Friday, July 31, 2020

PAINTINGS BY TALENTED ARTISTS

PAINTINGS BY TALENTED ARTISTS

I am delighted to post three paintings to enhance our blog.  The first two are by Srianee “Bunter” Dias and the third one by Indra Anandasabapathy’s talented wife Devarani.

Bunter says- “The first is entitled ““Field of Dreams”” and was done in acrylics while I was in Sri Lanka”

The second was completed a few days ago in oils, and I am calling it After the Storm

Devarani’s work is oil on canvass and is a classic still life painting and reminds me of the French 19th Century artist Paul Cezanne’s still life paintings.

All three are great examples of creativity and talent and I am sure viewers will enjoy feasting their eyes on them. Thank you Srianee and Devarani.

Speedy on behalf of Lucky



 I am adding  some paintings by Devarani which appeared on Apri 11,2017 and My 8,2017




Tuesday, July 28, 2020

Glimpses from the past of home “services” and recycling


Glimpses from the past of home “services” and recycling

by Mahendra “Speedy” Gonsalkorale

I hope to stimulate my colleagues to come up with their own recollections of such services.

Recycling is very much in the news now but in my childhood days, many types of recycling were carried out. For example, we had milk bottles delivered to our house, and the empty bottles from the previous delivery collected at the same time. We also had local dairymen coming on bicycles with a large aluminium canister of milk at the back from which he filled the empty bottles we gave him.  

The need to go out and shop for many home requirements was less because of the various vendors who visited homes. One notable person I have a clear recollection was a Chinese man wearing Khaki shorts, long stocking ending just below the knee and a khaki safari hat (Cheena redi velenda). He came on a cycle with a big bundle of textiles perched on a rack attached above the rear wheel mudguard. He used to unload his “Pottaniya” and display all his textiles and was not at all upset if my mother did not purchase any.  The wily man knew there would be another occasion.

Another was a fish seller, the Maalu velenda, shouting “malu,malu!”, with two sizeable shallow wicker baskets, each hanging on three strings from the ends of a crossbar which he balanced on his shoulder. His equivalent on vegetables, the elavalu welenda,  used similar accessories.

I remember the paan and bunnis man bringing fresh bread loaves and buns.  They were all amiable and pleasant people. And of course the ice cream and lollipop man!

We had men who collected empty bottles and old newspapers (bothal karaya). These men skilfully balanced quite a large container to collect the bottles, on their heads as they walked from house to house shouting what sounded like “peeyap, botheley”. Who says that recycling is a modern phenomenon! Another I recall is the knife sharpener who had his contraption for executing his work slung on his back. It was stood on the ground and had a pedal and belt-driven grinding wheel on which knives were sharpened. He was the “kathuru muwath – pihiya muwath” man.

Another home service was the horoscope man, the “sasthara karaya”. It was mandatory to consult the stars for anything of importance. Each of us had a book with a horoscope chart based on the positions of the planets at the time of birth written on it. Our expert called on us from time to time and exercise books which were used usually for school work were produced on which he with great diligence and an air of gravitas, jotted down various calculations and predictions based on an almanac which he consulted. He was highly respected and savoured the tea and biscuits offered to him. He was also a good source of gossip! The favoured expert changed according to the latest correct or incorrect predictions recently made by them. Word spread quickly!.

Then there was the Dhobi who did our laundry. He came home, and my mother had a notebook in which she recorded every item of linen and clothing the Dhobi took with him for washing. All the pieces were placed in neat piles on the floor on the day the Dhobi was expected. He would go through the categories and shout out the item name and number, and my mother would note it down. For example, “Mesa redi (table cloth) pahai (5)”, “Kota kalisang (shorts) atai (8)” and so on, He would bundle them all in a large white sheet and take it away on his bicycle. He would come back in possibly two to three weeks, and the process is reversed as my mother checks whether everything has been delivered washed and clean. After checking the clean ones, he would pick up the items to be washed as described
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Another person to call was the man who delivers lunch to school. He picked up the plate of prepared food covered with another plate and wrapped with a cloth with the four edges tied into a central knot. He took it away on his bicycle to a Central distribution point where many like him brought food parcels and through an ingenious system of geographical redistribution, these men would each pick up all the packed lunches to be taken to the designated area which he covers. Thus, the person who picks up the lunch and the person who delivers are not the same.

Before flushing toilets arrived, we had bucket latrines. The excreta was emptied into a bucket and covered with sawdust or rice husk dust to minimise odour. The buckets were collected house to house and taken away for disposal by a “coolie” who was always clad in a khaki top and shorts, in a pushcart which usually had eight compartments for placing eight buckets. Sadly, the job was delegated to low-caste men.

I just wonder how many of these services still persist in modern Sri Lanka.


Saturday, July 25, 2020

Our ride into the sunset


Our ride into the sunset 
by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera

Media vita in morte sumus - In the midst of life, we are in death. This is the first line of a Gregorian chant circa 1300. This rings true now as it did all those years ago. Presently we battle through our lives in the midst of Covid-19. For septuagenarians like myself, in the autumn of our lives, there are many other pitfalls just around the corner.

At any age we all lust for longevity. Although we all will face it someday, our aversion to talk about death is universal. This is partly due to the fear of the unknown and also not wanting to tempt fate. During my childhood, grim legends were abound, and tales were told of death, devils and the darkness of hell. These daunting images continue to colour my thoughts even now. It is true there is little point in talking about death when we are young and healthy. The scene changes irrevocably when we become septuagenarians. This is the time to bite the bullet and face reality while still able to enjoy the good life.

Life expectancy has risen considerably in our lifetime. Perhaps, professionally, we have helped to make this happen. In the United Kingdom, the life expectancy for men is 79 and for Women 82. Living longer has many benefits. It is indeed so wonderful to see our own grandchildren grow-up and perhaps also to see their children too. But there is a price to be paid while the years take their toll on us. The sudden deaths that took away our parents and our grandparents don’t happen anymore. We just live longer. Our bodies continue to wither away as the years pass. A fistful of tablets and an earful of advice keep us going. The joints continue to creak and the backaches as we trundle along. I can feel the gradual decline and the loss of energy as the months' pass. I am not as steady on my feet as I was last year. Gravity is gradually trying to take over when I walk or try to maintain my erect posture for long. These issues that are rather trivial now will only get worse with time. If I live long enough I will need help for walking, feeding and ablutions. This may be with a carer at home or in an institution. This requires careful thought and judicious planning.

Life must have an end. A rapid exit is everyone’s dream. Unlike for the previous generations, the end for us may not be swift. Cancers or degenerative nervous diseases like strokes, dementia and Parkinsonism are some of the common ways to exit this world. Departing this life is never pleasant. Then again, we will need help in the way of a carer or be confined to an institution. These issues need careful planning now when we are compos mentis. Importantly the family should be consulted. They must be aware of our choices that may have significant financial implications. We must remember it is their pain and burden too. They must have the information to discuss with us the feasibility of our plans.

To plan ahead we must make an informed choice. For this, the doctors must provide us with the information with honesty. Thankfully, in the new millennium, the conceit and the patronising pomposity that existed in the medical profession has largely melted away. This has resulted in far better rapport between the doctor and the patient. When confronted with a terminal illness we need to know the prognosis, the positive and negative implications of treatment and also of having no treatment. It is invaluable to weigh up the implications of a range of alternatives, some of which may be “off the menu”, before making a choice.

It is wise to leave written instructions as to our care including treatments we do not want to have. This is legally binding and is called the Advance Decision to Refuse Treatment (A living will). I know some have instructions not to be resuscitated. Some want all treatment stopped including antibiotics. We can also allow someone else to make the decisions for us when we can’t. This is called the Legal Power of Attorney. Some cancer patients do not want any treatment. They do not wish to prolong life not wanting the stress and struggle of radiotherapy and chemotherapy and its many unpleasant side effects. It is imperative the doctor should discuss the quality of life on treatment. Many others show great resilience and courage in continuing and completing the treatment schedule and we respect their choice.

If terminally ill I should have the right to end my life. This issue has come into prominence in the UK in several high-profile cases of Motor Neurone Disease and Multiple Sclerosis that went to the Supreme Court. Adequate safeguards must be built in for this. In the UK there has been a shift in common morality for euthanasia and assisted suicide both of which are illegal under English law. Some go to Dignitas in Switzerland, a place for assisted suicide, to end their lives. Ending one’s life is the last resort. The National Health Service provides good palliative care as well as providing psychological, social and spiritual support.

The answers to the many questions that arise and the solutions to the many problems that surface will vary according to our personal circumstances. It is paramount that the wishes of the patients and their relatives are respected. I am merely raising awareness to a common problem we will all face sooner or later. As I write I know of 90-year-olds, like Queen Elizabeth II and the Duke of Edinburgh, who are still smiling, enjoying life and their families. But they are no doubt in the minority. Some may still have the old fashioned, laid-back and carefree attitude thinking “Que sera sera” Whatever will be will be!! This may just leave our loved ones in the dark about an issue which may be long and protracted and financially draining.

Making that final journey to exit from this world is something we must all do in the fullness of time. This challenging journey may take from a few days to a few months. Professional medical input is vital during this period to remain free of pain and to receive psychological support. We must leave behind the sadness and regrets of the past, taking with us only those happy and joyful memories. In the lonely waking hours, one may wish to walk with God for comfort and support or focus the mind on meditation and mindfulness. Some receive comfort from the “Mozart effect” of listening to soothing classical music. There is a lot of helpful advice available from professionals, carers and institutions to reach that final destination with dignity.

As much as there is no holding back the night, there is no hope of a second dawn. I feel we leave this earth never to return again. I seek the wisdom of that great Roman Poet Horace "NON OMNIS MORIAR" (Not all of me will die). Our children and grandchildren are shaped by the genes they inherit from us. They smile and laugh like us and even may think like us at times. They will carry our baton into the future.

As septuagenarians, our minds are much calmer now. There is no burning ambition or desire to chase money or position. We have done our caring for our progeny. Once we have made our choices for our parting it is so important we must return to our regular routine. It serves no purpose to dwell on death and dying. We will deal with it when it comes. It is so true we will not pass this way again. So enjoy the beauty of nature, the birds and the bees and the company of family and friends.  It is only then we can sing that famous song “Que sera sera”.

Here are my best wishes for a happy and peaceful journey's end with poise and dignity.

I wish to announce that due to my present illness, Speedy (Mahendra Gonsalkorale) will be temporarily taking over the running of the blog until further notice. I request all those who are waiting in line to send in their contributions to him who will gladly publish them as I have been doing all these years. Good luck and good blogging!

Lucky

Blog Administrator

Sunday, June 28, 2020

PATAS-SPEEDY ZOOM


Rajan Ratnesar and I arranged two zoom sessions so far. The pandemic has caused an explosion in on-line conferencing, chiefly using the zoom application. It has proved to be an effective and enjoyable way of keeping in touch and we intend repeating it at intervals and we hope even more will join.

Not all of us are techno-savy but mastering zoom is not a big deal. For those experiencing difficulty, try and get assistance from a grand kid! (Assuming you got one of course).

It is not easy to find a time suitable for all batch mates spread all over the globe. In our very first one, poor Rohini Ana had to wake up at 4.00 am! We spared her the agony in our last meeting and it is quite possible that we may have to resort to zoom type 1 and type 2, with type 1 tailored for the UK, USA and SL and type 2 for UK, SL, NZ and Australia.

It takes a bit of familiarisation to keep the meeting under control as the symphony of a few voices becomes a cacophony when the whole group breaks joins. Rajan is getting quite good at it and our last meeting was a considerable improvement on the first one.

Many “saw” each other after the lapse of several years and we all politely remarked “you haven’t changed a bit!”, as usual.

I keep saying it but it is true – our batch is very special.

Greetings to all. You will have to identify the actors and actresses in the screenshots!

 

Speedy


Sunday, June 21, 2020

Pablo Neruda and his Fictional “Daughter in Ceylon”

By Kumar Gunawardene

(Amended version)

“It’s night time ,

  I’m alone and sad,

  Thinking in the light of a flickering candle,

   about joy and pain,

   about tired old age,

   and handsome arrogant youth”

   Pablo Neruda

I first heard of Pablo Neruda when he became the Nobel Laureate for literature in 1971.That was the year of my marriage and I was working as a junior doctor at the National Hospital Colombo,both of  which left time and leisure for little else.When  I got to know that he had spent two years in Ceylon as the Chilean consul in 1929-30 ,my interest in him heightened.

He was born in 1904 in the mountainous frontier region of Temuco in Chile and  named Neftala Ricardo Reyes Basoalto; he assumed a pseudonym for his poems as it sounded better and  also to hide his identity from his father,who wanted him to follow a respectable profession.It became his legal name later.

At the age of twenty two he became an internationally acclaimed poet when he published “Twenty Love Poems and Song of Despair”.It is one of the best selling poetry books of all time and has sold over twenty million copies.

He was called the “poet of the people, the oppressed and the forgotten”.

Gabriel Garcia Márquez,himself one of the most eminent Latin American novelists and a fellow  Nobel Laureate for literature labeled him “the greatest poet of the twentieth century in any language”.

Che Guevara revered him as his favourite poet ,and carried with him only two books to the end of his days ,one being Neruda’s Cantos General, a history of the New World from a Hispanic American perspective.

I admired Neruda for his poems.

“I grew up in this town,

  my poetry was born between the hill and the river,

  It took its voice from the rain,

  and like the timber it steeped itself,

  into the forests”

I also admired his identity with the poor and the disadvantaged of Chile and indeed the world.

CEYLON

Although a literary celebrity he was very poor and badly in need of a job.An influential friend introduced him to Chile’s foreign minister who offered him  a consul’s position initially in Rangoon After two tumultuous years in Burma where he was harassed by a lover whom he referred to as a panther and a love terrorist he escaped to Colombo.He resided in a cottage in a seaside lane in Wellawatte, which reminded him of his beloved Puerto Saavedra a seaside town in Chile.,where he spent many holidays as a child.Here he lived spartanly with a trusty retainer Brumpy, a pet mongoose Kiriya and a dog Kuthaka.Brampy’s real name was Ratnayake which Neruda couldn’t pronounce.Brumpy didn’t talk much but smiled a lot with big equine teeth.Kiriya ate at his table, walked with him and slept with him on his bed.Although mongooses are fierce enemies of snakes, on his only encounter with a deadly Russel’s viper, Kiriya sensed danger and ran in the opposite direction till he reached home.

Kuthaka once saved him from certain death; Neruda had stumbled on the rail tract while strolling at night.The dog’s  loud barking alerted the train driver who stopped the engine in time.This was never forgotten and all his dogs in Chile  were named Kuthaka in memory of this faithful canine.

 

Neruda led a very bohemian existence, hobnobbing with painters ,musicians and literary figures notably Lionel Wendt the photographer and musician and George Keyt the budding painter..Wendt sent him a sackful of newly arrived books every week.He recognised the genius of Keyt early ,and praised his portrayal of Sinhalese subjects in their strange expressive grandeur.

Of his routine he wrote ‘ I get up early and walk along the beach for a couple of hours .Then I bathe in the water which is always warm and I try to swim.Then I return home for an excellent lunch ,prepared by my servants for the master.as they called me.Then I work.’

Neruda’s experience is very real for me.Whenever we spent a vacation with my mother-in-law at Wellawatte I would walk everyday on the beach which was only a quarter of mile away from home.The bracing cool of the morning,the fresh air,the soft breezes,and the music of the waves crashing against the reef ,the salt water wetting my bare feet,would be the perfect start for a new day.The houseboy Gamini who accompanied me would squat on a rock and watch me walk up and down; he didn’t need the workout.

Many beautiful women seeking the company of this handsome and vivacious South American crossed his  doorstep.But the most beautiful woman in Ceylon he met was was a Tamil outcast who cleaned his outhouse.He says “she was so lovely ,that regardless of her humble job I couldn’t get her off my mind.Being completely free of snobbery where the opposite gender was concerned Neruda  left gifts of fruits and silks to no avail;one day he firmly gripped her by the wrist and led her to his room; her nude form ,was akin to the voluptuous statues in South Indian Temples carved a thousand years before.But she was completely unresponsive,and kept her eyes wide open all the while; it was like the coming together of a man and statue.The experience was never repeated.

 

Brumpy’s Daughter

The tale intrigued me but was unfinished till I read Tissa Devendra’s  absorbing book “On Horseshoe Street” a collection of stories of his early life in Kandy and outback Ceylon where he served as a public servant ending up as a Govt Agent.

To me this book is on a  par with Jinadasa Wijayatunge’s classic Grass For My Feet.They both write with nostalgia, humour and empathy with their fellow beings.Both have a realism which brilliantly evoke their times.Wijayatunge’s  the early years of the twentieth century and Devendra’s the decades from the nineteen forties onwards.

The chapter “Brumpy’s Daughter” details the saga of Imelda Ratnayake and  the story goes along these lines.

Devendra first met her in the Aluth Eliya Kachcheri in the hill country.He writes “ in the rather modest bloom of the female cohorts of kachcheri clerks there stood out one exotic bloom;the mysterious Miss Ratnayake”.A pretty olive skinned girl with grey eyes, fluent in Sinhala ,Tamil and English,she draped her sari in the Tamil fashion and wore a pottu  ( a dot) on her forehead).The mystery was a young woman with a good Sinhala family name,but dressing in the Tamil style and fluent in the language as well.As She lived  in the local convent,the office staff imagined that she was the unwanted child of a white sahib.She was very efficient and established a close rapport with the Indian labourers whose language she spoke.

Imelda did not encourage any dalliances, but a young staff officer was bowled over at first sight.Sadly this was an instance of unrequited love.One day he took his courage in both hands and wrote to her asking for her hand in marriage.The next day he left for his village to seek permission from his parents, but never returned,effectively vacating post.The kindly chief ,the Government Agent who was apprised of the problem arranged for his transfer to a distant outpost.Imelda having got a well deserved promotion went over to Colombo and out of Devendra’s mind.

Years later Devendra, now in the Puranapura kachcheri was joined by an old friend from Aluth Eliya.He related the story of Imelda’s father who was now a prosperous farmer in the nearby village of Puhulwewa.

Devendra met Brumpy and his wife Thangamma during an official visit  to Puhulwewa.Brumpy  related  over lunch that Thangamma had become pregnant at Wellawatte.The master ‘Mr Race’ behaved like a gentlemen and persuaded Brumpy to  marry her so that the baby had a father and a name and promised to support them as long as he lived;if the baby was a girl ,it was to be called Imelda after his mother.He sent money through a friend who suggested the Aluth Eliya convent for her education and a genteel upbringing.

Brumpy came to work the farm  on the recommendation of ‘Mr Race’.It originally belonged to a Japanese man but Brumpy inherited it when he returned to Japan as war clouds were on the horizon.

When Devendra read Neruda’s memoirs the penny dropped.’Mr Race’ was Ricardo Reyes the real name of Pablo Neruda.

 

Many years later at a conference in Mexico City Devendra was invited for dinner by a Chilean delegate Ronaldo Frei a Neruda devotee. He had worked in Ceylon as a FAO expert and had roamed the streets of Wellawatte,with Neruda’s memoirs in hand,in search of clues of the poet’s life there.He also located Brumpy and Thangamma and eventually married Imelda.

When Devendra meets them ,his wife who looks vaguely familiar   says “ sir can you remember me.I was your clerk at Aluth Eliya”.

Tissa Devendra says it was a seismic shock for him.

Finally the Ceylonese jigsaw puzzle was complete.Devendra located ,the long lost daughter of the poet,Frei now had a living link with his idol,and Imelda had her ideal partner.

Sadly Neruda’s escapade with the Tamil girl came back to bite him forty years after his death.The project to rename Santiago’s international airport ,after Neruda ,outraged militant feminists who citing the ‘rape’ had it  stopped;it remains named after an army general ‘Arturo Merino Benitez’.

All of Neruda’s immense contributions to literature had been swept aside.

O'Tempora,O Mores!!!

Friday, June 19, 2020

Off the Cuff……..

 By Nihal D Amerasekera

 

Being septuagenarian closing on becoming and octogenarian there is a natural tendency to look over the shoulder at the perils and pitfalls of my generation. Lucky Abey’s recent misfortune is a cue, if one is needed, to knock on the door of your friendly GP and get the ‘Shingles’ jab and whatever else is available to avoid a nasty illness that can have prolonged unpleasant consequences.

 

We were brought-up in the golden era of medical education with Price’s Text Book of Medicine and Bailey and Love’s Surgery that remained the last word in their respective fields. Nowadays when medical information is required the first port of call is the internet. As the man on the street (including myself) would say “Google it”. Even for the most obscure information about Radiology I now reach for the wisdom of “Google”. Towards the tail-end of my career I was performing a testicular ultrasound on a curious young lad. He was constantly interrupting me with a barrage of questions disrupting my train of thought. I was indeed amazed at his knowledge of anatomy and pathology which he proudly said was acquired from the internet. I politely shut him up. His knowledge helped me to explain things to him much more easily than otherwise.

 

We are all in search of that Fountain of Youth.  Longevity is something to be earned and perhaps inherited too. Although the world is full of advice on how to do it,there are never any guarantees. The internet is a repository of such information. Despite all that, there comes a time for each of us to call it a day.It is a fact of life that either my wife or I will depart this world first, leaving the other a life full of memories. No one can prepare adequately for this, except by being aware. Then, in our home, every room will tell a story, and every picture and piece of furniture will be laden with memories. It will be our children and grandchildren who can soften the blow. Time, as they say, is a great healer.

 

Covid-19 has changed the world at least for the foreseeable future. Its eye watering cost financially and emotionally will set us back for many years. For us older folk this poses an extra tier of healthcare. Sadly, this has kept us away from our own families. I have travelled abroad every year for some winter sunshine but that will have to be on hold. Sports are not the same without spectators. It is sad to see the Lords Cricket Grounds barricaded and Tennis at Wimbledon cancelled.

 

Despite its many drawbacks the lockdown has given me an opportunity to sit back and relax and let the world go-by. Although now in retirement, I was rushing everyday. I know not why!! Much of it for mundane tasks which surely can wait. I have taken this opportunity to reflect on what’s gone and to take stock of the present. Much of the future is beyond my control but there are events that need a plan, if you get my drift. We all wish for a happy ending.

 

Nostalgia is an overwhelming emotion. The volume of archived memories increases with age, as does the desire to reach into them. When awake at night, there are always the inescapable journeys to the past. The happy times spent with my parents are priceless. Those special joys of my schooldays bring such great pleasure. Medical School, despite the hard work, had its unique brand of youthful fun.  Building a career, and bringing up a family, brought their own enjoyment - and heartaches. Delving into the past can also bring sadness, bitterness and grief. Regret is the demon I don’t want to carry with me into the future - but that isn’t easy.

 

I must take you on my personal journey through life, which has fashioned my own philosophy. I was born a Christian, was baptised and confirmed, and went to a Methodist school. As a schoolboy, it was a wonderful existence. I had someone to take my troubles to.There was a code of ethics in the Bible. As a child it is great to think, as we are taught, that God looks after and cares for us. When I saw death, pain and suffering while at medical school, I began to question all this, and found it hard to accept the existence of a God.

Then I looked at Buddhism, and found its philosophy appealing. One doesn’t have to be a Buddhist to practise some of the teachings. Meditation and mindfulness can help to overcome the stresses and strains of life. I don’t believe in rebirth. When we die we just go up in smoke into nothingness just like ‘Nirvana’. I like to enjoy the good things in this world, as we will not pass this way again. I will continue to hang on to my Christian upbringing and discipline which was such a huge part of my childhood.

 

We all need a place to relax and wind down. Being in the big city still I’m not far away from nature. We all need to know where we came from and where we belong. Regent’s Park in London is my daily refuge. It is just 5 minutes walk from my apartment. Lovingly cared for by a team of horticulturalists it is so beautiful any time of the year. Its cascading water-falls and the serenity of the lakes provide a peaceful environment to meditate and be mindful. The bird life changes with the seasons as do the flowers and the foliage. There are wooden benches strategically placed to appreciate and enjoy the scenery around.

 

The weather in the British Isles is uniquely difficult to predict. There is something very soothing for the soul in looking at the sky. On a sunny day the patterns created by the clouds is breathtakingly beautiful. This is enhanced by the trails left behind by a myriad of aircrafts. I’m reminded of an ancient rhyme often repeated by mariners.

“Red sky at night, shepherds' delight.

Red sky at morning, shepherds take warning”

 

I reach for the wisdom of Rabindranath Tagore:

“I slept and dreamt that life was joy. I awoke and saw that life was service. I acted and behold, service was joy.”
 Tagore

 

I am forever mindful that life can change irrevocably in a single beautiful gasp!!