwara Eliya to escape the Colombo heat. Galle Face
Green on a Sunday was packed with people sucking Alerics Ice Cream.
Colombo in the 1950s was a city of
contrasts with the beauty of prestigious estates with pleasant houses in some
areas, and slums, shanties and tenements in others. The poor with large families
lived in a single room in screaming poverty. The falling plaster, broken
windows and fences, corrugated iron roofs were the hall marks of the poverty we
saw. It is a scene straight from the annals of our urban life of that era. For
many, the new found political independence did little to give them home or hope.
For
me, real life began when I started at Wesley College at the bottom of the pile.
The journey to school on the narrow gauge Kelani Valley train with friends was
exciting. I felt grown up carrying the money to buy my own ticket. All Railway
Stations had that special smell of steam and coal which hung on to our clothes
for days. My father was in Government Service and had to move from town to town
every three years, what was then euphemistically called "transfers". In
their wisdom, my parents decided to send me to the hostel, at great cost to
themselves. It was to give me a stable life and teach me the social skills and
discipline. I achieved their goals only to lose them in the rough and tumble of
University life.
Memories of life in the boarding can fill a
book. I was lucky to belong to a generation inspired contemporaneously by great
teachers and principals. They gave us lofty ideas, great inspiration, self
respect, firm discipline and anchorage.
It was a sublime experience. The first day at the boarding was full of tears
specially when wishing the parents goodbye. Nothing could have prepared me
adequately for this trauma. It was the large frame of Mrs. Hindle, the Matron,
who welcomed us. The loneliness and bewilderment was overpowering at times. All
our possessions were crammed into a large metal trunk and the clothes had our
name tags. In the first term, they all called me "new boy", a strict
reminder of the pecking order.
Needless to say, there was no television, no
computers, and no mobile phones. We made our own entertainment and amused
ourselves. Despite the hustle and bustle of life and the regimentation, we had
time to put our arms round our pals and share in their joys and sorrows. We
shared our secrets and exchanged stories about our parents, brothers and
sisters. There was a certain closeness which was rarely seen in friendships
later on in life. We talked about our dreams and aspirations for the future and
assumed we will always be friends. It fills my heart with sadness to think many
of us never met again as adults. It is a horrible reminder of our own mortality
when we read or hear of the death of school friends who played, laughed, sang
and fought with us all those years ago. For me they will always remain fifteen,
healthy and smiling. It is hard to believe they will not be playing those
elegant cover drives ever again or be ready for a pillow fight.
Unlike at present, the students had no voice
at all. Parents took decisions for us at home and the teachers did so at
school. On looking back, we believed teachers wielded immense power and perhaps
they did. But law enforcement was done with knowing restraint influenced mostly
by their faith. Others depended firmly on the swish of the cane. Punishments at
school were a necessity to keep the riff raffs on the straight and narrow. The
types of punishment were brought to Wesley by the British Principals from
English Public Schools like Eton, Rugby and Harrow. They were harsh and on
looking back, unnecessary. There were times when I raged at the injustice of
punishments. In this 21st Century of human rights, corporal punishment is
looked down upon as demeaning and humiliating for which there is no real need.
Reading the reminiscences from the first half of the last century, we get a
glimpse of those hard times. It would be a mistake to apply the liberal values
of this modern age to life at school 50 years ago.
Sports dominated my life at school. Cricket
in those days was played by gentlemen. Umpires' word was law. We congratulated
the opponents’ achievements in the field. We walked away when we felt it was
out though the umpires did not see . The spectators dissent and applause was
confined to areas beyond the boundary.
No streakers, foul language or efforts to intimidate the batsman at the crease.
When we lost, though crest fallen and frustrated, clapped the opponents back to
the pavilion. Those injured in the heat of the battle were comforted by the
captain of the opposite side. My generation grew up with peace. This
gentlemanly behaviour on the pitch, merely reflected the peaceful and chivalrous
times of our youth. In the 21st century, these seem rather tame as the
cricketers have given up being gentleman for the high stakes they play for.
The enchantment of the cricket matches of
my childhood still haunts me. At school, Cricket was not only a game but a way
of life. My lasting memory of cricket at Campbell Park is the sight of the
setting sun behind All Saints Church and its lengthening shadows. The Church
bell rang at 6 o'clock. As the bails were lifted, we all departed discussing the
ups and downs of the day's play. Losing a match in those days was like the end
of the world, but we always bounced back. It was certainly a good training to
face the peaks and troughs of our own lives. The songs we sang and the friends
I made, are etched deeply in my memory. After leaving school, I went for some
matches in the following year. The magic and the aura of this extraordinary spectacle
seem to have gone, not being an integral part of it anymore. Thereafter, life got
too complicated building my own career.
In common with the development of road
transport worldwide, bus operation in Ceylon was pioneered by private
enterprise. Private entrepreneurs Ebert Silva, High Level Bus Company and
Ceylon Tours provided the service with many other companies whose names I
cannot now recall. Demand continued to increase with population growth and the
private companies found it difficult to change, invest and improve. The service
began to crumble. The Government nationalised bus transport in 1958 and the
Ceylon Transport Board was born. The red reliable British Leyland single and
double decker buses then were a part of
the Colombo scene. Quickshaw Taxis competed for business with the Morris Minor
Cabs. Rickshaws in the 50s were confined to Fort and Pettah. Trolley buses
were popular for a decade in the 1950s, running between Borella and Pettah.
Bullock carts were seen on the roads well into the 1970s.
1955 saw the emergence of Rock 'n Roll
music. The first Rock 'n' Roll record to achieve national popularity was
"Rock Around the Clock" by Bill Haley and the Comets . I queued for hours
in the heat of the day to see the film at the Savoy. Bill Haley succeeded in
creating a music that appealed to youth because of its exciting back beat, its
urgent call to dance, and the action of its lyrics. The booming base and the
twang of electric guitars produced a foot tapping sound. Haley abruptly ended
the ascendancy of the bland and sentimental ballads of the crooners popular in
the 1940s and early 50s. I was then in the boarding, singing, clicking my
fingers and gyrating to the music coming through the Rediffusion set in the
Hostel common room. Music of Elvis Presley and Cliff Richard and the Shadows
was all consuming to us teenagers. The Colgate Hit-parade on Tuesdays was as
good as watching cricket on a Saturday. I cannot believe nearly 50 years have
passed since those exciting times in our youth.
1956 saw the beginnings of the political
decline of our country. We moved away from the Westminster style gentlemanly
politics into an abyss. The jingoism and the ultra-nationalism was a recipe for
division and disaster. It was Albert Einstein who said that Nationalism is an
infantile disease and is the measles of mankind. The rapid abolition of English
as the state language, drove many educated people away from the country. The
Burghers who formed a colourful community and contributed immensely to the welfare
of the island emigrated in their thousands to Australia, England and Canada.
They had a tremendous love for life which they showed in the way they lived. I
remember the sad goodbyes when my friends left. The first Dutch Burghers came
to Ceylon four centuries ago, when the maritime provinces of the island came
under the Dutch East India Company. They joined the legal, medical and teaching
professions and played a major role in the fight for independence. During my
time at school, the Burghers ran the CGR and did so most efficiently. The time
keeping of the Ceylon Railways was second to none. Their departure coincided
with the economic and political decline and saw the beginning of the ethnic
divisions which ravaged the island. The politics of the country was in crisis
and our coffers were empty. The many upheavals, disunity and the workers'
strikes had brought the country to its knees.
1958- I remember it well as the year when
the sport of Kings - horse racing that began in 1922 was banned in Ceylon. I am
no punter and it had no effect on me personally, but a Saturday ritual of many,
rich and poor, was suddenly taken away. The bookmakers and the customers went
underground and business flourished. The beautiful Reid Avenue Grand Stand and
its spacious turf was left to decay and wither.
1958 also saw the race riots, a tragedy
which remained to haunt and destroy us until the end of the 20th Century.
The 6th Form years at Wesley were some of
the best of my life. It is indeed a wonderful experience to look back on one’s
life 50+ years after leaving school. I
was 18 then, life was beautiful and saw
the world in vivid technicolor. Disagreements, disappointments and the
heartaches seem to be all forgotten. All I can remember now are the pleasant
memories of happy times. I recall the sunshine and the warmth and not the
monsoon rains. Anecdotes and images appear at random. The innocence of the
fifties gave way to the cynical and raucous sixties. Beatles and Elvis Presley
were still riding high in the Hit Parade. The hippy culture of sex, drugs and
rock and roll were making the headlines and setting the pace.
At Wesley, we had the large expanse of the
Welikada Prison just opposite our front gate. Every morning, the prisoners wearing white were taken along Baseline Road by the guards in khaki
shorts. Being so close to the prison for over a decade, I had often let my mind
wander about the life of those in jail. For many of us even now, prison is
almost an unknown place and very few knew what happened behind those grim gates
that swallowed the convicts. We imagined that its inhabitants were desperate
people and dangerous criminals. In our minds, the place was associated with
isolation, humiliation and suffering which were all part of the punishment.
Sometimes, the sheer lack of privacy and at other times, the loneliness of solitary confinement, must
be soul destroying. Time then is not a luxury but a burden to endure. A few had
the benefit of work and exercise. I would hate to think of what food they
received and of the many who walked out free, how they faced the world again.
In those days, for anyone studying the
Sciences, the choice was rather limited, being confined to Medicine, Biological
Sciences, Agriculture and Engineering. There was a belief that entry into
Medical College was a passport to Nirvana. That was just an illusion which for
a few, turned out to be a nightmare. It was only the beginning of a long
struggle with busy days and sleepless nights. I hope this popular misconception
has now been properly addressed. If I am allowed to be cynical - it is no more
a noble profession but a kind of business. As I look around the various
professions, their nobility has been eroded by the pressures of modern living.
As a 6th Former in the sixties, I wasn't
to know all that.
I left school in April 1962, a day I will never forget. Nostalgia is my
great sin, and I remember with a sense of loss a kinder, gentler world which
disappeared forever as I left school. The most painful of all is the disappearance
from my life the people who meant so much to me, friends, teachers, chaplains
and Principals in all those years at Wesley. I stepped on the treadmill to
carve myself a career and raise a family. Now having reached the end of my
working life, I still yearn for those days at school even though more than half
a century has passed me by.
A professional career with its disruptive
routines and untold strain on my time and leisure, has invariably taken its
toll. As a 6th Former at school, I would
never have imagined life would turn out this way. Call it destiny or the will
of God, good fortune has been on my side most of the way.
I dedicate these memoirs, firstly to my
parents who provided the encouragement and paid the bills. Secondly to my
teachers who educated me beyond the call of duty, and thirdly to my mates at
school and medical college who by their friendship, enriched my life.
Friday, November 29, 2013
Message from Sanath Lamabadusuriya
From: Professor Sanath P. Lamabadusuriya <sanathp.lama@gmail.com>
Date: Sat, Nov 30, 2013 at 7:39 AM
Subject: Buddhika
To:
Dear Friends,
As some of you may already be aware, Buddhika's funeral took place
yesterday (Friday) at Kanatte.
She spent over one month at the Asiri Central Hospital, Colombo during her
terminal illness, Harshan, our second son came over from UK
to be with her at her bed-side during the last few weeks. (He came several
times during the last two years to spend quality time with her).
She was cared for by an excellent team of doctors, led by Dr. Kanishka
Karunaratna, (most of whom were my former students in Galle and Colombo).
Buddhika herself had taught some of them. I was amazed by their level of
commitment and loving care in addition to their professional skills.
Buddhika's final moments were as planned by her. All four of us were with her
reciting pirith. As she was fond of flowers, I was very glad to see her
surrounded by lovely bouquets and wreaths when friends and relations came to
pay their final respects.While I was kept busy with my professional
activities, she brought up the three children in an exemplary manner. I am sure
that she was quite pleased with what they achieved during her lifetime. She
led a very spiritual life spending a lot of time and and resources for
Buddhist activities. She helped quite a lot of our relatives who were less
well off, for their social upliftment. I learnt many things in life from
her during our 37 years of wedded life. She was solely responsible for
arranging the marriages of two of our chidren. Dilusha's marriage was
arranged by her from her sick bed.
Dear friends, you could once again commence to send e-mails and I will have
more time to read them and respond.
Kind regards,
Sanath
Date: Sat, Nov 30, 2013 at 7:39 AM
Subject: Buddhika
To:
Dear Friends,
As some of you may already be aware, Buddhika's funeral took place
yesterday (Friday) at Kanatte.
She spent over one month at the Asiri Central Hospital, Colombo during her
terminal illness, Harshan, our second son came over from UK
to be with her at her bed-side during the last few weeks. (He came several
times during the last two years to spend quality time with her).
She was cared for by an excellent team of doctors, led by Dr. Kanishka
Karunaratna, (most of whom were my former students in Galle and Colombo).
Buddhika herself had taught some of them. I was amazed by their level of
commitment and loving care in addition to their professional skills.
Buddhika's final moments were as planned by her. All four of us were with her
reciting pirith. As she was fond of flowers, I was very glad to see her
surrounded by lovely bouquets and wreaths when friends and relations came to
pay their final respects.While I was kept busy with my professional
activities, she brought up the three children in an exemplary manner. I am sure
that she was quite pleased with what they achieved during her lifetime. She
led a very spiritual life spending a lot of time and and resources for
Buddhist activities. She helped quite a lot of our relatives who were less
well off, for their social upliftment. I learnt many things in life from
her during our 37 years of wedded life. She was solely responsible for
arranging the marriages of two of our chidren. Dilusha's marriage was
arranged by her from her sick bed.
Dear friends, you could once again commence to send e-mails and I will have
more time to read them and respond.
Kind regards,
Sanath
Wednesday, November 27, 2013
Buddhika Lamabadusuriya
It is with profound sadness that I record here the passing away of Buddhika, beloved wife of our friend and fellow 1962 entrant to the Colombo Medical Faculty Sanath Lamabadusuriya. Please see details and funeral arrangements in the obituary notice below.
LAMABADUSURIYA (nee EDIRIWICKREME) BUDDHIKA AMODANI. Beloved wife of Sanath, loving mother of Shamin, Harshan and Dilusha, mother-in-law of Michelle and Upul, daughter of the late Romie and Nita Ediriwickrema, sister of Kumar, Ransi and Janani, passed away peacefully after a prolonged illness. Cortege leaves residence at 4.00 p.m. on Friday 29th of November. Cremation at 5.00 p.m. at General Cemetery Kanatte (Borella). 38 A, Nawala Road, Nugegoda. - See more at: http://www.dailynews.lk/obituaries#sthash.ktpnRoqq.dpuf
LAMABADUSURIYA (nee EDIRIWICKREME) BUDDHIKA AMODANI. Beloved wife of Sanath, loving mother of Shamin, Harshan and Dilusha, mother-in-law of Michelle and Upul, daughter of the late Romie and Nita Ediriwickrema, sister of Kumar, Ransi and Janani, passed away peacefully after a prolonged illness. Cortege leaves residence at 4.00 p.m. on Friday 29th of November. Cremation at 5.00 p.m. at General Cemetery Kanatte (Borella). 38 A, Nawala Road, Nugegoda. - See more at: http://www.dailynews.lk/obituaries#sthash.ktpnRoqq.dpuf
Sunday, November 17, 2013
Our Blog has a New Look
I have replaced the Header Image with a new picture. As you can see, even the exterior of the Colombo Medical Faculty buildings have been given a new look.
BEFORE
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BEFORE
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Tuesday, November 5, 2013
From Razaque's Diary
On seeing the posting with your prologue/preamble on blog, brought flash-backs of my Primary School /Senior School days at St.Anthony's College, Wattala.You may or may not remember the happenings at that point in time as you left school when your family had to move on in view of your father's government posting. As a result, we parted company!! Therefore, you may not recollect the many nicknames, and thus the name callings by my so called "classmates" that I had to endure due to my physical appearance. They called me -- Double-Head, Big Head, ALI-OLUWA, Bada, ALUGHOSUWA, HYS GEDDIYA, Tadpole" as I was "largely" built with an above average size of head. Also, another impediment I suffered was a severe strutter/ stammer --- so, it was a case of relentless-- GOTHAYA & GOLUWA!!. Along with the above "also known as"--AKA!!! Also, in view of my conformation to ancient religious practices (also by Jews!!) to the male gender, which I shall not elaborate, I had further bullying.........
I was bigger and stronger than those RUNTS. So the only way I could get my own back was BRUTE FORCE. They did feel the knuckles of my clenched fist on their SNOUTS, GOBS and JAWS!!, and they ran crying to the teachers!!! Sometimes I was punished and at other times, they themselves got the treatment --- to my glee!!! As years passed by, things settled down and these harassments receded. I had other interests that took my fancy such as, Cricket, Football, Athletics, Spelling-
It all came to a head when we had to face "all comers" Public Examinations --- THE SENIOR SCHOOLS CERTIFICATE (S.S.C) --you may recollect. At this point, I proved a point that I was not all that HYS(empty) up there!!! I obtained a First Division pass with distinctions in Physics, Pure Maths & Applied Maths and in the rest of the subjects credit passes, being the first in the history of the fledgling school to achieve a First Division pass in any stream-Science or Arts!!! However, the award I cherished most was the credit in Sinhala, being the only candidate to do so that year from all the streams of study from the school!!! (In actual fact there were several other candidates achieving distinction passes)!!!!! My glory days were yet to come--- when I was the FIRST EVER, again, from the school's Bio Science stream to enter the University to follow a course in Medicine. The moral of this is "WHAT GOES ROUND COMES ROUND". The day I received the results, I took the letter to school and showed it to the Rector. He was delighted and subsequently that day, a notice went round to all the classes declaring a Half Holiday for the whole school!!! I was delighted as I thought it was for my success!! In actual fact this was due to the inclement weather conditions and NOT for my achievement!!! Disappointed again!!!
It was at this point, as fate played its hand, that you and I had to meet again and be reunited in the First MB course. Rest is history. Alas, we had to part company again on qualifying as doctors.
I shall contact you again with my "situation experiences" in my medical practice from Siyambalanduwa... to ....UK....to the ANTIPODES!!!
Watch this space....it will be again at "MY EXPENSE" and nothing Clinical!!!
Sunday, November 3, 2013
Anatomy Block Centenary Commemoration (1913-2013)
The Department of Anatomy of the Colombo Medical Faculty held the Anatomy Block Centenary Commemoration (1913-2013) on 3rd November, 2013 at the Anatomy Block, Faculty of Medicine, University of Colombo. The main ceremony was held in the dissection room where we did our dissections in 1962/63.
Dr. Madhuwanthi Dissanayake, Head of the Department of Anatomy welcomed the guests. The Keynote Address was delivered by Prof. Rohan W. Jayasekara, Chair and Senior Professor of Anatomy and Dean of the Faculty of Medicine, University of Colombo. The title of the address was "Hundred Years and Beyond". The day's programme included the launch of the Centenary Souvenir and naming of the Anatomy Museum as the "Prof. P.S.S. Panditharatne Anatomy Museum". The Vote of Thanks was Proposed by Prof. Vajira H.W. Dissanayake, Professor in Anatomy. The proceedings concluded with a visit to the refurbished Old Anatomy Lecture Theatre.
The Invitation
Dean of the Faculty of Medicine Prof. Rohan Jayasekara delivering the Keynote Address.
Guests in the front row are seated exactly at the spot where the cadaver assigned to me was placed during the First Term (June - September, 1962).
The Souvenir
As a contributor to the Centenary Souvenir, I was presented with a copy.
As I always do at these gatherings, I tried to spot members of our batch to get a group photograph. It looked as if I was the only person among 1962 entrants to grace the occasion. Former members of the academic staff of the Department of Anatomy were present. Of our past teachers in the Anatomy Block, only Prof. Shanthi Goonewardene was present. Most of them including Professors M.J. Waas, P.K. Chanmugam, Lester Jayawardene, P.S.S. Panditharatne have passed away.
Tuesday, October 29, 2013
E-Mail from Razaque Ahamat
I was very happy to receive this e-mail from my old friend Razaque Ahamat whom I knew was not in the best of health. You will see that Razaque has retained his sense of humour despite his ill health. I felt that our batch colleagues too would find it interesting - to know how he is doing in Scotland and about his family. As a matter of policy, I always get the writer's consent before posting personal e-mails on the blog. Hence the delay.
I met Razaque in June 1961 quite some time before I got to know the rest of the batch in the Colombo Medical Faculty the following year. Along with me, he was one of 15 students who had entered the Science Faculty at Thurstan Road to follow the 6 months course in Chemistry. Incidentally, others from our 1962 batch who were in that 1st MB group were: Zita Perera, Cyril Ernest, Puvan Ramalingam, Ranjit Kariyawasam and V. Kunasingham. We soon discovered that both of us had probably been in the same class (Standard 3) at St. Anthony's College, Wattala as well, way back in 1948. I last met Razaque when he and Farina visited my home during one of his trips to Sri Lanka in the eighties.
A little bit of news of my brood---- They have now obtained Membership of their respective Royal Colleges--Physicians, Psychiatry and Dental Surgery and appear to be progressing okay!!!
Wish you all the very best for the REST OF YOUR FUTURES.
I met Razaque in June 1961 quite some time before I got to know the rest of the batch in the Colombo Medical Faculty the following year. Along with me, he was one of 15 students who had entered the Science Faculty at Thurstan Road to follow the 6 months course in Chemistry. Incidentally, others from our 1962 batch who were in that 1st MB group were: Zita Perera, Cyril Ernest, Puvan Ramalingam, Ranjit Kariyawasam and V. Kunasingham. We soon discovered that both of us had probably been in the same class (Standard 3) at St. Anthony's College, Wattala as well, way back in 1948. I last met Razaque when he and Farina visited my home during one of his trips to Sri Lanka in the eighties.
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It has been a long time since you all heard 'from me' or 'of me'!!!It has been a very turbulent year or so for us...AGAIN.
In May I went down with a severe attack of Pneumonia and was rushed to hospital in a delirious state with slurring of speech,weakness on one side and a temperature of 43.5 C..!!!
Investigations confirmed Pneumonia and a Brain scan .....showed that there was NOTHING THERE!!!! not surprised eh???
The very next day my son , Hajirin had severe abdominal pain....not pregnant!!! and was also rushed to hospital and was operated on as an emergency. It was a very anxious time till the biopsy report came as Diverticulosis. He still has not gone back to work and it will not be a long time....though he is impatient!! He was in hospital for more than 3 weeks. In the
meantime I was discharged after 2 plus weeks.
Two of the same family in hospital at the same time with conditions that could have gone either way!! Also, you might remember in 2009 my wife, Farina and I had very major Cardiac surgery 6 weeks apart. This seems to be a habit with us!!!
Anyway, I seem to have cheated "the Arch Angel Gabrial/Maraya/malakkal mowth more than once---next time not so lucky??
Anyway, I seem to have cheated "the Arch Angel Gabrial/Maraya/malakkal mowth more than once---next time not so lucky??
A little bit of news of my brood---- They have now obtained Membership of their respective Royal Colleges--Physicians, Psychiatry and Dental Surgery and appear to be progressing okay!!!
Wish you all the very best for the REST OF YOUR FUTURES.
Saturday, October 26, 2013
Turned 72 last Tuesday
I turned 72 last Tuesday. This is a picture taken that day in the company of my grandkids. Note the "New Look"!
Sunday, October 13, 2013
Sri Lankan Medical & Dental Association UK 31st Annual Dinner Dance
E-mail sent in by Mahendra Gonsalkorala (Speedy).
Dear Lucky,
On Saturday 12th October, the Sri Lankan Medical & Dental Association UK held its 31st annual dinner dance at the Radisson Blue Edwardian Hotel in London near Heathrow. It was an occasion where 5 batch mates met, some after a very long time. It was a fantastic occasion and it was great to revive pleasant memories.
Speedy
The picture shows from left to right - Ranjit Dambawinna, Bora, Sunil Abey, Pram and Speedy.
Dear Lucky,
On Saturday 12th October, the Sri Lankan Medical & Dental Association UK held its 31st annual dinner dance at the Radisson Blue Edwardian Hotel in London near Heathrow. It was an occasion where 5 batch mates met, some after a very long time. It was a fantastic occasion and it was great to revive pleasant memories.
Speedy
The picture shows from left to right - Ranjit Dambawinna, Bora, Sunil Abey, Pram and Speedy.
Colombo Medical School gets life support from alumnus body
From the Sunday Times 2 of October 13th, 2013
Colombo Medical School gets life support from alumnus body
By Dr. J B Peiris, President Alumnus Association 2012-13
The Colombo Medical school, now known as the Medical faculty of the University of Colombo, is 143 years old and the second oldest in Asia. Sri Lanka has eight state medical schools with around 1,500 qualifying as doctors every year. In addition, every year, about 300 doctors with foreign degrees qualify to practise medicine in Sri Lanka. The PGIM (Postgraduate Institute of Medicine) of the University of Colombo established in 1980), trains medical graduates to specialise in all fields of medicine.
The Medical School in Colombo initially had a traditional training programme with two years of the basic sciences (anatomy, physiology and biochemistry) followed by paramedical sciences of pathology, bacteriology, pharmacology, forensic medicine and public health before clinical hospital-based training in clinical medicine, paediatrics, surgery, obstetrics and gynaecology. Now the medical school has an integrated modular format with facilities for self-learning.
The oldest building in the faculty is the Anatomy building built in 1815 on Francis Road next to the JMOs office. The other buildings (Physiology, Biochemistry, Pharmacology and Pathology) are in a cluster with entry through the main entrance on Kynsey Road.
The other buildings on Kynsey Road include the original administrative block, the Soysa Maternity hospital donated by Sir Charles Henry de Soysa and the Institute of Neurology built entirely from public donations with the leadership provided by the senior consultant neurologist, Dr. J B Peiris. The Colombo medical faculty has no residential campus though it has a few male and female hostels. The alumni, who were initially awarded the diploma of LMS (Ceylon) and later MBBS Ceylon, obtain the qualification of MBBS (Colombo) on successfully completing five years of training.
The alumni are scattered all over the world. These two factors probably contributed to the late birth of an alumnus association only two years ago, when compared with the Peradeniya medical school alumnus association (PeMSAA) which has celebrated 50 years and the Ruhuna Medical School alumnus association which has surpassed 25 years.
In the two years the CoMSAA (Colombo Medical School Alumnus Association) has been able to achieve much with the help of its local and overseas alumni. The achievements of the CoMSAA includes:
- A Donation of books worth Rs 2 million to the library from 4 of its US based alumni
- Computers worth Rs 500,000 by a US alumnus
- A donation of Rs 500,000 by a non-medical professional, to the best achiever at the basic sciences examination — equivalent of the second MBBS. The donor preferred to make a donation which would help a future icon of the alumni rather than a needy student
- A donation of five computers and network printer by the class of 1958-63 who celebrated the golden jubilee this year
- A donation Rs. 396,000 from the class of 1968- 1973
- A donation of Rs. 135,000 from the class of 1963-1968 following the celebration of the Golden Jubilee of entry
- The founder president and his committee arranged for a donation of a piano, billiards table and TV for the common room, which is now a uni- sex common room.
- We have obtained and approved a reasonable quotation to repair the leaking roof of the Women’s hostel which is in a terrible state
While collecting funds is of paramount importance, proper and adequate utilisation of such funds is equally important. CoMSAA has earned a reputation of being the most important and trustworthy investment portal for alumni both locally and overseas.
We have stressed the need to support the alumni and future alumni in these ventures.
FACILITIES FOR MEDICAL STUDENTS
- Two grants of Rs. 50,000 to students to present their research at an international conference in the Netherlands
- Five grants of Rs. 25,000 each for students to compete in the International Quiz contest in Physiology in Malaysia
- A piano, TV and a multimedia projector for the Common room
While the executive committee of CoMSAA has been active it has had the support of the Dean, Prof. Rohan Jayasekara, who has been helpful with the channeling of the donations. CoMSAA has also had two successful international congresses and reunions which has stimulated further service oriented activity.
Wednesday, October 9, 2013
Experiences with an Interpreter
By Dr. Kusuma Ruberu (nee Jayasuriya)
We all respect experienced doctors, teachers etc. I
would like to tell my experience with an interpreter. At that time I was
working in a missionary hospital in Ondo state, Nigeria. Ondo state was 2/3rd
the size of Sri Lanka and in late seventies, there were only two hospitals for
the whole state - a state hospital and the missionary hospital.
I had an interpreter as I had no knowledge of the
local language named “euroba”. His name was Emmanuel but fondly called Manuel.
He was a taxi driver but unfortunately lost his whole left arm during a car
crash. So the Irish nuns who were in charge of the hospital had employed him as
an interpreter. His knowledge of English language was very good. His job was to
interpret for me and to keep a record of the name, age, sex and the diagnosis
of the patient.
One day I saw a child with swellings of interphalangeal
joints resembling rheumatoid arthritis. So I told Manuel that the diagnosis is
juvenile rheumatoid arthritis. Manuel looked at me and said madam in your
country that may be the name, but in Africa we call it sickle cell arthritis. I
have never seen a sickler before and when I looked at the child’s old notes it
said that he is a sickler. Then I knew that Manuel is correct. So I told him to
write sickle cell arthritis.
Another day an old man came with dry gangrene of his
little toe. I looked at Manuel and said that the man has dry gangrene. Tthen he
said yes, it is an ainham. I have never heard of this diagnosis and I did not Know
the treatment. So I told Manuel that I will write some medicine. Manuel said
yes a pain killer would help him, otherwise nothing should be done as it falls
off on its own. So I read my Baily and love as soon as I came home and there it
was in small print.” Ainham” a dry gangrene of toe specifically found in Africa
and it falls off as Manuel said.
The patients who come to the OPD stay seated on
benches till their number is called. Manuel had the habit of bringing ladies
out of the queue. At first I thought they were known people to him but he said
no, I am bringing ladies whom I think has ectopic gestation because if they
wait in the queue their condition will become worse. Everytime I examined them
they all had ectopic pregnancies. I was puzzled and I wanted to know what makes
Manuel to suspect them as ectopics. So I asked him. His reply was that he
notice them because they look pale and sick so he goes and asks them about
their periods and bleeding PV.
Then he used to call men out of the queue telling me
that they have tetanus. When I examine they do have tetanus. Again as a reply
to my inquiry he said that he notices their walk which is very stiff and then
he suspects tetanus.
Also Manuel had the habit of walking to the wards when
I am having my tea. One day he told me that the house officer is treating a
child with meningitis as malaria and he wanted me to check. As usual manuel was
correct. So the lesson I learnt is to respect even your interpreter’s
experience.
Monday, September 30, 2013
The Silent Guest
The Silent Guest
Dr. Nihal D. Amerasekera
The pendulum of the mind oscillates between sense and non-sense, not between right and wrong.
Carl Jung (1875-1961)
It was the spring of 1980. I had just completed my final examination and the relief was almost palpable. With two of my friends I decided to celebrate the occasion with a weeks holiday in Cornwall in the southern tip of England. We booked a holiday cottage in St. Ives and arrived at the village in the late afternoon. It was a holiday village with numerous cottages of the same design spread over a wide area.
Climate
Cornwall is a lush green peninsula that projects into the ice cold waters of the Atlantic. Throughout the year it is battered by the prevailing south westerly winds that bring moisture laden clouds from the Gulf of Mexico. Rain is never far away. The truth is far removed from the travel poster images of blue skies and broad sandy beaches. It is often engulfed by violent storms. The sea around it is littered with shipwrecks since the early seafaring days.
People
The peninsula played host to the gentry and the villains alike. The landed gentry owned vast acres of that green and pleasant land. They fought for their King and country and formed the British aristocracy. The many swashbuckling pirates who created their own empire in these parts inspired Robert Louis Stevenson to write his epic Treasure Island. The Cornishmen accept the climate with a philosophical shrug although we braved it with less fortitude.
Cornwall comes to life in the summer with scores of families heading to the coast with a never ending stream of cars clogging up the highways and byways. After the summer holidays Cornwall slips back a century to a land of peace and solitude. The river Tamar meanders through its plains and valleys. It supports and sustains life as it finds its way into the sea at multiple exits. The many villages that line its vast forbidding grandeur of its coastline give refuge to the brave fishermen. They take their lives in their hands every night as they venture into the treacherous and inhospitable waters of the Atlantic. Shoals of pilchards and sardines imprisoned by their nets give them their livelihood. Of the many who went to sea some never return adding to the misery and hardship. The drifting sands are hardly a refuge for these brave fishermen off the Cornish coast.
Trips
There is no fever like the quest for the past. We wandered the length and breadth of Cornwall looking for remnants of the past from Roman ruins to King Arthur’s Castle at Tintagel. Wherever we went we seem to be the only intruders. When the thunderstorms broke we took refuge in farms and barns. Often gulls and ravens became our only companions. My reliable Volkswagen Polo took us around Cornwall during the day. We spent the evenings in the quiet pubs and bars that dotted the countryside, wining and dining at will. It was indeed a most relaxing week away from the hustle and bustle of London.
The guest
Once after a long journey we returned late. I dropped off my pals at the nearby Seafood Restaurant and slipped home for a quick change and a wash. I remember it well being a cold and drizzly evening. I parked my car opposite our cottage and walked up the steps to the main door. As I walked into the lounge it was well lit by the street light streaming through the wide bay window. The smell of frying bacon filled the room. I was puzzled as we never cooked in the house. I thought I had gone into the wrong house and stepped back to look at the number on the door. It was certainly the cottage we had rented. I groped for the light switch but couldn’t seem to find it. A mist or a fog seem to waft across the lounge and there was an icy chill in the air. I saw the head of a lady seated in the sofa facing away from me. As I said hello! The head turned towards me and her face became clearer. She had long dark hair combed back. She was an old woman with knitting in her hands. I will never forget her piercing deep set eyes staring at me. She stood up with the greatest of ease like a well oiled robot. Then her face lit up with a broad smile. She seemed transparent and I could see the wall and the television through her bright white dress. My legs and arms didn’t seem to move for a moment. When I switched the light on the fog was gone and so was the lady. This unnerved me completely. I have never seen anything like this before or ever since. My legs were shaking with fright. I shut the door and returned to my friends in the fading light.
The aftermath
When I related the story they were rather apprehensive to get back to the cottage. It was hardly a tale for a wet English spring. We remained a few more days in Cornwall but did not experience anything untoward. When I returned the cottage keys to the caretaker I related my story. He didn’t seem surprised and looked again at the number etched on the key with a knowing smile. He hurriedly said goodbye and wished us a safe journey home.
I have never had any belief in the supernatural and as always will remain a sceptic. Stories of the occult have been a part of fairy tales. After my experience I had never known greater despondency. Was it an illusion or a vision. The images of nearly quarter of a century still haunts me when I visit that splendid corner of England. Fear is now forgotten, danger had never been, and what remains is a mystery. The bitter hot tang of the frying bacon is in my nostrils even now. For a born cynic what perpetually amuses and amazes me is the obtuseness of this weird and wonderful world.
I dedicate this anecdote to my silent guest in the hope she would find lasting peace.
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